Thread: All those regrets about women you didn't fuck ....

Not really. I never really put much effort into swooning women. If it wasn't at least somewhat obvious they were into me I didn't bother. There were a few broads that I came across that I did have a great rapport with, and were attractive BUT I knew they were emotionally unbalanced and I've always been able to refrain that sort of thing. For as much as I was into her, I know that banging chicks like that can be A LOT of drama. There were also a couple that I was thirsty for and I knew they didn't know I existed, so for those broads I'd go to TJ and bang a whore that reminded me of her and that seemed to do the trick.

Being in my mid 40s, a lot of the women from my past (at least in the US) are now OLD looking and I'm not going to lie I find it amusing. Like I was able to get in/out while the getting was good and now they're some poor simp's (or cat's) problem. Now that I'm back in the US (for four months now) I do feel kind of bad for Western men to some degree, cos these broads grew even fatter, more tatted and entitled since the end of 2013.........and to the point where I have zero interest in even having a casual chat with em'. Now I'm not dead so of course I do see the occasional looker, but that's where it ends, I'm never tempted to "go for it". Then again, being in PHX I'm only a one hour flight from SD and then another one hour pub. trans. ride to TJ, I don't have to deal with Western women to get my rocks off!

Originally Posted by Skywarp

I think for women, tattoos are a cheap way to "be young." Cheap versus surgeries and botox, etc. I started a new job recently and I overheard a woman near me telling another how she was going to get "that tattoo" this weekend. This broad is easily in her early 50s, not married and I would guarantee seen more traffic than the Lincoln tunnel. I'm sure she needs another tattoo like a dolphin needs a typewriter. It's like putting another bumper sticker on a 1975 AMC Gremlin...trust me, no one will care.

Other women care.

That's why they do it, to impress other women who want to do the same. This is often why women tend to get tattoos together, often after a relationship ends.

I was in my 20's in University in the UK, mixing with many women - some of them super hot, some middle-of-the-road hot and some fuglies.

I was in a long term relationship and missed out on banging a middle-of-the-road chick who was filthy as hell (due to my loyalty to ex....what a dummy I was) and worse: I missed out on a unicorn..

One of the women I got to know was a SUPER HOT, yet shy, reserved girl who came from a good family and was super intelligent. She was interested in me and I really found her out of this world attractive - but again, due to my fierce loyalty, I never took it further.

The long term girlfriend at the time lied to me, cheated on me and then got pregnant with another dude. If I wasn't such a loyal and honest guy, I could have slept with the "easy" girl, and then had a long term relationship with the super hot girl and in all likelihood, married her and lived a great life together.

As it turned out, life took a totally different route.

All those regrets about women you didn't fuck

Hmm..?

Honestly? Looking back?

All my regrets are with the women I did fuck and the time wasted that I could have spent pursuing the betterment of self. I look back at those distant days like time spent in a sewer where everything was self degrading, I was limestone in a volcanic acid lake.

The "light" came on the day of my "resolve", when I walked away with the determination of forever, always, and forever. That was the day I saw what relationshits had done to me, the accountability fell on self before the resolve could begin, it was my life and therefore my fault, gathered my basket of blame away from the scene and never went back. The transformation happened within a millisecond, told myself in the last relationshit that if it goes south, then so do I, and of course it went south, and so did I! I just shoved all that shit way down deep in the darkest reaches of my soul never to see daylight again!

After ^^^that^^^ the good times began and the nightmares ended, all my favorite and cherished memories began on that day forward from the year 1997. I still struggle time to time with the mindfuckery I endured, the misery I endured, the thirst unquenched I endured, in the end, I endured.

Within 6 months I was in flight school, within 2 years I purchased my fixerupper house, within 10 I owned a 2nd home, but lately in an economic slump like everyone else, but not being financially ruined by a woman and working myself to death!

Basically what happened?

The old self got a new hellcat drivetrain!

Originally Posted by mgtower

Hmm..?

Honestly? Looking back?

All my regrets are with the women I did fuck and the time wasted that I could have spent pursuing the betterment of self. I look back at those distant days like time spent in a sewer where everything was self degrading, I was limestone in a volcanic acid lake.

The "light" came on the day of my "resolve", when I walked away with the determination of forever, always, and forever. That was the day I saw what relationshits had done to me, the accountability fell on self before the resolve could begin, it was my life and therefore my fault, gathered my basket of blame away from the scene and never went back. The transformation happened within a millisecond, told myself in the last relationshit that if it goes south, then so do I, and of course it went south, and so did I! I just shoved all that shit way down deep in the darkest reaches of my soul never to see daylight again!

After ^^^that^^^ the good times began and the nightmares ended, all my favorite and cherished memories began on that day forward from the year 1997. I still struggle time to time with the mindfuckery I endured, the misery I endured, the thirst unquenched I endured, in the end, I endured.

Within 6 months I was in flight school, within 2 years I purchased my fixerupper house, within 10 I owned a 2nd home, but lately in an economic slump like everyone else, but not being financially ruined by a woman and working myself to death!

Basically what happened?

The old self got a new hellcat drivetrain!

“I still struggle time to time with the mindfuckery I endured, the misery I endured, the thirst unquenched I endured, in the end, I endured.”

Man, what the hell happened to you? Everyone, say AYE to listen to mgtower’s story.

Here I go: AYE AYE!

Originally Posted by WanderLuster

“I still struggle time to time with the mindfuckery I endured, the misery I endured, the thirst unquenched I endured, in the end, I endured.”

Man, what the hell happened to you? Everyone, say AYE to listen to mgtower’s story.

Here I go: AYE AYE!

I strolled through a minefield in search of friendly grenades! I experienced the worst of the worst in almost every variety! I was a 500 lb. magnet rolling through that minefield! Which psycho bitch you want to talk about, there's allot, because they're ALL PSYCHO! Lying, cheating, backstabbing, and every character defect known to man! They'll play with your head like cat playing with a ball of yarn!

And it isn't just "my story", it's OUR STORY! When you're subject to a tyrannical law and order, it's best to realize you're on your own and go your own way!

Don't have any regrets about the women I didn't fuck....none at all. However, I do, however have serious regrets about the women I did fuck....

I suppose I do have a few regrets, lack of knowledge of game where I settled for just a phone number when I could have done a lot more if I'd pushed the interaction further.

The other side of the coin is that if I'd been more successful with women in my 20s my life today would be a lot more of a mess today.

I may get some disagreement here, but here's my thought on the matter: It's perfectly human and fine to go over some "what-ifs" from your past. What if I had taken that other job as a teenager? What if I had gone to a different college? What if I had thrown caution to the wind and pursued a dream? And, yes, what if I had tried to get that girl into bed with me? Are these regrets, or just idly wondering how things would have turned out differently if you had done "X" rather than "Y" all those years ago?

There's nothing wrong with idly wondering how past decisions could have affected your life...as long as you don't get obsessed with it. The important thing is to take off the rose-tinted glasses when you think about how a different decision would have affected your present. Personally, when I look back at the teenage and early 20's possibilities, I realize that having sex with the young women in question wouldn't have had a major, positive impact on my life. Sure, I would have had some enjoyment, but would it have really improved my situation today? On the other hand, what if I knocked her up before I was ready to support a child? What if I caught something from her? What if I became so enamored of her that I was willing to toss aside my future for her? In all cases, the answer I come up with is that while there might have been some short term enjoyment, there could have been permanent consequences.

Still, on occasion, it's harmless and fun to think about how certain opportunities could have turned out. That's hardly regret.