I try not to, but on occasion have held on to grudges. Once something gets to you, all that really works is time, least for me. If you can keep shit...
I never heard a guy say they were "upset" either. They poured it on too, like they were giving us what we wanted. Your probably on to something. But...
Hara knew many Americans would read his book and he put a lot of work into attempting to explain the Japanese people and the Imperial Navy's actions...