Just joined and this is my first post, nice meeting you all!
For the past year i have been taking the red pill when it comes to women. You can say that I am a traditional guy who wants to do right, take things slow, be friends first with women then graduate to a relationship. No games, no manipulation... just be straight up and honest. But i realized after so many years, that has not gotten me anywhere.
My problem is that my feelings are in the way. I "catch feelings" to early in a relationship setting up myself for disappointment later down the road. Even though i am man enough to walk away when the woman is on BS, i find myself home by myself in pain thinking about all the disappointments I found myself in... because you are trying to do things the straight and honest way and you are still in the loosing end. By doing this, I am loosing time where I should be doing positive things and developing myself.
I just graduated with a management degree and looking for a job. I don't hate women but i realized that they are a distraction, especially when you have feelings involved. I want to focus on me and my life. Make money where the dreams that i want to fulfill... fulfill them.
This may sound weird but has anybody figured out a way to prevent yourself from having feelings for women? calm down that innate urge to have sex and to refocus that energy into something positive like making money to better yourself?