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    Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    I went to a bar with a friend last night. I had no intention of "Picking up". It was just two guys hanging out after a busy work week. Had a good time just relaxing, having a few beers and joking around. He decided to leave around 11:00. I decided I was a bit buzzed, so I was staying behind for a few glasses of water before I hit the road. I was at the corner of the bar and noticed a woman three stools away looking in my direction. I looked, she looked away. She wasn't incredibly attractive but not hideous either. Average, which means she was about 20 lbs overweight, looked 6 or 7 years older than she said she was and was quite proud of her cleavage. I was amazed at the number of orbiters she had buying drinks for her. There were far hotter women in this bar but she was being treated like God's gift to men.
    I decided to have a little fun with the hamster. I went with a situational opener. I noticed she had 2 cell phones sitting in front of her. As I again caught her looking in my direction, I pointed at the phones.
    "I've seen Breaking Bad enough times to know that when somebody has two phones, they're cooking meth."
    "Oh my GOD! I do NOT do that!"
    "So if I go outside right now, I won't find a beat up RV in the parking lot with weird colored smoke pouring out of it?"
    She laughed, picked up her phones and jacket and moved to the stool next to me. We chatted for about 10-15 minutes, had a few laughs and I extended my hand and asked her name. We traded introductions and I stood up, put on my jacket and said, "Well, it was nice to meet you". The look on her face was priceless.
    "You're leaving?"
    "Yeah. Have a good night."
    "Well...Are you going to be here tomorrow night?"
    "No."
    "Can I.....Can I have your number, at least."
    "Maybe some other time. Drive safe."
    I walked out and left her sitting there with a look of total confusion on her face.
    I admit I got some enjoyment from this. Does that make me a bad person? Possibly. I simply view it as a small act of MGTOW-style civil disobedience. Or, maybe it was my way of testing myself. 15 years ago I would have tried desperately to get her to leave with me. Now it's just not worth the hassle. Where have all the good men gone? This one went home and slept like a baby.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Maybe "taking the hamster for a spin."
    "The Red Pill is the start of the journey, not the end." - Chairborne

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Rejecting the hamster is it own glory. It is the social equivalent to smashing particles in an accelerator.You learn something new about the universe every time.

    Once I was in a room with a girl. We wound up next to each other, in bed , very close. Biology took over and she, ahem, noticed.But my brain was in charge , because I remembered this girl bragged about banging some dude near the Indian Reservation the night prior.So I looked deep in her eyes, leaned over her bosom....to grab my car keys, and walk out the door. I was harder then Detroit SWAT at the time and it didnt matter- that's how often she fucked strange guys.

    Two years , a major career change, and move after that went down, she tried to Facebook me .Note carefully that I never friended her to begin with.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Quote Originally Posted by ImmuneToAG View Post
    There's lay reports in the pua community....there needs to be a name of something like this in mgtow community... eg mgtow reports
    Maybe an almolay as it was almost closing into a lay.

    Great trolling btw man. Giving something back to the community.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Great work!

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Another "denial of service."

    Nice!

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    That doesn't make you a bad person! Instead that makes you my new hero!
    Last edited by smallbitsoffire; February 25, 2014 at 9:40 PM.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    I would have loved seeing the faces of the guys in that bar when you just walked out without her or a number. LOL! Brain meltdowns and hamster spinning into overdrive.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Looking out over the culture - trying to find my bearings after those 30 years offline... it's FUCKING TERRIFYING out there! I've done enough running my libido and sexual sense in a sandbox (judicious use of a chatline to test what's going on there) to know that I run a Restricted mode sociosexual orientation.

    I also know that because of that - I lead heart-first. So I'd be emotionally investing if I did sleep with a woman -and wouldn't be able to go there unless I knew my heart was safe... and we were actually speaking truth with our bodies.

    What do I find? Women driving this "hookup" culture, soft harems and all the stuff Sandman describes. http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/...side/309062/3/
    It's absolutely terrifying... If I were to give myself to one of these harridans... I'd be used, abused and tossed aside... and how come there's no care for each other's hearts?

    Also - there's site like Shag At Uni - https://www.facebook.com/ShagAtUni?fref=ts - one hell of a difference from when I went - I hung out at the chaplaincy, part of CU, and worked. Then again, it was in 1990-1993 and finishing off in 1996-1997.

    Christ - I think how different the attitudes were back in the 80s... people still actually talked about "making love" back then..

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    I am very 'guilty' of doing this far more often than is 'reasonable'. It's essentially a safe way of seeing if you still 'got it'.

    At my current state and age range, though, I now have 'knowledgeable' women (primarily cousins and older aunts) wanting to coyly play matchmaker with me by inviting girls from their church at family gatherings to meet me. They say, "She'd really like to meet you. She's a nice girl, and she's gorgeous!"
    "Then why is she single?"
    Awkward pause, and then, ".. She's very selective." LOL

    So I basically do as you just did in your post, Jethro, but in an even more understated way because her interest level is already super-high. I basically politely agree and nod along with things that she says, and over time she eventually 1. Wanders off, or 2. Finds a very polite way to guide the conversation towards sexual orientation (how dare an attractive guy demonstrate -no- sexual interest in me! He -must- be gay!)

    With -very- older women, I sometimes enjoying taking the hamster for a spin, primarily because it makes them feel good (I love traditional old-school gals), and with the rare exception (do not ask me to tell that story LOL), they aren't expecting anything more but are otherwise very appreciative.

    I feel like 'taking the hamster for a spin' is a MGTOW's way of rattling the cage door of the cat that is used to its owner (potential and otherwise!) reaching straight for the door and pulling it wide open.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Quote Originally Posted by Senzo View Post
    "She'd really like to meet you. She's a nice girl, and she's gorgeous!"
    "Then why is she single?"
    Why I've never taken advantage of this gigantic discrepancy I do not know!

    As for 'taking the hamster for a spin', it is great fun. It works even better when you suddenly mention something about a girlfriend, even if you don't have one. "Your.. girlfriend?" Play it naively, and enjoy her inner screams of despair!

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    This is awesome. Sometimes "could of had it" is way better than getting it.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    You guys like stories about rejecting women that take the initiative? I have dozens of those.

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    Re: Turning Off The Game Without Saving

    Outstanding story my friend. As a very young boy, I was taught to "never waste p_ _ _ _." I can't begin to tell you how financially and emotionally expensive that false commandment was. It's refreshing and inspiring to see a man who does not feel obligated just because a woman offers an "opportunity."


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