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    My Introduction

    Hello everyone, It is a pleasure to finally register. I have been an active reader of the forum for a long time.

    I am a 31yr old guy that was lucky enough not to be in any serious relationship. I started going my own way since 2013. Although before I went my own way, I was a firm believer of following the prescribed path ie goto school, work, then marry. The last option seem not to sit well with me, because it involves lots of struggle and stress. By observation, I saw that things do not go too well for the man. This prompted me to study a little bit of female nature, and finally going my own way.

    Well, since I took the redpill from r/theredpill, I have read the manipulated man, predatory female, anatomy of female power, rational male etc. I clearly understand the female completely. As a result, I cannot be with any of them. Their version of love is terrible and selfish. They receive love, but not give. The best they can do is act, just to keep him doing whatever he is good at.

    My school days was hell. Since I know these things, all of a sudden, I became so attractive to them. More than half of the females in my class all thought that I am their perfect man. You can see the desperation on their faces. It started with one female in my first year, then others followed. Some of them almost went crazy. But why should they want something that they cant have? then once they have it they lose interest?

    Guys, I am glad that this knowledge came to me. I live my life on my own terms without any concern to what is expected of me. Although outwardly, I seem to be blue ---perfect for ghosting. My hubbies are reading, gaming, music, cooking, and traveling. I went back to school since 2014, and graduated this year. I am currently working towards owning my own business.

    Thank you.
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    Re: My Introduction

    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Hello everyone, It is a pleasure to finally register. I have been an active reader of the forum for a long time.

    I started going my own way since 2013. Although before I went my own way, I was a firm believer of following the prescribed path ie goto school, work, then marry. The last option seem not to sit well with me, because it involves lots of struggle and stress. By observation, I saw that things dont go too well for the man. Honestly, I cant live like that, life should be lived in peace.

    Well, since I took the redpill from r/theredpill, I have read the manipulated man, predatory female, anatomy of female power, rational male etc. I clearly understand the female completely. As a result, I cannot be with any of them. Their version of love is terrible and selfish. They receive love, but not give. The best they can do is act just to keep him doing whatever he is good at.

    My school days was hell. Since I know these things, all of a sudden, I became so attractive to them. More than half of the females in my class all thought that I am their perfect man. You can see the desperation on their faces. It started with one female in my first year, then others followed. Some of them almost went crazy. But why should they want something that they cant have? then once they have it they lose interest? Nature is so unkind.

    Guys, I am glad that this knowledge came to me! I live my life on my own terms without any concern to what is expected of me. Although outwardly, I seem to be like all of them. Perfect ghosting.
    Hi Archer,

    Sorry to say, but your Intro looks like a recent troll who, like you, had ignored the How To Intro format and wrote a message similar to yours.

    Please redo your Intro, following the PM that I had sent you.

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    Re: My Introduction

    Sorry for not reading the intro format. I have edited my post, thank you.

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    Re: My Introduction

    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Hello everyone, It is a pleasure to finally register. I have been an active reader of the forum for a long time.

    I am a 31yr old guy that was lucky enough not to be in any serious relationship.
    I started going my own way since 2013. Although before I went my own way, I was a firm believer of following the prescribed path ie goto school, work, then marry. The last option seem not to sit well with me, because it involves lots of struggle and stress. By observation, I saw that things do not go too well for the man. This prompted me to study a little bit of female nature, and finally going my own way.

    Well, since I took the redpill from r/theredpill, I have read the manipulated man, predatory female, anatomy of female power, rational male etc. I clearly understand the female completely. As a result, I cannot be with any of them. Their version of love is terrible and selfish. They receive love, but not give. The best they can do is act, just to keep him doing whatever he is good at.

    My school days was hell. Since I know these things, all of a sudden, I became so attractive to them. More than half of the females in my class all thought that I am their perfect man. You can see the desperation on their faces. It started with one female in my first year, then others followed. Some of them almost went crazy. But why should they want something that they cant have? then once they have it they lose interest? [Deleted: Nature is so unkind.]


    Guys, I am glad that this knowledge came to me. I live my life on my own terms without any concern to what is expected of me. Although outwardly, I seem to be blue ---perfect for ghosting. My hubbies are reading, gaming, music, cooking, and traveling. I went back to school since 2014, and graduated this year. I am currently working towards owning my own business.

    Thank you.
    Hi,

    I highlighted in red the few changes you made from your first try. No, I'm sorry, but this is still woefully inadequate. Here are the three numbered Points of Discussion from the How To Intro sticky that the PM directed you to read, highlighted there in blue for emphasis:


    In order to discern genuine users from trolls, we will request the following information:

    1. Relationship history
    (experience with women, red pills, what about it made you made you aware; note- you don't HAVE to have had relationships but you can speak of your interactions with women) -- it turns out trolls don't have good, realistic stories of this ilk.

    I highlighted
    in green the things you say but they are very general observations about women. We already know about women! We want to hear about YOU! Don't summarize for us. You indicate you have not been in a serious relationship, and that's ok. But certainly you have had exposure to women and these are the details we seek. Tell us some specifics about your interactions with women, what they did, what they said... to YOU. Perhaps pick your best and longest example and tell us about it. When you tell us details, we can see your experience and your awareness. Open up, buddy! Shake it loose and talk to us.


    2. Awareness
    : your previous blue pill perspectives, how you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.

    You told us you took the red pill and you list the ideas you then studied, but you do not tell us HOW you got to that point. Trolls tell us they took the red pill, so it's not enough to say that. Without a serious relationship, what pushed you to even search and find out about MGTOW? Also, how did you find our site? These are separate questions.


    3. Who you are
    : tell us a little bit of who you are. What you like, what you do, etc.


    You have satisfied this third point of discussion.


    Please address Points #1 and #2, and I'd recommend not editing your original post this time as I want you to be focused here and not try to salvage your OP to save yourself typing. Make a new post in this thread, and perhaps use the numbering system above to help yourself stay on course when you respond to Points #1 and #2.

    Thank you.
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    Re: My Introduction

    Alright. Here are the missing details:

    In all my interactions with the ladies, I have seen that they don't have anything tangible to offer. I have always been the one telling jokes, losing my time, money, and peace of mind. All of them were self-absorbed, and I saw that I was the one putting in all the effort. The first female I had as a friend, always seem to be picking on any little thing I do, which made me feel like I was not good enough. Then I started reading lots of PUA stuff, specifically from David DeAngelo, so I can be good enough. His writings were a whole lot of things I need to do and not do. They were tiring. Then I asked myself, what do I gain from all of these? Well, I stopped reading PUA stuff, then I stumbled on mgtow.com and read something about "the flaky chick phenomenon", and testimonials from married men. My curiosity into these things started increasing because they were in sync with all my experiences. Then I came to this site too from google search, and read "the female psychosis" and others.

    In my former blue pill self, I used to think marriage was cool, and that there is equal partnership from both the man and woman. Then all of a sudden, I saw that there is no good in it at all. Seeing my dad taking all the responsibilities, pay this, pay that, nonstop! It is a huge cross. Since I can see these things differently now, nearly all relationships are one-sided (maybe 99.8%). I do not want any of it. It is not my fault.

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    Re: My Introduction

    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    Alright. Here are the missing details:

    In all my interactions with the ladies, I have seen that they don't have anything tangible to offer. I have always been the one telling jokes, losing my time, money, and peace of mind. All of them were self-absorbed, and I saw that I was the one putting in all the effort. The first female I had as a friend, always seem to be picking on any little thing I do, which made me feel like I was not good enough. Then I started reading lots of PUA stuff, specifically from David DeAngelo, so I can be good enough. His writings were a whole lot of things I need to do and not do. They were tiring. Then I asked myself, what do I gain from all of these? Well, I stopped reading PUA stuff, then I stumbled on mgtow.com and read something about "the flaky chick phenomenon", and testimonials from married men. My curiosity into these things started increasing because they were in sync with all my experiences. Then I came to this site too from google search, and read "the female psychosis" and others.

    In my former blue pill self, I used to think marriage was cool, and that there is equal partnership from both the man and woman. Then all of a sudden, I saw that there is no good in it at all. Seeing my dad taking all the responsibilities, pay this, pay that, nonstop! It is a huge cross. Since I can see these things differently now, nearly all relationships are one-sided (maybe 99.8%). I do not want any of it. It is not my fault.
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    Re: My Introduction

    Welcome Archer,

    Some of your statements seem a little, well, generic. Without offense may I ask if English is your first language? If not, this may explain a few things on its own.

    Also I have a question.

    You say:

    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    I clearly understand the female completely.
    I’ve been a MGHOW for about 20 years now and cannot make this claim. Yes I understand many of their traits and that is enough for me, but to say I understand them completely would be untrue.

    Could you maybe elaborate here a little as it may be of benefit to non-members who visit this site?
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    Re: My Introduction

    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post

    Guys, I am glad that this knowledge came to me. I live my life on my own terms without any concern to what is expected of me. Although outwardly, I seem to be blue ---perfect for ghosting. My hubbies are reading, gaming, music, cooking, and traveling. I went back to school since 2014, and graduated this year. I am currently working towards owning my own business.

    Thank you.
    GIRL! GIRL! I called it FIRST! !!

    Just kidding, and being my asshole self!

    Welcome from the shadows of lurking, Archer!
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    Re: My Introduction

    My grammar is horrible, I am still trying to improve. English is my second language. Secondly, I type very fast.

    A big thank you to the moderator for accepting my request. Greetings to all of you!
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    Re: My Introduction

    Quote Originally Posted by Archer View Post
    My grammar is horrible, I am still trying to improve. English is my second language. Secondly, I type very fast.

    A big thank you to the moderator for accepting my request. Greetings to all of you!
    Better your grammar is horrible than your grammar and personality is horrible like me!

    I think fast and type slow, so just ignore the words that are missing...
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