Thread: All those regrets about women you didn't fuck ....

.... let go of them!

When I was only 16, my guitar playing was starting to get good, and I had grown my hair out and I got contacts. Then I played in a rock band in a school talent show, and my part was a bunch of leads. Suddenly, this hot Aussie girl named Amanda was into me, but at that point, I had exactly ZERO game. I didn't know how to handle female attraction yet. For years, I was like, "Damn it! I could have easily made out with Amanda, and probably done more."

One time I went to another city for a job interview. I was young, in my 20s, and looked sharp in that suit. They had all 50 candidates or so in one big room first, and this hot woman kept eyeing me. She was gorgeous and shapely, and, man, did she ever keep eyeing me. So we all made speeches about why we should get hired, and then it was over. It was in a hotel, and when we all walked out of that room, I saw her walk into the hotel's pub. I felt insanely nervous, plus, I had a flight to catch. However, it would have been possible to postpone to a later flight and just renew my room. I probably could have gone in there and had fun with her, and then end up fucking her. But I didn't.

Those were two big regrets of mine for years. But, you know what? Fuck it! I've decided to not care about that shit anymore. Every other woman has given me a world of unnecessary drama, and so I think this ones would have too. It would have been some pleasure from blowing your load into a cunt, followed by total hassle and heartache.

If you have any regrets about someone you could have banged, but you didn't, LET IT GO! It doesn't matter that you missed a few seconds of orgasm into a twat. You're better off without that shit.

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

.... let go of them!

When I was only 16, my guitar playing was starting to get good, and I had grown my hair out and I got contacts. Then I played in a rock band in a school talent show, and my part was a bunch of leads. Suddenly, this hot Aussie girl named Amanda was into me, but at that point, I had exactly ZERO game. I didn't know how to handle female attraction yet. For years, I was like, "Damn it! I could have easily made out with Amanda, and probably done more."

One time I went to another city for a job interview. I was young, in my 20s, and looked sharp in that suit. They had all 50 candidates or so in one big room first, and this hot woman kept eyeing me. She was gorgeous and shapely, and, man, did she ever keep eyeing me. So we all made speeches about why we should get hired, and then it was over. It was in a hotel, and when we all walked out of that room, I saw her walk into the hotel's pub. I felt insanely nervous, plus, I had a flight to catch. However, it would have been possible to postpone to a later flight and just renew my room. I probably could have gone in there and had fun with her, and then end up fucking her. But I didn't.

Those were two big regrets of mine for years. But, you know what? Fuck it! I've decided to not care about that shit anymore. Every other woman has given me a world of unnecessary drama, and so I think this ones would have too. It would have been some pleasure from blowing your load into a cunt, followed by total hassle and heartache.

If you have any regrets about someone you could have banged, but you didn't, LET IT GO! It doesn't matter that you missed a few seconds of orgasm into a twat. You're better off without that shit.

“ Those were two big regrets of mine for years. But, you know what? Fuck it! I've decided to not care about that shit anymore. Every other woman has given me a world of unnecessary drama, and so I think this ones would have too. It would have been some pleasure from blowing your load into a cunt, followed by total hassle and heartache.

If you have any regrets about someone you could have banged, but you didn't, LET IT GO! It doesn't matter that you missed a few seconds of orgasm into a twat. You're better off without that shit.”

OR just or,

If you’re able as well as are in good penile health AND they’re both alive, you can go and just ask them tomorrow, “How much?

Might as well

Look at it this way: the woman you couldn't bang is the woman you didn't get pregnant.

If I could go back in time I would have told my older self just focus on a career and your craft. You will save so much time, stress and headaches....

I catch myself sometimes ruminating about my days at the bar and some of the women there who I could’ve had a little fun with. What ultimately makes the difference is me being able to recognize the baggage that would’ve came with those moments.

There’s something about getting a little older and wiser. They were simply stale bar twat. No more, no less. No big loss.

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

.... let go of them!

When I was only 16, my guitar playing was starting to get good, and I had grown my hair out and I got contacts. Then I played in a rock band in a school talent show, and my part was a bunch of leads. Suddenly, this hot Aussie girl named Amanda was into me, but at that point, I had exactly ZERO game. I didn't know how to handle female attraction yet. For years, I was like, "Damn it! I could have easily made out with Amanda, and probably done more."

One time I went to another city for a job interview. I was young, in my 20s, and looked sharp in that suit. They had all 50 candidates or so in one big room first, and this hot woman kept eyeing me. She was gorgeous and shapely, and, man, did she ever keep eyeing me. So we all made speeches about why we should get hired, and then it was over. It was in a hotel, and when we all walked out of that room, I saw her walk into the hotel's pub. I felt insanely nervous, plus, I had a flight to catch. However, it would have been possible to postpone to a later flight and just renew my room. I probably could have gone in there and had fun with her, and then end up fucking her. But I didn't.

Those were two big regrets of mine for years. But, you know what? Fuck it! I've decided to not care about that shit anymore. Every other woman has given me a world of unnecessary drama, and so I think this ones would have too. It would have been some pleasure from blowing your load into a cunt, followed by total hassle and heartache.

If you have any regrets about someone you could have banged, but you didn't, LET IT GO! It doesn't matter that you missed a few seconds of orgasm into a twat. You're better off without that shit.

O.K., I’m gonna be a hypocritical bastard by saying such thoughts are useless, mind-fucking nonsense. Shoulda, woulda, coulda…

And yet I indulge in them myself. Late at night, when I can’t seem to get over to sleep thoughts of the past just seem to keep inserting themselves.

Reflections can be a good thing when directed and kept on topic, but allowed to roam they bring no answers, only questions.

What if I’d …

Well, I didn’t.

I played my cards as they were dealt me and I made my mistakes, but I’m still here so I didn’t play them as bad as I could have.

What usually takes me off that train of thought is when I think of what they probably look like now.

Originally Posted by Skywarp

What usually takes me off that train of thought is when I think of what they probably look like now.

This. Lots of guys fixate on the 18–year-old hotties from their high-school days. In their minds, those bints are still 18—but the bints are actually the same ages those guys are now.

I've known of guys who looked up old crushes decades later. They were always disappointed when they found those old crushes.

Originally Posted by K-Dog

This. Lots of guys fixate on the 18–year-old hotties from their high-school days. In their minds, those bints are still 18—but the bints are actually the same ages those guys are now.

I've known of guys who looked up old crushes decades later. They were always disappointed when they found those old crushes.

OMG, so true. About 10 years ago, I was literally crying over some woman. I took her out on a date to see live music, and we had a great time, and our senses of humor meshed. We totally made each other laugh. I thought she was attractive, and it seemed like she was attracted to me. After that she totally blew me off. That really hurt a lot because it seemed like I was almost there, like I was two inches from getting a girlfriend.

A few days ago, I looked her up on Facebook. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! She is so skank now! She's a fat pig and is covered in tats. She's really let herself go. She used to have this svelte, hourglass-shaped figure. She really turned heads. Now she could compete with the Goodyear Blimp for shape. And all those tats are TRASH! She looks like a $10 hooker in El Salvador. And she babbles feminist cliches.

Man, did I ever dodge a bullet!

I have no regrets. I tell myself "Thank God I dodged those bullets". What would be so special about them anyway? A ton of guys already nutted in them before me and I ton of guys would nut in her after me.

Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER

I have no regrets. I tell myself "Thank God I dodged those bullets". What would be so special about them anyway? A ton of guys already nutted in them before me and I ton of guys would nut in her after me.

After she humped 4,387 dudes, you would get to be special fuck number 4,388.

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

OMG, so true. About 10 years ago, I was literally crying over some woman. I took her out on a date to see live music, and we had a great time, and our senses of humor meshed. We totally made each other laugh. I thought she was attractive, and it seemed like she was attracted to me. After that she totally blew me off. That really hurt a lot because it seemed like I was almost there, like I was two inches from getting a girlfriend.

A few days ago, I looked her up on Facebook. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! She is so skank now! She's a fat pig and is covered in tats. She's really let herself go. She used to have this svelte, hourglass-shaped figure. She really turned heads. Now she could compete with the Goodyear Blimp for shape. And all those tats are TRASH! She looks like a $10 hooker in El Salvador. And she babbles feminist cliches.

Man, did I ever dodge a bullet!

There must be thousands of these women in every city. I think the older and fatter they get the more they think "tattoo therapy" can cover up getting older and fatter. I guess tattoos do kinda cover up wrinkles and maybe the dark ink is supposed to be slimming, lol. I don't know -- to me all people getting tatted after about 35-40 come across as dorky try hards....trying really hard to be hip/cool/unique. Nothing really unique about another tattoo in a vast sea of tattoos. And if all these working class people tatted to the gills in my area would invest all that tattoo/body modification money in a ETF or something...they'd have a sizable chunk of change in 40 years. Gotta look "cool" though with dragons and crap.

For every woman you want to sleep with, there is at least one man who is happy to be rid of her.

Originally Posted by Smoking Wizard

For every woman you want to sleep with, there is at least one man who is happy to be rid of her.

Don’t really need to sleep with them. Just fuck them, pay them, be on your way to the next cunt in town!
SIMPLE as that!

Originally Posted by Edwardhaskell

There must be thousands of these women in every city. I think the older and fatter they get the more they think "tattoo therapy" can cover up getting older and fatter. I guess tattoos do kinda cover up wrinkles and maybe the dark ink is supposed to be slimming, lol. I don't know -- to me all people getting tatted after about 35-40 come across as dorky try hards....trying really hard to be hip/cool/unique. Nothing really unique about another tattoo in a vast sea of tattoos. And if all these working class people tatted to the gills in my area would invest all that tattoo/body modification money in a ETF or something...they'd have a sizable chunk of change in 40 years. Gotta look "cool" though with dragons and crap.

I think for women, tattoos are a cheap way to "be young." Cheap versus surgeries and botox, etc. I started a new job recently and I overheard a woman near me telling another how she was going to get "that tattoo" this weekend. This broad is easily in her early 50s, not married and I would guarantee seen more traffic than the Lincoln tunnel. I'm sure she needs another tattoo like a dolphin needs a typewriter. It's like putting another bumper sticker on a 1975 AMC Gremlin...trust me, no one will care.

Originally Posted by Skywarp

I think for women, tattoos are a cheap way to "be young." Cheap versus surgeries and botox, etc. I started a new job recently and I overheard a woman near me telling another how she was going to get "that tattoo" this weekend. This broad is easily in her early 50s, not married and I would guarantee seen more traffic than the Lincoln tunnel. I'm sure she needs another tattoo like a dolphin needs a typewriter. It's like putting another bumper sticker on a 1975 AMC Gremlin...trust me, no one will care.

The Gremlin-X 401cid. where known to flip themselves over (off the line) like a Bronx bar room queen! Good pick of cars for an analogy!

Originally Posted by WanderLuster

Don’t really need to sleep with them. Just fuck them, pay them, be on your way to the next cunt in town!
SIMPLE as that!

I'm not interested in interacting with them at all.

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

After she humped 4,387 dudes, you would get to be special fuck number 4,388.

But she'll put on a goodie 2 shoes act and make you pay, jump through hoops, wait, etc just to get a whiff .

She probably won't even give it up. She will just use you up and move along.

Originally Posted by K-Dog

This. Lots of guys fixate on the 18–year-old hotties from their high-school days. In their minds, those bints are still 18—but the bints are actually the same ages those guys are now.

I've known of guys who looked up old crushes decades later. They were always disappointed when they found those old crushes.

This is why a guy needs to attend those high school reunions whenever they're held so he can view the progression every five years or so. Which reminds me of a girl in our class. As sophomores she seemed to have a crush on me for a while but me living well out of town and not having a full driver's license was rather SOL. Even though she and another guy in our class were dating by our senior year I think I could have "won her over" based on a New Year's Eve class party, but I, being a stand up guy, didn't try any such thing. She married a year or two out of school and was at our fifth year reunion still as attractive as ever, and we exchanged cordial greetings and that was all. Fast forward to our tenth and she had packed on the pounds. I don't even recall saying hi and I've not seen her since. It would have sucked to have married that cheerleader body only to have her turn into a sow.

Go to those reunions. It keeps the "what ifs" in check.

It was a real treat seeing my 10, 15 and 20 year class reunion pictures. The young blue pilled simp that I was at 16 would've given anything to be with some of those women...so many bullets were dodged because literally none of them stayed attractive. The guys that got those women are now as run down as they are...37 year olds that might as well be 57.