Thread: Double Life?

Originally Posted by happybachelor

Went I went fully MGTOW, I felt released from the need to be someone, a character, interesting etc. I hardly ever express myself, unless I feel like it. I suppose this is me instinctively keeping my cards close to my chest, but it's also the fact that I consider the vast majority of people to be childish or otherwise pathetic. Lol. I quite like being the grey man.

I think it's really important to keep your cards close to your chest. That becomes especially important if you work in a job where political correctness reigns supreme. I also think that using the grey man concept works very well.

Sometimes, I feel like I'm just too smart and everyone else it dumb.

Bonobo Protocol, you are the guy who got me to stop lurking.

Yes, i feel very much like i am living a double life.



somehow the culture does not like that, that is why it feels bad/wrong.

every time something happens that makes me feel bad, i ask myself if it is cultural programming.

Double lives are fine. Give me a reason to quintuple life it up.

Originally Posted by HK 95

Bonobo Protocol, you are the guy who got me to stop lurking.

Yes, i feel very much like i am living a double life.



somehow the culture does not like that, that is why it feels bad/wrong.

every time something happens that makes me feel bad, i ask myself if it is cultural programming.

Double lives are fine. Give me a reason to quintuple life it up.

Don’t sweat it. We all lead double lives, at least to some extent. I don’t care if you’re red-pill, purple-pill or blue pill, we all have things that we hide from others.

IRL I’m about as straight-up as they come. I call it as I see it. But only up to a point. Many can’t handle the full truth so I drop it in in dribs and drabs, as much as I think they can handle.

So what’s the “full truth” you may ask. Honestly, I don’t know, but what I do know is it begins with looking at things with a rational mind. Emotions are part of humanity and shouldn’t be ignored, and indeed should be indulged in from time to time, but they need to be viewed in perspective.

Take your time. I’m in my mid-fifties and I’m still learning.

somehow the culture does not like that, that is why it feels bad/wrong.

The “culture” as you put it is the source of the problem. They, the undefinable “they”, wish you to behave in a manner that is acceptable to them, except there is no way to appease everyone, so don’t bother trying. This is the essence of political correctness – everyone is at fault!

The “they” want everyone to be unhappy, within this they can implement their own agendas while people are looking elsewhere. Don’t fall for it.

Originally Posted by HK 95

Bonobo Protocol, you are the guy who got me to stop lurking.

Yes, i feel very much like i am living a double life.



somehow the culture does not like that, that is why it feels bad/wrong.

every time something happens that makes me feel bad, i ask myself if it is cultural programming.

Double lives are fine. Give me a reason to quintuple life it up.

Glad my thoughts on the matter could get you to participate.

Double life. According to whom? Others, or yourself?
It's wise to conceal some aspects of yourself, especially as a man in an incredibly hostile environment. It was probably ever thus.
But it's also not healthy, I think, to really worry about how you're being portrayed all the time, or to have different personas to adhere to. That smacks of ego and not of freedom.
There is also wisdom in showing yourself. It brings the cunts out the woodwork and you can see very early on who has good or malicious intent.
I like to shock people and see how they respond. And demand their honesty and sincerity. In doing so I find out more about them quicker.
All those people who find out years down the line their mates are cunts? Blue pillers. Not happening to me.
Keep your distance, show yourself, observe. 98% of people will not be worth your time.
It's a hard path to walk for sure. But it's gotten easier.

Originally Posted by happybachelor

Double life. According to whom? Others, or yourself?
It's wise to conceal some aspects of yourself, especially as a man in an incredibly hostile environment. It was probably ever thus.
But it's also not healthy, I think, to really worry about how you're being portrayed all the time, or to have different personas to adhere to. That smacks of ego and not of freedom.
There is also wisdom in showing yourself. It brings the cunts out the woodwork and you can see very early on who has good or malicious intent.
I like to shock people and see how they respond. And demand their honesty and sincerity. In doing so I find out more about them quicker.
All those people who find out years down the line their mates are cunts? Blue pillers. Not happening to me.
Keep your distance, show yourself, observe. 98% of people will not be worth your time.
It's a hard path to walk for sure. But it's gotten easier.

Same. I am also pretty blunt with people who interact with me. I have lost some friends this way (and I had very few to begin with), but thats fine. I'd rather be alone than with those kind of people.

Though I understand, for some people this is not really a choice for one reason or the other.

At work I make sure to pass as a reserved but friendly normie. My only goal there is to get paid with a minimum of fuss. With friends though, I've had to ditch a bunch of leftists recently because I won't censor myself around them. If someone thinks they can disrespect me because orange man bad, there's the door. I have no problem with the ones who can remain polite.

Originally Posted by I'm Gone

At work I make sure to pass as a reserved but friendly normie. My only goal there is to get paid with a minimum of fuss. With friends though, I've had to ditch a bunch of leftists recently because I won't censor myself around them. If someone thinks they can disrespect me because orange man bad, there's the door. I have no problem with the ones who can remain polite.

That is one thing that I've noticed at work. You have to be polite especially in these overly, politically correct times. It's not so much about actually getting a job done, but making sure that you are acting like you're doing a job.

Originally Posted by Bonobo Protocol

That is one thing that I've noticed at work. You have to be polite especially in these overly, politically correct times. It's not so much about actually getting a job done, but making sure that you are acting like you're doing a job.

And meanwhile, while everyone has their politically correct fingers up each other's ass, they'll be outsourcing everyone's stink-finger job to the Chinese!

Originally Posted by Bonobo Protocol

That is one thing that I've noticed at work. You have to be polite especially in these overly, politically correct times. It's not so much about actually getting a job done, but making sure that you are acting like you're doing a job.

Feminised. Nice to your face, stab you in the back. Want to say you think the scamdemic is a hoax? Prepare to be treated like a stinking homeless bum or a leper from then on.