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    My intro

    1. Relationship history (experience with women, red pills, what about it made you made you aware; note- you don't HAVE to have had relationships but you can speak of your interactions with women) -- it turns out trolls don't have good, realistic stories of this ilk.
    I dated this one girl in the Dominican Republic. We met in our teen years so we were somewhat close. I was planning on marrying her by the time i was 25 so i could bring her over to the US. And although we were in a long distance relationship i had high hopes that everything would work out (really blue pilled of me). I sent her money on various occassions. On one trip to the DR to go see her, i checked her phone to see if she was really loyal and of course, she was talking to like 4 dudes. Regardless i decided to ignore that for the sake of our future together (ridiculously blue pilled of me). After I stopped sending money she didnt answer my texts for about a month. Then i see that she posts on instagram that she has a new boyfriend. That was the end of that. After that i messed around with several girls. It never evolved into anything more than one night stands because i kept feeling like they wanted to control me or limit my freedom. Plus i'm not the type of person that can spend hours on the phone talking about meaningless garbage. Then i had another relationship that lasted about 5 months, which again, i was cheated on several times while i was ''trying to build a future for the both of us''. After that, just one night stands. I don't ever see myself in any kind of emotional relationship with a woman. They can act as reckless as they want and society will always have their back.

    2. Awareness
    : your previous blue pill perspectives, how you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.
    Getting married and having children is something i thought i wanted for a very long time. I thought that a woman was supposed to be there for you and support you through thick and thin. I actually thought that my partner was supposed to be my equal, meaning that i could rely on her if i needed to. Clearly not the case. I have friends that are in relationships and what i have observed is that the only way they make these relationships work is by compromising. And it's never on the womans end. I strongly believe in freedom and am not willing to limit myself for someone who is just going to do whatever she wants and get away with it. So i'd say i transitioned to red pill when i realized that i wasn't willing to compromise. I spent a lot of time alone because the people around me didn't share a lot of my perspectives, so i came across a video on youtube by Stardusk about the path of the lone wolf. That's how i became interested in MGTOW.

    3. Who you are
    : tell us a little bit of who you are. What you like, what you do, etc.
    I'm 24 years old. I love reading books and learning about human nature. I'm really into affirmations, neuro-linguistic programming and hypnosis. I like watching anime. I spend a lot of time by myself. I also work out on a regular basis, i was a personal trainer for a short period of time. I'm really chill to be honest. I don't like getting into other people's business like that. I just kinda do my own thing. I was working as a bartender before the pandemic took place. I love listening to slowed reverb music. And honestly i just came here to share with people like myself and learn from those that have more experience in this path of solitude.



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    Re: My intro

    Quote Originally Posted by Luthen View Post
    1. Relationship history (experience with women, red pills, what about it made you made you aware; note- you don't HAVE to have had relationships but you can speak of your interactions with women) -- it turns out trolls don't have good, realistic stories of this ilk.
    I dated this one girl in the Dominican Republic. We met in our teen years so we were somewhat close. I was planning on marrying her by the time i was 25 so i could bring her over to the US. And although we were in a long distance relationship i had high hopes that everything would work out (really blue pilled of me). I sent her money on various occassions. On one trip to the DR to go see her, i checked her phone to see if she was really loyal and of course, she was talking to like 4 dudes. Regardless i decided to ignore that for the sake of our future together (ridiculously blue pilled of me). After I stopped sending money she didnt answer my texts for about a month. Then i see that she posts on instagram that she has a new boyfriend. That was the end of that. After that i messed around with several girls. It never evolved into anything more than one night stands because i kept feeling like they wanted to control me or limit my freedom. Plus i'm not the type of person that can spend hours on the phone talking about meaningless garbage. Then i had another relationship that lasted about 5 months, which again, i was cheated on several times while i was ''trying to build a future for the both of us''. After that, just one night stands. I don't ever see myself in any kind of emotional relationship with a woman. They can act as reckless as they want and society will always have their back.

    2. Awareness
    : your previous blue pill perspectives, how you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.
    Getting married and having children is something i thought i wanted for a very long time. I thought that a woman was supposed to be there for you and support you through thick and thin. I actually thought that my partner was supposed to be my equal, meaning that i could rely on her if i needed to. Clearly not the case. I have friends that are in relationships and what i have observed is that the only way they make these relationships work is by compromising. And it's never on the womans end. I strongly believe in freedom and am not willing to limit myself for someone who is just going to do whatever she wants and get away with it. So i'd say i transitioned to red pill when i realized that i wasn't willing to compromise. I spent a lot of time alone because the people around me didn't share a lot of my perspectives, so i came across a video on youtube by Stardusk about the path of the lone wolf. That's how i became interested in MGTOW.

    3. Who you are
    : tell us a little bit of who you are. What you like, what you do, etc.
    I'm 24 years old. I love reading books and learning about human nature. I'm really into affirmations, neuro-linguistic programming and hypnosis. I like watching anime. I spend a lot of time by myself. I also work out on a regular basis, i was a personal trainer for a short period of time. I'm really chill to be honest. I don't like getting into other people's business like that. I just kinda do my own thing. I was working as a bartender before the pandemic took place. I love listening to slowed reverb music. And honestly i just came here to share with people like myself and learn from those that have more experience in this path of solitude.




    Hi Luthen,

    Thank you for noticing and following our How To Intro format. Makes things simpler.

    Regardless i decided to ignore that for the sake of our future together (ridiculously blue pilled of me).
    I laughed with recognition when I read that.

    the only way they make these relationships work is by compromising. And it's never on the womans end.
    Oh, yeah. I had a girlfriend who wanted me to accompany her somewhere when I did not want to. We argued about it and then she said, "Let's compromise" after which she proceeded to lay out her vision of that. Of course, it involved me caving in to accompanying her.

    I then itemized the 6 things she got out of her "compromise" to my 2 things. I told her a compromise would be more evenly divided and what she calls "compromise" I call "doing it her way". I think women have learned to label things a "compromise" as a technique.

    She liked how I stood up to her BS but I didn't like having to be on my guard like that. A relationship where she takes advantage of me unless I stop her.

    Anyway, I have moved you out of quarantine and you are free to post on the site. Before you do, read our Principles. You can click on that word on the top of this page, in the black bar.

    Other members may ask you questions in this Intro thread and that is normal, so return later to this thread and respond to them, should they appear.

    Welcome!
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    Re: My intro

    I then itemized the 6 things she got out of her "compromise" to my 2 things.
    Talk about equality.

    Thank you for allowing me to join! I'll be reading the Principles shortly.

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    Re: My intro

    Hi Luthen, I liked your intro since it reminded me of thigs I thought I'd forgotten which is why we like intros since whilst deep in blue-pill fog we gas-light ourselves and miss the red-flags and try to rationalise the toxicity and 'fix-it'.....its a lonesome chore, until we see an MGTOW dawn and all is demystified and laid bare.

    "Getting married and having children is something i thought i wanted for a very long time. I thought that a woman was supposed to be there for you and support you through thick and thin. I actually thought that my partner was supposed to be my equal, meaning that i could rely on her if i needed to. Clearly not the case."

    Yes, I still bless the day I realised that "Clearly not the case". Its a bit sad but liberating.

    "She liked how I stood up to her BS but I didn't like having to be on my guard like that."

    Yes drama-queens need drama. Fuck that. My own 'grande-finale' involved a bit of an experiment after witnessing the phenomenon several times from different sources. I told her straight-up to ditch the drama, sort her shit out and just be straight and honest. She couldn't/wouldn't...not coded into the programme I suppose.

    Welcome to the knowledge that you were never alone in your misgivings.
    Flow with whatever may happen and let your mind be free. Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate. Zhuangzi

    someone asked the poet Sophocles: "How are you in regard to sex, Sophocles? Can you still make love to a woman?" Hush man, the poet replied, I am very glad to have escaped from this, like a slave who has escaped from a mad and cruel master."

    Dont worry about me. Worry about why you're worried about me.

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    Welcome to the club Luthen
    See you on the forum.
    Stay frosty!
    "MGTOW is an extreme measure to an extreme situation"
    Quote Insidious Sid: "Some men are so MGTOW they're not even MGTOW".
    Quote Life is what you make of it "Marriage is the only war where you sleep with the enemy."

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    Welcome Luthen
    "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety." - Benjamin Franklin

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    Welcome Luthen. I hope you find the site useful and look forward to your posts.

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    Re: My intro

    welcome~


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