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    Just Realized I Don't Like Dating. Can I change this?

    As far as dates go, we had a nice first date. As per usual she was a little more chunky in real life than in the pics, but she still looked pretty good. We scheduled a second date, but she flaked, apologized and texted me today to see what my schedule was like.

    At first, we were about to plan a date, but then after a little back and forth I sent the following text "Hey, you know what. I'm not interested in dating right now. I think you're a really nice person and I'm sorry for wasting your time".

    For the last two years, I have been going really hard at trying to learn how to date and make things work. I never realized the headache, inconvenience, and general unpleasantness involved with the process of dating. At this point, I feel like it is just not worth the trouble. I vastly prefer being alone. I've given this dating thing the ol' college try, but I simply don't like it. It also doesn't help that the results in relation to the amount of effort put in have been crap.

    Is there a way to actually enjoy dating? Maybe I need to increase my value proposition (i.e., more resources) so that I could more easily attract women / retain them. But I still would have to be around them, and I don't particularly want that. This is a conundrum because I would like to like dating, but as it currently is, I do not. Is there a way to change this?

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    Re: Just Realized I Don't Like Dating. Can I change this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
    As far as dates go, we had a nice first date. As per usual she was a little more chunky in real life than in the pics, but she still looked pretty good. We scheduled a second date, but she flaked, apologized and texted me today to see what my schedule was like.

    At first, we were about to plan a date, but then after a little back and forth I sent the following text "Hey, you know what. I'm not interested in dating right now. I think you're a really nice person and I'm sorry for wasting your time".

    For the last two years, I have been going really hard at trying to learn how to date and make things work. I never realized the headache, inconvenience, and general unpleasantness involved with the process of dating. At this point, I feel like it is just not worth the trouble. I vastly prefer being alone. I've given this dating thing the ol' college try, but I simply don't like it. It also doesn't help that the results in relation to the amount of effort put in have been crap.

    Is there a way to actually enjoy dating? Maybe I need to increase my value proposition (i.e., more resources) so that I could more easily attract women / retain them. But I still would have to be around them, and I don't particularly want that. This is a conundrum because I would like to like dating, but as it currently is, I do not. Is there a way to change this?
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    Re: Just Realized I Don't Like Dating. Can I change this?

    ^^^^^^^^^^
    Last edited by mgtower; September 28, 2022 at 11:15 AM.
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    Re: Just Realized I Don't Like Dating. Can I change this?

    I'm sorry to hear that you feel that way about dating! It can be tough and frustrating, especially when it seems like you're putting in a lot of effort with little to show for it.


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