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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    A single man is seen as a pack mule.

    Single men spreading the word are seen as mule thieves.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    "No wonder you're single!"

    "If you can't handle me at my worst, you can't have me at my best."
    You didn't want me in your prime and I sure as hell don't want you in your decline.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Age and MGTOW are a woman's worse nightmare come true, sleep tight princess, after all, it's all about you!

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by uglything87 View Post
    I’ve seen this insult, gotten this insult. Always been random out if nowhere unrelated to subjects, topics and other various discussions/dialogue throughout life on the trolly internet. For those that date but are single by choice what are your thoughts & how would you justify such comment/shaming towards a relationship status? Just curious.
    Yes I have heard that said , I also knew guys who took any female they could both had children prior the poor betas are hounired to have a women and her brood to fund ..... Its amazing..

    Like advertising , the above works on Blue Pill guys ..

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Here's the thing, you can't win.

    Get laid every night? You must be paying,drugging or manipulating them.

    Long term relationship? You must be a simp or cuck etc

    Ignore women altogether? Must be a fag.

    No matter what we do it will be wrong according to them.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kryptic View Post
    Here's the thing, you can't win.

    No matter what we do it will be wrong according to them.
    Just like me with my parents and extended family. Anything I say or do, they will make it look like I did something wrong and I must hear about it.
    It's a man's world and we need to take it by the throat and make it give us what we desire.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    You didn't want me in your prime and I sure as hell don't want you in your decline.
    "You didn't want me in your prime, I am not going to finance or $upport you in your decline."

    Remember, after 40, when they can't lock down a beta provider, they can suddenly look up at the women in their 60s and realize that, they, too, can wind up OPP: Old, Poor, and Powerless.

    At 20, they are born on 2nd base and think they hit a triple.

    At 30, they get to 3rd base, and think they deserve a to get to home base.

    At 40, they realize they are still on 3rd base, but the game is over.

    At 50, they are still on 3rd base, but the audience has left, the parking lot is empty, the lights have shut off, and the park is closed.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by uglything87 View Post
    I’ve seen this insult, gotten this insult. Always been random out if nowhere unrelated to subjects, topics and other various discussions/dialogue throughout life on the trolly internet. For those that date but are single by choice what are your thoughts & how would you justify such comment/shaming towards a relationship status? Just curious.
    "I was single.

    Then, I was married.

    Then, I was divorced.

    Now...I am happy."


    But look at it another way.
    The only way that they can work that insult into the conversation is if they you did two things:

    1- You got tricked into a conversation where you offered your opinion on a related subject. Why?
    2- They thought you would actually care what they thought about you. Well, you already proved that you took their opinion seriously when you engaged them in conversation.

    Why are you wasting time talking to irrelevant people?

    To NPCs?

    To "coppertops" so embedded to the matrix they will defend it and try to destroy anyone who tries to unplug them?

    Plato tried to drag people out of the cave and they made him drink hemlock.


    "No wonder you are single."

    "Oh, but you are just one phone call away from a night in jail, a protective order, Family Court, divorce rape, and cooking bacon with an iron in a flea bag hotel."
    Last edited by sam luis obispo; October 5, 2021 at 2:41 AM.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by ResidentEvil7 View Post
    Just like me with my parents and extended family. Anything I say or do, they will make it look like I did something wrong and I must hear about it.
    Sounds like the family I grew up in. Even if I did nothing at all, I was still wrong. I learned quickly that the best way to play their game was not to play at all.

    To this day they still can't understand why I don't talk to them.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kryptic View Post
    Sounds like the family I grew up in. Even if I did nothing at all, I was still wrong. I learned quickly that the best way to play their game was not to play at all.

    To this day they still can't understand why I don't talk to them.
    When insulted, I have told relatives that they had 15 seconds to apologize, or I would have no contact with them for a year, and then I would start the count: "One thousand and one, One thousand and two..."

    I also told them that if they insulted me a second time, I would have no contact with them for 2 years.

    They might ignore it. They might chuckle. Either way, I pick up and leave.

    At first they don't think I was serious.

    But birthdays, holidays, it doesn't matter. They no longer exist.

    They don't pay my rent, they don't put food in my fridge. I worked hard to become independent and stay independent. I don't have to be someone's emotional punching bag.

    I have had one relative call me 18 months into a 2 year time out, crying. I let them blubber, said very little.

    I said little, because of the rule
    "All life is a negotiation. Unless you are teaching, if they are talking, they are selling. If you are talking, you are selling."

    Talking right away would make them comfortable, make them feel forgiven.

    They might even want to end the conversation with forgiveness.....without acknowledging what they did was wrong or asking for forgiveness.

    Staying quiet and just giving one word answers let them talk until they explained how they knew they were wrong. I stretched it out by telling them "Hang on, someone is ringing the doorbell (when it wasn't true,)" or "Stay on the line, I have to turn off the oven (when it wasn't true.)"

    I let them explain in great detail what they did wrong and let them explain how they will not do it again.

    But I still didn't forgive them. They weren't calling me to fix the problem, they were talking and talking, hoping to shift the blame.

    I let them talk until they got tired of beating themselves up. When they wanted to end the call, I stayed non committal...and did not respond to them until the end of the 1 year or 2 year period.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    "No wonder you're single!"

    "If you can't handle me at my worst, you can't have me at my best."


    Good one!
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    When insulted, I have told relatives that they had 15 seconds to apologize, or I would have no contact with them for a year, and then I would start the count: "One thousand and one, One thousand and two..."

    I also told them that if they insulted me a second time, I would have no contact with them for 2 years.

    They might ignore it. They might chuckle. Either way, I pick up and leave.

    At first they don't think I was serious.

    But birthdays, holidays, it doesn't matter. They no longer exist.

    They don't pay my rent, they don't put food in my fridge. I worked hard to become independent and stay independent. I don't have to be someone's emotional punching bag.

    I have had one relative call me 18 months into a 2 year time out, crying. I let them blubber, said very little.

    I said little, because of the rule
    "All life is a negotiation. Unless you are teaching, if they are talking, they are selling. If you are talking, you are selling."

    Talking right away would make them comfortable, make them feel forgiven.

    They might even want to end the conversation with forgiveness.....without acknowledging what they did was wrong or asking for forgiveness.

    Staying quiet and just giving one word answers let them talk until they explained how they knew they were wrong. I stretched it out by telling them "Hang on, someone is ringing the doorbell (when it wasn't true,)" or "Stay on the line, I have to turn off the oven (when it wasn't true.)"

    I let them explain in great detail what they did wrong and let them explain how they will not do it again.

    But I still didn't forgive them. They weren't calling me to fix the problem, they were talking and talking, hoping to shift the blame.

    I let them talk until they got tired of beating themselves up. When they wanted to end the call, I stayed non committal...and did not respond to them until the end of the 1 year or 2 year period.
    My Uncle in particular treated me like shit growing up. As I got older, I was told that he wanted more to do with my life as I was getting to the "exciting stage" whatever the fuck that means. It was too late, he burned his bridges. You just can't tear someone apart, especially a kid and just expect them to warm to you because now you want a relationship with them.

    Same with my mother and especially psychotic sister. It's like trying to pet an abused dog, you can try, but you might lose a hand.

    Looking back, they never brought anything positive, just misery. I would say very little, like you, one word answers which they would try and mock. They would try and agitate a response from me. They would seldom get one. They aren't worth it.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I haven't really ever had that comment directed at me but I've found a good rule to live by is being really selective about whose opinions you value.

    I don't - or try not to - give a fuck what some random strangers on the internet say about me. I don't care what some fat, miserable, perma-triggered feminist or some needy blue-pilled married guy thinks about me.

    I care about being respected at work, by my family and by my friends. And if any of that changes, I rearrange the deck

    Life's too short to be dealing with any of that.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by DanielPlainview View Post
    I haven't really ever had that comment directed at me but I've found a good rule to live by is being really selective about whose opinions you value.

    I don't - or try not to - give a fuck what some random strangers on the internet say about me. I don't care what some fat, miserable, perma-triggered feminist or some needy blue-pilled married guy thinks about me.

    I care about being respected at work, by my family and by my friends. And if any of that changes, I rearrange the deck

    Life's too short to be dealing with any of that.
    That kind of thinking is like tackling life's Baja one thousand with a hellcat engine mounted in a 4x4 sand-rail that has 4 ft. of suspension travel!

    Having a thin shell is like being a turtle getting hit by machine gun fire!

    As far as random strangers, when they start shit, or try to ruffle some feathers, I think to myself, oh, another asshole, time to step out of this toilet before I get covered with shit. Adults are becoming more rare these days than hen's teeth!

    A society vanquished of men spawns emotional immaturity and the desire of the immature to be fathered by the state, a recipe that's toxic to masculinity and society as a whole.

    As MGTOW's I see us as neutral observers walking through a cultural wasteland avoiding all misery and suffering instead of being engulfed in it.
    Any man that seeks leadership outside himself has a fool for a guide.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Arguing, sometimes even conversing with these people, is like wrestling with a pig.

    Everyone gets dirty.

    But the pig loves it.
    Last edited by sam luis obispo; October 11, 2021 at 3:16 PM.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    Arguing, sometimes even conversing with these people is like wrestling with a pig.

    Everyone gets dirty.

    But the pig loves it.
    Fuck that, time for some BACON!
    Any man that seeks leadership outside himself has a fool for a guide.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by uglything87 View Post
    I’ve seen this insult, gotten this insult. Always been random out if nowhere unrelated to subjects, topics and other various discussions/dialogue throughout life on the trolly internet. For those that date but are single by choice what are your thoughts & how would you justify such comment/shaming towards a relationship status? Just curious.
    Women only have handful of insults in their repertoire. The reason for that is because women aren't funny.

    Nb4 Amy Poehler exists, that's like saying all men are amazing basketball players because Lebron James exists. Outliers don't change anything.

    It's like any other insult. A rational reply won't change anything. You just come off looking defensive. You should never be (or look) defensive. You should always go on offense.

    For example, I was on a coffee date with a girl ages ago. Some guy drove by in his big loud Ford pickup truck. What did the girl say to me as the guy drove by? Isn't it obvious? "Tee hee hee, wonder what he's compensating for."

    A rational reply wouldn't change anything. She'd still be a bitter cunt and if I defended the guy, I'd look like I've got a tiny one too. You should always go on offense. So, what did I say?

    "Man, you're fat. I mean, like, REALLY FAT."

    If body shaming men is okay then body shaming women is too. And the inverse, if it's not okay to do to women, it's not okay to do to men either.

    When a woman says "No wonder you're still single" or something, don't give her a logical answer. Go on offense.

    "How many divorces have you had again?"

    "See, comments like that are why your daddy never loved you."

    "I'm not single; I'm chaste. You should try it sometime."

    "Hey, not everybody's bedroom is Grand Central Station."

    "Woman, I've got options and a future. All you've got are alimony payments and a baby you still can't afford."

    "Do you say the same thing to your sideboi?"

    "Oh, I definitely get laid more than your husband/boyfriend does."

    "Hey, you don't mention my love life and I won't mention your obesity. Deal?"

    Etc. Don't give them logical answers. It's pearls before swine. If they insult you, you insult them right back.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I can't say I've ever gotten that insult, probably because I don't count what people online say. No one has said it IRL.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    At my old apartment building, there was a woman in a wheelchair I would help out with stuff like taking her to get groceries and I fixed her toilet once instead of her needing to call a plumber. After near a year of this I was starting to get something going with someone new and was moving anyway. Told her I couldn't help her anymore. "NO WONDER YOU ARE SINGLE!!! EVERYONE WAS RIGHT ABOUT YOU!!!" (whoever these people are). Meant destroy my confidence and make me paranoid. I didn't have to help her or ever speak to her. I took payment for this with sexual favors. She should have saw it coming and took a stand against.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I never got the "No wonder you're single" insult, but I've gotten something close to it-- No woman will ever put up with you.
    It's a man's world and we need to take it by the throat and make it give us what we desire.


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