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    For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I’ve seen this insult, gotten this insult. Always been random out if nowhere unrelated to subjects, topics and other various discussions/dialogue throughout life on the trolly internet. For those that date but are single by choice what are your thoughts & how would you justify such comment/shaming towards a relationship status? Just curious.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Don't care what they think.

    Shame all you want, I'm comfortable in my skin being single.

    As Tyrion Lannister said: "Don't forget what you are. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you".

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    When I want a woman I call one. Being single by choice and being shamed for it usually means you're in the company of jealous people who envy your freedom.
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I like that. Wearing it as armor & knowing you’re around jealous people. I’d always tell myself, they can knock themselves out & put a ring on it or go long term with headaches then.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I highly agree with Silent Skiller. I mean who the hell cares what other people think about you? I, too am happy living a single's life: money for my Man Cave pleasures, being able to do whatever I want without having to ask a wife for permission, drink beer (Coors Light) on the weekend, and have my only buddy over.

    They can shame me for being single all they want; it's not going to change anything.
    It's a man's world and we need to take it by the throat and make it give us what we desire.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Usually the women (or men) who come out with that line aren't worth dating/fucking/befriending in the first place.

    Wolf doesn't care about the opinions of sheep and all that.

    If you are in the dating scene, a hot woman might say this to you as a form of shit test. Allowing it to just roll of your back passes their shit test and deepens attraction, so it's win win all round.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    "No wonder you're single!"

    "If you can't handle me at my worst, you can't have me at my best."

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by uglything87 View Post
    I’ve seen this insult, gotten this insult. Always been random out if nowhere unrelated to subjects, topics and other various discussions/dialogue throughout life on the trolly internet. For those that date but are single by choice what are your thoughts & how would you justify such comment/shaming towards a relationship status? Just curious.
    I would ask the man receiving that insult if it is true. Is it true that you are x,y, and z so that's why you're single? If the answer is no, then don't worry about it. There are very few people who's opinions you should take seriously in regards to your lifestyle. It's your life, not theirs.
    In the future there will be robots.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bonobo Protocol View Post
    I would ask the man receiving that insult if it is true. Is it true that you are x,y, and z so that's why you're single? If the answer is no, then don't worry about it. There are very few people who's opinions you should take seriously in regards to your lifestyle. It's your life, not theirs.
    A-men!

    It's your life, smoke it anyway you want!
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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Whenever I have received that "insult", my response has been either "Yes, I'm fat, ugly, broke and HAPPY!" or (if they came with x, y, or z traits) "Just that? My exes can fill a 5 subject notebook with better reasons!" while laughing to their face.

    I am a bachelor because I have chosen it. No other reason is needed!

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    They can all give me a Rusty Trombone. I get a lot of shit cause Im single with no kids. It doesn't phase me.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    "No wonder you're single" belongs in the same category as "girls like confidence, not looks" - bunch of nonsense so i wouldn't justify something that doesn't make sense to begin with.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    "How come you're still single?"

    "I don't know, I'm lucky I guess"

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I consider the source. Last woman who said that line about me filmed her screaming out the window at her neighbors saying she would break into their apartment and beat up their kids. Full psycho meltdown and then got so scared had to move to another city 2 weeks later.

    So whenever you hear any criticism consider the source.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    They can all give me a Rusty Trombone. I get a lot of shit cause Im single with no kids. It doesn't phase me.
    I get a lot of shit for being single with no kids as well. Why do you people hate that? "You still have time." "It's okay you don't have kids. Some people don't."

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I don't get that exactly but women often ask me if I've ever thought about having kids.. and my answer is always "no".. if they press me more then I just tell them I prefer to spend my money on myself.. then I get the predictable "you're so selfish.. wahhhh!" response. That's right, I'm selfish for spending my hard earned money on myself. They can say anything really, It's all water off a ducks back to me now.
    Marrying a woman is like taking a shit upside down every day for the rest of your life. Don't do it!

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheRecipe View Post
    I don't get that exactly but women often ask me if I've ever thought about having kids.. and my answer is always "no".. if they press me more then I just tell them I prefer to spend my money on myself.. then I get the predictable "you're so selfish.. wahhhh!" response. That's right, I'm selfish for spending my hard earned money on myself. They can say anything really, It's all water off a ducks back to me now.
    To that question I always say I never anyone I wanted to make one with.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I'm single, not because I'm a bad person; I'm single because I choose to be free, independent and happy, which is real hard with a bitchy woman around.
    It's a man's world and we need to take it by the throat and make it give us what we desire.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    One of the first posts I read in this website was what to expect when telling people you are mgtow. And his has me prepared to lose friends, simply out of people making assumptions. Im a kind person and i take care of those who i care about. If someone outside of that circle says anything about me i dont really care. Im prepared to lose friends over this, i am not worried about some stranger or friend of friend. Most reasons people dont associate with others is because they do not share the same interests, values, or simply do not care for one another. So to sum it up, given the proper mindset, happiness is your objective. Usually the people that come at you like this are not happy at all.

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    Re: For the bachelors: “no wonder you’re single.” shaming. Thoughts?

    I heard this line before, but after 3 years, 2 of which were finding MGTOW, I came to the conclusion, "What do I want?" Random is impressing people to get people, but what's the benefit of people you get. At this point, good companionship is beneficial and bad companionship is a life sentence; it's better to be single than with bad companionship. Run options and try your best to identify good companionship. Single is also a good option cuz detriment is minimal, hence MGTOW.


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