Thread: A honest talk with my dad

Guys,hello again.Sorry for inactivity for 2 months as I have 1 year of army service. I don't have much time to look at the forum.

Anyways,today I am on weekend vacation and I was watching an old Turkish movie (1976 movie- King of The Doormen) with my father.A scene comes up which father watches his daughter learn washing laundry the old way (in bucket with water) and says "Girl,if you don't learn it you will stay single".

And then the man talk started with my father. I told my father "Do we even need women these days? Laundry and dishes are done by machines, there are cleaning robots that does ground cleaning, for general cleaning you can hire a cleaner once in 2-3 months, we have local mom&pop restaurants that cook home food. The expenses lower as much as %90."

My dad told me "Sometimes I think you are right about being single. You don't have to deal with her nagging,you don't have to deal with her family,you don't have to deal with constant requests.Just freedom".

Like technology and information age bringed us the freedom to live in solidity. We blame capitalism but the capitalism that tends to be our enemy brought us freedom that we didn't have for centuries. Imagine our ancestors, they had to live together their lives whole time.My grandmothers were the most loyal and conservative women but boy they were nagging ALL THE TİME.

Now we have the tools and technology to live in freedom. You are hungry and didn't like the food? Go to nearest restaurant and choose what you want. You have local places that do both house meals and cook good kebabs.You don't have to come home and think if your wife cooked a good meal,or did laundry or dishes. You don't have to deal with her saying "I have a headache tonight,maybe tomorrow". You have 100's of PB's of porn on internet, BJ machines that suck like a pornstar, 5 star escorts. Machines that do laundry,ironing,clothes. You don't have to deal with stress of being her ATM as she wants constant fashion clothes and 5 star hotel vacations or 3 michelin star restaurant meals ....

I have a lot of different trains of thought about this topic. Do we need women? The logical person would say of course we do, who’s going to have the babies and keep the human race going?

Now speaking from someone in my current lifestyle, I definitely do not need a woman to keep my life going the way I want it. I cook, clean, and enjoy my freedom and hobbies by myself. I don’t need a tag-along looking for me to pay for everything under the sun. Technology has certainly helped a guy in my position to maintain and enjoy a solitary lifestyle. However, I also find technology very harmful and disruptive to the social fabric, particularly in the United States where the collective mental health is beyond fucked up.

I guess I don’t really contemplate the philosophical aspect of the necessity of women very much. Aside from work, I don’t really involve myself in society or get too invested in anything anymore. It sounds sad to say, but fuck society. I didn’t create the mess out there and I don’t care to fix it. I just plan to live out the rest of my life the best I can until they’re throwing dirt on me.

Originally Posted by Societysucksmyass

I have a lot of different trains of thought about this topic. Do we need women? The logical person would say of course we do, who’s going to have the babies and keep the human race going?

Now speaking from someone in my current lifestyle, I definitely do not need a woman to keep my life going the way I want it. I cook, clean, and enjoy my freedom and hobbies by myself. I don’t need a tag-along looking for me to pay for everything under the sun. Technology has certainly helped a guy in my position to maintain and enjoy a solitary lifestyle. However, I also find technology very harmful and disruptive to the social fabric, particularly in the United States where the collective mental health is beyond fucked up.

I guess I don’t really contemplate the philosophical aspect of the necessity of women very much. Aside from work, I don’t really involve myself in society or get too invested in anything anymore. It sounds sad to say, but fuck society. I didn’t create the mess out there and I don’t care to fix it. I just plan to live out the rest of my life the best I can until they’re throwing dirt on me.

I totally understand you. I live in a village far from western society so I don't have to deal with woke agenda filled idiots. I also only use technology for productivity,i don't use social media. Its always up to you whether you use it for productivity or not in my opinion.

Dude,fuck society. I always wanted to live in Europe (I have EU citizenship) but I got the glimpse of it and I said "f*** it". I live in an island where its recognized only by Turkey , where in a village its always the mom&pop shops. You hardly see new shit,its almost always the same people,same shit. It has its problems but its nothing compared to western society. I only have to deal with my family , nothing else. I am hardly visible to women as I live there, women usually move and travel to cities.

Only women I have to deal with is my mom and my grandmothers, which are great women and I don't have a problem with it.F* the rest,f* society.

Originally Posted by user97972

I only have to deal with my family , nothing else. I am hardly visible to women as I live there, women usually move and travel to cities.

That's very similar to the US where women abandon rural areas and flock to the cities.

I have no use for women at all. Nothing good comes for me when I am around them. I end up used, broke, abused, and just worse for wear. At my age they are looking for a beta bailout for their baggage, debt, and problems but yet I am told to "grow a pair" when I have a problem. Forget them.