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    Ways to Make Homies?

    How do you guys make friends? All my friends are from high school and are in relationships/married. I try to avoid competitive sports, or hard-core physical activity, as I lift weights and I just don't have the energy for hardcore stuff. I've tried attending hiking groups, but they're littered with gays who try to get it in with me, lesbians, old ladies, or old-lady lesbians. What are some good activities to meet good ol' hetero dudes, ideally with few/no females attending?

    I'm sure this has been asked before, but I couldn't really find anything. If you can link me that'd be nice. Thanks.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
    but they're littered with gays who try to get it in with me, lesbians, old ladies, or old-lady lesbians.
    LMAO. Where the hell do you live? No, let me guess, West Coast USA? L.A.?

    But to give your question the seriousness it deserves:

    How do you guys make friends?
    By being friendly.

    My apologies if this sounds like a glib answer but itís the only one Iíve got.

    As to where to meet ďgood olí hetero dudes , ideally with few/no females attendingĒ dream on. Females have encroached to the point that male only spaces are virtually non-existent and oftentimes illegal whilst female only spaces are encouraged and endorsed.

    Oh the hypocrisy!

    You say that you try to avoid competitive sports. Does this mean participating or taking an interest? For me itís both and this can make things difficult.

    Itís my view, born from experience, that blue-pill hetero men have 2 main topics of conversation: sport and griping about current affairs.

    Itís my belief that they feign interest in sport because it gives them a distraction from current affairs and their lives in general. It gives them a talking point with no real relevance to their lives, a kind of escape hatch and a chance to bond without the need to expose or explore their innermost thoughts. Thereís nothing wrong with this. In fact it may even be healthy; a way of putting aside the burdens life puts on us.


    So, just what kind of friend are you looking for? Someone you can bond with? Is this not akin to looking for a unicorn to marry?

    Understand that friendships are transitory for the most part. Very few stand the test of time.

    Take joy in the company of others wherever you find them, or not. The choice is yours.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    Try Brazilian jiu jitsu, its hard as fuck the first few months. you literally have no clue how to move on the ground. the people who stick around are of a different breed. i can say that literally 90% wont get to their blue belt, and even if they get there, only few reach purple. hard time creates strong men and most of the time these are good friends. good luck.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    LMAO. Where the hell do you live? No, let me guess, West Coast USA? L.A.?
    Yup, lol.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    But to give your question the seriousness it deserves:

    By being friendly.

    My apologies if this sounds like a glib answer but itís the only one Iíve got.

    As to where to meet ďgood olí hetero dudes , ideally with few/no females attendingĒ dream on. Females have encroached to the point that male only spaces are virtually non-existent and oftentimes illegal whilst female only spaces are encouraged and endorsed.
    Yeah, this is an unfortunate fact. People call all dude events "cock-fests" or "sausage-fests" in an attempt to shame men for all men gatherings, insinuating that it's gay for only dudes to congregate. Females are injected into pretty much any gathering these days.

    You say that you try to avoid competitive sports. Does this mean participating or taking an interest? For me itís both and this can make things difficult.

    Itís my view, born from experience, that blue-pill hetero men have 2 main topics of conversation: sport and griping about current affairs.
    To a degree both. I take a mild interest in the local basketball team. I believe interest in sports is also a strong indicator that you are not a gay man.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    Quote Originally Posted by TrackingPanda View Post
    Try Brazilian jiu jitsu, its hard as fuck the first few months. you literally have no clue how to move on the ground. the people who stick around are of a different breed. i can say that literally 90% wont get to their blue belt, and even if they get there, only few reach purple. hard time creates strong men and most of the time these are good friends. good luck.
    I am definitely considering BJJ or attending some type of kickboxing class to just hit pads and stuff. However, my brother tore an ACL from BJJ, so the risk of injury concerns me. And there's also the steep learning curve, as you mentioned, which does not really appeal to me that much.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
    . However, my brother tore an ACL from BJJ, so the risk of injury concerns me.
    Just stay clear of competitions and you can always kindly decline to roll with certain people that make every match, a 7th gear deathmatch.

    Very rarely it happens that someone tears an ACL in class, but yeah it can happen.

    Most of the times its people not knowing what they have to do and instead of tapping, they try to jump out of fully locked in heel hook, to the wrong way turning their own knee inside out.

    i did 6 years of kickboxing prior to BJJ, and its a whole other ballgame.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    Snow skiing and street motorcycles were my big ones when young. If you ski hard it takes skill and some conditioning. If you were happy running the bunny hill, that wouldn't take much. I shudder to think how much it cost's anymore though, you'd have to like it a lot to be worth it. Besides all the money spent on travel and lift tickets, quality gear cost's the earth. We're not just talking skis and boots. Besides a nice parka and pants, you want the best gloves, goggles and hat you can find. Unless you like freezing your ass off, cause you're on top of a mountain.

    Street bikes are more stamina, little strength is needed, unless you get a really big bike. But it is often hot or cold, and always very dirty (all that crud you find on your car, on a bike it lands on you). And potentially very dangerous. There are women in the motorcycle world but can usually be easily avoided.

    In fact, most women don't care much for any activity that has anything to do with work or dirt. I'm surprised the hiking scene where you live is what you describe. People who love the outdoors enough to hike where I live are usually cool.

    Most of my friends I met at the various job's I've had or were fellow townies. Sometimes in a small town, allowances have to be made. Others were fellow bikers, though I don't see them much anymore.

    What's just as important is keeping the friends you got. That means being there when times are tough. If they honestly need help with a rotten job, you need to give it to them, and nothing else will cut it. That's what real friends do.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
    I believe interest in sports is also a strong indicator that you are not a gay man.
    Hmm.

    And gay men have no interest in fit, athletic men? They don’t enjoy watching fitness fanatics running around in shorts? They don’t get the horn watching dudes in combat?

    Think again.

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    Re: Ways to Make Homies?

    I mostly hang out with my friends from highschool/college. All of them are either married or in relationships, but I do manage to see them on a one-on-one basis without their missus fairly often.

    I think it's impossible to find male-only group nowadays. My suggestion is to get as comfortable as possible spending time by yourself and pursuing hobbies just for the sake of it. I go to dance classes for instance. There are both women, couples and solo men in class, but I do it solely because I enjoy dancing.


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