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    Women smiling in public.

    I was on the London Underground (the public transport system) and an attractive woman smiles at me, several times and we kept eyeing each other.

    I don't know why and what it means. To some, it might be obvious that 'she is interested'. However, I have, on more than several occasions, approached women who have smiled and seemed to have shown interest, but they were categorically not interest in me romantically. I often felt quite shocked, because the smile and the indicators of interest seemed real, at the time.

    Anyway, I digress. The point I am making is what is all this smiling about? I am not against it and think it is very pleasant thing to do, and it would be nice if more people did it. But if I am being honest, in these specific instances, I find it extremely provocative.

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Maybe it's cynical of me, but it seems like an opportunity for the woman to encourage you to make an advance which she can then reject. She gets both the attention from a man and the joy of rejecting him, all with minimal effort on her part and no risk. "I was just smiling thinking about the bubble bath I will take when I get home" or some such crap.

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Women smile because that is the level of risk they are willing to take in social interactions. Don't take it personal but yeah it is annoying when sometimes you engage a conversation and they ignore you.

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Cock teasing, nothing more, nothing less, they're just keeping their skills honed.

    I tend to be a stuck-up snobby prick that won't give them the fucking time of day! Payback's a bitch!

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    They thrive on attention. And they are not above baiting a man to give to give them that attention even when they have zero intention of reciprocating with anything of value. To me, it's basically social/emotional theft by fraud.

    In some cases, for those who suspect they are approaching the wall, they behave this way as a mechanism to measure themselves and the time they have left on the carousel. As long as men keep giving them attention in response to this little game, they know they still have time on the carousel. When the girl in your post does that crap a few times over a few days and gets ignored, she'll know it's time to jump off and try to lock down a wallet.

    I am not particularly tall, or in great shape, or obviously wealthy. When a random girl shows me this free attention-for-nothing, she's either a prostitute, or a tease as just described. Either way, the only thing I have that she's interested in and smiling about is my wallet. And if she's not a prostitute, the time she's most interested in that wallet, is just about the time she thinks she's impacting the wall, and her carousel days are over. That is the last girl in the world I want any involvement with. I'd much sooner respond to the prostitute.

    I got my own game for this crap. When I get this, I just redirect my focus to about 2-4 feet off her shoulder (depending on how far away she is), just enough to break eye contact, but still be looking in her direction. I smile back and nod a little, but in a direction just enough off to the side to leave her wondering if that attention was for her, or directed to a better looking girl behind her. When I look back down at my phone, book, newspaper etc, I try to keep her in peripheral view. They damn near always turn around to check to see if there is another girl behind them. By the time they turn back to me, they are being ignored.

    Thanks for the free bait, honey. Here's your hook back...

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    The fear-smile is something women reflexively do at strangers. They are timid, anxious, creatures. Being physically weaker than men, they walk around frightened all the time, and the only thing that relives that fear is being in the company of a physically strong man to protect them.

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    A woman smiling at me? Red flag for me. I don't care to analyze it. There's an agenda at work for sure, and my well-being isn't on the list. That's all I need to know.

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    It's about attention. Reminds me of a time in the cafeteria back in college. I was sitting about, doing my regular nerd thing, and this one girl across the room is eyeing me quite provocatively. I was in a shit mood, and extremely unconfident at that particular time, so I just watched her for a while and went back to what I was doing. More important, she was a rather non-exceptional butterface, and not up to my standards. Years later, when I was hanging out with my eventual wife, who was in the same sorority as this girl; she said that the girl talked about how she'd show interest in random guys sometimes if she felt like being chased for a while. So it was totally a scam the whole time...

    Also, when I was in detox; and responded "No! Thank god!!" to the question in group therapy as to whether I was married or not (lol, I was feeling pretty raw and my filter was gone) this one girl was later staring at me in a "hurt" fashion while we were out smoking.. and when I approached the group she was in, she quickly walked to the other side of the patio. This bothered me, and I later asked her roommate about it. The roomie said that no, it was nothing. But when I saw this chick the next day, she called my name and was all smiles and roses. I had fallen for it hook, line and sinker... But even this was a test that I learned from...

    Cause chicks hanging out together, even in circumstances such as detox, will totally talk about the guys in their presence. They'll report on happenings and such. It's just a "pack mentality" among women. Happens everywhere, all the time.
    And it's nothing but wide open prairie...

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Perhaps she has a new battery in her vibrator, and it's working well?
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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Quote Originally Posted by Knarley Bob View Post
    Perhaps she has a new battery in her vibrator, and it's working well?
    Replacing a man with a vibrator is like replacing a truck with a little red wagon!




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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Walking home from the store yesterday, I took a different path because the rains flooded my normal trail. In a portion where the sidewalk was narrow, two 20ish women were facing the other direction blocking the path. When about 10 ft away I said 'Good Afternoon" as I thought it would be better than an 'excuse me' or a slop through the muddy grass.. The women turned and greeted me like hookers in a brothel that hadn't seen a customer in weeks
    I just kept walking

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    I was on the London Underground (the public transport system) and an attractive woman smiles at me, several times and we kept eyeing each other.

    I don't know why and what it means. To some, it might be obvious that 'she is interested'. However, I have, on more than several occasions, approached women who have smiled and seemed to have shown interest, but they were categorically not interest in me romantically. I often felt quite shocked, because the smile and the indicators of interest seemed real, at the time.

    Anyway, I digress. The point I am making is what is all this smiling about? I am not against it and think it is very pleasant thing to do, and it would be nice if more people did it. But if I am being honest, in these specific instances, I find it extremely provocative.

    Don't sweat it. If she really was interested in you then she would've spoke to you.

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Quote Originally Posted by FrankS View Post
    Walking home from the store yesterday, I took a different path because the rains flooded my normal trail. In a portion where the sidewalk was narrow, two 20ish women were facing the other direction blocking the path. When about 10 ft away I said 'Good Afternoon" as I thought it would be better than an 'excuse me' or a slop through the muddy grass.. The women turned and greeted me like hookers in a brothel that hadn't seen a customer in weeks
    I just kept walking
    That, Sir, is the smell of desperation! The spirit of MGTOW is undeniably overcoming and dominating feminism by pure attrition! The word is getting out to women and they're thinking twice about spending allot time with their cats! But it's too late, a man's mind cannot be unmade or opened to manipulation once the door closes. They fucked themselves and they fucked themselves good and proper!

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    In no way do the following statements in any way advocate for ignoring standard MGTOW advice.

    The other day, I was running short of time on the parking meter. I had one minute left. A woman had just thrown a quarter in for me. She did it to be kind. She had no idea who owned my vehicle, so there was truly nothing in it for her. She didn't even see me until she had turned around to leave the meter. There are kind women out there. They are just few and far between and you have no way of accurately vetting them 100%.

    Now, this woman, I will never see again, but she passed a very basic vetting criteria. She was kind to someone she could get nothing from. The woman you are talking about may have simply been kind. It's not an indicator of interest unless you catch her eyeing you when you are not looking at her. It can kind of be tough on naturally nice girls because they simply smile a lot and because they are surrounded by a bunch of stone face gargoyle bitches these days, guys easily misread the smile for something more, like the OP reports.

    Why not vet them, and find a keeper? Because like the saying goes, "It's a woman prerogative to change her mind". Also, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". Even if you find a genuine "keeper", the social and political environment today will still make it likely that hypergamy gets the better of her, she'll decide you are useless, and in all good conscience, will use the system to destroy you for the good of the children you will only be seeing for two days a month until they are adults.

    She may have just been a nice girl. I hate to sound harsh, but she also may have been interested until you opened your mouth. What ever your opening line was may have been enough for her to wave off. Being the gender that has to make the approach can truly suck ass.

    In any event, she wasn't interested. A simple, "My bad" and moving along quickly should suffice.
    Last edited by pbisque; May 20, 2019 at 2:42 PM.

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    Re: Women smiling in public.

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    I was on the London Underground (the public transport system) and an attractive woman smiles at me, several times and we kept eyeing each other.

    I don't know why and what it means. To some, it might be obvious that 'she is interested'. However, I have, on more than several occasions, approached women who have smiled and seemed to have shown interest, but they were categorically not interest in me romantically. I often felt quite shocked, because the smile and the indicators of interest seemed real, at the time.

    Anyway, I digress. The point I am making is what is all this smiling about? I am not against it and think it is very pleasant thing to do, and it would be nice if more people did it. But if I am being honest, in these specific instances, I find it extremely provocative.
    Happened to me yesterday ... i thought she was maybe mentally ill but i don not know what to make of it .

    Maybe she was listening something with the wireless ear buds ...
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