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    Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Iíve been thinking about the weirdly hostile behaviour from men. This happens when there is a female involved, whose affection they are trying to win over. Suddenly a good friend (?) puts you down to demonstrate the alpha-ness. Had this happen to me in a 12-step meeting from a previously friendly guy who liked a girl there. Even my dad had this with his brother (my uncle), when brotherís wife wanted to grab the bulk of the inheritance. I just ignore these simps going forward and they seem confused. Like what do you expect if you publicly humiliate another guy? Wish I had more mgtow friends.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    I don't blame them for acting that way but once they do I've got to end the friendship out of principle.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Quote Originally Posted by Bubbles1999 View Post
    I don't blame them for acting that way but once they do I've got to end the friendship out of principle.
    Beat me to it. People get one and only one chance to act like assholes with me. When it happens, permanent exclusion, unless the person is truly repentant. Life got so much easier when I put that rule into effect.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Yeah, I agree with the exclusion. Once an ass starts with conformity tests and gaslighting and whatnot, it will never end in my experience. I guess I have been scared of retaliation and havenít put them in their place. But just slowly faded.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Happiness in life depends just as much on what you exclude from it as it does on what you include in it.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    Happiness in life depends just as much on what you exclude from it as it does on what you include in it.
    Life's a bowl of cherries, let someone else have the pits!
    Tower's Book of Survival:

    Rule #401. First you eat the dogs, then you eat the dogfood.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Doesn't just happen around or for women either. Some people want to fit in so badly they will attack their friends or whoever they see as an easy target to be accepted. Learned that lesson very early on in life. People wonder why I am a loner. I think they should wonder why I wouldn't be a loner!

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    "Loner" is just another smear word used to attack people who choose their acquaintances wisely. In my opinion, the more-diseased "civilized" society becomes over time, the more we'll find sane people detaching from it, and therefore, the more people we'll see spray-painted with that term. I really do see a widening rift between intelligent, thoughtful people and low-IQ sheep who just blindly follow whatever this de-evolved society decides "normal behavior" is, or ought to be. And yeah, I do see intelligence and thoughtfulness as prime characteristics of most men who've detached themselves from this warped society's expectations from them -- or should I say demands of them.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    "Loner" is just another smear word used to attack people who choose their acquaintances wisely. In my opinion, the more-diseased "civilized" society becomes over time, the more we'll find sane people detaching from it, and therefore, the more people we'll see spray-painted with that term. I really do see a widening rift between intelligent, thoughtful people and low-IQ sheep who just blindly follow whatever this de-evolved society decides "normal behavior" is, or ought to be. And yeah, I do see intelligence and thoughtfulness as prime characteristics of most men who've detached themselves from this warped society's expectations from them -- or should I say demands of them.
    Tower's Book of Survival:

    Rule #401. First you eat the dogs, then you eat the dogfood.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    The AA meeting dynamic is continually a source of amusement, disappointment and relief all in one. You'd think that it would be a rare place to establish recovery and also, given enough time, meet a fair-to-decent woman who could become a girlfriend or even a wife.

    Sadly this is a dangerous delusion for any man trying to recover from alcoholism and also solve the pain of his loneliness. The meetings where people share, can be useful but if its a big group with a bunch of females, the meetings become utterly useless for males. Women benefit from social settings like this more than men, by leaps and bounds... It becomes the same thing as in real life... a few popular characters (Chads) that get all the women's tingles rolling, meanwhile 80% of the men sit idly wishing the women were bright enough to see how useful and 'good enough' they are. This is to say nothing of the other weird things about AA dogma, The Program, unsavory people there etc.... Theres some good, but plenty of bad too.

    The other day at a meeting, I just plainly said it aloud, that the Program is BLUE PILL and that its painful for males to attend (none of the idiots know what that means, they probably thing its viagra). There should be more Mens Meetings but even that will be dominated by "Man Up" and "White Knight" parrots...

    Its a continuing AMBIVALENT state of affairs for the MGHOW in todays world. On the one hand, you are suffocating on your own biological instincts to chase tail, guard women and fall in love. No amount of intelligence and reason can erase that very real grief and emotional torment! On the other hand, you have periods of clarity and solace that you know are unrivaled by any man in a relationship, period. You know you are in the best possible arrangement to live happy, financially secure, healthy, safe and productive but again, nothing can erase that pining. In my 8 years of being a MGHOW, from age 27 to 35, this paradox and bittersweet reality is inescapable.

    As Ive gotten older, Ive realized that my mediocre status as a painfully average man, will eventually yield attention from women in my 40s. Bald or not, Fat or not, ugly or not, apparently if you can just pay your bills and have a few hundred bucks in your wallet, thats enough to get sex in your 40s... from women between 30 and 55 yrsld...

    The problem we all know, is that the kind of women that eventually become available to you arent worth the hassle. Many men still put up with the hassle but us red pill guys will eventually realize it was better being alone. Still, Im somewhat looing forward to having a few one-off sexual encounters and maybe some touch n go repeat 'friends with benefit' situations.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Personally I consider men who simp as vermin. Especially nice guys. Pretending to be a womans friend and sacrificing your friendship with other males just to get laid is a predatory sexual strategy not in any way "nice". When these nice guys get rejected they get nasty very fast.

    You can somewhat understand, maybe even respect, feminists who gain power via "equality" (equity) as it's serving the women in society and they are women.

    But you can't respect a man who will basically suicide himself for a womans gain. There's a huge difference between NICE and KIND. I am a kind person. But I am not nice. Nice is a weak doormat, or a sexual predator.

    Simps, male feminists, nice guys... all scum which I have nothing to do with.

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    Re: Sudden changes in men for pu..y pandering

    Yep had this happen to me a few times and seen it even more, the sudden hostility and the defending of all women's virtues, but a lot of times only when the woman or women are around. Get guys by themselves and on the whole most are pretty cool with each other. Get a woman in the mix and things often get messy. A friend of a friend of mine recently got his face smashed in and arm broken in a fight where he "just had to" say something to this other fella about his beliefs and how to treat women and how he was doing it all wrong, etc, etc. The other guy obviously didn't take kindly to the commentary. I don't know all the details and frankly don't want to be involved, but I know the guy which got beaten up well enough to say that he absolutely wouldn't have got into the situation if there was no woman there. He's of the exact type spoken about above, threw himself into the fire to make himself look virtuous in the eyes of women and gaining nothing but humiliation and a broken face.


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