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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    I'm no expert on the mentally ill, but being old, I've seen a few. Both got worse with age. Ones actions were borderline amusing when young. But as time went on he slowly got worse, and by age fifty he was eating jail food. He might be out by now, but there's nothing left for him in this town.

    Sometimes meds do the job, but It don't sound like they'll work for your wife's kid. He's beyond help. All you can do is get away.

    I don't think I could stand waiting if it was me, but Hoppes is right. Go slow and careful, do it right.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    Hoppes, I really appreciate the commiseration. It's empowering to know there's someone else here, who's been through the same testicle grinder. Yep, guilt is their number one weapon and they know how to use it. If we were the assholes they claim, we wouldn't be around to be harped on. I can see this is the right place to be. This site has already given me more conviction and justification than I could have hoped for. There's some fantastic reads in here.🍻

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    You're right. He's gotten worse with age and he's only 26. Both he and his mom (wife?) refuse their antidepressants. I'm with you. An exit yesterday isn't soon enough, but with TOTAL assets around$100k, I need every penny and while going slow is maddening, it's necessary.

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    To clarify: I was born and raised in northern Michigan, have lived coast to coast with many stops in between, currently live in Kentucky, and can't wait to dissolve this bag of excrement to move back to Michigan (or Tahoe).

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    Quote Originally Posted by MAM5150 View Post
    Having gone thru a nasty divorce myself, I second most of the comments. I’d see an attorney before doing anything.
    Having sad that, remember that a divorce lawer will recommend divorce. It's how they make their living. As the old saying goes: "if you ask a carpenter to fix a problem, you will get something made of wood". A divorce lawyer can give you an idea of the likely outcome, they can pull the lever and actually do it, but the decision "divorce or not" is not something to leave up to them. And come to that: if you go to a website that says "men going their own way", you already know what advice you are going to get there.

    Make *your own* decision. What we can tell you, however, is that there are options other than having your dirtbag stepson destroy your house. There are options other than living in daily misery with a woman you no longer like.

    Oh, and we can also tell you this: if you are no longer bringing home the bacon, your wife will divorce you without a moment's compunction or scruple. The day that your retirement savings finally run out, the day that you pay the final utility bill that you have the money for, she will serve you with papers. She will also inform a judge that you are beating her and file for a protective order that will eject you from your home.

    Happens all the time.

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    Quote Originally Posted by Hoppes#9 View Post
    Slowly hide assets if possible. Liquidate any items you currently can do without and squirrel away the cash somehow
    Hoppes, man, this is bad advice. At best, it's a very, very high-risk strategy. If the judge of a family court finds that the husband has been squirrelling away assets, she will come down on him like a fucking freight train carrying tons of bricks.

    Maybe it could work for a man building a cabin in the woods. But her lawyers will go through the bank statements and chase up those mysterious payments. You might thing you are smart, but you are dealing with a system that destroys men all the time.

    I suggest: obey the law. Absolutely do not squirrel away money unless you are prepared to flee the country. If you start making weekly $500 cash withdrawals right about the time that you were beginning to plan your divorce, her lawyers will find out about it. Most people just aren't cut out to be criminals. Most people are poor liars in front of a judge who catches people lying every single day. Obey the law.

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post

    You might thing you are smart, but you are dealing with a system that destroys men all the time.
    Let this thread be a reminder as to why it's so imperative to ghost in order to preserve your freedom, responsibility, and the learning that accompanies it, when you're all on your own and independent of a emotional second party that we're held accountable for their actions! A man's life cannot endure two captains! One Capt. empowered by responsibility and sensibility while the other is driven by emotional tides in and around coral reefs they cannot see or comprehend their existence, Female empowerment has resulted in social changes and equal rights without responsibility and accountability for the female gender, we're still being held to a higher standard that existed in the patriarchal society we sprang from, all the while no consideration or contemplation was afforded men during the entire cultural revolution that delivered us to such devastation, we're raped, robbed, and left for dead by this blind rearranged injustice system.
    It's my pleasure to be antiquated to other men that see it this way.
    We're now in a matriarchal order with patriarchal restrictions placed on men. Like gasoline in a Styrofoam cooler over a lit candle placed on our heads!
    Sarji, I'm sorry for your losses, there's a price to pay for being held accountable to emotions over intellect dictated by matriarchal law.
    There's no fixing this, only mitigating the damages and reinforcing the WALL. You know what we're up against and the only way to defeat it is to never embark on a journey with two captains ruled over by molested maritime law, because when it all goes wrong only one captain is left to blame, and it's not the emotional one that flip flops like a flounder, but rather the reasonable one that agreed to set off with two Captains, only he's to blame! His first mistake was embarking on an that fated voyage! \

    I sail alone on the U.S.S. Ghost, invisible to enemy fire!

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    Hoppes, man, this is bad advice. At best, it's a very, very high-risk strategy. Obey the law.
    Well Brother Wombat, it depends. Each State has it's own unique set of Divorce laws and thus assets are handled and determined accordingly. While in my State the law allows for "prior ownership" meaning if He owns it before he marries , He keeps it. The only property divided is property acquired after marriage ...even if it is not per say jointly owned by having Two (2) names on the Deeds or Titles.

    Each State is unique, I think Sarj said he resides in Kentucky,...he will need to do a internet search to discover what laws are applicable to his situation...

    I should have been more clear in what I was saying about that so as not to add more confusion in the stressful time he is going thru..

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    *near* future. Still can't edit.

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    Quote Originally Posted by Sarj View Post
    *near* future. Still can't edit.
    To which of your earlier posts are you referring?

    At first I thought it was a site problem you had indicated, and I forgot to mention that I moved you out of moderation a few days ago, but you likely noticed that when you saw how immediately your posts appeared.
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

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    Re: Red pill soul, blue pill life

    It's very likely this POS tablet. Since I've been accepted, a switch to a laptop and the issue will surely disappear. This tablet doesn't fully support most formats and can be very frustrating.


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