Maybe one good thing might come out of all this "Racist" crap. The word will become so overused that no one will want to use it. Instead of an insult...
I try not to, but on occasion have held on to grudges. Once something gets to you, all that really works is time, least for me. If you can keep shit...
I never heard a guy say they were "upset" either. They poured it on too, like they were giving us what we wanted. Your probably on to something. But...