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    Question for research

    Hey people question I'm asking and I've already done one blog about it and will likely be doing another one quite soon is this


    When you decided to go to MGTOW did you suddenly get an uptake in the amount of attention that women were paying to you? I've definitely noticed that this has happened especially since I've moved closer to being MGTOW.


    What happened to you in this area and how have you dealt with it.

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    Re: Question for research

    I really listen to women now , then say "No". Then next time they give less back story to requests and I say " I'll throw that on the maybe pile".
    I've started to see when I'm in a serious mood ( not somber) I get more direct communication and less " you're my buddy" relations.

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    Re: Question for research

    Nope. I've always been really dense and bad at reading the "signals" that women may or may not be giving out though.

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    Hmmmm...I'm with Brother Nuggets on this one. Having never been possessed of the ability to 'read' people very well, I haven't noticed much difference.
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    Re: Question for research

    if there has been a "change", I havent noticed... (then again, I never was "looking" in the first place..)
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    Re: Question for research

    Quote Originally Posted by Eiji View Post
    I never was "looking" in the first place..
    Exactly. The original post in this thread seems to carry the implication that getting more attention from women might be a reason for going your own way, or at least that it might be a bonus to the MGTOW lifestyle.

    But if that were a reason for being MGTOW, then it would make going your own way little more than a pick-up technique. As if feigning indifference to women would make them see you as a challenge so that they take more interest in you. To me this would not really be MGTOW because it's all about the women.

    In my own experience, the times in my life when women have been interested in me were those times when I had social status. The times when women have not been interested in me were those times when I had very little social status. My physical appearance was the same in both cases, my personality and behaviour were the same in both cases. It was having status in the eyes of those around me in my social circle which made the difference.
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    Re: Question for research

    Quote Originally Posted by Marlow View Post
    Exactly. The original post in this thread seems to carry the implication that getting more attention from women might be a reason for going your own way, or at least that it might be a bonus to the MGTOW lifestyle.
    well.. getting attention from women after giving them up..... just "4T", Program (too little, too late..)
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    Re: Question for research

    Nope, nobody even notices me

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    Re: Question for research

    YES! Absolutely! I have seen some very dramatic changes in some (not all) women's behavior towards me.

    The closer they are to me, &/or the more privileged they felt they deserved from me, the easier it has been to see the change. The hatred. The anger. The puzzlement.

    And, yes, the delights!! Some of the best times I have EVER had were hanging & banging w a TRULY liberated woman. I found it amazing how other women hated on her!

    But then again, I am still amazed at Leftists, & other type of Authoritarians, that hates on me for thinking for myself - for not following, lock-step, with their ideology.

    Point: Yes, it has been me changing.

    Is that unfair to them? They had expectation of me! Wasn't I born to be completely and thoroughly "useful" to them. Well: Tough shit! Like I'm not allowed to grow, learn, and become a more whole human? Fuk that noise!! (as you all know: the traps that hold a person in the blue pill state are numerous)

    But, the point being: Yes, it has been hardest on those closest to me. But I am NOT their useful idiot. I am NOT their tool. I am NOT their idea of what a person should be.

    I am what I believe a person should be.

    Their selfishness sickens me. Their immorality (ideology) is disgusting. And they have learned the hard way that I will "call bullshit" on their lies as well as on their "convenient" & "opportunistic" assumptions. (not that I am always such a hard-ass - but it doesn't take to many time for them to learn not to fuk around with me.)

    p.s. Yes, that means I get laid more often, and with MUCH higher quality.
    p.p.s. And yes, I bond MUCH MUCH better with Men now too. Well, except those that are trying to impose their gynocentric ways onto me. Which, surprisingly, is few.

    Does that answer your question?
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    Re: Question for research

    Women want men who don't want them.

    The quickest way to make a woman go away is to need her.

    A woman will tolerate an abusive man for decades, but a doting man for mere days.

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    Re: Question for research

    Quote Originally Posted by MonkingAround View Post
    Women want men who don't want them.

    The quickest way to make a woman go away is to need her
    Like I said... paradox


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