Thread: Good to find you!

I have a story just like you all of things not working out with women and i just couldn’t work out why, but i am optimistic and resourceful and that has lead me here.

After a break up with my last long term girlfriend (i even got engaged so a lucky escape for team me). I have spent my time doing what the hell i like and loving it. I surf a lot, do crossfit, go on fishing trips, drink beer when the mood takes me and have started my own business as i have the time and the resources to do so.

I hadn’t even heard of MGTOW until a few weeks ago but this how i got here.

I had started as most men do after a certain time has passed from breaking up to think about dating again. This time i wanted to be prepared so i started looking on the internet about how women think but found the usual bs. I was no where nearer to understanding them as i thought understanding them would help me have a satisfying relationship.

On my way i came across the book called the manipulated man by Ester Vllar and i couldn’t take in what she was saying, it could not be real. Then i read The myth of male power by dr Warren Farrell and i learned about male disposability and how the feminist movement had gotten women preferential treatment in the courts and everything i thought about equality had been shattered. (all i wanted was for men and women to be equal)

Then on a forum i was reading i saw this MGTOW. I googled it and found this site.

Now after going through your videos and articles i have been learning about hypergamy and the way that women work and i have been through all my past relationships with x ray specks on, it’s like i can see for the first time. It all makes sense now.

When i was younger i used to drink and party a lot and i did alright with the ladies because i had a bit of a crazy image. Then as i got older i calmed down and i met a woman who had a young son. ( i became the provider) I admit she was good looking and the sex was good but she was also a complete hypocrite and very controlling.

We were together for 8 years is it a coincidence that she ended it when i had a period of unemployment? but in reality she did me a favor as i am now free.

I like the idea of Men Going Their Own Way and i will be going mine. This for me means putting myself first. If i meet a women then at least i know that she is looking to only benefit her and forearmed is forewarned as they say.

Hey maybe it will even work in my favor now. I’m 39 in good shape with a growing business so i know what i have to offer and i know what women are willing to do to get their hands on it. I just will be doing it on my own terms, no marriage, no living together and if they don’t like me spending time doing what i like then there is the door.

I have found my way. Thanks MGTOW for the help, guidance and inspiration.

Fellow members, this gentleman posted his nice Intro before I could provide him my usual message to direct him to the How To Intro sticky in this sub-forum but he seems to have covered the bases anyway. He has indicated that he had reviewed our site before joining. Do you have any questions for this new registrant?

it’s like i can see for the first time. It all makes sense now.

I don't think you see the danger in thinking somehow you'll control women for now on with your restrictions, you could hit the lucky casino of bat-shit-crazy and have her work her legal #MEETOOmagic on you! Every damn one of them has the potential become a land mine, it's only a question of when, not who, or if...

(((BOOM)))

Originally Posted by Unboxxed

Fellow members, this gentleman posted his nice Intro before I could provide him my usual message to direct him to the How To Intro sticky in this sub-forum but he seems to have covered the bases anyway. He has indicated that he had reviewed our site before joining. Do you have any questions for this new registrant?

No sir.... that is about how it went for me; was researching elsewhere and stumbled upon the term, them wallah I became aware. Just wish it happened many many years earlier.

Welcome puffinstuff

Originally Posted by mgtower

I don't think you see the danger in thinking somehow you'll control women for now on with your restrictions, you could hit the lucky casino of bat-shit-crazy and have her work her legal #MEETOOmagic on you! Every damn one of them has the potential become a land mine, it's only a question of when, not who, or if...

(((BOOM)))

Ahhhh mgtower dude we meet again LMFAO. We destroyed you on mgtow and about to doxx the main posters on TIM.
YU cant stay here either. dont undetstimate the lengths we'll go to stop you.
and since previous warnings failed you can expect to be taking a dirt nap real soon. we know your place of residence,,,,you wont see it coming LMFAO.

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Now after going through your videos and articles i have been learning about hypergamy and the way that women work and i have been through all my past relationships with x ray specks on, it’s like i can see for the first time. It all makes sense now.
...
We were together for 8 years is it a coincidence that she ended it when i had a period of unemployment? but in reality she did me a favor as i am now free.

I like the idea of Men Going Their Own Way and i will be going mine. This for me means putting myself first. If i meet a women then at least i know that she is looking to only benefit her and forearmed is forewarned as they say.

Hey maybe it will even work in my favor now. I’m 39 in good shape with a growing business so i know what i have to offer and i know what women are willing to do to get their hands on it. I just will be doing it on my own terms, no marriage, no living together and if they don’t like me spending time doing what i like then there is the door.

I have found my way. Thanks MGTOW for the help, guidance and inspiration.

Finding any sort of long term relationship, even under the circumstances you describe, without her manipulating you, your time & your resources is impossible, they are masters at it by your age. Even if you think you have found someone who 'wouldn't do that' you have no way of knowing what they will be like a week, a month, a year from now. Tower is right, they are all potential landmines.

It seems you still want a woman in your life to some extent, fair enough who am I to say otherwise, but it does seem to contradict the statement you make about feeling free after the last relationship. How do you reconcile this seeming conflict? You escape one prison and immediately want to find another, if less restrictive prison? Maybe something like an open prison where you are free to come and go as you please so long as you put in the time eventually? I'm not being facetious I'm just curious as to how you see it working.

Keep those x-ray specks on in all dealings with women not just potential mates. You'll quickly realise that none of them are worth your time and effort.

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Ahhhh mgtower dude we meet again LMFAO. We destroyed you on mgtow and about to doxx the main posters on TIM.

Are you serious or kidding? Please read our site Principles. The link is at the top of the page.

No carryover of drama from other websites. Just want to be clear.

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Ahhhh mgtower dude we meet again LMFAO. We destroyed you on mgtow and about to doxx the main posters on TIM.
YU cant stay here either. dont undetstimate the lengths we'll go to stop you.
and since previous warnings failed you can expect to be taking a dirt nap real soon. we know your place of residence,,,,you wont see it coming LMFAO.

This post didn't appear until after I'd made my post, otherwise I wouldn't have bothered. Seems to conflict with this statement from the O.P.

I hadn’t even heard of MGTOW until a few weeks ago but this how i got here.

WTF?

Why do I have a really funny feeling about this?

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Ahhhh mgtower dude we meet again LMFAO. We destroyed you on mgtow and about to doxx the main posters on TIM.
YU cant stay here either. dont undetstimate the lengths we'll go to stop you.
and since previous warnings failed you can expect to be taking a dirt nap real soon. we know your place of residence,,,,you wont see it coming LMFAO.

I wish I had a penny for every coward on the internet that hides behind a keyboard. Coming here, to my residence, is not wise. No lawyer, judge, or police officer can help you, one could easily vanish without a trace.
Fear and intimidation doesn't work on me, because I'm not afraid, you however, should be.

P.S. I don't need any "we'll", I'm fine on my own dealing with angry cock toting feminists like yourself, however, bring your body armor if you want to come play in the woods with "us". You know where I live, com'n'get some sociopath retribution, I promise I won't feel a thing. You however, may...

P.S. v.2.0

I have all the information on TIM Inc. you desire, names, phone#s, and addresses, come'n'get it!

Originally Posted by mgtower

I wish I had a penny for every coward on the internet that hides behind a keyboard. Coming here, to my residence, is not wise. No lawyer, judge, or police officer can help you, one could easily vanish without a trace.
Fear and intimidation doesn't work on me, because I'm not afraid, you however, should be.

P.S. I don't need any "we'll", I'm fine on my own dealing with angry cock toting feminists like yourself, however, bring your body armor if you want to come play in the woods with "us". You know where I live, com'n'get some sociopath retribution, I promise I won't feel a thing. You however, may...

P.S. v.2.0

I have all the information on TIM Inc. you desire, names, phone#s, and addresses, come'n'get it!

Save it tower,,,your antics on my forum shall not go unpunished its only a matter of time. Am not renewing mgtow.com so give me time to come after you losers.
You Sir will pay the highest price.

You cant be a rookie if you know Tower and are familiar with the other sites. We don't like liars puffinstuff.

Originally Posted by frog

You cant be a rookie if you know Tower and are familiar with the other sites. We don't like liars puffinstuff.

I hope they do attack TIM, those guys have powerful wordpress extensions to track visitors down and know where they are, who they are, their digital fingerprints, TIM will have the authorities knocking on their door, it's not nice to fuck around with MGTOW, you never know who we are! Must suck trying to penetrate an alleged organization like MGTOW, especially considering a brother doesn't turn on a brother and honors his word and trust.

This piece of shit can suck dick and pound sand, just another admirer from my fan club that can't stop her pussy farts every time I speak the TRUTH.

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Ahhhh mgtower dude we meet again LMFAO. We destroyed you on mgtow and about to doxx the main posters on TIM.
YU cant stay here either. dont undetstimate the lengths we'll go to stop you.
and since previous warnings failed you can expect to be taking a dirt nap real soon. we know your place of residence,,,,you wont see it coming LMFAO.

Yo payphone, get this fucker outta here.

Originally Posted by Resdayn

Yo payphone, get this fucker outta here.

I second that.

Goes without say.

Tower is the criminal here and a troll who has you all fooled. He has a system of various trolls and sock puppets he uses to derail forum threads.

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Ahhhh mgtower dude we meet again LMFAO. We destroyed you on mgtow and about to doxx the main posters on TIM.
YU cant stay here either. dont undetstimate the lengths we'll go to stop you.
and since previous warnings failed you can expect to be taking a dirt nap real soon. we know your place of residence,,,,you wont see it coming LMFAO.

So your just another rookie eh?

I'm no expert, but anyone who claims their going to take down the TIM guys, well their talking out their ass. Late one night that keymaster dude started calling them names. Both he, and my warning message were gone in five minutes flat. If you weren't logged on in the middle of the night, you'd a never known he was there. They must have a dozen guys with mod powers, cause somebody appears to be watching all the time.

My internets exceptionally slow, and it makes visiting the TIM guys a pain, but I like them and wish them success.

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Save it tower,,,your antics on my forum shall not go unpunished its only a matter of time. Am not renewing mgtow.com so give me time to come after you losers.
You Sir will pay the highest price.

Can't be talking down fellow members here. You wrote a false Intro. You ignored the moderator. You bring drama and enmity from another mgtow website.

All of these things are toxic here. All of these things got you banned.

Originally Posted by puffinstuff

Tower is the criminal here and a troll who has you all fooled. He has a system of various trolls and sock puppets he uses to derail forum threads.

Not guilty on all accounts, except the criminal part, but even then, I'm a State sanctioned lawful criminal in property, person, tangible goods, and in deed!