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    A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    I binge watched some Red Pill creators yesterday and this was a big subject for one , and I have a thought on this issue because both my nieces are engaged to tall men. one is 6'3 but goofy looking, the other 6'6 somewhat handsome but at least 75 lbs overweight. Both are not the greatest in style, cars, or clothes. The former girl is about 7 looks, but a b!tch, so she is a 5 in my book. But the other is a solid 9, and a personality that makes her a 10. Im like wtf? you can have any guy and you choose the one that will probably have a heart attack by 50

    So the dating market definately changed since I dated 40 years ago. These two guys couldnt get above average women back in my day. So what the thing about height? All men needed was an athletic build, some looks, and a nice car to get a 7 plus then.

    Ok , on to my thought about the current desire for height


    (for those that are new) The current red pill paradigm is that women ride the CC on dating apps, procreate with Alphas then when she is tired of riding the CC search out a Beta to raise them

    Now with the Caveats that women cant love their husbands over the long term like we love them, and her children are her strongest love.....

    What if....Women collectively sense something coming down the road and they want the tallest children they can get?
    What if Men also collectively sense something, and are conserving resources by going Red Pill and MGTOW?

    About 12 years ago I was in 3rd world Africa, off the beaten path in a remote area and I was approached by a very tall black woman. She could look at me in the eye without shoes on. She asked my guide if I wanted her as a wife. I replied Im married. Then she replied, how about another wife? Once again, I say Im married. Then she replies, but is she as strong as me? Then my guide told me a woman like that is highly valued because she can produce physically strong offspring

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    I think it has a lot to do with social media. A lot of these young girls just want an arm trophy to pose with for instagram and facebook. Taking a picture at a club? Wearing your heels? Better have a tall dude on your arm to make all your girlfriends jealous. It's all about social validation and signaling, something women are really into. Men can be into it to- how many dudes do you know that have lifted trucks in an urban environment, fancy watches, etc.

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    Iím average height so it has never been a problem for me. Iíve even been flirted with by women taller than me. I think height becomes an issue for them when the guy is really short but then again I have seen 5ft 2 women on dating sites demanding 6ft plus tall men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Toolband89 View Post
    I think it has a lot to do with social media. A lot of these young girls just want an arm trophy to pose with for instagram and facebook.
    Yes, status. She perceives she looks better beside a larger/taller man. His larger volume can make her volume look smaller at the same distance in the photo.

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    They're timid. Tall men make them feel safe.

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    So a woman wants a guy who is over 6ft tall.

    Take the percentage of men over 6ft.

    Take away the men over 6ft who aren't handsome
    Take away the men over 6ft who are bald
    Take away the men over 6ft who too fat or too skinny or not muscular enough
    Take away the men over 6ft who are broke or in a low/middling paid job
    Take away the men over 6ft who are in poor physical health
    Take away the men over 6ft who are in poor mental health
    Take away the men over 6ft who are in prison
    Take away the men over 6ft who are gay
    Take away the men over 6ft who don't have a 'big enough' schlong

    What percentage of the male population does that leave? This miniscule representation is what the average, do-nothing, overweight, tattooed, chainsmoking, social media addicted, Tinder/Bumble hopping woman expects these days.

    The only winning move is not to play.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RustyNuts View Post
    Yes, status. She perceives she looks better beside a larger/taller man. His larger volume can make her volume look smaller at the same distance in the photo.
    Exactly. I don't think men appreciate how women compete socially. They'd love nothing more than to have a guy taller than their friends' guys. My sister is a hardened feminist who has had few boyfriends in her life due to her attitudes about men. She's at least upfront and confrontational, so most dudes have the good sense to run. She has admitted to actually telling guys "everything they're doing wrong" on first dates. Anyways, at one point, she actually managed to fall into an almost year long relationship with this super tall Romanian dude. I'm 6'3 and this guy was easily 6'10. Nice dude, albeit actually a little awkward to talk to. I'm simply not used to looking up at people when I talk to them. I met him at her birthday party, where she invited all her friends and family, and it was a weird scene. She was like a different person. Totally feminine, just flying around the party showing this dude off, talking about his engineering job, etc. Ironically, I actually hit it off with the guy. Turned out to be a pretty right wing dude, even a prepper. They didn't work out because her true attitudes leaked out, but it really highlighted female nature to me. Seeing my feminist, liberal, misandrist sister trotting this Romanian giant around like a trophy (especially to her girlfriends), was definitely educational. Of course, I also have a lifetime of experience with 2 sisters, an overbearing mother and more aunts than you can shake a stick at. But you know what? I'm grateful. If not for them, I'd probably be another sap living a life of quiet desperation.

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    As I see it, women can be summarized pretty easily. Childish and perpetually dissatisfied creatures. No matter what you throw at them, women will get dissatisfied. The only "exciting" thing about that is the question: when will it be?

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    Quote Originally Posted by RedPilledSimp View Post
    As I see it, women can be summarized pretty easily. Childish and perpetually dissatisfied creatures. No matter what you throw at them, women will get dissatisfied. The only "exciting" thing about that is the question: when will it be?
    Myself (being immonkulated), last time I checked?
    It'll be the day they serve ice tea with air conditioning in hell!

    There's gone, and there's gone and not coming back, I chose the later, late last century! I think it's gonna a thousand years before I even consider!
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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    Women on dating sites are looking for their knight in shining armor. They're looking in the net version of a lonely hearts club. This is never going to end well for anyone.

    If they were willing to submit to a psych evaluation, a credit check and a background investigation I might put them on the list for when there is ice skating in hell. Before that event it ain't happening.

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    Quote Originally Posted by RedPilledSimp View Post
    As I see it, women can be summarized pretty easily. Childish and perpetually dissatisfied creatures. No matter what you throw at them, women will get dissatisfied. The only "exciting" thing about that is the question: when will it be?
    I think this speaks to the difference in male and female physiology, conditioning, brains, hormones, etc. One way to think about it is men TEND to be binary creatures. We see things in black and white. We like rules, structure, schedule, etc. That's why men typically fare better in subjects like math and science. Rigid calculations and measurements, experiments that generate results without judgement on the part of the experimenters. Women tend to see the world "in color." They typically shy away from rigidity and more towards social connections and creativity. Does that mean there are no female mathematicians? Does that mean men can't be artists? Of course not. However, it explains why in hetero relationships, why it is usually the female initiating the break up. Their need for change and excitement leads them down a path of seeing their partner as boring, their relationship dull. The frequent dates, little adventures and spontaneity have given way to predictability. They miss the excitement of new love, the fun dates, the shared experiences. The average man in comparison, favors the status quo. We're usually good with the predictable rhythms of life. Get up, go to work, come home, unwind. Rinse repeat. While some women are able to adapt to this life, many simply can't.

    That's why divorce/ break-ups often hits men "out of the blue." Of course, they missed the "signs." It's incredibly easy for men to just turn their brains off and work. I even look at my family. My mom never held a job for more than a year tops. She didn't work for long stretches of my childhood, and quit working before 50, claiming her thyroid condition gave her "brain fog." Now she spends her days reading a tablet, bitching about politics and weather. My dad did over 20 in the military. He ignored my mom's protests and stayed in to get that pension. After that, he worked 20 more years in another job, got another pension. Now, she gets to live comfortably because of all his hard work. When he dies, she'll continue to get portions of his pensions, plus his social security. Look at my sisters. One has had jobs off and on and been a stay at home mother at times. The other job hops every year as issues inevitably crop up at each job. At first, each job is amazing. She falls in love with each new place. Then, after a couple months, all of a sudden, it's "boring," the city "sucks", the people are "assholes." Let's look at my life. I had the same job all through college. I graduated debt free. I continued working at the same job through the recession. I finally got a professional job. I kept the original job for almost two years just in case I lost the professional job due to downsizing, organizational shifts, etc. I eventually shifted to a different job in the same organization, stayed there over 5 years and leveraged that to get a similar job in a different state where I've been ever since. That's only three jobs in 15 years of working. My dad had 2 jobs in almost 40 years. My mom had at least 10 office jobs that I can remember. I have no idea how many companies my sister has been with. At least as many as my mother, probably more. Men now that work is work. We can just put our heads down, get shit done, ignore the people we don't like and just muscle through the BS. Women want work to be fun and social and they can't stand it when it isn't.

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    Quote Originally Posted by Toolband89 View Post
    Men know that work is work. We can just put our heads down, get shit done, ignore the people we don't like and just muscle through the BS. Women want work to be fun and social and they can't stand it when it isn't.
    And this is why men get paid more and are promoted more often than women. It's not a mystery really.

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    And this is why men get paid more and are promoted more often than women. It's not a mystery really.
    Yep. I see that in action where I work. When a woman takes maternity leave, she's often gone for the better part of a year- sometimes over a year. I worked with one girl who had 3 three kids in a row. She'd take a year off, come back for a month, rinse repeat. That's fine, such is her right. But, the organization held her job for her. All the fathers...back at work in a few weeks or so. I get it, they didn't have the child. It's important for the mother to bond with it, etc. But the point is, at the end of the year when I look at our staff billable hours for our budget, the men have worked far more hours than the women, despite being less than 1/2 of the employees. Less sick time, less vacation time, less anything. If there was any truth to the wage gap, especially in the white collar world, wouldn't every organization hire mainly women? Wouldn't that increase their profits. But oh wait...it would also drop productivity drastically.

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    Re: A thought about women on dating apps and the standard for height of men they date in 2021

    no, face, body build type, muscles, personality, status, money is more important after 5'7.
    height is not that important, short men who cannot get wahmin generally do not have anything else either, face is more important than anything, face is everything.


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