Thread: 10 RED FLAGS FOR WOMEN - I found this when I was listening/watching to Taylor the Fiend on Youtube.

I was listening/watching to Taylor the Fiend, on Youtube, when I found this commentary from the guy in the comments.

Also if you want to see video I was watching, here:





The same commentary are under the video.

I found this one, because it was interesting. Some guys might pump and dump or do short term dating. For me, I might pump and dump.

10 RED FLAGS FOR WOMEN

1. She has a TikTok and/or Instagram and it's almost entirely filled with selfie videos/photos

2. Tattoos, the more she has, the crazier she is

3. Over 30 and never been married (prior marriage gives you further grounds for investigation into her character)

4. Deadbeat or absent father in her family

5. Mother has been married and divorced multiple times

6. She talks about her exes a lot

7. Single mother

8. Tries to shame you if you don't bow to her will (you're not a "real man")

9. Pushes constantly for expensive gifts, vacations, dinner dates

10. Has lots of guys around who are "just friends" (with benefits) Any one of these red flags is cause for concern. If she has three or more, run, do not walk, to the nearest exit. If we want to add some:

11. Has female friends who are “party animals” or are otherwise promiscuous (women are easily influenced by their worst-behaved friends)

12. Lots of piercings, especially facial (nose ring, etc)

13. Hair that is not a natural color (purple, blue, orange, etc)

14. Frequent use of profanity (three F-words and she’s out)

15. Fingernails (real or fake) that are like claws.

16. Lives her life by astrology.

17. Talks in an extremely annoying British accent Print out this checklist and take it on a date. When you get to the third strike, put the list back in your pocket, get up, and leave without a word.

No explanation necessary. If she asks, just say “You know what you did!” the way women do. (Note: This list disqualifies 95% of women)




Anything else you think we should add this? Or that that's enough?

EDITED: This post is only reason I show it, because I thought it was interesting list. If you're settling down, that's the list for you to vet women. I'm not settling down, and won't get married.

If you are only pumping and dumping a lot of the things on this list don't matter. The above would be more appropriate for a guy looking to settle down which I assume you are not or you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Once you go down this road you just become the male equivalent of the woman looking for Mr 6 pack, 6 foot, 6 figures.

If a woman meets your minimum requirement for being attractive and she puts out without too much time/effort/money then she should be in at least as an FB.
My first post red pill "relationship" was a 3-4 months friends with benefits, she had at least 6 of the "red flags" you describe. She tried to rope me into a relationship but I consistently refused to see her more than once a week and she eventually drifted away.

Women You Should NOT Have Sex With - Alpha Male 2.0 (alphamale20.com)

Well, when i think about red flags I think in terms of LTR. I think author also meant that as most of those red flags don't bear any signifficance for booty calls.

I boil down my list to:

1. Not a virgin - Women lie so the only way to know if she had 3 or 3k bodies is to ensure she had no bodies at all.
2. Age >30 but different reason - after 30 she is worthless. The only thing woman can offer is her youth and fertility. After 30 she has none of it. Moreover biological clock means no fun and lots of pressure.
3. Bad environment - women are prone to peer pressure. Friends, family that endorse toxic behaviour are huge red flags.
4. Looks/character/views - won't elaborate as it's common sense

Now - my list is even more restrictive. The odds are one of the reasons why I don't seek relationships at all.

EDIT:
stanmsl, I don't believe men having basic expectations is the same as women wanting top 5% men. 90% of women meet said expectations (especially those 17. points mentioned by TaylorTheFiend) by default.
Them failing any of those expectations in majority of cases is the consequence of their actions.

Originally Posted by stanmsl

If you are only pumping and dumping a lot of the things on this list don't matter. The above would be more appropriate for a guy looking to settle down which I assume you are not or you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Once you go down this road you just become the male equivalent of the woman looking for Mr 6 pack, 6 foot, 6 figures.

If a woman meets your minimum requirement for being attractive and she puts out without too much time/effort/money then she should be in at least as an FB.
My first post red pill "relationship" was a 3-4 months friends with benefits, she had at least 6 of the "red flags" you describe. She tried to rope me into a relationship but I consistently refused to see her more than once a week and she eventually drifted away.

Women You Should NOT Have Sex With - Alpha Male 2.0 (alphamale20.com)

Yeah, you're right. I"m only down for pump and dump. But I posted it, because it was interesting. And you could change it to be even more restrictive on women.But I won't do anything, because I'm only going for pump and dump. I only posted it, because it was interesting.

I will not ever marry.

Originally Posted by stanmsl

If you are only pumping and dumping a lot of the things on this list don't matter. The above would be more appropriate for a guy looking to settle down which I assume you are not or you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Once you go down this road you just become the male equivalent of the woman looking for Mr 6 pack, 6 foot, 6 figures.

If a woman meets your minimum requirement for being attractive and she puts out without too much time/effort/money then she should be in at least as an FB.
My first post red pill "relationship" was a 3-4 months friends with benefits, she had at least 6 of the "red flags" you describe. She tried to rope me into a relationship but I consistently refused to see her more than once a week and she eventually drifted away.

Women You Should NOT Have Sex With - Alpha Male 2.0 (alphamale20.com)

Hey! Thanks for the link! I actually saw one of those rules, and one of them I almost fucked up, in my teens, and one of them I fucked up when I was in my 20s.

I'm betting/ erring on the safe side by considering the absence of a Y chromosome to be a red flag until proven otherwise. Still waiting for that proof....

Originally Posted by stanmsl

If you are only pumping and dumping a lot of the things on this list don't matter. The above would be more appropriate for a guy looking to settle down which I assume you are not or you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Once you go down this road you just become the male equivalent of the woman looking for Mr 6 pack, 6 foot, 6 figures.

If a woman meets your minimum requirement for being attractive and she puts out without too much time/effort/money then she should be in at least as an FB.
My first post red pill "relationship" was a 3-4 months friends with benefits, she had at least 6 of the "red flags" you describe. She tried to rope me into a relationship but I consistently refused to see her more than once a week and she eventually drifted away.

Women You Should NOT Have Sex With - Alpha Male 2.0 (alphamale20.com)

So basically, If I want to get laid, I need to follow those red pill rules or I get too many circumstantial situations. Problematic hazards. I think? So, that said, I need to be careful.

Some more Red Flags for LTRs

-Is/was the town bike, every guy has had a ride in town... And she still lives in the town.

-Vegetarian or doesn't eat meat because meat comes from animals. She doesn't like the way they farm animals and use animal biproducts to make other useful items. Unless you feel the same way...

-Different religion or has strong religious beliefs that are not your own or as strong as your own.

-Keeps moving to different countries or different areas, can't keep a job very long. Is she trying to run away from herself? This can tie in with self harm....

-Over eating. This may not show up as weight carried or fat. If she eats lots then throws it up later before she can digest it to avoid weight gain.

-If the woman wants a LTR with you she will likely tell you (hint) her Red Flags, in a way so she can always say "I told you that a long time ago". This makes it your fault for not picking up on the Red Flag. It will never be a straight out tell you, it will be hints over time.
-This also may apply to any cheating or plate spinning she is doing. All spoken in Womanese.

The more you look the more she will look like a CCP army parade...

A few more issues with "vetting women" for marriage / LTR.

* It assumes women belong in 2 categories "wife material" or "damaged goods" when in reality they fall along a spectrum. Where do you draw the line ?
* You can't estimate a woman's body count as she can quietly get banged by countless men via tinder.
* It assumes you have loads of options with women in order to carry out the vetting process in the first place.
* Most "good women" have already been taken for LTRs by high value men.
* Realistically you could halve (at best) your risk of being screwed over in a divorce or being cheated on but do you still want to gamble the rest of your life on those odds ?
* Just because a woman has yet to act on her hypergamy doesn't mean she won't in the future. Your 3rd world unicorn might not have access to social media today what about a couple of years from now ?
* It ignores other long term issues such as what if she turns off the sex or bores the hell out of you ?

"I bought this hoodie, but I told him I fucked a guy and stole it"

What it's difficult for technical guys to understand is that for socially able people, casual conversation is not about telling the truth, it's about being entertaining. Yes, women lie all the time and assume other people are lying, too. Telling stories. Being amusing. It's not malicious. It's not like they are lying, because in that situation there's no obligation on anyone to tell the truth.

You know that song "500 miles"

And when I haver, hey I know I'm gonna be
I'm gonna be the man who's havering to you

Asked a scot what that meant, he said: "You know, it's when you are talking shit to a woman". Everyone does it. It's normal.

6. She talks about her exes a lot

If she is still friends with exes. You can bet your life that she is still fucking at least some of them from time to time. I know one woman who has a FWB, they tried being a couple but it didn't work out. But they still hang out and fuck, as she says "We have sex with each other when we are both single and if one of us starts seeing someone we stop" .

Awesome, so there is a good chance that the woman who are sweet on has come and errr just cum from seeing her FWB when you meet her for the first time after chatting on whatever site you found her on.

Another one is what I call "Early Signs of Bitch" most people are on their best behaviour when you first meet them. The Bitch though just can't help herself. Early Signs of Bitch can include;

* Her looking very annoyed because you disagreed with her on something trivial or dared to offer your own opinion.
* Agreeing to meet for a coffee or drink but upon meeting she is now angling for lunch or dinner.
* Getting upset over stupid stuff.
* Signs of being impatient.

Originally Posted by Kryptic

If she is still friends with exes. You can bet your life that she is still fucking at least some of them from time to time.

Most this thread can be confirmed by direct observation. I notice a lot of warning signs especially on social media and can predict like clockwork which men are going to get dumped or cheated on.

Originally Posted by Mr Wombat

"I bought this hoodie, but I told him I fucked a guy and stole it".

More likely the other way around. "I told him I bought this hoodie, but I really fucked a guy and stole his hoodie"

What ever the case she will not be straight forward with that story or any other story.

Ever notice some women talk over each other, two or more all talking at the same time... I'm like how can they listen, absorb the information from all the conversations and talk at the same time? They can't, and don't need to because they don't care and don't want to know what the others are saying, they just want to express their emotions on what they need to at that time. They don't care if the others even hear them... It's all about "Me" at that moment, to them.

The first woman in the clip is attractive I won't deny it but the second one is the poster girl for MGTOW. Out walking her dog but heavy make up and fake eyelashes, crude behavior and voice, combative even though there isn't a reason to be, not attractive but no doubt thinks she is hot stuff.

Wish I would’ve seen this prior to meeting my ex!

She had:

2. Several tattoos…meaningless crap. HER MOM even got her first tattoo at 50+…a TRAMP STAMP I kid you not. I’m sure most of you would’ve said run upon hearing that alone, haha.



3. Prior marriage…ended up finding out it was to some wanna be thug that did various drugs, sold weed cheated and moved to Miami.



4. Dad disappeared months after birth.



5. Mom was onto marriage #4 shortly after we met…to a active SEVERE alcoholic who happens to make good money as a physician’s assistant (in an ER…I kid you not). Guess she decided another marriage would be for money. Within a year he bought her a new Mustang, gave her the credit cards, moved her into the house and married her. He’s on the hard liquor and the man will likely die soon…sadly that could be her wish because it seemed to me she only pretends to care about his alcoholism. I mean how do you MARRY (FOR THE FORTH TIME) an active alcoholic that is drunk 100% of the time he’s not at work? And to sit around discussing your new husband’s alcoholism on the phone with your daughters?!? WTF. I think the plan is for him to die and to set up herself and daughters for the rest of their lives. I can still hear my ex saying “but he’s a good man and would do anything for us”.



8. Tried to push the “real man” crap on me by saying she was raised to believe men should take care of a woman financially. You mean like your mom (doesn’t work) that married an alcoholic with money? Or your sister that has never worked yet is married to an alcoholic that makes decent money?


9. Expensive vacations like 3 cruises that probably costs $10k? Yeah, I did that. But I also made each one a horrible experience because in the back of mind I had a feeling I was being had.


11. ALL friends were alcoholics/drug addicts. The best friend was a different kind of crazy that cheated on her husband every couple months and they beat the crap out of EACH OTHER…bats, stabbing, running over with car, etc.

12. Several ear piercings…one a barbell…and of course the belly button to go along with the tats of things like Dolphins.

14. Cussed a good bit and so did her druggy friends. Never really felt like a comfortable situation.

I’ll add another and that’s any sort of drug addiction INCLUDING weed or alcohol. My ex smoked weed several times a DAY. Fun for the first year but then it just started pissing me off that she was financially irresponsible but could always find a way to smoke 4-5+ times a day and always with friends.

I was an idiot and didn’t even need MGTOW to see all those red flags.

I'm thinking that even pump and dump is dangerous these days....