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    Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

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    I lost my virginity my senior year of high school and thought I was in such a serious and sophisticated relationship. Of course it didn't last the summer and I ended up starting college single.
    In college, I loved the attention I'd get from guys and the more I put out, the more attention I got, and it made me feel like I was just seriously hot.
    Another girl from my floor in the dorm was similar. We got into this competition, seeing who could do more. Her and I watched a lot of pornhub and thought wow we gotta do more crazy shit like this.
    So we got this idea to be this sexual dynamite duo.
    It makes about zero sense to me now, but we thought it'd be the greatest experience ever to give blowjobs to a big group of guys. So the two of us ended up naked giving blowjobs to an entire room of frat guys one after another while everyone was cheering.
    For some stupid reason I felt like this would make me into a celebrity or something. I don't understand what I was thinking.
    But instead I basically became a joke to everyone. I came back sophomore year, and I was still basically "blowjob girl" which was humiliating. The girl I did this with dropped out after freshman year and I haven't really talked to her since.
    I'm pretty smart. I actually finished freshman year with a 3.8 GPA, and did similarly well sophomore year in a hard major. But I realized about 3 weeks in to sophomore year I couldn't stay there so I started applying to other universities.
    I'm now a junior at another school where nobody knows about the incident and I have friends and have dated a little bit.
    But I just can't get over that I did this. Transfering universities was a smart move because at least I got away from everyone. I unfriended everyone from the previous university on facebook. I just put this behind me.
    But it's fucking disgusting. I don't understand why I thought giving blowjobs to like 10 frat boys all at once and letting them cum all over me made me into like a celebrity type person. It was absolutely disgusting in retrospect. I thought I was amazing for some reason at the time.
    It just deeply bothers me that I did that. Everyone involved from that frat is going to remember me for the rest of their lives as "that whore" and it just really bothers me. I don't understand why it seemed like a good idea, or why I thought doing something like that made me sexy and desirable.
    I was never abused or anything like that growing up.

    Anyway, transferring universities helped me escape that, and the bonus is my good grades at that first university actually got me into a school I probably would not have been accepted to out of high school so people from high school who noticed I transferred assumed I just did an upgrade.
    Has anyone else ever done something that stupid and gotten over it? Whenever I think back to it I just think what the fuck is wrong with me. im probably a legend at that school and people just need to forget about it and I hope I never run into anyone from there

    Here are a few responses from Reddit..

    I don't think that there is anything wrong with doing what you did. At the same time, I would have no interest in ever having a longterm relationship with you.
    I can't believe someone asked the following...

    Even if you or someone else doesn't "approve" of it, why should one act forever taint someone as "impossible to have a relationship with"? Especially if they feel it was a mistake and aren't going to do it again? I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a junkie, but i'm not going to rule out someone that did some drugs once years ago like they are some kind of spoiled meat.
    Here is a comment from a guy (glad I'm not him)..

    Don't give it a second thought sweety. You did some wild shit, but honestly who cares? I've been with over 300 women, and I don't care a single bit about it. It was fun, it was with consenting adults, and it wasn't hurting anyone.

    I used to swing a bit during my wilder times, have had prostitutes in Europe from all walks of life, FWB's, wives, girlfriends, and just random hookups.
    Seriously, it's just sex. There's nothing wrong with doing something fun, even if it's just for a story. Besides, it's not like you're ever going to see any of these people ever again.
    If you do run into someone at say Walmart or something and they judge you, fuck 'em, they don't mean shit.

    You know as soon as someone says ''it's just...'' that they really believe the opposite.

    Hey OP. I want to have a heart-to-heart with you, from one exhibitionist lady to another.
    I haven't done exactly what you did, but I have done things in the same vein. Nothing compares to the rush you get from sexual attention from a bunch of men. It's fucking fantastic. It really does make you feel like a celebrity.
    BUT... if you choose to engage in this behaviour, there are plenty of people who will disapprove of you, put you down, and call you names. That's the price you have to pay.

    So who wants to sign up? Anyone? The past is the past....
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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    I already have a fully functional toilet.

    It's quieter, cheaper and low flow.

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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    I'll take "tonsil-tickling" for $100, Alex ...

    Notice the guy who has "done it all," with over 300 women. "Seriously, it's just sex" from him is totally appropriate; he's divorced sex from love and commitment; I recognize that, because I've done that myself. (Though not as spectacularly as he describes in his case.)

    Blowjob Girl might be able to "get over it." She's at a different college now, a complete change of community, and even if "everybody at that frat" (at her prior college) will remember her AS "Blowjob Girl," there's a small chance that she'll encounter any of them in the future. But there's one participant she won't be able to avoid ... the cum-guzzler in the mirror.

    Still, maybe she can learn from it, and maybe she could - if she's serious about it - turn herself into a suitable partner for a long-term relationship. That said, she'd better do it quickly, get off the carousel, confess all to the guy she manages to catch - and give him all he wants, whenever he wants it; as they say, never let him out the door hungry or horny.

    I'd say there are three chances she might accomplish this ... fat, slim, and none.
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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    imagine eating a pussy that has had 50 guys cum inside her before. LMFAO.

    the sad thing is, she could trap a guy into marriage and then tell him this story after he is trapped. poor guy won't be able to escape.

    Reading posts like this makes me so glad i became mgtow. no falling for this shit.
    Sad, but one day our kids will have to visit museums to see what a lady looks like.

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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    Well, at least she ain't blaming the patriarchy. She has some self-awareness. Even a sense of shame.

    Would I wife it up?

    No. Because the beta sucker she eventually marries will never get head, ever.

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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    Guys, how do you call this syndrome when even the most intelligent women seem stoopid ?

    Cause my god a woman studies something for 20 odd years and still has no idea . Fuck .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    No but really , she is looking into something , looking for answers and when you point them out it falls on dead ears . But it only takes some wild bullshit and she is all yaaa .

    So i always just say " love is the only truth " and im fine with them
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    The problem is that as she becomes older, it is entirely possible that she goes back to this approach to recapture attention that will lessen as she ages and her beauty fades. One mistake is a given when you are young, but a series of similar mistakes is entirely something else. Failure to learn from multiple mistakes often leads you down a path of repeating those mistakes. This is why from those mistakes people do make judgement about others, because it may be a prelude of what is to come in the future.

    As others have alluded to her guilt may be so great that she will try to force relationships where she is uses sex as a weapon to obtain a relationship/ marriage instead of something she does with someone she loves. I have seen this many times with born again female virgins where they say they are holding off sex till marriage because a guy they were with tricked them into sex. Personally speaking, I want nothing to do with such a pretzel of a situation, because ones mentality is off kilter once they try to weaponize sex to leverage resources/relationship.

    So, in the end she is going to end up swinging from one extreme to another in the hopes of finding an answer. Unfortunately, she is going to end up doing either extreme...continue and become a hedonistic swinger or she will trap a man in a sexless marriage.

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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    It is common knowledge that after a certain number of men a woman fucks (10 if my memory is right) she will find it increasingly difficult to commit to any man. At least she has some self-awareness about what she did. The thing is, the damage has been done. Even if she settles for a beta-orbiter she'll always be looking for another Chad Thundercock.
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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    It definitely demonstrates the all-too-common attitude that any attention is better than no attention. Like a 2 year old intentionally making a mess in front of his parents - he just wants to be noticed.

    "If I suck a dick-bouquet at a crowded party, people will notice me!"

    They sure did honey. They sure did.
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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    I like sluts & flirts. I'll sometimes (granted very rarely) bang 'em, leave, & come back for more. I never buy them anything (that is what makes them sluts, not whores.)(yes, this makes me a slut too)

    But these women in the OP: I wouldn't touch with a 12 ft pole, and NOT just because I would catch something nasty.

    All types of relationships REQUIRE a good fit. While Sexual compatibility isn't the only driving factor, & is highly variable from encounter to encounter, & type of relationship: CHARACTER is ALWAYS a defining factor.

    I don't care that my lifestyle, personal choices, easy-going character, & highly *limited level of commitment* may make Women angry. Tough F'n shit. They can try and find a SUCKER to dupe elsewhere. (spread the word about mgtow, because a lot of men are walking targets)

    . Marriage?: "F" that noise!!! (regardless of her "stature" & reputation)
    . Commitment?: Fah-get-about-it (totally reform divorce & family law first)
    . Whores?: No Thank You!!! (get the flying Fuk away from me!)
    . Skanky Slut(s) wants action?: Absolutely. No. Fuk'n. Way! (gag)

    BUT: If a young woman likes what she sees in me? Well, normally she is ONLY filling my spank-bank. but sometimes, rarely, she is doing more for me. ... And I will do the same for her ...
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    Re: Anyone want to wife this one up? anyone? no? crickets...?

    When I watch porn and there is a young attractive girl in the scene being sodomized in every hole (often with several different guys) and used as a cum bucket I can’t really rationalize their decision making process. For a few thousand dollars and some cheap thrills they have literally just thrown any chance of finding a decent man down the toilet. Of course we all know that this doesn’t just happen in porn nowadays and is whoredom is commonplace throughout Western society. I’m just glad I found out about MGTOW and did not make the mistake of marrying one of these repugnant cunts.


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