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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    Yup. Anyone who doesn't know this is utterly new to the manosphere.

    Google "Don't date single moms", people.
    Really? Okay, let's see what we get.

    http://realnewspaper.me/2015/05/28/dateamom/

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    WTF WAS THAT?! Worst advice ever, Wombat! Holy shit. For those of you who can't be bothered to wade through all of that bullshit, the author of that blog goes way beyond your typical blue pill mangina. Ebrahim Aseem as he calls himself has been brainwashed so thoroughly that even his limbic system was given a few layers of wax. Let's go over some highlights, shall we?

    Don’t act interested, get her pregnant, then leave her to raise a child alone.
    Is this a shitty thing to do? Yes. But is it usually how things go? Probably not. Many young men will do or say anything to get laid, but in the end a woman has the ultimate say on who can or can't get her pregnant. If this was truly how things were, why aren't women demanding a commitment before getting pregnant? Why was she not using birth control? At what point does personal responsibility for a woman become a factor? And what's stopping her from getting an abortion (worst case scenario) in this hypothetical scenario where some guy convinced her to have unprotected sex and just vanished when she turned up pregnant? Ugh. That's just the first paragraph, there is so much more.

    If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. It will give that child abandonment issues lasting a lifetime, effecting their future relationships. #EbrahimAseem I will make a woman a wife before I make her a mother, because my mother raised a future husband & father, not a future baby daddy.
    This is from the same paragraph. So, what, she was already a single mother? She wasn't tricked by some evil, card-carrying member of the Patriarchy into getting knocked up? Your mother fucked your brain harder than your father fucked her to make you. Maybe this single mother shouldn't be introducing her child to every swinging dick that happens to strike her fancy if she doesn't want her child to have these issues. Women are not hapless victims, they are responsible for their actions no matter what your mother told you. Not only that, but what if she chases the man off by being a raging cunt? What if that man has very good reason to leave her? Idiot.

    Single Mothers don’t have poor taste in men. It’s not her fault she choose a “baby daddy”. She just confided in a boy she thought was as a man.
    Then whose fault is it? She 'choose' (chose, ahem) according to you. She fucked up.

    I don’t hold a woman’s past choices against her. Single mothers DESERVE a Man who can LEAD himself & his children. She shouldn’t have to lead herself AND her child by herself, AND make every financial decision in her life, AND deal with stress, AND pay all the bills, AND pray all by her self.
    Is this guy a gold mine for stupid or what? If she's a single mother, that means those children aren't his. They are HER children and since she 'choose' wrong, yes she should have to do all those things. It's called responsibility AKA being an adult. When you decide to breed, you accept the consequences of your decision. Yes, even women. A single mother isn't entitled to a man, she has to earn him. Especially if she wants a quality man. Unfortunately for her, those quality men are probably chasing younger, fresher meat that isn't tied down by children.

    She deserves a strong man who can shoulder that burden with her. Lead her child & be her rock.
    Wait, is it her kid or is it his kid? You've changed up in the same paragraph. Consistency is for chumps!

    I had to watch my moms do all that alone growing up, as she chose to leave my pops, rather than be subjected to catering to a man not on her level. I made a decision as a young boy that I will never sit & watch the mother of my children struggle to play the role that I as a MAN was put on this earth to play. I have no children yet. I’m going to get the wife & children I deserve, even if I have to wife a single mother after courting her, because at least I know she knows how to cater to a man, because she’s raising one.
    Waitwaitwait. Your moms 'choose' (chose!) to be a single moms?! Not due to any kind of abuse or anything, but because 'he wasn't on her level'. DO YOU NOT SEE THE LOGIC FAIL HERE!? YOUR MOMS 'CHOOSE' THAT MAN TO MAKE BABY WITH, YOU DUMB FUCK. If he wasn't on her level, why would she choose to breed with him in the first place? If you're this colossally stupid, you don't need to be having any children. And if you marry a single mother, you deserve exactly what you get. Protip: it won't be happily ever after. It's going to be an amazingly deep dicking from family court.

    Stop having babies by men you wouldn't want your SON to BEcome If he hasn't proven he can lead & provide why let his #BabyMaker deep inside?
    Maybe your moms should have thought of that before letting your pops #BabyMaker deep inside of her. Just a thought. At least the world would be spared your particular brand of cognitive dissonance.

    After that he goes on and on AND ON about some woman he met while shopping. It's bad. Pussy on a pedestal? Not even close to what he was doing. This guy is so pussy whipped that he literally worships pussy as a deity. He's like Steve Harvey overdosing on estrogen.

    Men have no idea how hard it can be for Single Mothers to deal with the baby (Because women get custody 80% of the time?), get ready for work, feed the baby, get dressed, clean up after the baby, rock the baby, because the precious bundle of joy is crying, then wipe her own damn tears, because girls cry rivers having to deal with the baby all by her self. Meanwhile, the child’s sperm donor (aka father) plays Call of Duty, fingering enabling women, playing Madden, eating Cinnamon Toast Crunch out of a huge mixing bowl & buying bammer weed & Jordans with money he could be providing for their child & investing in his role as a father.Please, go spend time with your child. Not for 2 hours bro, no stop baby sitting your own child, while you play daddy for another woman’s child. Take your child for a weekend, shit a whole week. Give your children’s mother time for her SELF. You men will be salty as hell when your children don’t eff with you when they grow up. I know this, because my big sister went through all this.
    Bammer? Wow. This guy is like a caricature of black men. Sweeping generalizations aside, aren't you the same guy that earlier in this very same article said:

    Stop having babies by men you wouldn't want your SON to BEcome If he hasn't proven he can lead & provide why let his #BabyMaker deep inside?
    These women 'choose' (chose!) these men! If all they did was play video games, eat sugary cereal, cheat and buy 'bammer' weed...why were these women doing the horizontal tango with them to begin with? Man, I can't wait for this guy to get smacked to death by the family court system. It's gunna be awesome. Blah, blah, blah, this single mother he's seeing bailed on their first date because her child was sick. She then takes him out and reveals that she's living with her childs' father still and tells him a sob story about how said father completely changed when the 'I'm pregnant' bomb was dropped. And he completely eats that shit up. Doesn't ask any questions, doesn't find it any kind of suspicious. It's not like women lie or anything. Also, she still lives with the first guy! Red flag much?!

    Then he shares his own sob story about how his ex had a miscarriage and how he cries about the daughter he never got to meet. I actually have no snarky response for that, but he's a tedious read and I'm trying to save some of you guys the chore of reading all of this for yourselves.

    I will not ask you to chill. I will take you out on a date, let you know exactly how I feel & my intentions with you. We’re too old for games & passiveness. If you have a child, we will not “talk” or date leading nowhere. I will court you. I will make my plans to marry you one day known. You deserve a help meet, not merely a date. A man “dating” her without commitment is how she became a single mother in the first place.
    She 'choose' (chose!) to do that, remember? Women still aren't the hapless victims that things just spontaneously happen to that you make them out to be. She 'choose' (chose!) to have unprotected sex with someone without a commitment instead of asking for one before that stage.

    A woman all about her child makes a man of valor want to be all about her. I know you want a complete family. A husband to share a lifetime of affection with. Travel abroad with. Grow with. Laugh with. Be silly with. Raise your children to love themself with. I want you to know you are not broken. You are not damaged goods. You are not incomplete without a man. You are a masterpiece, sculpted by the most powerful artist in the universe, who has a plan & a help meet for you. So get ready. Self edify. Love your child, and your king will mentally ascend to his throne, make you the wife you were born to be and love you & your child as his own, with all his heart.
    See what I mean about pussy worship? This guy has it bad. To him, single mothers are the best thing ever even though by definition she done fucked up real good. It'd be funny if it wasn't so pathetic...oh, what the hell. I'll laugh anyway!



    "She should've used birth control" A baby is NOT some accident or punishment a woman suffers. A baby is what you once were, you were born from a woman who didn't use birth control yourself. If you hate life being born & hate women, you hate the choice your own God made for her to be the vessel & representation of life in the universe & your own history as a spirit traveling through her body. You mad?
    So just because my mother gave birth to me, I hate life, being born and women in general. And because she didn't use birth control and gave birth to me, I should give all women everywhere a pass for having children with the same shitty men you condemn with sweeping generalizations (bammer weed, anybody)? No, I'm not mad. I'm merely puzzled how somebody this completely fucktarded manages to breathe, let alone type. Women 'choose' (chose!) these men and now you want to play Captain Save a Hoe? Maybe she'll iron your cape if you ask nicely.

    Single mother does not automatically mean deadbeat father. Some fathers are not allowed to establish a relationship with their child, because the mother is bitter he moved on. Some single mothers are widows who had amazing husbands.
    Are you sure? Cause you seemed to have this vivid picture of what these men are like with their Madden marathons and bammer weed. I also notice that this is as far as you go in describing the men who actually manage to be fathers. For all his talk of 'man up!', he seems to have a real disdain for fatherhood, which is what he strives towards EVEN IF HE HAS TO RAISE SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILD. The male hamster is real.

    I can imagine being married.
    Oh, is he not? Interesting. I notice he doesn't mention that woman from 50 paragraphs ago ever again. It's almost like women don't want a man that praises her like a god or something. They prefer the guys that lay around in their underwear and play video games all day. Go figure.

    I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I now for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with.
    I’d absolutely MARRY a single mother after courting her. Then I could be my dream, a father, but never will I date her “talk” & starve her of commitment she deserves
    Hate to break it to this guy, but his mother was no queen. She 'choose' (CHOSE!) a man she ultimately left because she considered him inferior. That's not queen behavior, that's poor decision making. And you go right ahead and marry that single mother, you simp. Then you can tell your moms about how she ruined your life when your dignity, your money and your time has been stolen and re-purposed for some shrill harpy that you've grown to resent. Make sure you thank your moms for that brainwashing she gave you when you're down and out, dumbass.

    Well, that was fun! I haven't gotten to write like that in a while. As is expected, the comments on that article are all women having a huge feelz circlejerk about how profound he is. And still no wife and child. Oops!
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    Re: This is Just Plain Sad!

    Huh. Clearly I need to be more specific. I was thinking of Nacho's old thread, and Terrance Popp's video. That link of yours is pure gold, though.

    … So, when I saw her shopping, I had to approach. “Good afternoon,” I greeted with a smile, “I pray your day goes as beautiful as your vibe is. You’re absolutely slaying your outfit. Could I ask your opinion on some clothes for my baby niece?”
    “Of course,” she replied with a smile. “That’s cute you shop for your niece. Or is that just some pick up line you use to meet hot women?”
    I laughed out loud.
    “No line queen, I just love my family & being all about them,” I clapped back. “Now, I see your hair & nails are freshly done. So are you & your edges really in here shopping, or is this just some tactic you use to get approached by handsome men?”
    Gag me with a fucking spoon. Is this for real? Is this really how guys pick up? Do people really talk like this? Fuck me with a wrought-iron fence - no way. This reads like Nigel's Big Game blog - it's got to be satire, please tell me it's satire.

    “I have to be completely honest with you, because I really like you,” she confessed. “The reason I flaked on our first date, was because I was in the emergency room with my son. He had a lobectomy as a baby & was having trouble breathing that day. So, I took him to the hospital.”
    Oh thank God - I was genuinely worried there for a minute. This is funny as hell.

    Come on, all you blue-pillers! Man up and marry those sluts! Be a daddy to their lobectomied fuck-trophies!

    Just one more quote:

    There I was, me and my infant son living in my Prius.

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    Re: This is Just Plain Sad!

    I went to the link and saw a long column of information in multiple formats. WTF? Pictures with text on them, then 24 rows of smaller font underneath one (a caption?) having a possible discussion between two people? Then bold font words. Then not-bold-font words. Then more picture of individual messages. Repeat this cycle. Then some youtube videos. Then repeat the earlier formats.

    Is this from one person going mental? Is this a conversation between people?

    Nevermind. I don't want to know. Such a collage suggests mental disturbance, like the bedroom wall of a serial killer with clippings everywhere, intermixed with scrawlings and mementos from the victims.

    I didn't read any of it. I got the hell out of there before Jame Gumb turned the lights off.
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    He should name it the ultimate guide to become a beta bitch.

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    We're always talking about how modern women make lousy wives; here we see them making lousy mothers. One of the single mother's applauding the ruptured blue pill recounted that her daughter said "daddy doesn't want me anymore" and that she sent the kid to her room so she, the mother, could cry, because it hurt her worse than her daughter. Really?? Her kid is hurt and feeling unwanted, and rather than console her and make it clear that she has someone who loves her, she sends her away to be alone? Because her pain is worse? That's a hell of an assumption to make, and wholly inadequate to justify emotionally abandoning her child. She doesn't know how to "fix it" so she doesn't hold her child close and tell her she loves her? If she was as bad at being a significant other as she is at being a mother, her single status is explained. Her inadequacy cost that kid two parents.

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    Single mothers suck. I know because I slid out of the dandruff sprinkled fur-burger of one. Early life was a living hell for me and any idiot who was thirsty enough to drink from the sour milk bucket.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    I went to the link and saw a long column of information in multiple formats. WTF? Pictures with text on them, then 24 rows of smaller font underneath one (a caption?) having a possible discussion between two people? Then bold font words. Then not-bold-font words. Then more picture of individual messages. Repeat this cycle. Then some youtube videos. Then repeat the earlier formats.

    Is this from one person going mental? Is this a conversation between people?

    Nevermind. I don't want to know. Such a collage suggests mental disturbance, like the bedroom wall of a serial killer with clippings everywhere, intermixed with scrawlings and mementos from the victims.

    I didn't read any of it. I got the hell out of there before Jame Gumb turned the lights off.
    Yeah that article is really confusing. It seems like he can't phrase anything in a clear way, all I can see are disconnected snippets of white knighting. I can't get over just how rabidly he wants to defend single mothers though. Extremely long article with no organization, just a bunch of rambling.

    I will not ask you to chill. I will take you out on a date, let you know exactly how I feel & my intentions with you. We’re too old for games & passiveness. If you have a child, we will not “talk” or date leading nowhere. I will court you. I will make my plans to marry you one day known
    So he understands the con, but he's all about jumping into it. This is what it looks like when someone drinks the "man up" koolaid so much it becomes part of his bloodstream.
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    That article was indeed a joke. This is what Jagr accurately described as a man pulling a "reverse cuckold" on himself. I was on this other forum that I finally quit because it went from a good purple pill forum to a blue pill toilet. On one thread, a guy who was only like within a year of getting divorced was asking members of that forum whether or not he should move up an hour to be with some divorced Mom.
    Quote Originally Posted by Beta Bucks Chump in dating woman "Divorced With Kids" thread
    It was a case of two people who never should have gotten married. Her ex was emotionally and (often) physically absent from the marriage and parenting their daughter. I have actually met the ex and he fit her description to a tee. Totally self absorbed people pleaser. They have been divorced just about a year.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ace Francis response to part above he originally quoted
    Wow, your hamster is bigger than hers!!! He is the BAD guy. She is the GOOD girl. Lucky you. Wow!

    Can't wait to hear your story about her ten years from now. Gotta love seeing guys hamsterizing a REVERSE CUCKOLD that they are MORE than completely complicit in pulling on themselves there. Also, you say "emotionally absent" about her ex-husband just because you met him a few times when he got his kid.

    Dude, you sound like a total talking vagina Nice Guy to the tenth power with that language. You sound quite naive to me. Ready to move up to HER town as if you'll NEVER get laid again. You need to FUCK at least more than one woman before making decisions like THAT.
    Now my post was definitely on the harsh side. But the dude who admits he's a recovering Nice Guy is considering relocating two hours to the north of where he lives. The son of this mother is like 5 or 6 years old.

    I've dated a few single Moms. But their kids were already in high school. They had lives of their own. In my case I never felt like number two to the kids. But that guy I'll call Mr. Reverse Cuckold was totally playing into her frame.

    Obviously he is a beta bux candidate. These men need to ask themselves a real simple question: would she have given you the time of day before the kid? Or is she just using you as a beta bux sucker?

    Oh and as for some of your comments on this thread, damn right the author was a Steve Harvey on steroids!
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    Re: This is Just Plain Sad!

    TL;DR

    One comment caught my eye as I scanned, though, as it was squarely aimed at teh wimminz, "Stop having babies by men you wouldn't want your SON to BEcome. If he hasn't proven he can lead and provide, why let his #BabyMaker deep inside?" - which, even if the message is ambivalent, does shift some responsibility towards them for opening their legs for ole Chad Thundercock.

    But then, it could also be read as an exhortation to teh wimminz with womb-turds to reduce their expectation and get with a beta-AFC/blue-pill provider guy, thus propagating the next generation of manginae.
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