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    Re: My mom died

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    Thanks everyone. I'm just so depressed & lonely.
    No reason you shouldn't be this way. Losing mom is a big hit.

    I would also say when it comes to losing parents everybody's situation is different. What eats one person might not mean a thing to someone else.

    Mine were older than your mom when they passed. Watching their body's go south wasn't much fun, but it didn't bother me. Both were fairly healthy, all things considered. Watching them go downhill mentally was worse, though neither lost enough that they couldn't get by till very near the end.

    Maybe it don't help much, but you now won't have to watch her slowly fade away. Going an inch at a time, and wondering where it will all end. I hope this don't sound cold, it's just I've been there a few years ahead of you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    No reason you shouldn't be this way. Losing mom is a big hit.

    I would also say when it comes to losing parents everybody's situation is different. What eats one person might not mean a thing to someone else.

    Mine were older than your mom when they passed. Watching their body's go south wasn't much fun, but it didn't bother me. Both were fairly healthy, all things considered. Watching them go downhill mentally was worse, though neither lost enough that they couldn't get by till very near the end.

    Maybe it don't help much, but you now won't have to watch her slowly fade away. Going an inch at a time, and wondering where it will all end. I hope this don't sound cold, it's just I've been there a few years ahead of you.
    My father had a stroke and lost speech but the rest of him (personality recognizance) was still there, years before he lost the tips of a couple fingers, between that and the stroke my brother made a joke to my father saying that my father's going to heaven one piece at a time, we all laughed together because it was funny.

    In the passing of time you'll find that fond memories replace the grief and sadness of your loss.
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    You guys are helping me through this so much. HUGE thank you. I recieved such an out pour of condolences from people. My mom was very reserved & used to think people didnt like her and talked about her. Far from the truth now.Her friend of over 40 years is taking it very hard. They were friends longer than I've been alive even as a sperm cell! She calls me to check on me cause she thinks I will do something stupid due to my past. I swore to her & and I swear to all of you people here that I will NOT do anything stupid. I have many past suicide attempts & Hospitalizations so I get where she is coming from. Everyone that knows me knows I am a man of my word. Can you take a joke? I can't promise no harm cause I just gorged on chicken wings & pizza and I've been vaping my head off so there goes my cholesterol levels & waist line but I am no threat to myself or others.

    I knew this day would come but I didn't think it would be like this. So lonely & depressing. This may sound weird but bear with me guys. When your loved ones passed did you get any signs from them? The reason I ask is because I think Im getting signs from my mom. I hear that Adele song Hello a lot lately, her favorite bands(not common ones either Im talking like 3 dog night & Richard Marx in other words shit you really dont hear anymore.) Also I have been finding money all over the place. Found a lot of pennies & dimes around the house which is odd since I rarely use cash since I have a bank card. But I am okay and will be okay. As you guys can attest, I am a stubborn asshole.

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    Three Dog Night, that was an awesome band! I still listen to them!
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    I got no signs from the other side, but there was one strange occurrence. Rewind four years to the summer when the old man had just died. Mom's doctor wanted to see her over some two bit thing, probably just wanted another office call. She didn't want to go, and while we were talking about it I saw a thought enter her head. I saw it cross her face as plain as if she said it. "If I get sick, I'm outa here."


    She was a good sport and put on a good act. Everyone thought she was a happy grandma and a spunky person. She was, but she didn't fool me. I knew she was just waiting. Cancer got her four years later. She did nothing to speed up the process except maybe trusting cooperate America too much.
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    I feel for your loss bro.

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    I knew this day would come but I didn't think it would be like this.
    Although I thought I was prepared for it, when my mum passed it affected me in ways I never expected. Suddenly songs on the radio or stories on t.v. shows would take on new meanings. It was all very confusing.

    I also had a a bit of a fear of saying or doing the wrong things, like you're meant to behave in a certain way at these times. Don't worry about these things as the people around you will make allowances and will understand that you're not going to be yourself for a while.

    Take your time and mourn in your own way. It may not seem like it at the moment but you will come to terms with your loss and you will be yourself once again.

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    When my parents passed I cried alot.....and visited their friends.....just to chat and relive memories. They helped me out more than I did them. Some of the stories they shared about certain events shed a new light on things that I assumed an opposite understanding of. Mine were not perfect.....hell Nobody is...

    Bro words we speak can only have just so much little effect for you .... but let it be known we all are sending positive helping and healing thoughts your way!

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    Re: My mom died

    My condolences fellow brother. Sorry this is kinda late since I've been out for a minute but I wish you and your fam all the strength in the world.

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    Re: My mom died

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    Also I have been finding money all over the place. Found a lot of pennies & dimes around the house which is odd since I rarely use cash since I have a bank card.
    My dad passed away twenty years ago. He was a bit of a jokester at times, and after his passing I started to find pennies, here and there, on the sidewalk and elsewhere, much more frequently than I ever did before. I decided it was him saying hello and I use these moments to remember him to this day.
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