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    Living life as a young MGTOW

    Hi everyone,

    Its an honor to finally join the site officially, after being a lurker for many months. reading posts from so many wise men. I'm 23 going on 24 soon, I love spending my time alone as man, its something that's very understated how important it is for a man to have time alone. What is very hard for me, is dealing with sexual desires. Being young, the desires are hard to control sometimes. I browse Tinder a bit that has lead to many matches, due to having good facial features. But, I've learned from you guys, none of that should matter. I was born with Cerebral Palsy, witch affects how I walk very mildly in my legs. It still makes me uncomfortable when people stare at me, sometimes when I think about that it really hurts inside, you know? I've had a few girls that I've hung out with and had sex.

    But, I know deep down its my disability that stops the girls from talking to me again in the future after the sex, as women won't usually date men with disabilities, as Sandman pointed out in a recent video. My disability is one of the main things that has brought me to MGTOW. It reminds me of how bitter people can be for nothing in my control, which hurts if I think about it. Some days living with my disability is tough, most days my confidence is great, other days it makes me feel down about myself a bit. I have a well built body, its just my disability that makes things different. I live in my own 2 bedroom apartment and have a great job. Which most of the women on Tinder and other sites can't say, as they still live with their parents and have betas by them all their meals, for just a hint of sex. I was there myself, with a girl in college, who I thought really liked me, we still talk, but I've realized just because I thought of the possibility of sex with her. I hung out with her and bought her dinner, many times in college, which I realize today, was a HUGE waste of my time, money, and energy as being a man and doing great things for myself. I wish it was easier controlling biology to not always want to have sex with women I'm attracted to, does it get easier to control as I age?With a lot of the girls, I've met on Tinder, I've really finally understood, the reason I would try to talk and get to know them, was to get sex. I've learned many women are boring and not worth my time, I need to always be focusing on myself, and never get married and never live together with a woman.


    You guys make me realize I need to be visiting MGTOW sites and watching videos all time, to remember always how dangerous it is to get involved with and date women today for a young man like myself. MGTOW, is such an amazing thing to discover in life for men, wish I found this info, while I was very young, as it would of and now, would have saved me from many nights of being sad and wondering why wasn't I good enough for a girl. Just a quick shutout to Don, your intro, really hit me good and reminded me, why its important to learn from older men on this and other MGTOW sites, so I can have the best life possible. I have friends who are my age married and or are in relationships and just think of how much danger they are in as men with being involved with women. Even myself, when I think about a woman I'm attracted to and want to have sex with, I need to remember that is a very dangerous thing to do as a young man in 2020. My grandmother and mother tell me as well, I need to always be professional in my job, don't tell anyone about my personal life away from work, never date co workers, never give a woman power over me. I used to tell my mother when I would hang out with a girl, as she would ask, but learned to not tell her if I'm having sex with these women, as she lectures me on remembering to be very careful, who I'm having sex with, which she is right on. I know AWALT, but I always hope, my mother is always looking out for me, when she tells me something.

    Also, another example really proved something to me again last night. I subscribed to Tinder Gold, and had 10 likes, out of the women I messaged, one got back to me and gave me her Snapchat, talked to her for a few hours and then she didn't respond to me. Makes me again kick myself and ask why do I waste my time. I need to always remember its only my turn with a women, when she's done with me, she moves onto her next prey like a succubus, watched that South Park episode today, where they deal with the woman turning out to be a secret succubus that dropped another obvious huge red pill for me, about how horrible marriage or being with a woman is.

    Thanks for the privilege of your time gentleman.

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    Re: Living life as a young MGTOW

    Quote Originally Posted by Tomatoshadow2 View Post
    Hi everyone,

    Its an honor to finally join the site officially, after being a lurker for many months. reading posts from so many wise men. I'm 23 going on 24 soon, I love spending my time alone as man, its something that's very understated how important it is for a man to have time alone. What is very hard for me, is dealing with sexual desires. Being young, the desires are hard to control sometimes. I browse Tinder a bit that has lead to many matches, due to having good facial features. But, I've learned from you guys, none of that should matter. I was born with Cerebral Palsy, witch affects how I walk very mildly in my legs. It still makes me uncomfortable when people stare at me, sometimes when I think about that it really hurts inside, you know? I've had a few girls that I've hung out with and had sex.

    But, I know deep down its my disability that stops the girls from talking to me again in the future after the sex, as women won't usually date men with disabilities, as Sandman pointed out in a recent video. My disability is one of the main things that has brought me to MGTOW. It reminds me of how bitter people can be for nothing in my control, which hurts if I think about it. Some days living with my disability is tough, most days my confidence is great, other days it makes me feel down about myself a bit. I have a well built body, its just my disability that makes things different. I live in my own 2 bedroom apartment and have a great job. Which most of the women on Tinder and other sites can't say, as they still live with their parents and have betas by them all their meals, for just a hint of sex. I was there myself, with a girl in college, who I thought really liked me, we still talk, but I've realized just because I thought of the possibility of sex with her. I hung out with her and bought her dinner, many times in college, which I realize today, was a HUGE waste of my time, money, and energy as being a man and doing great things for myself. I wish it was easier controlling biology to not always want to have sex with women I'm attracted to, does it get easier to control as I age?With a lot of the girls, I've met on Tinder, I've really finally understood, the reason I would try to talk and get to know them, was to get sex. I've learned many women are boring and not worth my time, I need to always be focusing on myself, and never get married and never live together with a woman.


    You guys make me realize I need to be visiting MGTOW sites and watching videos all time, to remember always how dangerous it is to get involved with and date women today for a young man like myself. MGTOW, is such an amazing thing to discover in life for men, wish I found this info, while I was very young, as it would of and now, would have saved me from many nights of being sad and wondering why wasn't I good enough for a girl. Just a quick shutout to Don, your intro, really hit me good and reminded me, why its important to learn from older men on this and other MGTOW sites, so I can have the best life possible. I have friends who are my age married and or are in relationships and just think of how much danger they are in as men with being involved with women. Even myself, when I think about a woman I'm attracted to and want to have sex with, I need to remember that is a very dangerous thing to do as a young man in 2020. My grandmother and mother tell me as well, I need to always be professional in my job, don't tell anyone about my personal life away from work, never date co workers, never give a woman power over me. I used to tell my mother when I would hang out with a girl, as she would ask, but learned to not tell her if I'm having sex with these women, as she lectures me on remembering to be very careful, who I'm having sex with, which she is right on. I know AWALT, but I always hope, my mother is always looking out for me, when she tells me something.

    Also, another example really proved something to me again last night. I subscribed to Tinder Gold, and had 10 likes, out of the women I messaged, one got back to me and gave me her Snapchat, talked to her for a few hours and then she didn't respond to me. Makes me again kick myself and ask why do I waste my time. I need to always remember its only my turn with a women, when she's done with me, she moves onto her next prey like a succubus, watched that South Park episode today, where they deal with the woman turning out to be a secret succubus that dropped another obvious huge red pill for me, about how horrible marriage or being with a woman is.

    Thanks for the privilege of your time gentleman.
    Hi Tomatoshadow2,

    sometimes when I think about that it really hurts inside, you know?
    Yes, I empathize.

    So often we see testimonies for men who got severely burned by women and are fed up. It appears you are a young man who is both tuning into MGTOW and/while being rejected for your CP. While other men are used, tricked, then rejected, you are flat rejected without first being used or tricked? Not that I have a point to make, just an observation.

    I empathize.

    On one hand I see in you what we hope to impart to (young) men, that MGTOW is the way, and on the other hand I confess it crosses my mind if you are seeking refuge in MGTOW because of this across-the-board rejection. I mean, refuge could be temporary, you know?

    I need to always be focusing on myself, and never get married and never live together with a woman.
    The way you express that could sound like a goal not yet actualized. May I gently ask you...

    Knowing the dangers of women as you do, do you retain hopes of an emotional relationship with a woman, a girlfriend or wife, in case one at long last sees past your CP and wants such a relationship? That would be a potent draw, I suspect. No one knows the future, but where do you stand right now on that? How firm are you as MGTOW? Are you not sure?

    There are no wrong answers. Only truth.

    Thank you.
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    Re: Living life as a young MGTOW

    Hi Unboxxed

    Thank you for your reply sir, I was also used by women that I liked for meals or support, before we had sex. To me it was the rejection after the sex, that really opened my mind that no woman is worth it, no woman is going to truly care for me, because she has others lined up, waiting for a turn with her. I would say I'm sure not to get married or live with a woman, I've learned the very painful truth, women will never date a man because of a disability, women with disabilities on the other side of the coin are accepted no matter how bad the disability is. Men are not, they are thrown off to the side. I would say I'm not seeking refuge in MGTOW, I'm seeking a better life as a young man through MGTOW.

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    Re: Living life as a young MGTOW

    Quote Originally Posted by Tomatoshadow2 View Post
    Hi Unboxxed

    Thank you for your reply sir, I was also used by women that I liked for meals or support, before we had sex. To me it was the rejection after the sex, that really opened my mind that no woman is worth it, no woman is going to truly care for me, because she has others lined up, waiting for a turn with her. I would say I'm sure not to get married or live with a woman, I've learned the very painful truth, women will never date a man because of a disability, women with disabilities on the other side of the coin are accepted no matter how bad the disability is. Men are not, they are thrown off to the side. I would say I'm not seeking refuge in MGTOW, I'm seeking a better life as a young man through MGTOW.
    Thank you for your reply.

    Do you have current hobbies or activities?
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    Re: Living life as a young MGTOW

    Hello and welcome to GYOW forum.

    Yeah, there are some real bitter red pills to swallow for a young man when going MGTOW but the sad part is having relationships is not a viable option anymore. It's like playing Russian Roulette. Every man has to make that decision on his own. Half of the men who are still willing to try will get destroyed in a divorce court that is just a simple statistics and I believe that it isn't even accurate IMHO the percentage is much higher. Choosing to marry or even cohabitate with a woman puts you at high risk it depends naturally also where you live.

    Anyways welcome to the forum.
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    @Natural Born MGTOW

    Yes absolutely,

    as I young man, I must learn how to be safe and live my life. It's very dangerous today to have a relationship with a woman. Thanks for the welcome.

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    Re: Living life as a young MGTOW

    Quote Originally Posted by Tomatoshadow2 View Post
    Hi Unboxxed

    Thank you for your reply sir, I was also used by women that I liked for meals or support, before we had sex. To me it was the rejection after the sex, that really opened my mind that no woman is worth it, no woman is going to truly care for me, because she has others lined up, waiting for a turn with her. I would say I'm sure not to get married or live with a woman, I've learned the very painful truth, women will never date a man because of a disability, women with disabilities on the other side of the coin are accepted no matter how bad the disability is. Men are not, they are thrown off to the side. I would say I'm not seeking refuge in MGTOW, I'm seeking a better life as a young man through MGTOW.
    Strong healthy men are work horses and most women know they can only have one at a time, otherwise two competing workhorses will fight, or the one she has will simply leave, however, NAWALT, some keep several workhorses at a time, not letting the workhorses become aware of one another, using their combined effort to plow her fields on the PLANTATION!

    Any way you look at it an injured workhorse is either shot or put out to pasture by himself. Females are impeccably self centered creatures and now they're empowered and enabled to pit men against each other while sweeping up all the profits. Female nature is an incredibly cunning creature with all stops removed.
    A Toyota doesn't get recycled, it lives forever!

    It's a real shame they don't build wives.

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    Re: Living life as a young MGTOW

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Strong healthy men are work horses and most women know they can only have one at a time, otherwise two competing workhorses will fight, or the one she has will simply leave, however, NAWALT, some keep several workhorses at a time, not letting the workhorses become aware of one another, using their combined effort to plow her fields on the PLANTATION!

    Any way you look at it an injured workhorse is either shot or put out to pasture by himself. Females are impeccably self centered creatures and now they're empowered and enabled to pit men against each other while sweeping up all the profits. Female nature is an incredibly cunning creature with all stops removed.
    Well said sir, I wish I learned this a few years before, when I was 18.

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    Re: Living life as a young MGTOW

    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    Thank you for your reply.

    Do you have current hobbies or activities?
    I work as much as I can, like listening to music and reading books. No other hobbies, besides MGTOW forum and videos. Hbu?

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    Thank you, Tomatoshadow2. I've moved you out of Moderation, and you can now post in threads. Please read our Principles, accessed from the link in the black bar at the top of this page.
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