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    Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    Something in the past has led you to accept MGTOW's concepts, and views of many women's nature. You've decided you won't marry one, have kids with one, or live with one. Does that mean you should eliminate women from your life completely? That may work great for many men. I enjoy sex with women way too much to eliminate them completely.

    So, what to do? I decided to totally rethink my view of women. They are not the sweet things the blue pill world taught me. I accepted that fact. It forced me to get real with what I truly wanted a woman around for. Sex was the number one answer for me. I have other reasons as well. They just are not as important to me.

    Over the past ten years I've led a me first, MGTOW lifestyle. During that time, I have cycled through a few one-night stands, and several FWB arraignments with women. For years now I have a woman I see about once a week. I'm no closer to being a blue pilled simp, plantation slave than the day I started. Here are just some random thoughts I have about it.

    Most important to me is to be 100% serious about not caring if you have a woman around or not. I think it's harder to do that than swear off women completely. Once you're having that good sex again. Can you truly walk away from it in a heartbeat if you have to? If you can't say yes to that first, in my eyes you best leave women alone. Lest you end up a simp again. You truly cannot care if they stay or go.

    Can you accept that she is not yours? It's just your turn with her. Your turn could last from one day to several years. However, your turn can end at any time. Can you accept that and not care? I can. I have. Life went on just fine for me.

    Do you understand that there is a good chance she is having sex with others? While she is seeing you. If that will make you nuts. Stay away from women. You have to not care. You can try to be with someone less promiscuous, but you will never truly know for sure.

    I never lie to a woman for sex. I don't make false promises. When the time comes to say farewell, I have found it cuts the drama to a bare minimum. I also don't continue to see them if they put conditions on having sex.

    I don't argue or compromise to keep a woman in my life. Rather than that I agree with them and disarm the situation. Tell me you don't want to see me because you need more? My favorite line is I completely understand. You are making a decision to stop seeing me because you need something I can't give you. Makes crystal clear sense to me. I'll miss the fun we had in the past. I never ask what I could, should or would change to keep our thing going. I truly don't care if she stays or goes. If they cut off sex. I completely understand. Sorry to see you go. Need a full-time man around. I completely understand. I'm not that guy. Need to live with a man? I'm sure you will find another man who would love that as well. That attitude has stunned many a woman. They can't fathom I'll let them walk and never look back. Many just drop it and hang around longer. Some have walked away, never to be heard from again.

    If you can't keep in check what men are biologically hard wired to want to do for women, you best keep your distance from a woman. You could end up one great blow job away from a return to the plantation. So far, I'm hundreds of blowjobs into this. The plantation is nowhere in sight for me. Never will be.

    Those men who can change how they relate to women. A man who can control his urges to protect, provide, and partner with a woman. That man may decide to give women a small place in his life. Just check yourself first. Make sure you truly do not care if they stay or go.
    "People are always angry at anyone who chooses very individual standards for his life; because of the extraordinary treatment which that man grants to himself, they feel degraded, like ordinary beings."
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    Re: Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    Not only is it just your turn, you also might have to accept that other men are also having their turn with her! Poly relationships have become more popular and I always think they would be much easier for women who have an easier time finding partners than men. So for every woman the man bangs the woman would or could bang 5 men herself.

    A lot of women also have a FWB or more than one. I learned that on dating sites, women have always opened up to me probably more than they should. They would tell me they have a FWB and they stop seeing them when they start seeing someone else, and yes I know that is also me getting friend zoned that they tell me those things.

    So to be with a woman in anyway at all you just have to accept that she is most likely banging others. Regularly or even just by chance when the mood strikes her.

    I have never lied either to get sex or a woman and if I had of I think I would have had a lot more success. But I never wanted the drama and I guess the sex never meant enough. I could easily get it at a legal brothel.

    The more the rose coloured glasses came off the less I wanted to be with women though. Even for sex. Seeing them as something special appeared to be entwined with sex for me. I am not that interested in just hammering away without any care. I can masturbate for that.

    That is just me and sometimes I wished it were different.

    But overall I am not a fan of the shit tests they apply even when just friends with a man. I am not a fan of their self entitlement and egos. Even the ugly think the whole world wants to fuck them.

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    Re: Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    I have zero idea how anyone could be attracted to or want to spend time with these lifeless bags of meat that have been filled up more than a diesel fuel big rig.

    I get that guys need to get off, but can you really get off to a public urinal? That's what many of these women are. The average college girl has been passed around well into the double digits. 20 is a conservative average. Don't believe me, look it up. I remember when 5 was considered a lot.

    A feminist is probably sneering "INCEL" reading this. I don't care if I am the king of Chads in comparison to a thot's past lays, I find it filthier than a used syringe in a homeless crackhead encampment.

    I'd much rather be alone forever than put my dick in that disease-ridden snatch.

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    Re: Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    Quote Originally Posted by nameless View Post
    I have zero idea how anyone could be attracted to or want to spend time with these lifeless bags of meat that have been filled up more than a diesel fuel big rig.

    I get that guys need to get off, but can you really get off to a public urinal? That's what many of these women are. The average college girl has been passed around well into the double digits. 20 is a conservative average. Don't believe me, look it up. I remember when 5 was considered a lot.

    A feminist is probably sneering "INCEL" reading this. I don't care if I am the king of Chads in comparison to a thot's past lays, I find it filthier than a used syringe in a homeless crackhead encampment.

    I'd much rather be alone forever than put my dick in that disease-ridden snatch.
    Cool story bro.

    I totally respect you feeling that way. As a matter of fact the bulk of this forum is here for you to promote that train of thought.

    This tiny section of the forum is here for those of us who don't see it your way.
    "People are always angry at anyone who chooses very individual standards for his life; because of the extraordinary treatment which that man grants to himself, they feel degraded, like ordinary beings."
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    Re: Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    FWB is too much trouble. I'm totally done with women.

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    Re: Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    I’m so done with women i no longer find them attractive

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    Re: Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    Hey, leave the big rigs out of this! They don't deserve the comparison.

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    Re: Considering a FWB? Check yourself, Before you wreck yourself

    Really appreciate this thread


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