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    Sincere apology to Unboxxed, & Best Wishes to everyone

    First, I apologize Unboxxed for all the profanity & out of control insults. They had no place here. I guess I'm confused, & you were the authorty figure here. I blasted what I saw as the authority, you. I'm sorry.

    Not apologizing because I regret being banned lifetime, I'm apologizing b/c You didn't deserve that. This is in no way an appeal to return, I think that's long gone off the table, or never was on the table at all. I'll explain what confuses me. I hope the Mods don't just delete this, think about it, it may help the Forum, or I'm just full of shit.

    In Lounge, under "Letting Others Know about Your Mistakes", in post #9, I admitted to having "street dealings for 9 years", & not saying what they were, Alik S says: "any associate betraying you would spot his reputation even among other junkies".
    I never said ANYTHING about being a junkie. Read post #9, then post # 10. I lost it. This guy does that. To me he goes unchecked. My wish is that a Mod edits his post #10. I was never a junkie, not in any way. My "dealings" that I spoke about could have been a number of things.

    But Alik, quick to jump to an erroneous conclusion, goes unchecked. Either the rules are the rules for EVERYONE, or soon there is no discussion board.

    Another confusing thing to me is the thread, "Biblical prophecy & Mgtow". In the Forum guidelines marked out by Jagr, 'There is to be no political discussion, or religious dogma or doctrine pedaled. This is of interest to me because, I know quite a bit of the Bible, & continue to study it's contents. And, I always walked accordingly, not promoting anything that would violate the principles of GYOW.

    Well that's it. I truthfully didn't even know how to report an offensive post. Truly, I never knew I could, & I did not know how.

    Those 2 incidents mentioned, (& the 2nd one doesn't really count b/c I was not offended, just a little confused), were not the only things throughout my short 28 months here.

    And again, Unboxxed, you DID give me slack, you did overlook my messes, & you are IMHO, a stand up guy. You did not have my unbridled comments coming. I was wrong.

    If I post here in guests again, would it be a waste of time? If so, then I'll go bye bye.

    Peace to all of you.

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    Re: Sincere apology to Unboxxed, & Best Wishes to everyone

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered/ SteelEye View Post
    First, I apologize Unboxxed for all the profanity & out of control insults. They had no place here. I guess I'm confused, & you were the authorty figure here. I blasted what I saw as the authority, you. I'm sorry.

    Not apologizing because I regret being banned lifetime, I'm apologizing b/c You didn't deserve that. This is in no way an appeal to return, I think that's long gone off the table, or never was on the table at all. I'll explain what confuses me. I hope the Mods don't just delete this, think about it, it may help the Forum, or I'm just full of shit.

    In Lounge, under "Letting Others Know about Your Mistakes", in post #9, I admitted to having "street dealings for 9 years", & not saying what they were, Alik S says: "any associate betraying you would spot his reputation even among other junkies".
    I never said ANYTHING about being a junkie. Read post #9, then post # 10. I lost it. This guy does that. To me he goes unchecked. My wish is that a Mod edits his post #10. I was never a junkie, not in any way. My "dealings" that I spoke about could have been a number of things.

    But Alik, quick to jump to an erroneous conclusion, goes unchecked. Either the rules are the rules for EVERYONE, or soon there is no discussion board.

    Another confusing thing to me is the thread, "Biblical prophecy & Mgtow". In the Forum guidelines marked out by Jagr, 'There is to be no political discussion, or religious dogma or doctrine pedaled. This is of interest to me because, I know quite a bit of the Bible, & continue to study it's contents. And, I always walked accordingly, not promoting anything that would violate the principles of GYOW.

    Well that's it. I truthfully didn't even know how to report an offensive post. Truly, I never knew I could, & I did not know how.

    Those 2 incidents mentioned, (& the 2nd one doesn't really count b/c I was not offended, just a little confused), were not the only things throughout my short 28 months here.

    And again, Unboxxed, you DID give me slack, you did overlook my messes, & you are IMHO, a stand up guy. You did not have my unbridled comments coming. I was wrong.

    If I post here in guests again, would it be a waste of time? If so, then I'll go bye bye.

    Peace to all of you.

    Hi SteelEye,

    I saw this thread in the holding tank only today. Apology cheerfully accepted.

    Regarding your Post #9 and Alik's Post #10, I agree with you that I do not hear you referring to yourself as a junkie. I just now read his comment, which actually was complimentary of your Post #9 ("this is truth"), and I have to tell you that I didn't hear him calling you a junkie:

    The other difference that any associate betraying you would spot his reputation even among other junkies .
    Hmm... Was Alik grouping you with other junkies (which I believe sounds like an unwarranted offense towards you) or was he grouping "the associate who would betray you" to other junkies (not you)? I respect your perception. But, that is the type of ambiguity where I believe it would fall upon you to ask Alik about it in a follow-up post in that thread or send him a PM, seeking clarification. If I jumped in and policed such ambiguity, I'd be advocating for your possible hurt feelings before you had declared them. Would you as a man want me to do that for you? Then if he replied that he did not mean that at all, how many instances of me misfiring like that would it take for me to look like an overly sensitive, over-policing moderator? All in all, I view this type of ambiguity as something for you to be the first one to object/inquire. I hope you understand how I see it.

    Perhaps Alik will read this and reply to you at this time. In fact, I hope he does.

    Another confusing thing to me is the thread, "Biblical prophecy & Mgtow". In the Forum guidelines marked out by Jagr, 'There is to be no political discussion, or religious dogma or doctrine pedaled.
    Pedaled. (Probably peddled.) I read that thread when it first came out, ready to shut down any comments that peddled religion or put down religion (full disclosure: I am Christian but I compare member behavior to the Principles) but I saw members judiciously keeping the discussion relative to MGTOW, not taking any opportunity to denigrate believers of any religion. I revisited that thread just now and went through the newer posts and still no one is stepping into the bad waters, as I see it. I did not view anyone was peddling religion, nor insulting it. Pretty cool, huh, that folks here can stay on topic. If there are religion-haters among us, they wisely kept their mouths shut and stayed out of that thread where only the intellectually skillful needed to tread. However, if any member believes a violation has occurred, there or anywhere else, there is that Report button found in every post.

    Well that's it. I truthfully didn't even know how to report an offensive post. Truly, I never knew I could, & I did not know how.
    I feel bad for that, that you did not know, such that you apparently thought there was no structure to this forum larger than the capriciousness of the mod on duty, such that if you decided the mod was corrupt or unfair then what the heck else could you do but blow up and leave? I have found that many websites incorporate a mechanism, a button or link, to report things one may think just is not right. Subject to the rules of that site, of course. On this site, Reports are visible to the Admin and all Mods, most likely first seen by the mod-on-duty. If a member distrusts a Mod, he can always PM the Admin of this site, jagrmeister, to explain his situation. I think that is the best I can personally offer to anyone, beyond my own good nature.

    If I post here in guests again, would it be a waste of time? If so, then I'll go bye bye.
    I guess it all depends on what you want to say?
    Last edited by Unboxxed; April 26, 2019 at 10:32 PM. Reason: spelling, as always
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