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    average broads on okcupid and their laughable expectations.....

    Greetings, Gentlemen !

    I'm a German guy and fellow MGTOW in my mid-thirties, and I'm currently living as a full-time "ghost" in my city.
    I used to be on the old MGTOW-forum but haven't got around to signing up on the new one until now, though I have been 'lurking' here on and off for a while.
    Finally signed up today and will still add my proper introduction eventually. So much on that, so nobody thinks I'm here to troll around.

    So... I'm sure most if not all of you are aware that okcupid is the laughable culmination of wiminz' hypergamous tendencies.
    Usually nowadays, I just laugh it off when I see pictures of a totally average looking, used up "slapper" (as our British friends' call them) tied to a silly laundry list of "requirements" interspersed with condescending remarks about "you men" on that 'forum', as it just confirms that I've made the right choice in going my own way.

    But on days like today (and for a couple of days already) the old '-drive' does come back with a vengeance, to the point where I am constantly distracted by it. So on days like these, I reactivate my sleeper-account on okcupid, set my search to "looking for - casual sex" and cast my net far and wide, that is, from 18 to 50 (yes, 50 - howl... with all due respect to you gentlemen around that age, but we all know there is a universe of a difference between a 50 year-old gent and a used-up 50 year-old, over-the-hill broad).

    Now, I live in a major city thus there are plenty of 'candidates' signed up to okcupid here. I am, while generally not a head-turning specimen, certainly not ugly, in reasonable shape, that is, slim and trim, am 6 ft 1in tall, have stylish hair and nice enough style. I write personalized messages that must demonstrate a modicum of intelligence to a number of women (..wasted hours on that over the last week...), and all I get back is them checking me out, or at best, them trying to get funny with me.
    Some of these women the majority of you guys would probably classify as anywhere between totally average to downright hideous. (I don't like to 'work' for/jump through hoops of attractive women, that's why I don't even bother going for them.)
    Frankly, I believe these chicks would be doing alright for themselves by hooking up with me.
    Yet the pathetic outcome of hours wasted on this pursuit is zilch. Nada.

    In comparison, I've set up another profile in Shanghai, China, just to see what's on offer over there. (because I personally think Asian women, by and large, are the most attractive and fuckable of all women by a long way.) The "weekly matches"-newsletters I get sent from there could have you believe that Shanghai is some kind of babe-factory. Listings of one mega-babe after another, all of them dropdead gorgeous. About two to five times a week I receive messages from some of those beauties trying to initiate contact with me. All of those who do so are very attractive by anyone's standards, and many of them seem really sweet and genuinely interested. Then, when I reply, I have to tell them that I am not in Shanghai, but that I'm "intending to come there" at some point.
    That's what I get there. Here I get ugly whores not responding. What gives....?

    Prostitution in my country is, as yet, legal (the feminists so far, thankfully, weren't able to dismantle it yet, though it is on their agenda), as well as reasonably affordable for anyone who isn't a struggling, chronically cash-strapped musician like myself. I could easily go and pay a nice-looking 20-something Eastern European pro, or an equally appetizing 30-something Thai masseuse, and relieve the -drive that way. But the trouble is, I just cannot get myself to go through with that. Not for moral reasons (could care less), not for health reasons (if you use a condom it is entirely safe in this country, they all get tested at least monthly), but for financial reasons: You think, 50 Euros - that's a pair of decent outlet jeans, a nice shirt, or a week's food; 100 Euros - that's another effects pedal for my guitar.... and so on.

    Sometimes you just want to get your end away, goddammit. Why does it have to be so fucking complicated every time.
    And the mental haze that this state causes is maddening.
    Beam me to Shanghai, Scotty !

    There you have it, gents, a full-on and probably pointless rant.
    Any thoughts welcome nonetheless.

    Peace !

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    Re: average broads on okcupid and their laughable expectations.....

    Quote Originally Posted by DudeGoinHisOwnWay View Post
    The "weekly matches"-newsletters I get sent from there could have you believe that Shanghai is some kind of babe-factory. Listings of one mega-babe after another, all of them dropdead gorgeous. About two to five times a week I receive messages from some of those beauties trying to initiate contact with me.
    Remember that most of the women on Ashley Madison were chatbots.

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    Re: average broads on okcupid and their laughable expectations.....

    Given that the hot and the average both display nigh universal requirements for hoops, might it not be better to go exclusively after the best looking ones, so that the lucky outlier you are waiting on ranks as high on the beauty scale as possible? If you're going to sift through junk for a prize, no sense in it being a second rate prize.

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    Re: average broads on okcupid and their laughable expectations.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    Remember that most of the women on Ashley Madison were chatbots.
    Ashley Madison appears to be another dating site ?! (I'm not familiar with it.)
    Oh well then, this might well be true here some of the time as well... But in some cases further messages appeared sufficiently 'unique' to believe they may have come from real people/women. No way of knowing of course. But as it stands I'm not truly missing out because I'm not in a position to do anything about it anyway.

    I'm already embarrassed about this rant but there you go. Guess the occasional bout of hormones is gonna cloud anyone's judgment as long as we have a pair of functioning balls....

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    Re: average broads on okcupid and their laughable expectations.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Visvires View Post
    Given that the hot and the average both display nigh universal requirements for hoops, might it not be better to go exclusively after the best looking ones, so that the lucky outlier you are waiting on ranks as high on the beauty scale as possible? If you're going to sift through junk for a prize, no sense in it being a second rate prize.
    There is truth in what you say, so if I could be bothered to put in the effort it would indeed be better.
    The thing is, even in a state like I was in when I wrote up the above rant, I just cannot be bothered with any sort of exertions in the pursuit of pussy. And I have found that the further you're willing to go down on the attractiveness totem pole the lower the hoops that you're asked to jump through are set, meaning, less effort on my part with higher willingness on their part. Or, with the same amount of (low) effort my odds increase. I put up with a more "second rate prize" in exchange for not having to exert myself much for them. ....when I'm not planning on 'keeping them' this is actually not such a bad deal, I find.
    Because, let's face it, the higher the general SMV of the chick in question the more high maintanance and trouble she's going to be, long- or short term. While all *I* want is to simply get my end away on occasion... as long as a bird meets a certain modicum of attractiveness, with me not having to put in much effort, then it's good to me.
    Well, that's just my stance... I'm not a perfectionist when it comes to getting my physical needs met, I guess.

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    Re: average broads on okcupid and their laughable expectations.....

    Well, in order for my above statement to make sense, in light of my rant, I should add that after trying some more I managed to arrange something for the weekend after all, according to the logic I've just shared. Not via okcupid but trusty old craigslist. (Where women simply aren't given the space to get all high and mighty, haha.)

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    I was introduced around in the Philippines by friends. At 52 I stated that I wanted no one under 35. That did not last. There is a serious desire for marriageable men in Asia. The very attractive and young women have a much broader range of what they think are acceptable matches. I ended up having to block several gorgeous 18 year olds (single mothers) that would not take no for an answer.

    I have first hand testimony from an online acquaintance about Thai dating boards that denies the assumption that the women's profiles are fake. He went to a Bangkok get together set up by one of these online dating boards. He said there were easily 20 women for every man that showed up, and the women were making the moves.

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    Re: average broads on okcupid and their laughable expectations.....

    what I find "laughable" regarding profiles on OKcup is the fact that the message-able women on there haven't logged in for months, sometimes years....
    (as for most of them.. I found myself getting "shot down" before I could even read the profiles at all....)
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