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    Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    I know what your thinking. If I hate you so much, why am I helping? Lets just say I like it when everybody wins. It don't matter, your going to end up as a cat lady anyway.

    You get old, you'll find men scarce while women are a dime a dozen. Leave it too late and you'll never find a man.

    Hitching your star to a bad boy will get you there fast too. Whatever they say, when the party's over, they leave. You been warned.

    Another good way to miss the boat is to undervalue those nice guys you are looking for yet know nothing about. Its easy to see how. After all, your hippie grandmother and her punk daughter had them waiting in line. But there not waiting for you, are they? Want a nice guy now and you can earn him. Don't like it? Too bad.

    When you say you want to find a nice guy and settle down, all the nice guys are clicking on the next link. Not that they don't like the idea, trouble is you just shot yourself in the foot. You see, "nice guy" and "settle down" are secret code for; I was a slut, but the phone quit ringing. Now I want a loser to grow old fast treating me like a queen. Now I'm no Dr. Phil, but with an attitude like that I can see why you cant find no man. So quit acting like a reformed slut. I know that's hard, but you'll think of something.

    Next thing you need to ditch is the shopping list. Its ok to say you like this or cant stand that. But when you reject guys you never met cause you deserve taller or younger, that's plain dumb. Your chance's are none to good to begin with. Throw in a list and you can forget it.


    While your at it, delete the "I got kids and they come first" speech. First, I will decide how dedicated you are, to your family or anything else. Second, what kind of guys did you used to date? Were they such thugs as to expect you to spend your kids money on them? Were you stupid enough to do it? either way you look bad.


    So if you do this shit, will you get a man? I doubt it, no nice guy has any reason to care if your phone rings or not. But you gotta start somewhere.
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    If I were a nice guy looking to marry my number #1 priority would be an intact family. So if you come from a divorced parents household, sorry dear, that's a giant red flag.
    #2 priority then would be seeing how you treat people who can do absolutely nothing for you. If you are kind to the homeless, to other people's children, the servers etc. ... well, at least it shows that you've got a good character.
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    I don't care how you treat your betters, or your equals. It's how you react to those below you on the totem pole that I watch. Sad to report, a lot of women don't rate out too good. There's no excuse for going after somebody who cant fight back.


    There's no hope for the present crop. Their lazy entitled ass's are going down with the ship, and good riddance. But I would like to hope someday a few young ones might figure out that the plantations going down, and that jumping ship might be a good idea.


    I know that's asking a lot, but we didn't take over the planet carrying a bunch of boat anchors with us. They used to do more good than harm, and could again if they chose to.
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    #2 priority then would be seeing how you treat people who can do absolutely nothing for you. If you are kind to the homeless, to other people's children, the servers etc. ... well, at least it shows that you've got a good character.
    How does she treat people who actually do things for her?
    If I'm taking care of a chick, I want to know how well she takes care of me, my wellbeing should be the priority.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    The only way I could imagine myself with females is with the following formula.

    1. Get rich or die trying.
    2. Don't associate with any woman who doesn't know she is IMMEDIATELY disposable.
    3. Live in such a manner that women (or people in general) would seriously ponder the repercussions of lies or false allegations.

    So, you're either a Christian Grey (who hurts people) or a tattoo'd gangster (who hurts people).

    The sad reality is that the ultimate resource women want is the man with power (the ability to control, manipulate and if needed - hurt people). Because it's this resource that can provide all OTHER resources. The shit-eating grin on the 95-pound tattoo'd trailer trash waif while she walks her 110 pound pit-bull is her knowing she has a four-legged weapon at her disposal that few men could handle bare handed. Put a .38 into the head of that dog, and she'll crying like the frightened little bitch she really is. (You occasionally see these women at the dog parks standing by with a stunned look on their face while their "pet" devours someone else's dog.)

    As a MGTOW, having no innate desire to be a dark-triad thug, and no desire to do ALL THAT DIRTY WORK just for female "companionship" (have a parasite or two attached to me) is not the path I want to take in life.

    The "value" women could add to my life is worth about $50/hr. Once or twice a month.

    The whole female "women are wonderful" fanfare is trying to make women into something more than this, something they are not.

    Now, most Blue-Pillers will laugh and spit out the recorded response: "Women want confident, successful men." Or the Trad-Con go-to line "Men are defined by their ability and willingness to take care of others."
    No matter how "alpha" a man who falls for this tripe believes he is, he's a Frivorce away from realising he was really just a beta b1tch with a massive ego. That's why married guys shaming MGTOW or Red Pillers online is so laughable. They're all holding bombs that have a 50% chance of going off (with her pressing the button) and they're laughing at the limbless guys who weren't as lucky. And there is still a lot of time on their clock. They don't want to believe that their wife will Frivorce them.

    No man wants to believe he's next in line for the Frivorce.
    MOST men (except for a few bastards) can't believe it when it comes.
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Nice guys can succeed if they simply create boundaries. But what they must sacrifice with the formation of boundaries is the fantasy of a LTR/marriage which is hard on a lot of nice guys. Instead be calm, kind, compassionate, but also cut ties when the relationship head south.

    Women will date nice guys, but they will be bored quickly. Nice guys must recognize when that happens and stick around when it is too late to bail.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Yep. The "perfect man" from a woman's perspective is he gives her the LIFESTYLE of a stable, consistent, hard working respectable man (BORING!) but the FEELZ of a dangerous, unbridled, unpredictable sociopath (EXCITING!). This is the curse of the human female - she wants this hybrid man who is both exciting and a good provider and she'll go her entire life moping because she can't find that "perfect guy". It's as insane as men who believe in that unicorn as well. Finding that needle in a stack of needles...

    Sure, and I want a woman who looks like a 21 year old collegiate track star who loves sucking dick and grows her own vegetables and cooks all meals from scratch but also makes $150K per year so I can work less...

    Because everyone should be equally realistic now...

    I was saying 10 or 15 years ago that many women (most) have priced themselves out of the mating arena. They'd rather play with cats or just fuck chads than settle for any man they don't deem to be ABSOLUTELY PERFECT. Imagine that. A narcissist not being able to find someone GOOD ENOUGH for them to partner with.

    WHATGMG indeed!

    Guys, don't settle for a woman who's blown her vagina out fucking chads and now wants that "special" room-mate to help with bills and keeping helping after she kicks him out.

    Don't be that guy.
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    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Yep. The "perfect man" from a woman's perspective is he gives her the LIFESTYLE of a stable, consistent, hard working respectable man (BORING!) but the FEELZ of a dangerous, unbridled, unpredictable sociopath (EXCITING!). This is the curse of the human female - she wants this hybrid man who is both exciting and a good provider and she'll go her entire life moping because she can't find that "perfect guy". It's as insane as men who believe in that unicorn as well. Finding that needle in a stack of needles...
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy


    I really liked this quote from that post:

    I want a man who is strong, confident, badass, successful, take-charge, and masculine. He needs to be a guy who kicks ass and turns me on. BUT! He also needs to treat me like a lady, do what hes told, take out the trash, always be faithful, treat me with respect, and kiss my ass.
    Thats what todays woman wants. However, little does she realize shes just described a man who does not exist.
    However, i do not think it's a great idea to promote women cheating on their husbands. Dick move on his part.
    I refuse to be a part of the Three Ring Circus: Engagement ring. Wedding ring. Suffer ring.

    You can't be king of the world if you're slave to the vag.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Quote Originally Posted by Chukhed View Post
    However, i do not think it's a great idea to promote women cheating on their husbands. Dick move on his part.
    Black dragon is an advocate of open relationships, some of his writings are a little arrogant but overall it's outstanding on par with The rational male. It was the first red pill website I ever read......

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Black Dragon is more of the black pill in that Black Dragon advocates an amoral sexual strategy. There are those in redpill reddit that also support this, but the risks are too high in my opinion. If you have to take such high risks for pussy at that point you need to re-evaluate your priorities in life.

    Plus, if you apply the basic principles of PUA/redpill reddit you will realize due to abundance mentality that you shouldn't fixate on one high risk pussy because there are several low risk pussy available instead.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Far more "Nice Guys" have been guests of mine, in my home, than most would care to think.

    Yes, I do let them come to me for a "safe space" (I know, the term is cringe worthy) to talk things out.

    Especially when "Nice Guys" have been used.
    Especially when "Nice Guys" have been cheated on and betrayed.
    Especially when "Nice Guys" have been publicly humiliated.
    Especially when "Nice Guys" are chosen only after the Scumbags are all taken.

    I listen, a lot, over some food and some wine, beer or even some whiskey or vodka+. Then, I talk with them about all they have told me. At some point, 90% of them learn the valuable lesson that women have taught them.

    If being "nice" gets you walked on or abused then stop being so "nice".

    Doing the same thing and expecting different results is the definition of insanity. It is not MGTOWs who teach young men the perils and pitfalls of being a "Nice Guy". Women do that.

    Women may think that young men these days are stupid, and I am sure some young men are. But look at the declining rate of marriage, the increasing age at which men are having their "first marriage". Listen to the women complain about how they "can't find good men".

    These young men of today are smarter than my generation, overall. They watch, they learn from the mistakes of older men. They learn faster. They learn from you women that "Nice Guys" really do finish last.

    Women, do you really want to know why "Nice Guys" are so hard to find ?

    Take a look in the mirror- if you can stand it.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Never be a nice guy to women. They will shit all over you. Don't believe the fairytale of be a prince charming. Be the biggest bastard you can be.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    Never be a nice guy to women. They will shit all over you. Don't believe the fairytale of be a prince charming. Be the biggest bastard you can be.
    Too right you are. Wish I'd known that long ago. But it probably wouldn't a helped, I'm just not that way unless provoked.

    But now, since I'm not trying to attract anybody, it dont matter much.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    What is it they say?

    Men love women.
    Women love their children.
    Children love puppies.

    She will never love you the way you love her. She will love what you can do for her, and if she is of better quality, what you can do for her children.
    "His name is Ace Francis."

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Quote Originally Posted by Chukhed View Post
    I really liked this quote from that post:



    However, i do not think it's a great idea to promote women cheating on their husbands. Dick move on his part.
    Think of the TV show, "Happy Days." A woman wants a combination of "the Fonz," and Mr. Cunningham. Exciting enough for vagina tingles, but respectable enough to have a good credit rating. "The Fonz" lived in the studio apartment over the Cunningham's garage and worked as an auto mechanic. Mr. Cunningham could get the bank to give him the mortgage to own the whole house.
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    Too right you are. Wish I'd known that long ago. But it probably wouldn't a helped, I'm just not that way unless provoked.

    But now, since I'm not trying to attract anybody, it dont matter much.
    It took me awhile to learn that. I noticed the nicer I was to women , the more they walked all over me & treated me like shit. Once I started being kinda cold hearted to them then they were attracted to me. Just remember women are the opposite of logic. Men are taught to pursue a woman they are interested in but the reality is dont do that. When they notice you, be subtle and kinda ignorant to them. Think of it when a stranger bothers you on the street for a cigarette, money , etc. You don't wanna say "Fuck off asshole". But at the same time you are cautious and just tell them no and keep moving.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Nice guys are what nearly any woman will say she wants. Believing this, blue pill nice guys give their candy away for free which women will merrily exploit. I once was that guy as were many of us.

    I cannot be sadistic even if it is proven to generate the tingles. That is their problem as I no longer care. I am now an ice guy.

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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    The nice guy in me died July 24 2009.
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    Re: Finding Mr. Nice Guy

    Quote Originally Posted by ChauvinistPig View Post
    I am now an ice guy.

    Brilliant.

    Nice guy....to 'Ice guy'.



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