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    backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    NOW... DIG... THIS!!!
    https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/post-metoo-men-struggle-balance-masculinity-feminism-203020220.html

    no.. I am NOT taffin anyone.. this part hit home for me....

    A ‘twisted’ view of sex

    Boys’ sexual development is like a perfect storm. They are deprived of physical closeness before they are teenagers, driven from their close friends by homophobia, regaled by stereotypes of themselves as sexual animals, often first introduced to sex through pornography, and then encouraged to view girls as objects of conquest. These forces combine to separate sex from romance, objectify their own bodies as well as those of their partners, override tender feelings, and reduce sexual intimacy to arousal and satiation. For many, sex becomes just another high.
    Some young men, misled by exaggerated versions of masculinity, view sex as an entitlement. As Stanford psychologist Philip Zimbardo has explained, “During our research, a lot of younger men told us how porn had given them a ‘twisted’ or unrealistic view of what sex and intimacy are supposed to be.”
    Being out of touch with reality has widespread, negative consequences. On college and high school campuses across the country, recent changes in the legal definition of sexual consent have made hooking up more complicated. In California state colleges and universities, for example, a law establishing “affirmative, conscious, and voluntary” consent as the standard has caused young men to feel greater “nervousness about accidentally running afoul of consent rules,” according to New York Times writer Emily Bazelon. And Title IX advocacy has underscored the #TimesUp message, calling out attitudes of sexual exploitation.
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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    Withhold the two things women cannot live without: Resources and attention. Dating was an easy way for average-to-attractive women to get both.

    Young men on campus are basically soldiers behind enemy lines. Think of the 10,000 Spartans marching to sea to get out of Persia. Or watch the 1979 movie "The Warriors" and think about that small group fighting their way back to Coney Island.

    When college girls can't get college boys to pay attention to them, take them on dates, do their homework for them....because any interaction on campus is a game of Russian Roulette with 3 bullets in the revolver....and they will demand that these show trials end.

    Sorry ladies, but eventually men will decide they have better things to do than to play soccer in a mine field, swim in a pool with piranhas, or use a boa constrictor as a scarf.

    Don't interact with entitled western women.

    #f@ckclub
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    Some young men, misled by exaggerated versions of masculinity, view sex as an entitlement.
    Absolutely don't understand this. What young man thinks that he is "entitled" to sex?

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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    Absolutely don't understand this. What young man thinks that he is "entitled" to sex?
    I suspect it's projection from teh wimminz - I've never met a man, either, who thought that fresh pussy was his due.
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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    I recall how 35 years ago, a generation of young people had to adapt to the concept of "safe sex." Some did, some didn't. It was difficult.

    For millennia, sex had consequences, such as pregnancy.

    Then, there was the generation that had 20 years of no consequences, thanks to penicillin and the pill.

    Now, sex is dangerous again....but just for young men. And not just sex, but almost any interaction. Pregnancy and STDs are regulated by the laws of nature. Just as a candy bar cannot, through the magic of alchemy, turn into rat poison, a handshake cannot turn into a pregnancy, and a sneeze cannot give you AIDS.

    But through the alchemy of victim-ology and cultural Marxism, a mere glance could be turned into a "micro-aggression," mere words can be transformed into "bullying," and a handshake could be turned into a "sexual assault."

    Like the "woman in the red dress" training construct in the Matrix, you must remember that anyone still plugged into the Matrix can turn into an "agent." In our reality, almost any woman can go from "being nice" to the "agent" of your social and financial destruction.

    Only the morally strongest women can resist the temptation of the power that society gives them. For the rest, it is like giving a bored hyperactive 6 year old sugary snacks, expresso coffee, matches, fireworks, Kahlua, a gun, keys to the car, and dynamite.....and then taking away the sugary snacks.

    Young women grow up being told that this power, which was once reserved only for queens, is their birthright. They have power, but no responsibility. It is almost impossible for them not to use it when the opportunity comes and they are in the right frame of mind.

    And for young men on a college campus or the workplace it is almost impossible to predict which fellow student, teaching assistant, co-worker, or professor they interact with will "turn." Rattlesnakes give a warning before striking, some spiders have red hourglasses, dogs bark before they bite....but with SJW, especially the low profile ones, you have no indicator.

    The "woman in the red dress" can turn into "an agent" faster than you can say "Why am I being kicked out of university?"
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    The "woman in the red dress" can turn into "an agent" faster than you can say "Why am I being kicked out of university?"

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9iRSt_t9K8


    In the video above, listen to what Morpheus tells Neo from the 5 second mark to the 50 second mark. When Morpheus talks about people still "plugged into the system," and who will "fight to the death" to defend it, he was warning us about something else.


    Because you do not only have to worry about women, you have to be wary of all the white knights, manginas, gender Quislings, collaborators, and traitors out there. They, are even more dangerous because they will fool you. Some of us know women are dangerous. But fewer of us realize many of our fellow men, despite their "bro" camouflage, are also potential "agents." They crave male companionship, just like you do, but they are about as loyal as a professional jail house snitch.


    They will have a beer with you, laugh at your jokes, and pretend to be on your side....until you are on the wrong side of the gynocracy and it actually poses some risk of guilt by association. The SJW or the opportunist in them will come out faster than a French woman dropping her panties when the Wehrmacht marched through the Arc de Triomphe.
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    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    Quote Originally Posted by Eddie Willers View Post
    I suspect it's projection from teh wimminz - I've never met a man, either, who thought that fresh pussy was his due.


    Men have NEVER had a right to sex.

    Men have always had to "earn" sex. Throughout history, if men wanted sex, they had to do something else to get it.
    - Buy that hot rod,
    - get on that football team,
    - get that MBA,
    - buy the right house,
    - get the right job,
    - wear the right clothes/cologne,
    - have the right friends
    - go to school/the gym/church/etc.

    Women have always traded sex for Protection, Provi$ion, Social Status, and Entertainment.
    "Become his concubine and he'll protect me from the barbarians."
    "Date the right guy, and I'll get that promotion."
    "Marry the right guy, and I'll never have to work again."
    "If he was my boyfriend/husband, all my friends would envy me."
    "I like that guy. He is funny/gives me vagina tingles/takes me places I can't afford to go to."

    Even when we were settling the American continent in covered wagons, it wasn't enough to be a good farmer and husband. If you couldn't defend the homestead, you'd get scalped, and the local Indian braves got your horse AND your wife.

    Even in circumstances of where men "just took it," there was a price to pay. If you were an battle axe wielding Viking raider hauling off some fisherman's daughter or a nun over your shoulder from a coastal village or convent you were sacking and pillaging, you had to row the oars on the long boat for weeks and then fight through the defenses. If you were an Imperial Japanese Army soldier at Nanking taking a break from a fire fight for some gang rape or waiting your for your turn in line at the "comfort women" station, you had to cross an ocean, march thousands of miles, kill the Chinese Army defenders, and brave sniper fire for a while. Even ISIS doesn't just
    issue you a Yazidi sex slave. Those are "war booty," which means you gotta go to war.....and survive. If you were a Soviet Soldier after the Germans surrendered, the Soviet Army might have issued you a vodka ration card, but they didn't just distribute Berlin women for you to rape. You had to have survived the long campaign into Germany, kill some SS/Wehrmacht/Volksturm, and survive the block-by-block street fighting in Berlin.

    Men were never entitled to sex, and as the world got more civilized (read: gave women ever increasing levels of health, safety, comfort, and leisure) the price of sex has become inflated.

    Civilization guaranteed women Protection, so they got more demanding.

    Civilization ensured their Provi$ion, and they got even more demanding. After two generations of Food Stamps, subsidized housing, and other welfare programs, you got the inner city woman with 3 children from 4 different men (the last kid was the result of a drunken three way so she's not sure who da baby daddy is with that one) with one fist on her hip, finger twirling in the air, head oscillating on a swivel, announcing "I don't need no man.")

    In the last century, civilization has cared less about pushing back the frontiers of darkness, and more about keeping women entertained, so a nice date in the 1950s - dressing up, going out for dinner and some stimulating conversation, drinks and dancing - would bore a modern woman. Modern Western Woman will not dress up. If you take her dancing, she will use the opportunity to perform a vulgar mating display to broadcast to every other man in the venue that that she is fertile and receptive to insemination. Stimulating conversation has devolved into her making grunting noises at you whenever you break her concentration on her texting or taking pictures to impress her friends of the plate of food that she ordered that cost more than you make in a day (or she makes in a week) ....and that she will lose all interest in after she has taken two bites.

    In a less civilized time, women were expected to be fit enough to bring a bucket of water from the well, carry fire wood (that you chopped) to the wood stove, and walk 5 miles to the neighbor's homestead if there was an emergency.

    Eventually, as civilization (i.e. making the world ever more safer/comfortable for ever more pampered women) expanded, women were expected to be fit enough to walk two miles to the grocery store and push a non-powered lawn mower (but only if their husbands were away fighting the Nazis/ChiComs/Viet Cong.)

    Now, civilization has pushed the predators so far away, women get so fat and out of shape that the only way you could get them to walk to the grocery store is if you tied a candy bar to a stick and dangled it in front of them.

    And they are immune from your offers of Protection and Provision (Big Pimp Daddy Gov't provides those, thank you) so you must go to the gym and get in shape. Never mind that you are repelled by her blue hair, her obscenely quivering bulk, more tattoos than merchant mariner, and.......

    .....a vagina that has more traces of strangers' DNA than the floor of the collection booth at a sperm bank or the private video viewing rooms of a porno shop. Try to ignore her cries of "fat acceptance" and "slut shaming."

    What you have to do to "earn" sex gets more an more demanding for men. Meanwhile, what does a woman have to do to "earn" sex? Nothing, and even asking a woman to not make herself repulsive is
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    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    actually.. given the kind of "education" I got in high school sex-ed.. I would have tacked something like this to the blackboard if I could have gotten away with it... (its all I ever got out of it.. and looking back on it.. I should have petitioned to be excused from that un-class on ideological grounds)


    I mean, seriously.... I didn't need to be taught how to be "obsolete".. my biology took care of that for me....
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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    I have heard of men who think sex is an entitlement but I have never met one. Not so oddly enough women were the ones who told me about these men.

    With rare exception, I think most men want an active and responsive partner, even a porn addict wants a response, perhaps more so due to all the noise the porn stars make.

    I think given men are human beings we want closeness and intimacy first and foremost but as I mentioned in my recent thread about Sex being the only factor in modern relationships, we quickly find out that there really isn't that much going on with women. Sex is a reward and a weapon used to make us jump higher and pull us in line. You realize that if you say the right words or offer the right money or reward to the woman she flicks a switch and is all of a sudden in girlfriend mode.

    Women like to be chased as well, but who in their right mind would keep chasing a woman once she says no? Who would chase one to begin with?

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    Re: backlash of "#metoo" dating rules...

    Quote Originally Posted by Morlock View Post
    Women like to be chased as well, but who in their right mind would keep chasing a woman once she says no? Who would chase one to begin with?
    I wont "chase" any of them because they proved themselves unworthy....
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