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    My Intro - Hereward

    Hello all, I'm Hereward, mid 50s and English.

    Relationship history - I guess a quick summary would be used to be a beta male but wised up.

    I always used to get along well with women, I guess because I used to go out of my way to please them. Never good looking, never wealthy, just working class. I had girlfriends when I was younger but nothing really serious, most ending up in the friend zone, just had to put up with losing them to slightly older, better looking guys with more to offer. I guess that's why most of my life I've never felt quite good enough which on the other hand helped by giving me the drive for a good career.

    Then the worst decision of my life, I thought it was time to find a wife and settle down. This was back in the late 90's and I went to love on AOL and put a profile on there. Chatted to a few women, a Russian with a kid who was plainly looking for a visa to the UK and a recently divorced American women with a couple of kids. I got on well with the American, we chatted on the phone, emailed a couple of times a day etc. In the end she invites me to visit for a week or so, fantastic time. Sex several times a day and she was up for anything in bed, her tubes were tied and she's been tested for STDs too.

    Having a fantastic job I was going over for a long weekend every 6 to 8 weeks, after about a year she starts to talk about marriage. I'm having fun, getting fucked every which way when we're together so I'm happy and I propose. BIG FUCKING MISTAKE.

    She wants to come and live in England, OK, we do the paperwork (paid for by me) I sell my flat and buy a house big enough for us all and her and the kids move over and we get married. Suddenly there's less sex and some of the things we did weren't on offer anymore.

    I start a new business with a partner and it's very successful and within a year we have 18 employees.

    After 2 years she and the kids were homesick and I'm told we're moving to the USA. Sell the business to our partner for a decent profit and he's made himself very, very wealthy since.

    Off to the USA and I put a 75% deposit down on a nice house, get a great job and we're doing well. Saving money for the big dream, land in the country.

    Meanwhile sex is less and less but she's discovered a few new kinks in bed. She's got a new female best friend she spends a lot of time with, they go off on trips together leaving me and her kids at home. She finds the ideal place in the country and I pay cash for it.

    Gets another female friend who joins them for the trips, can you guess where this is going yet?

    We jog along like this for almost 10 years and I start to notice that we only have sex when she wants something.

    Then the fateful day comes. I'm at work and I get a call from a Sheriff's Deputy who I know asking me to meet me in the parking lot at work NOW. Thinking something bad has happened I go and meet him. He's got a temporary protection order from the wife, wanted to serve it personally. He told me that he'd read it, knew it was bullshit and there was nothing I could do. He arranged that he and a buddy would meet me near the house and escort me to collect my stuff after work he also warned my to check my bank accounts. I panicked big time, called the banks, accounts closed and a cashiers check taken from each bank.

    Shit, I was now homeless and broke. I went to collect my stuff later, Most of an SUV filled up with black plastic bags, my buddy the deputy asked about my guns so he could take them into custody as I was no longer allowed them, sold and gone that day. I found out later her girlfriend had moved in that day after I left for work.

    I slept in a Walmart parking lot that night. Next morning I went to the court house and filed for my own protection order and thankfully my family wired over sufficient money for a cheap hotel and money to live for 2 weeks until my next paycheck.

    Late the next week we had the court hearing, I was painted as the most evil abusive man going, I pointed out that the police had never been called for any domestic matters and that I was an inconvenient spouse and she lied to get rid of me and her girlfriend had moved in. Bottom line luckily, no per

    Then followed early the next week the protection order hearing, both dismissed and no maintenance for her pending the divorce and a warning to her from the judge about perjury. Her lawyer accused me of being homophobic because I wasn't happy about my wife screwing other women and the wife hadn't been unfaithful because she hadn't had sex with other men.

    Then the divorce, the savings were gone and to get rid of her and to start over again she got the house and land and I got to keep what I was standing up in thanks to a female judge who seemed to be worried that my wife wasn't working and had 2 kids to support but thankfully to maintenance and no child support.

    Last I heard, her girlfriend didn't like living in the country and she sold up and moved into town renting a place, they had a high old time on the money but the girlfriend found my exwife cheating on her and as the house was in the girlfriend's name my ex and the adult kids were homeless and almost broke.

    Awareness, looking back there were some real red pill moments. The sex life dying away after marriage, sex only if she wanted something - a reward for being a good boy. Road trips with her female friends, the sudden temporary protection order, the savings disappearing because of the joint bank accounts, the judge more worried about what my wife was going to live on despite her having ALL of the assets. I was playing online and I started to hear about a men's movement called MGTOW and the more I read the more everything became clear.

    That was a really expensive red pill experience.

    Who am I, now I'm a smarter man. If I want sex and it has to involve a woman I rent one, I don't have to worry about her enjoying it, for a change it's all about me. My collection of guns is growing nicely, I'm starting to do some gunsmithing, I do what I want in my own apartment, I go where I want and meet up with who I want. I'm planning for my own future and fuck any women who thinks she can edge her way in.

    I'm polite, courteous but restrained and distant to women I have to interact. No 1 on 1 meetings at work with them but always a male I trust as a witness.

    I hope that's enough about me.

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    Re: My Intro - Hereward

    Quote Originally Posted by hereward View Post
    Hello all, I'm Hereward, mid 50s and English.

    Relationship history - I guess a quick summary would be used to be a beta male but wised up.

    I always used to get along well with women, I guess because I used to go out of my way to please them. Never good looking, never wealthy, just working class. I had girlfriends when I was younger but nothing really serious, most ending up in the friend zone, just had to put up with losing them to slightly older, better looking guys with more to offer. I guess that's why most of my life I've never felt quite good enough which on the other hand helped by giving me the drive for a good career.

    Then the worst decision of my life, I thought it was time to find a wife and settle down. This was back in the late 90's and I went to love on AOL and put a profile on there. Chatted to a few women, a Russian with a kid who was plainly looking for a visa to the UK and a recently divorced American women with a couple of kids. I got on well with the American, we chatted on the phone, emailed a couple of times a day etc. In the end she invites me to visit for a week or so, fantastic time. Sex several times a day and she was up for anything in bed, her tubes were tied and she's been tested for STDs too.

    Having a fantastic job I was going over for a long weekend every 6 to 8 weeks, after about a year she starts to talk about marriage. I'm having fun, getting fucked every which way when we're together so I'm happy and I propose. BIG FUCKING MISTAKE.

    She wants to come and live in England, OK, we do the paperwork (paid for by me) I sell my flat and buy a house big enough for us all and her and the kids move over and we get married. Suddenly there's less sex and some of the things we did weren't on offer anymore.

    I start a new business with a partner and it's very successful and within a year we have 18 employees.

    After 2 years she and the kids were homesick and I'm told we're moving to the USA. Sell the business to our partner for a decent profit and he's made himself very, very wealthy since.

    Off to the USA and I put a 75% deposit down on a nice house, get a great job and we're doing well. Saving money for the big dream, land in the country.

    Meanwhile sex is less and less but she's discovered a few new kinks in bed. She's got a new female best friend she spends a lot of time with, they go off on trips together leaving me and her kids at home. She finds the ideal place in the country and I pay cash for it.

    Gets another female friend who joins them for the trips, can you guess where this is going yet?

    We jog along like this for almost 10 years and I start to notice that we only have sex when she wants something.

    Then the fateful day comes. I'm at work and I get a call from a Sheriff's Deputy who I know asking me to meet me in the parking lot at work NOW. Thinking something bad has happened I go and meet him. He's got a temporary protection order from the wife, wanted to serve it personally. He told me that he'd read it, knew it was bullshit and there was nothing I could do. He arranged that he and a buddy would meet me near the house and escort me to collect my stuff after work he also warned my to check my bank accounts. I panicked big time, called the banks, accounts closed and a cashiers check taken from each bank.

    Shit, I was now homeless and broke. I went to collect my stuff later, Most of an SUV filled up with black plastic bags, my buddy the deputy asked about my guns so he could take them into custody as I was no longer allowed them, sold and gone that day. I found out later her girlfriend had moved in that day after I left for work.

    I slept in a Walmart parking lot that night. Next morning I went to the court house and filed for my own protection order and thankfully my family wired over sufficient money for a cheap hotel and money to live for 2 weeks until my next paycheck.

    Late the next week we had the court hearing, I was painted as the most evil abusive man going, I pointed out that the police had never been called for any domestic matters and that I was an inconvenient spouse and she lied to get rid of me and her girlfriend had moved in. Bottom line luckily, no per

    Then followed early the next week the protection order hearing, both dismissed and no maintenance for her pending the divorce and a warning to her from the judge about perjury. Her lawyer accused me of being homophobic because I wasn't happy about my wife screwing other women and the wife hadn't been unfaithful because she hadn't had sex with other men.

    Then the divorce, the savings were gone and to get rid of her and to start over again she got the house and land and I got to keep what I was standing up in thanks to a female judge who seemed to be worried that my wife wasn't working and had 2 kids to support but thankfully to maintenance and no child support.

    Last I heard, her girlfriend didn't like living in the country and she sold up and moved into town renting a place, they had a high old time on the money but the girlfriend found my exwife cheating on her and as the house was in the girlfriend's name my ex and the adult kids were homeless and almost broke.

    Awareness, looking back there were some real red pill moments. The sex life dying away after marriage, sex only if she wanted something - a reward for being a good boy. Road trips with her female friends, the sudden temporary protection order, the savings disappearing because of the joint bank accounts, the judge more worried about what my wife was going to live on despite her having ALL of the assets. I was playing online and I started to hear about a men's movement called MGTOW and the more I read the more everything became clear.

    That was a really expensive red pill experience.

    Who am I, now I'm a smarter man. If I want sex and it has to involve a woman I rent one, I don't have to worry about her enjoying it, for a change it's all about me. My collection of guns is growing nicely, I'm starting to do some gunsmithing, I do what I want in my own apartment, I go where I want and meet up with who I want. I'm planning for my own future and fuck any women who thinks she can edge her way in.

    I'm polite, courteous but restrained and distant to women I have to interact. No 1 on 1 meetings at work with them but always a male I trust as a witness.

    I hope that's enough about me.
    Hi Hereward,

    Wow, your story is a horrid one.

    If I want sex and it has to involve a woman
    That made me laugh.

    Quite the Intro. I have removed you from moderation and you are now free to post on the site.

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    Re: My Intro - Hereward

    Thank you, Sir!

    Around the same time (mid 90's) I had a much different epiphany than you!

    Mine was to get the hell out of relationshits and all the mind blowing bullshit they have to offer!

    The whole while you were suffering, I was living like a playboy as I successfully jump-started my life!

    I was off and flying like a bird! LITERALLY! If it had wheels, tracks, skis, or wings, I was AIRBORN! Not many people have more than 4 seconds of AIRTIME and stick the landing! I even went to flight school AFTER I learned how to fly! No shit!

    I thank you for your affirmation that I made the RIGHT DECISION!

    Anyway, we welcome your battered ass to the club!
    It's 1939 allover again, and we're the ones being assigned gold stars!

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    A very interesting and heart-breaking story. Welcome to the forum sir, and I hope you can share your wisdom to help out other younger men like myself understand the manipulate nature of female and the morally corrupt choices they make that end up destroying men's lives.

    I wish you well for the future, and I hope you are spilling red pills whenever you can to help out you fellow men.

    I was not married, but was almost about to get married in my home, Saudi. The girl I was in "love" with told me that she wanted a family and that I was a "special" man.

    Problem is she was a "muslim" and we could only have sex after marriage. A few months into the relationships, I see that she is visiting my chiropractor friend, a tall Norwegian viking lookalike. Let's call him "Olaf".

    Long story short, all the time she was visiting Olaf, she was getting "adjusted" and not in the right way.
    A mother cannot raise a boy to be a man, not because he needs a father figure; but because she favours team vagina over her own son.

    Tradcon women are the most manipulative of all kinds of women, because they infect you with false hope.
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    The red pill rage is a process which takes many many years - so be kind and patient with yourself; you will overcome it!

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    Re: My Intro - Hereward

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    A very interesting and heart-breaking story. Welcome to the forum sir, and I hope you can share your wisdom to help out other younger men like myself understand the manipulate nature of female and the morally corrupt choices they make that end up destroying men's lives.

    I wish you well for the future, and I hope you are spilling red pills whenever you can to help out you fellow men.

    I was not married, but was almost about to get married in my home, Saudi. The girl I was in "love" with told me that she wanted a family and that I was a "special" man.

    Problem is she was a "muslim" and we could only have sex after marriage. A few months into the relationships, I see that she is visiting my chiropractor friend, a tall Norwegian viking lookalike. Let's call him "Olaf".

    Long story short, all the time she was visiting Olaf, she was getting "adjusted" and not in the right way.
    I'm sorry to hear you woman problems, then again, that's them all over. Double standards and double think that makes them liberated and oppressed at the same time.

    Being a good, decent man isn't enough for them anymore, they want money, status and the freedom to do whatever they want with no consequences.

    Best avoided

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    Re: My Intro - Hereward

    Quote Originally Posted by hereward View Post
    I'm sorry to hear you woman problems, then again, that's them all over. Double standards and double think that makes them liberated and oppressed at the same time.

    Being a good, decent man isn't enough for them anymore, they want money, status and the freedom to do whatever they want with no consequences.

    Best avoided
    Better yet, the freedom to do whatever they want with controlled consequences.

    Do they not have superior adjudicated decisions in their favor whenever challenging a man? Does the law not grant them superior rights over men on all issues including reproduction?

    Do they not enjoy special privileges that cocoon them in safety and tranquility while men are homeless, starving, wet, and freezing?

    They can't have entitlement and still demand equality, it has only lead to the wholesale slaughter of men, children, law, and society at large.

    A man's only purpose in this paradigm is to be a disposable airbag to absorb all the shock from this society impacting the wall of tyranny. Therefore I say sacrifice yourself or save yourself by offering and giving them the just fruits of their reward which is absolutely nothing, not even recognition as being something human, because they're not, they're void of all the virtues men possess and only seek to destroy them.
    It's 1939 allover again, and we're the ones being assigned gold stars!

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    Re: My Intro - Hereward

    Hi hereward,

    Seems you've been taken "'round the block" just like many of us here.

    Welcome.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    Hi hereward,

    Seems you've been taken "'round the block" just like many of us here.

    Welcome.
    Yea, taken round' the block, snagged on the transmission cross member!
    It's 1939 allover again, and we're the ones being assigned gold stars!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Yea, taken round' the block, snagged on the transmission cross member!
    Snagged yes, but at least the steering came true in the end.
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