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    The Buddha's last discourse (and what he had to say about women)

    The Venerable Ananda said to the Blessed One: "How, Lord, should we conduct ourselves towards women?"
    "Do not see them, Ananda."
    "But, Lord, if we do see them?"
    "Do not speak, Ananda."
    "But, Lord, if they should speak to us?"
    "Then, Ananda, you should establish mindfulness."

    https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipi....1-6.vaji.html

    What is the definition of mindfulness? It is a technique where a person tries to notice present thoughts, feelings and sensations without judging them.


    I found it from a YouTube video I watched from Yuttadhammo Bhikku's channel called 'avoiding attraction':

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUXiuZV0Bp0&t=645s

    It is a slightly long video at just over 16 minutes but worth a watch, I think it would provide some useful insight in handling day to day interactions with women by establishing mindfulness and meditating on what we're looking at. It is a difficult teaching and even more difficult to practice, even the Buddha recognised the difficulty of controlling sexual urges but, it would go some way in trying to cut off more threads to the gynarchy.

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    Re: The Buddha's last discourse (and what he had to say about women)

    Holy crapnuts, I've just posted this in the wrong section can a mod just move it the appropriate category.

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    Re: The Buddha's last discourse (and what he had to say about women)

    Quote Originally Posted by Puggsy View Post
    Holy crapnuts, I've just posted this in the wrong section can a mod just move it the appropriate category.
    Not sure, how about Philosophize subforum? Perhaps newer members are not familiar with that sub-forum.
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    Re: The Buddha's last discourse (and what he had to say about women)

    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    Not sure, how about Philosophize subforum? Perhaps newer members are not familiar with that sub-forum.
    Yeah, why not? It wasn't my intention to post in the new members domain, just forgot to check which sub-forum I was surfing and just ended up posting here.


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