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    When you are afraid of your wife.

    I was lazy and forgot to get my oil changed. I noticed it and stopped at this local garage. it is a single proprietor small town garage and the time is 12:15 on a Saturday. The owner/ mechanic is about 60 years old, very hard 60.

    I walk in and....

    Me. Hey, can I get an oil change?


    Him. You mean today?


    Me. ???, Yes, like right now.


    Him. But its after noon.


    Me. OK...


    Him. We close at noon on Saturday and I'm just closing up.


    Me. OK, I understand. If you do it Ill pay the normal price and I give you an extra $10 cash for your trouble.


    Him. I...I...I can't my wife is already mad that I'm late.


    Me. OK, I understand. If you do it Ill pay the normal price and I give you an extra $20 cash for your trouble.

    Him. I...I...I can't my wife is already mad that I'm late and its afternoon. (i can really see the fear in his eye, and he is getting all agitated, making jerky movements, reminds me of Rain man).


    Me. OK, Thanks anyway, and I leave.


    He is so afraid of his wife, that he was unwilling to stay 30 minutes late an make full price and get $20 cash money, TAX FREE. Its a town of 500 people so while he worked his half day, he may not have had any business. There weren't any cars parked in the lot like they are getting ready to be fixed or already been fixed. In this type of shop if he doesn't have customers he doesn't get paid.

    Now I get it, he may have had lunch on the table, other plans, etc...Naw, he was afraid, all agitated. It was more important that he being the house when his wife wants him than make an extra $20 for free.


    PS. This is not a Saturday Sabbath type area so it aint a religious thing.

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    I would be scared of his wife too Just sayin` .
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    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    There is something to say about a man being afraid of his wife.

    Why?

    What is there for a man to fear?

    For one thing, there is always the possibility of an unpredictable, illogical and irresponsible response from a totally unimportant event. The shear randomness of female reactions makes it totally impossible to know the consequences of anything. That is paralyzing.

    Second, an issue is not solved quickly.

    As a man you are prepared for high intensity stress, with fight or flee quick situations (like a bear chasing you). All your body is filled with adrenaline in an instant, to give you strength and speed for saving your life. Men fight and solve issues rapidly. Its a traumatic situation from which the man needs some time to recover.

    But women are different. They are built for prolonged low intensity stress, from non life-threatening situations (like an infant crying). This means that a woman fighting is NOT a quick thing. They will strike you repeatedly and randomly, giving you the silent treatment between strikes, gathering new lines and recollecting events from the past to hit you again, and again, and again. And they seem to enjoy the roller-coaster of emotions of the fights, and that is why they enjoy watching soap operas.

    This is a totally unbalanced set of skills. A man is subjected to life-threatening intensity stress, repeatedly, for a long time, without any time to recover, while the woman is enjoying her daily dose of fucked up fun.

    An third, there is the frightening randomness of it all. You might be in your bed, trying to get to sleep after a hard day of work, and out of the blue she will start the most absurd and hurtful emotional barrage because of something you did yesterday. If she is mad at you, you know that you will get hurt at anytime, anywhere, anyhow.

    Fighting women is like being under a 24hrs random artillery strike. Men under such conditions develop what is called "shell shock", or PTSD.




    So, what any husbank quickly learns is that he must take shelter and weather the fight. He cannot expect to win as she can (and will) escalate any argument to absurdity. A man needs to be prepared for the ultimate consequence when fighting for the right color for the room. Fuck the color of the room, its not worth it. You give up to get peace. And you give up, and give up, and give up...

    In the end the man starts to compromise in increasingly important areas of its life:

    - he buys flowers when she demands;
    - he goes to places she wants;
    - be buys the ring she wants;
    - he pays the weeding she wants;
    - he buys the house she wants;
    - he buys the car she wants;
    - he dumps the friend she doesnt want;
    - he stops doings things he likes, because it takes to much time from "family";
    ...

    In the end there is nothing inside that man, just an empty shell filled with fear of another barrage of artillery.

    Marriage. Just dont do it!

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    Life is smoother when you live by the maxim:

    'I don't fornicate where I eat.'

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    I was scared of the consequences from my ex in having a few beer and trying to relax. Instead of me enjoying those cold beers she later on would throw it back in my face calling me a alcoholic. She always questioned where I was going and what I was doing it was just to difficult to have any time to myself.

    I now realize how much of a control freak she truly was and self contained me within the parameters of the house. I would constantly give in to her demanding needs even though I was burnt out from all the other bullshit I still did them.

    I can now say I'm much happier now that the clutch of evil has been let go. I can enjoy a few beer here and there and not be criticized with outrageous remarks. I don't have to beckon to someone's demanding needs. I can now live a life knowing I'm a free man !

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    OF course he passed up the chance to make an easy 20$. He knows very well that if he pisses her off, he stands to lose WAY more than 20$. He is certain that he can survive without the 20$. Wether he can survive without his home, shop, savings, children, and constitutional rights is much less certain, and not worth the risk. Stakes are too high and the odds are too sketchy.

    A single man would have taken your offer at 10$...

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

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    Last edited by May 7 2020; October 1, 2018 at 6:43 AM.
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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    I know loads of men like this

    Eg

    ME - do you fancy meeting up for a drink?

    HIM - can I get back to you on that? (Followed by no answer because the "missus" has said no)

    Cucked men are everywhere and using my example above - the worst are the ones who actually SAY they have to check with their wives! Fucking tragic

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    I cannot imagine living that's man's life for even a minute.

    To be scared shitless every minute of the day is only good if he is regularly constipated - by the same person.

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    Scared every day of things he can not control or predict. Never knowing where or when the abuse/punishment would occur. Why ever would I want to revisit the hell of my childhood?
    He sounds like an adult version of an abused child.

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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    I had made it a rule to never date a gal bigger than me, or had a higher ranking belt than me.
    But women don't usually fight the way men do. They are in it for the long haul. The fight is NEVER over untill they get it thier way, PERIOD.
    Oh they will agree, untill they change thier mind. They will promise what ever, untill they decide not to.
    It is said that "It's a woman's perogative to change her mind."
    In layman's terms, it means her word ain't fer shit.....
    Last edited by Knarley Bob; August 30, 2018 at 1:47 AM.
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    Re: When you are afraid of your wife.

    Loony tunes tried to warn us.
    https://youtu.be/pdiDywbVxyg


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