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    Hey Fellow Men, Iím New An Looking For Advice On Women

    Hey everyone, I’ve been “mgtow” for a little while now as far as going my own way in life goes before I learned about the mgtow movement a few days ago. A bit about myself, I’m currently 18 years an about to graduate from high school very shortly. My childhood An high school experience wasn’t the greatest, because of some of the issues that are discussed on these forums such as my parents post-divorce goes which I’m sure you all are very familiar with that situation an how it works with the state, families, and how it effects a child so I won’t drag on about that. I do have problems that I’m no longer going to be putting up with some people on my mothers side of the family once I graduate for a number of reasons, but not everyone on that side of my family an while I’m not a “mamas boy” I don’t have any problems with her an care for her very much nor do I have any issues with My father or his family.

    As far as my future plans after high school I plan on joining my father out west an starting over in life as an independent adult with my own job an my own apartment who doesn’t take anything from anyone. I am who I am, and I’m my fathers son regardless of what some people on my mother’s side of the family think. I’m at that age of being very much of a go getter, I want a better life for myself than my mother has chosen to take an I refuse to any longer put up with her mother who treats her like absolute dirt an expects to be treated as royalty every second of her miserable life. Some others on her side family have chosen to take the codependency route, an my mother is trying to get me to follow that path as well. I love her very much, but I’m going my own way thank you. Her mother has always hated my father an has done everything to make me feel the same way an it’s probably because he lives his own way to an would never put up with her even when my parents were still together. I could go on an on about her mother an what has led me to no longer want her on my life after I’m out of high school, but I’ll just say that she’s the type who says one thing to you while she does the exact same thing an also she’s the type to say nice things to your face an then the very next day insult you an throw whatever she can on you for no reason other than her mood an the cycle has continued for years now an while I don’t hate her an hope for the best no free man should put up that negative drama in his life even if they’re family, but that’s just me telling it how it is.


    I don’t hate my life or anything like that even though lately I’ve gotten a little down sometimes, but I’m not going to complain about my situation because that’s what a little girl does. Things may not be the worst for me, but they could be so much better an that’s what I’m determined to make happen because I hate self pity. Luckily my father has been very kind an supportive of me taking the path to independence, an I hope I’ll be able to spend more time with him out there on weekends an such. Once I get out there after getting a job an someplace to live, I really hope that I’ll be able to make some good an true masculine friends who I can spend time with an have lots of fun. As far as women goes, I really want a girlfriend although I’m completely out of shape an at the moment I don’t offer much to the table , awfully skinny an probably very unhealthy right now along with not really taking care of myself to well. I’ve made as many changes as I can during this isolation as far as taking care of myself better, but some will have to wait till I’m on my own like going to the gym an such.


    One of the things I was hoping to learn on this forum is advice on women. I’ve never had a girlfriend, not because I was rejected but because I didn’t want one until I was an adult. While my own parents marriage didn’t work, my dad’s parents have had an ideal marriage over the past 58 years an they are the happiest people I’ve ever met in my entire life an I really hope I’ll be able to find a special someone to spend the rest of my life with me an truly love each other through thick an thin. I’m not interested in any of these “one night stands” or being a “player” or anything like that an there’s no way I’m dealing with any kind of feminist hippie or girls with their “depression” an “anxiety” or any of that crap, because that’s what it is, crap along with any kind of “whore” or “slut” being completely out of the question for any space in my social circle. All I want is an honest born again Christian girl, whos very cute an always embraces her feminine side an is kind an nurturing to everyone around an loved by all . I also would like a pure girl who hasn’t had any form of sexual relations in her relationships, as I refuse to against the Bible in regards of premarital sexual relations an haven’t had any sexual relations myself because I’m not going against my beliefs for some pleasure that could ruin my entire life through pregnancy an go against my God. Let me make it clear, I’m no better than anyone else an I’m very far from perfect but I try my very best to uphold God’s rules in my own life the best I can so I don’t want to give anyone the impression that I’m one of those “perfect” people who go to church on Sunday an never does anything wrong yet during the week they’re cheating on their wives, because that isn’t the case an people who try to tell you they are are lost themselves. Back to what I was saying, I only want a girlfriend who’s ok with me being the dominant authority in the household an someone who wouldn’t have any problem being a stay at home mom homeschooling our son, because public schools as y’all know are corrupting kids with their new age agenda an I want to raise Jr right an guide him the best way I can. As expected with her being a stay at home mom, I want a girl whose ok with cleaning the house an is good at cooking an having dinner ready when I get home from work. Of course I’ll listen to what she has to say, an be respectful to her although in the end I want the final say that an she’ll to be able to drop it if I say no an not start any funny business, I don’t want you guys to think when I say “dominant authority” that I mean abusing her in anyway, because even though I’ll be the boss an I may have to raise my voice sometimes I never will hurt her physically or mentally an I mean that. Not to sound to picky, but I also want a girl have any tattoos or some weird hair dye color like pink or blue , an no piercings other than earrings. While this isn’t a requirement, It would mean a lot to me if she comes from a good family an I don’t mean rich (that’s a plus though) ,but one that’s close together an loves an appreciates each other that I could be apart of without having the issues my parents faced with the others family, so my son could grow up in a happy family thats completely together rather than the fragmented one I’ve grown up in. Ill be 19 in August an my goal is to find this girl an marry her by 21 an have our son together within a year of marriage. I want a girl that’ll be my wife till the end, an a girl that always brightens my day an someone who I can laugh with an be honest with each other without ever having to worry that she’s unfaithful. I want true love in my relationship like my Dad’s parents have had all these years , do these types of girls still exist? Are their any out there who you could think of that would meet my description? How could I get a girl like this in an entirely new place to me? I could on more about the girl I’d like, but I feel like this gives a good picture of my situation In life an the type of girl I’m looking for. If you have any questions I’ll be glad to answer, an please don’t sugarcoat things just tell the truth an cut the extra stuff cause I’m man enough to handle it. Thanks for reading fellow men, I’m looking forward to getting to know you guys in this forum an guide people when I can an allow others to offer their thoughts an advice.
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    Re: Hey Fellow Men, Iím New An Looking For Advice On Women

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    Hey everyone, Iíve been ďmgtowĒ for a little while now as far as going my own way in life goes before I learned about the mgtow movement a few days ago. A bit about myself, Iím currently 18 years an about to graduate from high school very shortly. My childhood An high school experience wasnít the greatest, because of some of the issues that are discussed on these forums such as my parents post-divorce goes which Iím sure you all are very familiar with that situation an how it works with the state, families, and how it effects a child so I wonít drag on about that. I do have problems that Iím no longer going to be putting up with some people on my mothers side of the family once I graduate for a number of reasons, but not everyone on that side of my family an while Iím not a ďmamas boyĒ I donít have any problems with her an care for her very much nor do I have any issues with My father or his family.

    As far as my future plans after high school I plan on joining my father out west an starting over in life as an independent adult with my own job an my own apartment who doesnít take anything from anyone. I am who I am, and Iím my fathers son regardless of what some people on my motherís side of the family think. Iím at that age of being very much of a go getter, I want a better life for myself than my mother has chosen to take an I refuse to any longer put up with her mother who treats her like absolute dirt an expects to be treated as royalty every second of her miserable life. Some others on her side family have chosen to take the codependency route, an my mother is trying to get me to follow that path as well. I love her very much, but Iím going my own way thank you. Her mother has always hated my father an has done everything to make me feel the same way an itís probably because he lives his own way to an would never put up with her even when my parents were still together. I could go on an on about her mother an what has led me to no longer want her on my life after Iím out of high school, but Iíll just say that sheís the type who says one thing to you while she does the exact same thing an also sheís the type to say nice things to your face an then the very next day insult you an throw whatever she can on you for no reason other than her mood an the cycle has continued for years now an while I donít hate her an hope for the best no free man should put up that negative drama in his life even if theyíre family, but thatís just me telling it how it is.


    I donít hate my life or anything like that even though lately Iíve gotten a little down sometimes, but Iím not going to complain about my situation because thatís what a little girl does. Things may not be the worst for me, but they could be so much better an thatís what Iím determined to make happen because I hate self pity. Luckily my father has been very kind an supportive of me taking the path to independence, an I hope Iíll be able to spend more time with him out there on weekends an such. Once I get out there after getting a job an someplace to live, I really hope that Iíll be able to make some good an true masculine friends who I can spend time with an have lots of fun. As far as women goes, I really want a girlfriend although Iím completely out of shape an at the moment I donít offer much to the table , awfully skinny an probably very unhealthy right now along with not really taking care of myself to well. Iíve made as many changes as I can during this isolation as far as taking care of myself better, but some will have to wait till Iím on my own like going to the gym an such.


    One of the things I was hoping to learn on this forum is advice on women. Iíve never had a girlfriend, not because I was rejected but because I didnít want one until I was an adult. While my own parents marriage didnít work, my dadís parents have had an ideal marriage over the past 58 years an they are the happiest people Iíve ever met in my entire life an I really hope Iíll be able to find a special someone to spend the rest of my life with me an truly love each other through thick an thin. Iím not interested in any of these ďone night standsĒ or being a ďplayerĒ or anything like that an thereís no way Iím dealing with any kind of feminist hippie or girls with their ďdepressionĒ an ďanxietyĒ or any of that crap, because thatís what it is, crap along with any kind of ďwhoreĒ or ďslutĒ being completely out of the question for any space in my social circle. All I want is an honest born again Christian girl, whos very cute an always embraces her feminine side an is kind an nurturing to everyone around an loved by all . I also would like a pure girl who hasnít had any form of sexual relations in her relationships, as I refuse to against the Bible in regards of premarital sexual relations an havenít had any sexual relations myself because Iím not going against my beliefs for some pleasure that could ruin my entire life through pregnancy an go against my God. Let me make it clear, Iím no better than anyone else an Iím very far from perfect but I try my very best to uphold Godís rules in my own life the best I can so I donít want to give anyone the impression that Iím one of those ďperfectĒ people who go to church on Sunday an never does anything wrong yet during the week theyíre cheating on their wives, because that isnít the case an people who try to tell you they are are lost themselves. Back to what I was saying, I only want a girlfriend whoís ok with me being the dominant authority in the household an someone who wouldnít have any problem being a stay at home mom homeschooling our son, because public schools as yíall know are corrupting kids with their new age agenda an I want to raise Jr right an guide him the best way I can. As expected with her being a stay at home mom, I want a girl whose ok with cleaning the house an is good at cooking an having dinner ready when I get home from work. Of course Iíll listen to what she has to say, an be respectful to her although in the end I want the final say that an sheíll to be able to drop it if I say no an not start any funny business, I donít want you guys to think when I say ďdominant authorityĒ that I mean abusing her in anyway, because even though Iíll be the boss an I may have to raise my voice sometimes I never will hurt her physically or mentally an I mean that. Not to sound to picky, but I also want a girl have any tattoos or some weird hair dye color like pink or blue , an no piercings other than earrings. While this isnít a requirement, It would mean a lot to me if she comes from a good family an I donít mean rich (thatís a plus though) ,but one thatís close together an loves an appreciates each other that I could be apart of without having the issues my parents faced with the others family, so my son could grow up in a happy family thats completely together rather than the fragmented one Iíve grown up in. Ill be 19 in August an my goal is to find this girl an marry her by 21 an have our son together within a year of marriage. I want a girl thatíll be my wife till the end, an a girl that always brightens my day an someone who I can laugh with an be honest with each other without ever having to worry that sheís unfaithful. I want true love in my relationship like my Dadís parents have had all these years , do these types of girls still exist? Are their any out there who you could think of that would meet my description? How could I get a girl like this in an entirely new place to me? I could on more about the girl Iíd like, but I feel like this gives a good picture of my situation In life an the type of girl Iím looking for. If you have any questions Iíll be glad to answer, an please donít sugarcoat things just tell the truth an cut the extra stuff cause Iím man enough to handle it. Thanks for reading fellow men, Iím looking forward to getting to know you guys in this forum an guide people when I can an allow others to offer their thoughts an advice.

    Then, a PM:

    I posted a new thread on the introduction, but the site wont show it on the introduction page on the forum an also it wonít let me reply to anything or go to my profile saying itís blocked. I messaged you since it looked like your were the most active admin on this site.

    Thanks for reading, please get back to me on this when you can.
    Hi,

    I read your Intro. You indicate that you first heard about MGTOW a few days ago and that you want a girlfriend and seek our advice on that.

    Here's what you need to know about MGTOW:

    We are men who have swallowed the red pill. This means we do not want a girlfriend, or wife, or any emotional relationship with a woman. Our motto is:

    Do not marry. Do not cohabitate. Do not impregnate.

    By seeking our advice, this is like if you had gone to an AA meeting and asked their members what is the alcohol they recommend!

    So, I think you have misunderstood MGTOW. Again, you heard about it only a few days ago. Let my reply help you understand what your other reading about MGTOW has not.

    Iíve been ďmgtowĒ for a little while now
    You are not MGTOW. You are blue pill, to give you a term. Registered membership on this site is only for red pill men. As you may know, you can continue to read about MGTOW on this site as a non-member.

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    Re: Hey Fellow Men, Iím New An Looking For Advice On Women

    OP has been banned, but it might be worth replying:

    All I want is an honest born again Christian girl, whos very cute an always embraces her feminine side an is kind an nurturing to everyone around an loved by all . I also would like a pure girl who hasn’t had any form of sexual relations in her relationships,
    Aka: a unicorn. Forget it. Cute girls get hit on all the time, by men who are very good at hitting on girls, and eventually they take the bait. Every cute girl by the age of 19 has had far, far more sex than most men will have in their lives.

    There are exceptions, there are christian girls who are saving themselves for marriage. But they aren't interested in marrying you. They intend to marry a pastor. A tall one. I knew of one such. Actually did keep herself pure, actually did marry a tall, good-looking, personable dude on the pastoral track. She divorced him a few years later when he lost his church because of financial mismanagement.

    All. Women. Are like that.

    All of 'em.

    This girl was as sweet and nuturing and naively christian as you could possibly imagine. She was the kind of girl that you are dreaming of. She's remarried (and is therefore going to hell for adultery, Mt 5:32) to a nice christian dude with money (who is also going to hell for adultery).

    Incidentally, she's gotten hotter as she's grown older. Keeps herself in shape, because she's a focussed, disciplined person. Eldest child. Like I said: not the slightest bit interested in marrying some dude. A girl like that wants a leader and can get one. Are you being hunted and pursued by every damn girl in church? Are they all coming on to you, trying to trap you in compromising situations, trying to get pregnant by you? No? Well, you aren't the guy that a girl like your church unicorn is aiming at. Sorry, kid. You are not even in contention.

    Anyway. The only thing that ever kept them loyal was laws and society, the threat of being poor and without a man to provide, and those forces are no longer in place. They are all sluts, especially church girls. Any church girl who dates a nonchristian does so for one reason: the christian boys (like you) won't fuck her. And they all date nonchristians, because the christian boys are such wimps. They learn it from society, they learn it from their friends, and they learn it from their divorced mothers.

    If you want to honour God and all that, which I heartily recommend against, be a monk.

    And if you want replies when you join a new forum, try not to dump a wall of text down.

    Good luck, kid. You'll need it, because I know you won't take my advice.

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    Re: Hey Fellow Men, Iím New An Looking For Advice On Women

    I’ve been “mgtow” for a little while now as far as going my own way in life goes
    I love her very much, but I’m going my own way thank you.
    As he is just about to graduate from high school into the big world, he may have confused our "Going Our Own Way" with what we all know as "heading out on your own". Because he certainly did not understand this site and MGTOW. His Intro was blue pill deluxe. I know what he wants but he'd have to travel back in time to get it.

    He's not going his own way. He's going his grandfather's way, he said. Well, his grandfather had a different dating pool than today. Maybe he should ask his grandfather what he thinks of today's women and marriage. I think he has a marginally better chance looking in church as secular girls don't answer to Christianity. They have their girlfriends and the culture to tell them what to do.
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    Re: Hey Fellow Men, Iím New An Looking For Advice On Women

    When I was in my early 20s, I also fell in love with a religious girl from Saudi. She was a muslim, so I was I (at the time). She was serious about marriage, and I thought she was one of those girls who would be 'caring/loving'. Boy, I was wrong. After a few months of dating, I found out she had sex with one of my closest friends; who was a very tall Scandinavian Viking lookalike.

    She had been fucking with him on a weekly basis, and she was loving it! She eventually sent me a text message saying she cannot 'continue with this relationship any longer' I thought I did something wrong; it turns out, from what her friends told me back in Saudi, that I wasn't ''tall enough for her''.

    Young man, try staying away from women; however good they may seem. Try doing that for a few years, while brushing up on your knowledge on how men are being oppressed in the world. Then, if you still want marriage; you can reconsider it then.

    For now though, as Unboxxed suggests, please consider consuming the material on this site (it has saved some men's lives) and read up on MGTOW. We do not recommend it; but at least in this way, you can reconsider relationships and marriage at a later stage in life; if that is really really what you want.
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