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    Red face Aloha !

    1.Relationship History -: I Never dated or talked to anyone before due to my previous childhood as a rejected outcast . I was interested into "getting to know girls" when I was in School (Looked up WikiHow at that time lol ). But like everything , I couldn't get friends or someone to talk about my problems at that age . Even my Own Mother denied to hear me out about myself. Her response would be , "It's all good , just don't mind others". But you guys wanna hear my problems ? Like I said , I started developing Borderline Personality Disorder (Surprise Surprise ! It's the "Not Minding Them") Things got messed up when middle school started , as I was chronically , physically bullied for 7 - 8 ish years. I still didn't mind them and followed my mother's advice. Due to BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and the environment called "School" I was severely depressed , tried over 27 therapists and 15 Psychiatrists . Got electrocuted (ECT it's a therapy), had two magnets charged on my head (TMS - Transcranial Magnetic Simulation). The doctor finally diagnosed me with Treatment Resistant Depression which won't go away in my life. Still on meds Narcotic Drugs probably for a lifetime I may became dependent. Anyways , all I'm trying to say about my relationship with my mother was she had BPD and she basically gifted me that thing. Which leads to unstable and pretty much my non-existent "romantic life or days". I also looked upto the PUA guys and other pickup artists when I never had a girlfriend in real life. (Spoiler alert : I never got one) I started being desperate for any emotional support which I got from my Dad and eventually my mom. I used to dream about the "perfect relationship". Which was a false thing I thought about in my life. I was desperate to be a SIMP to a girl. Basically , my mind was vulnerable and desperate. I stopped searching for a partner after I swept off the dust in my pants when I fell down, got back up again from self Compassion and Love towards myself as an adult.

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    Awareness-: I pretty much couldn't have a stable interaction with anyone around my environment. So I became a creep after following the "Steps" in wikihow and basically got hated by everyone including girls in my classroom. + bonus points for getting bullied . After I got depressed due to all of this I started watching videos about stoicism. I don't exactly know when , I am a Jordan Peterson fan , he started labelling MGTOW as pathetic weasels which is not a good thing (plus he regretted that he said that lol). I got curious about MGTOW after watching that video and tried finishing the classic sandman videos. And from there . I swept of the dust when I fell , and moved on to this path. Amen I never regretted that decision afterwards. I also got curious after vice released a video about "Incels" where I got curious about it. Pretty much I started learning about MGTOW from different sources and believed it to the core it's true.

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    Who am I ? -I'm a guy who got rejected by my peers and someone who's struggling with mental health. Gradually a MGTOW dude I'm a hobbyist Musician , someone who knows how to play the violin , Ukulele . Also a Beatboxer which I'm good at. Also knows how to produce beats or musical composition. I like cooking food for my friend (that's me). I like to talk to people online about different things that needs to be addressed and I also like to help people online to get back on their feet , which I never had . I like to learn languages right now : Hindi , Malayalam, English , Russian, little bit of filipino and Tamil . I'm from India by the way, can't wait to join with you guys on this life venture. and thank you a lot for reading this

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    Re: Aloha !

    Quote Originally Posted by DudePsych View Post
    1.Relationship History -: I Never dated or talked to anyone before due to my previous childhood as a rejected outcast . I was interested into "getting to know girls" when I was in School (Looked up WikiHow at that time lol ). But like everything , I couldn't get friends or someone to talk about my problems at that age . Even my Own Mother denied to hear me out about myself. Her response would be , "It's all good , just don't mind others". But you guys wanna hear my problems ? Like I said , I started developing Borderline Personality Disorder (Surprise Surprise ! It's the "Not Minding Them") Things got messed up when middle school started , as I was chronically , physically bullied for 7 - 8 ish years. I still didn't mind them and followed my mother's advice. Due to BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and the environment called "School" I was severely depressed , tried over 27 therapists and 15 Psychiatrists . Got electrocuted (ECT it's a therapy), had two magnets charged on my head (TMS - Transcranial Magnetic Simulation). The doctor finally diagnosed me with Treatment Resistant Depression which won't go away in my life. Still on meds Narcotic Drugs probably for a lifetime I may became dependent. Anyways , all I'm trying to say about my relationship with my mother was she had BPD and she basically gifted me that thing. Which leads to unstable and pretty much my non-existent "romantic life or days". I also looked upto the PUA guys and other pickup artists when I never had a girlfriend in real life. (Spoiler alert : I never got one) I started being desperate for any emotional support which I got from my Dad and eventually my mom. I used to dream about the "perfect relationship". Which was a false thing I thought about in my life. I was desperate to be a SIMP to a girl. Basically , my mind was vulnerable and desperate. I stopped searching for a partner after I swept off the dust in my pants when I fell down, got back up again from self Compassion and Love towards myself as an adult.

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    Awareness-: I pretty much couldn't have a stable interaction with anyone around my environment. So I became a creep after following the "Steps" in wikihow and basically got hated by everyone including girls in my classroom. + bonus points for getting bullied . After I got depressed due to all of this I started watching videos about stoicism. I don't exactly know when , I am a Jordan Peterson fan , he started labelling MGTOW as pathetic weasels which is not a good thing (plus he regretted that he said that lol). I got curious about MGTOW after watching that video and tried finishing the classic sandman videos. And from there . I swept of the dust when I fell , and moved on to this path. Amen I never regretted that decision afterwards. I also got curious after vice released a video about "Incels" where I got curious about it. Pretty much I started learning about MGTOW from different sources and believed it to the core it's true.

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    Who am I ? -I'm a guy who got rejected by my peers and someone who's struggling with mental health. Gradually a MGTOW dude I'm a hobbyist Musician , someone who knows how to play the violin , Ukulele . Also a Beatboxer which I'm good at. Also knows how to produce beats or musical composition. I like cooking food for my friend (that's me). I like to talk to people online about different things that needs to be addressed and I also like to help people online to get back on their feet , which I never had . I like to learn languages right now : Hindi , Malayalam, English , Russian, little bit of filipino and Tamil . I'm from India by the way, can't wait to join with you guys on this life venture. and thank you a lot for reading this
    Hi DudePsych,

    I've read your Intro and I see you talk about your home life and growing up years. I highlighted above in red font what appears to be the portion of your text that mentions your relationship history. Its not much. It sounds like you looked for a girlfriend but never got one, so you stopped searching for one.

    It's ok that you haven't had a relationship with a woman but you also did not provide in its place any examples of your interactions with women. Instead, you say you did not have "stable interactions" with women. I'm not sure what you mean by that, and with you describing yourself as a "rejected outcast", that sounds involuntary, like you're defining yourself as an Involuntary Celibate.

    You then say that Peterson's anti-MGTOW stance pointed you on the path of MGTOW. You also looked at a video about Incels. Again, not sure if you have transitioned to red pill voluntarily or did it involuntarily as a result of being rejected by women.

    Based on that, I don't know where you are at right now in your personal evolution, sorry. Most registrants tell us their horror stories with women and explain that these stories compelled them to swear off emotional relationships with women. But, your Intro isn't doing that.

    So, please make another post in this thread to answer these questions:

    Do you consider yourself an involuntary celibate?

    Do you still have hopes for a girlfriend and would accept a relationship if a girl would only initiate one with you?


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    Re: Aloha !

    Yes , you are right about me not getting a relationship or any intimate moment with anyone. By saying I never had any stable interactions , I was conveying my point as the black sheep in the whole society, including girls . You asked for my relationship history , but it doesn't exist like I earlier . I'm still a young afraid of ANY kind of relationship with females in general due to the knowledge and wisdom gained through the red pill. And I voluntarily took the red pill and wanted to join the men going our way.
    Do I consider myself as a involuntary celibate ?
    I don't consider myself as an involuntary celibate but I consider myself as a ghost because I value my personal freedom . And personal freedom is more important to me than social approval, status, or sexual companionship. As single men are looked down upon where I live , I am living a life without someone else's approval or people pleasing. I also love to follow free speech , both online and in real life. I learned about MGTOW and I am disgusted by how the media labels MGTOW as a negative terrorist group or something more violent , of course from the feminazi media. I wanna stress this enough that , I don't want ANYTHING interfering my personal freedom and MGTOW is a perfect thing I have discovered in my whole life. I'm also like to keep myself in solitude and self love.
    Do you still have hopes for a girlfriend and would accept a relationship if a girl would only initiate one with you ?
    After I learned about MGTOW through binge watching Youtube Videos , I better off be dead than to get a relationship EVEN if a female starts to initiate . And I don't want to be friends with that creature. And I am not risking my life for that unwanted stress called a "relationship". So let me make myself clear about it , I don't even wish to get ANY type of relations even as a friend , which disgusts me to the core.



    Thank You a lot for taking the time to read my post , I hope anyone who reads this I wanna let you know , I care for what you are doing for the whole community.

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    Re: Aloha !

    Quote Originally Posted by DudePsych View Post
    Yes , you are right about me not getting a relationship or any intimate moment with anyone. By saying I never had any stable interactions , I was conveying my point as the black sheep in the whole society, including girls . You asked for my relationship history , but it doesn't exist like I earlier . I'm still a young afraid of ANY kind of relationship with females in general due to the knowledge and wisdom gained through the red pill. And I voluntarily took the red pill and wanted to join the men going our way.

    I don't consider myself as an involuntary celibate but I consider myself as a ghost because I value my personal freedom . And personal freedom is more important to me than social approval, status, or sexual companionship. As single men are looked down upon where I live , I am living a life without someone else's approval or people pleasing. I also love to follow free speech , both online and in real life. I learned about MGTOW and I am disgusted by how the media labels MGTOW as a negative terrorist group or something more violent , of course from the feminazi media. I wanna stress this enough that , I don't want ANYTHING interfering my personal freedom and MGTOW is a perfect thing I have discovered in my whole life. I'm also like to keep myself in solitude and self love.

    After I learned about MGTOW through binge watching Youtube Videos , I better off be dead than to get a relationship EVEN if a female starts to initiate . And I don't want to be friends with that creature. And I am not risking my life for that unwanted stress called a "relationship". So let me make myself clear about it , I don't even wish to get ANY type of relations even as a friend , which disgusts me to the core.



    Thank You a lot for taking the time to read my post , I hope anyone who reads this I wanna let you know , I care for what you are doing for the whole community.

    Hi DudePsych,

    Thank you for your clarification. I have now moved you out of moderation and you are free to post on the site. Before you do, however, please read our Principles by clicking on that word at the top of this page, in the black bar.

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    Looks like Psychedude knows what a mouth full of tyranny taste like and has enough commonsense to spit it out!

    Welcome to the site!
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    Re: Aloha !

    I would also like to add my welcome.

    You mention that you are from India and that you like to study languages, including English.

    I would just like to point this out for lurkers and members alike that English is not this guy's first language.

    You've trodden a rough road, but it gets better once you shed convention.

    Again, welcome Dudepsych.
    Last edited by Jackoff; April 16, 2021 at 10:03 PM. Reason: Grammar correction
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    Re: Aloha !

    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    I would also like to add my welcome.

    You mention that you are from India and that you like to study languages, including English.

    I would just like to point out this out for lurkers and members alike that English is not this guy's first language.

    You've trodden a rough road, but it gets better once you shed convention.

    Again, welcome Dudepsych.
    Thank You a lot for the welcoming gesture Jackoff . More power to MGTOW

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    Hi DudePsych,

    Thank you for your clarification. I have now moved you out of moderation and you are free to post on the site. Before you do, however, please read our Principles by clicking on that word at the top of this page, in the black bar.

    Welcome!
    Thank you for accepting me to the community , I really appreciate the work in building the strong community to the best version as possible . I humbly thank you for approving my request


    You guys are awesome !

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    Quote Originally Posted by DudePsych View Post
    You guys are awesome !
    No, WE are awesome. This now includes you.
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    Thank you for clarifying that . We will and always have been Awesome

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    Like, totally awesome!

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    Ya gotta love AOC. (/sarc) The epitome of modern womanhood. (/true) If /true isn't a thing yet it should be. Then again it would just be co-opted just like everything else.

    But this is a guy's intro so I'll leave it there, unless he would like to join in?
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    Thanks for that I can't seem to find any videos related to 'Proper Ghosting' Techniques. Any articles or videos would do . Thanks for this one , I would love to know more and join.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    Ya gotta love AOC. (/sarc) The epitome of modern womanhood. (/true) If /true isn't a thing yet it should be. Then again it would just be co-opted just like everything else.

    But this is a guy's intro so I'll leave it there, unless he would like to join in?
    AOC stands for that dumbocrat right ? Tried learning something from Steven Crowder don't know about his stance but please let me know If I'm hearing the truth from him. I'm confused by /sarc as there are two things *sweat emoji* SAARC (South Asian Association for Regional Corporation) and the SARC (Sexual Assault Referral Centres). I would love to know about the /true . and what do you mean by that. Guess I'm too dumb \_(ツ)_/ .But I do love to know more about what you are specifying
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    /sarc - from my understanding the previous comment is meant sarcastically - short for sarcasm. Not to be taken literally. Inferring that the poster holds the opposite view.

    /true - just being playful. I made it up. Meant as an opposite to /sarc. In this case meaning that is how the media wish to portray her and seems to be accepted as such, therefore "true" to many women who aspire to be like her.

    AOC - You're right, that dumbocrat (love that one, cheers). Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DudePsych View Post
    I can't seem to find any videos related to 'Proper Ghosting' Techniques.
    Hmm. I'm not a big vid watcher so can't really advise there.

    The thing about ghosting is it means different things to different people. One definition is:

    “the practice of suddenly ending all contact with a person without explanation, especially in a romantic relationship.”

    To the MGHOW (Man Going His Own Way) this is taken a step further - don't get involved in the first place.

    Some take it further than that and take as little to do with the blue-pill world as is reasonably possible - they "ghost" society in general, or sometimes just the female element of society. Some even go "nomad" - separate themselves from society almost entirely.

    To ghost, to me, is to walk amongst the blue-pill world appearing like you are one of them whilst at the same time refusing to accept their views without letting them know you totally refuse their views. Not lying exactly, just not letting them know your views - more evasion than lying.

    Others will disagree.

    Try reading the threads in the ghost section in this forum.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    /sarc - from my understanding the previous comment is meant sarcastically - short for sarcasm. Not to be taken literally. Inferring that the poster holds the opposite view.

    /true - just being playful. I made it up. Meant as an opposite to /sarc. In this case meaning that is how the media wish to portray her and seems to be accepted as such, therefore "true" to many women who aspire to be like her.

    AOC - You're right, that dumbocrat (love that one, cheers). Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.
    I took it literally at first xD . Was looking it up on Google , aimlessly . Thank You for clarifying. What do you think about Steven Crowder though? I'm in dire need of opinion about him.

    Hmm. I'm not a big vid watcher so can't really advise there.

    The thing about ghosting is it means different things to different people. One definition is:

    “the practice of suddenly ending all contact with a person without explanation, especially in a romantic relationship.”

    To the MGHOW (Man Going His Own Way) this is taken a step further - don't get involved in the first place.

    Some take it further than that and take as little to do with the blue-pill world as is reasonably possible - they "ghost" society in general, or sometimes just the female element of society. Some even go "nomad" - separate themselves from society almost entirely.

    To ghost, to me, is to walk amongst the blue-pill world appearing like you are one of them whilst at the same time refusing to accept their views without letting them know you totally refuse their views. Not lying exactly, just not letting them know your views - more evasion than lying.

    Others will disagree.
    So basically reject them if they try to hit , or refuse to be "friends" or any other simp role . Exactly me :-) Ghosting the whole society is really tempting. I don't use much of today's "Social Media" I can ghost by deleting all of that right ? But can someone ghost and be a content creator though ? I have all out male group (crew) we discuss things about music in general. I guess maybe I need to ask about it on the ghost forum \_(ツ)_/
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    Quote Originally Posted by DudePsych View Post
    What do you think about Steven Crowder though? I'm in dire need of opinion about him.
    I don't know the guy. But I've created a new thread here:

    Louder with Crowder

    Maybe this will generate some more interest.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DudePsych View Post
    I guess maybe I need to ask about it on the ghost forum \_(ツ)_/
    Can I ask? What does this symbol mean?

    \_(ツ)_/

    Ive seen a few where if you look at it from a certain angle it forms a picture. Ive tried this with no success. I see a smiley face but thats about it.

    Does it have an online meaning? Is it an emoji in character form?

    Just curious.
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