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    You're missing out

    Is that the tagline for the modern world?

    The whole world is trying to convince us were missing out on something, yet we all know that with life experience, nothing seems to meet expectation. I think it would be safe to assume that we are never, ever missing out on anything.

    Love, relationships, marriage and having children is a big one. Will I be missing out if I completely let all of that go? I highly doubt it.

    What do you think?

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    Re: You're missing out

    Steer clear of marriage whatever you think about the rest.

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    Re: You're missing out

    We're missing out on what marriage, having children and a family were supposed to be.

    With the man as the head of the household.

    By abstaining from the cheap imitation that's on offer now, one will miss out on emasculation, divorce theft and having one's children and life's work taken from them.

    Ergo, by going your own way, you're missing out on a lot of pain and suffering.

    Personally, I would have liked to have had a traditional family. But that's quite simply no longer possible.

    So I choose to make the best of a bad situation.

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    Re: You're missing out

    Quote Originally Posted by ubermensch View Post
    We're missing out on what marriage, having children and a family were supposed to be.

    With the man as the head of the household.

    By abstaining from the cheap imitation that's on offer now, one will miss out on emasculation, divorce theft and having one's children and life's work taken from them.

    Ergo, by going your own way, you're missing out on a lot of pain and suffering.

    Personally, I would have liked to have had a traditional family. But that's quite simply no longer possible.

    So I choose to make the best of a bad situation.
    Why would you like that? Are you sure that is what you want?

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    Re: You're missing out

    I have an example of why I shouldn't get married: a relative who's twice divorced. The first marriage lasted nearly 20 years and resulted in 2 sons, so at least both of them gave it a try. The second one occurred because Ex-wife #2 wanted a live-in babysitter while her idiot children finished high school. When they graduated, he was given the heave-ho.

    Then, Ex-wife #1 comes after him for more money, several years since their divorce. Apparently, the law in Canada allows her to do that. The result is that he's set up a private company and has registered his assets in its name.

    Nice, huh?

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    Re: You're missing out

    The ones who got married are the ones who are missing out.. on freedom to pursue your ambitions without being held back, freedom to bang as many or as few women as you please, freedom to do whatever you want with your hard earned money, freedom from stress caused by living with an insane woman (they're all insane). I'm the one missing out on anything!
    Marrying a woman is like taking a shit upside down every day for the rest of your life. Don't do it!

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    I hear this all the time! The only problem is that the men and women trying to sell this load of shit are Miserable! The men complain continuously about the massive amounts of credit card debt cupcake racks up, Cupcake always wants a new car, the kids can't stand either parent......oh yeah. Sign me up for all that happiness right away!
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    Re: You're missing out

    Quote Originally Posted by Ike3 View Post
    I hear this all the time! The only problem is that the men and women trying to sell this load of shit are Miserable! The men complain continuously about the massive amounts of credit card debt cupcake racks up, Cupcake always wants a new car, the kids can't stand either parent......oh yeah. Sign me up for all that happiness right away!
    Ike its like that saying I have always heard, misery loves company.

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    Re: You're missing out

    There's only one thing I found that I had to give up by GMOW: misery.

    Honestly, sometimes I don't know how I do it...

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    Look at your friend's relationships. It will tell you everything you need to know. You get a picture of the incessant bickering, the dead bedrooms, the confused gender roles and contrary agendas. In more than one case, the only thing that keeps them together is the kids. For many of my friends, the only thing they talk about, about their family is their kids. If they mention their wife it's to confess she drinks too much, she is a bore and keeps him from going out with his friends, that life with the SO is boring. The saddest thing in the world is to hear a guy try to talk about his passions with his wife; and that she limits his time with his actual friends makes it even worse. You see the wives and what do you have: one of them tried hitting on me, the other acted like she had a cock and wanted to wear the pants, the other was a loudmouth, the other one was fat. Women will try to push the 80%'er to have kids stat after marriage, because they fear the marriage will run dry before that even happens. And it would.

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    Re: You're missing out

    When I was a kid, I used to pretend that I was a tiger shark. While I was pretending I was a shark, I really wanted to be one, and was ready to trade in my human card to roam the sea pretty much eating anything I wanted, and eating some stuff just because I could. What happened though, is I eventually realized that I would never become a tiger shark, and I started to focus on other goals that were within my control. The imagination I developed when I was pretending a tiger shark was great, but if I would've kept that mentality long into adulthood, men in labcoats would have eventually forcibly placed me in the back of a van.

    I'm also missing out because I've never hit it big at a casino. How great would it be to have all of that easy money? That would be a great thing, and I'm definitely missing out by not experiencing the rush of having won big at a casino. However, at some point, I realized that the decks are stacked against me at a casino, and I would have to sacrifice so many things in my life in order to play enough to have a legit chance to win. Just like when I realized that I will never be a tiger shark, I have realized that committing all of my financial, emotional, and other resources to an attempt to "not miss out" would be a foolish way to squander my life, when I could work toward my other dreams and passions by not hedging my bets on winning big at a casino.

    So, while the world is trying to make the argument that we're "missing out," what they're not saying is that marriage, kids, and all of that stuff is not a guarantee, but a gamble. Instead of gambling in a game where the value of our poker chips has been greatly decreased, we've decided to cash-out and commit resources to things that are rewarding just by merely doing them. The dating/marriage game is a lot of struggle, and is even worse than the casino analogy because when you win at a casino, you can cash-out, never play again, and have gone-out a winner. In marriage/dating, you can have all of your winnings taken because another guy comes to the table with more poker chips, or you can lose everything just on a woman's whim. At some point, the risk/reward analysis of taking such a gamble just does not make sense.

    The other part of the equation that society leaves out, is that just because we're "missing out," doesn't mean that there aren't other things that we can participate in. It shows evidence of tunnel vision(and possible Stockholm Syndrome) that there is widespread belief that the only way toward happiness is to buy into the system. The system has much more of a chance of failing us than it does of helping us though, so MGTOW philosophy should be a breath of fresh air for a society that has been immersed in the stagnation of participating in a gamble that very rarely pays off. Cash in your chips fellas. Keep the winnings that you currently have for yourself, and use them to pursue avenues that aren't gambles that you have a slim-to-none chance of winning. Sure, take calculated risks, but don't ever let a lottery be your primary sense of hope and motivation. Admire tiger sharks all you want, but do so from a distance, and definitely don't stake your sense of happiness on literally trying to be one. That's a one-way ticket to insanity.

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    Re: You're missing out

    They do the same thing in television commercials. It is selling things we don't need solely for the benefit of the salesman. You don't have to convince anyone to buy the things they need.
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    Re: You're missing out

    Quote Originally Posted by DanLimitless View Post
    Why would you like that? Are you sure that is what you want?
    Yes. If I could have the marriage my paternal grandparents had, I would do it. I honestly believe that I would.

    But guess what, Toto? It ain't 1950 anymore and we're sure as shit not going back there.

    Ergo: Making the best of a bad situation. Which really isn't that bad at all, once one accepts one's predicament and takes what remains of life by the horns and lives it.

    Feminism combined with modern techology has all but destroyed the west. So. Enjoy the decline while it lasts.

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    Re: You're missing out

    Quote Originally Posted by ubermensch View Post
    Yes. If I could have the marriage my paternal grandparents had, I would do it. I honestly believe that I would.

    But guess what, Toto? It ain't 1950 anymore and we're sure as shit not going back there.

    Ergo: Making the best of a bad situation. Which really isn't that bad at all, once one accepts one's predicament and takes what remains of life by the horns and lives it.

    Feminism combined with modern techology has all but destroyed the west.
    This is pretty much my stance as well, I would have liked to have had some kids. I just know that therein lies the road to misery in modern times.

    As far as enjoying the decline, I doubt any of us will, it will tumble like a falling cat clawing at everything it can reach on the way down. I expect personal assets, property, 401k and other savings to be seized (think Cyprus) on the way down. We will all be told to be patriotic and fork it over. You don't even want to think about what happens when the government checks dry up. This is probably as good a reason not to have kids as any. Just my opinion mind you.
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    Epic thread and epic posts guys !!!

    Its like in Ghana if you rob/steal something the people catch and kill you leaving your corpse rotting on the street for all to see . The robberies still happen happen but the robber just asks you to give everything and if you dont he runs away .

    Well them Ghana folks are missing out on real deal robberies

    The problem is that whatever you do / achieve you have to keep a front that you love it .

    Like pro athletes talking on TV ya ya i love this game when in reality they just do their routine and float on their roids and pure luck . One or two in hundreds of thousands admit that they lost their motivations a decade ago now its just a menial job .

    Parents do not give a fuck about their kids alot , kids 99% couldnt care less about their parents if they have enough of their own income somehow someway .

    Society is built on lies and is forced by circumstances . The ones that can afford move to the hills or private islands and want nothing to do with other people past blowjobs and cooked meals .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: You're missing out

    I talk to my children that I will never have sometimes and tell them I'm sorry I could never find a mother for them, nor a decent enough career to help attract her in the first place. The cost of living and the greed and abuse of the Capitalist system that limits the quality careers has all added to our problems in addition to feminism and liberalism.

    All you lurkers out there who want to know what the hell is the mater with us, now you have your answer: We're heartbroken.

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    Re: You're missing out

    Quote Originally Posted by Tangent View Post
    I talk to my children that I will never have sometimes and tell them I'm sorry I could never find a mother for them, nor a decent enough career to help attract her in the first place. The cost of living and the greed and abuse of the Capitalist system that limits the quality careers has all added to our problems in addition to feminism and liberalism.

    All you lurkers out there who want to know what the hell is the mater with us, now you have your answer: We're heartbroken.
    Meh. Speak for yourself.
    I never wanted kids. Have never had the desire to sire any.
    I valued peace, quiet and solitude long before i took the red pill.
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    Re: You're missing out

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    Epic thread and epic posts guys !!!

    Its like in Ghana if you rob/steal something the people catch and kill you leaving your corpse rotting on the street for all to see . The robberies still happen happen but the robber just asks you to give everything and if you dont he runs away .

    Well them Ghana folks are missing out on real deal robberies

    The problem is that whatever you do / achieve you have to keep a front that you love it .

    Like pro athletes talking on TV ya ya i love this game when in reality they just do their routine and float on their roids and pure luck . One or two in hundreds of thousands admit that they lost their motivations a decade ago now its just a menial job .

    Parents do not give a fuck about their kids alot , kids 99% couldnt care less about their parents if they have enough of their own income somehow someway .
    Tell me about it. I taught at the post-secondary level for several years. Many of them had deficient upbringings, making my job quite difficult.

    Society is built on lies and is forced by circumstances . The ones that can afford move to the hills or private islands and want nothing to do with other people past blowjobs and cooked meals .

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    No way I want to have family. My own two step sisters told me how they treat their husbands. The screaming and yelling at them trying to control the situation. I don't know but there's no way I'm going to put in that kind of crap. I had enough drama with my father beat me physically, mentally and emotionally abuse me. There is one the key reasons I don't want marriage because I know there's going to be conflicts and these day in age women are very angry. I had more than enough conflicts to last me two life times.

    How many women can cook these day? Not many. Women my age can't even cook while men can. Men can pretty much out do women so why do we need them? At one time men couldn't cook well and all that crap because we were busy providing for family. But now women demand men do it all so where the is the need.
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    Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.

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    A guy that spends most of his life at work supporting three kids and a wife, barely spends any time in his own house, has no time for hobbies and looks about 10 years older than me when he is younger tells me I am missing out.

    A guy that is living with a woman who is cheating on him, shows sexual attention about once a week, does not cook, does not clean and is exposing him to disease tells me I am missing out. A married guy that has three children, spends most of his time ar work, has intimacy with his wife about every 2 months or so and wishes he could spend time with a different woman tells me I'm missing out.

    Another guy that suddely got married after hitting 30 seems to be interested in men but has a child on the way tells me I am missing out.

    If that is their definition of missing out then I am quite happy to continue missing out until I'm long gone from this world.
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