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    Cool Gidday GYOW

    Gidday

    I'm a 52yr old Kiwi who discovered TRP about a year ago (Rollo, MGTOW, Coach Greg Adams, Popp, CRP, Von Maxwell etc)
    I discovered this site through MGTOW on Reddit, of which I find to be good value and support.

    1. Relationship history - (experience with women)

    I am currently looking at exiting a nearly 20 year LTR. This desire came about through something I do every year - an 'end of year review'.
    When I look at the growth I have achieved over the last year or 2, I wanted to have the confidence that whoever I was with was doing the same.
    When I look at what I want to achieve in the next 2-5 years, I wanted to have confidence that they too, were as keen to achieve the goals as I was - in BOTH cases, I simply don't. (hence my strong desire to be a bachelor)
    It really, really bothered me that the potential money I stand to generate in the next year or 2 could be lost in this current setup.

    '92-2000 LTR #1, 2 home birth sons. Relationship died a slow death (largely from a dead bedroom and a demanding wahman).
    2001-now LTR #2 Solo Mother, previously married (**yes, I know...) Another month will see the milestone of 700 days with no P-sleeve! - and yes, I am counting.

    I've never been married and never will. I delivered all of my kids too. LTR#2 produced a daughter whom I Home School by myself. Mum has zero interest and has never sat in on any of my lessons. This has been well-noted by daughter, with the effects becoming more and more pronounced as time goes on. Her relationship with her Mum is not close at all, yet I have a very open and honest one with her.
    A typical day for LTR#2 is wake up about 10, put washing on, do dishes then YouTube for the remainder of the day. Headphones on has completely destroyed communication. Tea around 6pm, then YT til about 1am EVERY DAY. Such fun, not.

    Apart from domestic stuff, LTR#2 brings zero to the table. Her self-imposed drought will be the death of us, but mainly with her lack of gratitude. I keep an extensive journal on OneNote (password protected) and can clearly see the patterns of the last year or 2.
    My decision to leave is already made, I just have to work out HOW that is going to work - access etc (she doesn't drive)...
    It is a big decision and I want to have all my bases covered before I pull the plug - simply because I will take over custody (daughter has clearly said to me she will NOT live with her).
    I am finding great support on Reddit (even though I haven't posted yet). 2021 is going to me my year brothers!

    Red pills

    Discovering TRP has been liberating process. I am learning to realise that a lot of stuff has been stacked against me (as a sole provider) for 20 years and I have now had enough. It's just not worth it. I want success for myself and MY family, not just providing for hers all the time. I have now learned that you should NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER!!! Well into the 7 figures of cumulative solo income and nothing to show for it, so I am going to change it by going my own way. Enough!!!
    The 'happy wife, happy life' crap is just BS. What about what I want? Most of the MGTOW content I watch has me nodding and going 'why the hell didn't I know about this sooner?' - especially the single mother thing.
    There were so many other things which happened, which I only know now as red flags. I just wish I had known then. Thank God for the MGTOW community and finding the truth.

    What about it made you aware
    For me, it was the realisation of the Truth. The discovery of hypergamy, the using of sex as a weapon or reward, and the general dynamics of wahmenism in general. More on this to come in the 'Transition' section.

    2. Awareness
    : Your previous blue pill perspectives

    I used to believe in being 'in love' and the Disney fairy-tale ending. Run around serving the wahmen and all would be well.
    Being a 'nice bloke' was ingrained in me. Opening doors, giving up a seat, all of it...
    My mindset was 'be the best you can be and you will attract 'the best woman' - ie: like attracts like... Not so.
    I used to dream of a gorgeous wife, with a great sex life and happy home. Pfffft!

    How you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.

    The end of year reviews started me questioning things from a real perspective. One of the catalysts was watching Paul Proteus's video on change. Prochaska and Diclemete 6 stages of change was so insightful (on YT search "Stages of change, Freedom from freedom to").
    This was incredible stuff and recommend a search if you're unfamiliar. I made my own chart of what I wanted (Freedom To) and another next to it (Freedom From). This pretty much put my life into a completely new perspective. I could now see what was actually happening.

    It was in the comments section that someone mentioned MGTOW. A quick DuckDuck search and Sandman was the first, then Popp (who is just the best), Sharpe, Think before you sleep, BB (Joker) and a whole lot more followed.

    My disgust at the unfair treatment of men due to the onslaught of Feminism also fuelled my desire - along with the desire to protect my future business interests from getting obliterated. This was taught to me by the likes of Paul Elam, Janice and Tom, and to a degree huMAN, Coach Red Pill and SydneyMGTOW. Men's rights had never really been prominent until I discovered the truth.

    Protecting my future interests has been one of the main driving factors which bought me to MGTOW. If someone won't help whip the cream, then they won't get to partake in eating it.

    3. Who you are:

    I am a Libran with a passion for business. 2019 I completed a Diploma in Business (Leadership & Mgmt) and 2020 I discovered Entrepreneurs Institute and GeniusU where I have made significant progress in launching one of my own, within the next 6 weeks all going well. Roger James Hamilton does incredible work which is setting me up to transform MY life.

    I have 20+ years experience in Radio, along with 8 in Security. The last 2-3 have been spent recovering from major heart surgery (crap valve from birth).

    What you like

    I love great easy listening music, through a quality system, bass that moves you. I love business development and creating things from ideas. I love working with intelligent people, and finding solutions to common business problems.
    I enjoy research projects - the latest was mastering how to build websites. My goals this year are to launch my global digital businesses, go gliding and become a single bachelor. I am also planning on buying my 1st home after I buy some acreage towards the end of the year. This will be for my daughter and myself from 'non-relationship money' coming due after I separate.

    What you do

    On top of my business developments/launch, I Home School my 14yr teen daughter (who I will have custody of shortly).
    My typical day is having fun in Home School, then into by business learnings til tea (currently Don Millar from StoryBrand). After tea is 'my time' - MGTOW learnings from YT, Bitchute, Reddit and TRP websites.

    What do I want to achieve from being here?

    More awareness of living a red pill life.
    Fellowship with other men who have been through similar stuff.
    Learn how to incorporate Red Pill into my business affairs - all male staff and no BS
    The freedom to learn MGTOW without the stupid censorship of mainstream providers (YT, FB Twit etc)
    Offer my support and ideas to others great men.

    I hope this intro is to a decent level. There are many more things I could have shared, but I want to leave the more pretty sensitive 'eye-opening' things alone until I get immersed into the culture of the group, and build more ongoing mutual trust.

    If you want to know more, please reach out through PM. I'm more than happy to be open to share.

    Cheers, Kiwi Andy

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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Quote Originally Posted by Kiwihandyandy View Post
    Gidday

    I'm a 52yr old Kiwi who discovered TRP about a year ago (Rollo, MGTOW, Coach Greg Adams, Popp, CRP, Von Maxwell etc)
    I discovered this site through MGTOW on Reddit, of which I find to be good value and support.

    1. Relationship history - (experience with women)

    I am currently looking at exiting a nearly 20 year LTR. This desire came about through something I do every year - an 'end of year review'.
    When I look at the growth I have achieved over the last year or 2, I wanted to have the confidence that whoever I was with was doing the same.
    When I look at what I want to achieve in the next 2-5 years, I wanted to have confidence that they too, were as keen to achieve the goals as I was - in BOTH cases, I simply don't. (hence my strong desire to be a bachelor)
    It really, really bothered me that the potential money I stand to generate in the next year or 2 could be lost in this current setup.

    '92-2000 LTR #1, 2 home birth sons. Relationship died a slow death (largely from a dead bedroom and a demanding wahman).
    2001-now LTR #2 Solo Mother, previously married (**yes, I know...) Another month will see the milestone of 700 days with no P-sleeve! - and yes, I am counting.

    I've never been married and never will. I delivered all of my kids too. LTR#2 produced a daughter whom I Home School by myself. Mum has zero interest and has never sat in on any of my lessons. This has been well-noted by daughter, with the effects becoming more and more pronounced as time goes on. Her relationship with her Mum is not close at all, yet I have a very open and honest one with her.
    A typical day for LTR#2 is wake up about 10, put washing on, do dishes then YouTube for the remainder of the day. Headphones on has completely destroyed communication. Tea around 6pm, then YT til about 1am EVERY DAY. Such fun, not.

    Apart from domestic stuff, LTR#2 brings zero to the table. Her self-imposed drought will be the death of us, but mainly with her lack of gratitude. I keep an extensive journal on OneNote (password protected) and can clearly see the patterns of the last year or 2.
    My decision to leave is already made, I just have to work out HOW that is going to work - access etc (she doesn't drive)...
    It is a big decision and I want to have all my bases covered before I pull the plug - simply because I will take over custody (daughter has clearly said to me she will NOT live with her).
    I am finding great support on Reddit (even though I haven't posted yet). 2021 is going to be my year brothers!

    Red pills

    Discovering TRP has been liberating process. I am learning to realise that a lot of stuff has been stacked against me (as a sole provider) for 20 years and I have now had enough. It's just not worth it. I want success for myself and MY family, not just providing for hers all the time. I have now learned that you should NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER!!! Well into the 7 figures of cumulative solo income and nothing to show for it, so I am going to change it by going my own way. Enough!!!
    The 'happy wife, happy life' crap is just BS. What about what I want? Most of the MGTOW content I watch has me nodding and going 'why the hell didn't I know about this sooner?' - especially the single mother thing.
    There were so many other things which happened, which I only know now as red flags. I just wish I had known then. Thank God for the MGTOW community and finding the truth.

    What about it made you aware
    For me, it was the realisation of the Truth. The discovery of hypergamy, the using of sex as a weapon or reward, and the general dynamics of wahmenism in general. More on this to come in the 'Transition' section.

    2. Awareness
    : Your previous blue pill perspectives

    I used to believe in being 'in love' and the Disney fairy-tale ending. Run around serving the wahmen and all would be well.
    Being a 'nice bloke' was ingrained in me. Opening doors, giving up a seat, all of it...
    My mindset was 'be the best you can be and you will attract 'the best woman' - ie: like attracts like... Not so.
    I used to dream of a gorgeous wife, with a great sex life and happy home. Pfffft!

    How you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.

    The end of year reviews started me questioning things from a real perspective. One of the catalysts was watching Paul Proteus's video on change. Prochaska and Diclemete 6 stages of change was so insightful (on YT search "Stages of change, Freedom from freedom to").
    This was incredible stuff and recommend a search if you're unfamiliar. I made my own chart of what I wanted (Freedom To) and another next to it (Freedom From). This pretty much put my life into a completely new perspective. I could now see what was actually happening.

    It was in the comments section that someone mentioned MGTOW. A quick DuckDuck search and Sandman was the first, then Popp (who is just the best), Sharpe, Think before you sleep, BB (Joker) and a whole lot more followed.

    My disgust at the unfair treatment of men due to the onslaught of Feminism also fuelled my desire - along with the desire to protect my future business interests from getting obliterated. This was taught to me by the likes of Paul Elam, Janice and Tom, and to a degree huMAN, Coach Red Pill and SydneyMGTOW. Men's rights had never really been prominent until I discovered the truth.

    Protecting my future interests has been one of the main driving factors which bought me to MGTOW. If someone won't help whip the cream, then they won't get to partake in eating it.

    3. Who you are:

    I am a Libran with a passion for business. 2019 I completed a Diploma in Business (Leadership & Mgmt) and 2020 I discovered Entrepreneurs Institute and GeniusU where I have made significant progress in launching one of my own, within the next 6 weeks all going well. Roger James Hamilton does incredible work which is setting me up to transform MY life.

    I have 20+ years experience in Radio, along with 8 in Security. The last 2-3 have been spent recovering from major heart surgery (crap valve from birth).

    What you like

    I love great easy listening music, through a quality system, bass that moves you. I love business development and creating things from ideas. I love working with intelligent people, and finding solutions to common business problems.
    I enjoy research projects - the latest was mastering how to build websites. My goals this year are to launch my global digital businesses, go gliding and become a single bachelor. I am also planning on buying my 1st home after I buy some acreage towards the end of the year. This will be for my daughter and myself from 'non-relationship money' coming due after I separate.

    What you do

    On top of my business developments/launch, I Home School my 14yr teen daughter (who I will have custody of shortly).
    My typical day is having fun in Home School, then into by business learnings til tea (currently Don Millar from StoryBrand). After tea is 'my time' - MGTOW learnings from YT, Bitchute, Reddit and TRP websites.

    What do I want to achieve from being here?

    More awareness of living a red pill life.
    Fellowship with other men who have been through similar stuff.
    Learn how to incorporate Red Pill into my business affairs - all male staff and no BS
    The freedom to learn MGTOW without the stupid censorship of mainstream providers (YT, FB Twit etc)
    Offer my support and ideas to others great men.

    I hope this intro is to a decent level. There are many more things I could have shared, but I want to leave the more pretty sensitive 'eye-opening' things alone until I get immersed into the culture of the group, and build more ongoing mutual trust.

    If you want to know more, please reach out through PM. I'm more than happy to be open to share.

    Cheers, Kiwi Andy

    Hi Kiwihandyandy,

    Thank you for your nice Intro. You sound like a dynamic fellow. I trust your post-op recuperation will be successful and uneventful.

    Ok, you indicate that you are in the process of ending your near-20 year LTR#2. Typically, the reference in an Intro to a current LTR requires comment from us in one form or another. So, I point out to our members that you indicate you are not waffling in your resolve to end it but are getting your bases covered before pulling the plug. We can cheer you on, should you give us occasional updates on this effort, at your option. Ha, it gives me the opportunity to repeat one of the MGTOW mottoes for our lurkers:

    "Do not Marry. Do not cohabitate. Do not impregnate."


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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Interesting Intro.

    Ticks many (if not all) of the boxes.

    Still.

    I smell something.

    52 from Kiwi! Setting up online business! Dubious at best, but you never know.

    Setting up on-line business and trying to lure people in by telling them what they want to hear?

    Ah, now that seems to ring true.
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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Hi Jackoff

    Nothing to smell here.

    The reason I am setting up an online business is to become more self-sufficient. I spent over 20 yrs in Radio working 12 hr days, then more 12 hr days in Security, then even more 12 hr days in my last job. After getting ridiculously sick from heart issues, I decided I needed to upskill and did the Management diploma. Lockdown was the catalyst for developing a business plan with assistance from the GeniusU team, one where I can use the skills I have to help others.

    I would disagree that I would be "telling people what they want to hear". Any business, I believe, is about solving problems and finding solutions to them. The business is aimed at Podcasters, Youtubers and corporates who make content from interviews. Having interviewed thousands of people during my time in Radio, I think I have something of value to offer. The problem I can help with is helping people make better content from interviews - and I have started already with good success. Although I live in NZ, I can do it anywhere people need it. On top of Home School, this venture fits in nicely as I can work it and not have to work 12 hours a day any more. At least it will help me become less dependant on the Govt and will sure up my future solidly.

    Appreciate your comments, but I'm not 'luring' anyone. Cheers

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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Hi Unboxxed

    Thanks for the welcome. I appreciate the support.

    Cheers

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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Explanation accepted.

    Understand that on occasion we get people coming here trying to exploit us to aid their business. It has nothing to with MGTOW to them; they just sense a market even though we’re the very guys that aren’t likely to buy in to false advertising.

    Because of this I have become suspicious of anyone mentioning a new business venture. That being said I understand that people do these things and mentioning it when asked where you’re at is inevitable.

    Welcome,

    And I hope your new venture works out.
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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    I'd advertise my business here, but only if I want feminist rocks thrown through my windows, flat tires and keyed paint!
    United we stand, divided we are.

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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    Explanation accepted.

    Understand that on occasion we get people coming here trying to exploit us to aid their business. It has nothing to with MGTOW to them; they just sense a market even though we’re the very guys that aren’t likely to buy in to false advertising.

    Because of this I have become suspicious of anyone mentioning a new business venture. That being said I understand that people do these things and mentioning it when asked where you’re at is inevitable.

    Welcome,

    And I hope your new venture works out.
    Haha, cheers. I have zero interest in even mentioning the name of the business, or attracting any custom from anyone here. I was learning MGTOW principles before I even wrote the business plan. This community is ALL about community, not business, and I'm here for MGTOW. I understand too that there may have been some weasels in the past trying to be dicks about it. My business community is LinkedIn so all goodly.
    Last edited by Kiwihandyandy; March 3, 2021 at 1:05 AM. Reason: Taking emojis out

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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    I'd advertise my business here, but only if I want feminist rocks thrown through my windows, flat tires and keyed paint!
    Classic! Absolutely, and a few false allegations thrown in lol

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    Re: Gidday GYOW

    Quote Originally Posted by Kiwihandyandy View Post
    Classic! Absolutely, and a few false allegations thrown in lol
    It won't be false allegations if I catch the bitch doing it!
    United we stand, divided we are.


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