Women complaining about lack of shared housework simply tells me that women have placed themselves in charge of it. They assume it's their topic in which to assert a superior role. A supervisory role, issuing expectations. They are owning housework. Do you see what I mean? They're not owning car maintenance, that's for sure, when they pawn it off on a man to do that work. Housework, though, is their perpetual domain, as their complaints continually inform us.
Women constantly overburden themselves, often in the name of "multitasking", a self-flagellation idea of which they are so proud, and, when they see that they are stressed from this, never do they stop and think, "Why do I constantly do this? What's wrong with me?" to back off their own load, but instead look to blame the nearest man (BF, husband) that he is not helping out. Her answer is to blame others for what she did to herself. Then her shame game begins. Men, for their part, are too smart to overburden themselves. Women, not so much. Then again, women suck at engineering.
