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    Virgins can pair bond?

    It is said that virgins are perfectly capable of pair bonding and even loving their first man. Doubly so if she's from a traditional/religious family with principles and not from the trashcan of society. Obviously I ain't talking about ALL of them but certainly MANY of them. While I haven't taken a girls virginity(one that said I was her first was probably lying) , I have seen that friends of mine who took a girls virginity the woman was head over heels in love with them and caring about them like a normal human being should. A brief reading of history will also reveal that, many women talking in their diaries about their lover(those who had one and only ONE). Also many of the girls I've dated over the years usually when they mentioned an ex and their experiences with him(doesn't matter good or bad) he was usually their first one. Almost 90% of the time. Another fact : The few stable families that have been able to function(not perfect, no family is perfect) and not perish with divorces, were the ones where the woman was strictly religious and virtuous. Some of these households still run today(I doubt if there will be any in the future).
    It seems that preserving a woman's virginity and not letting her run wild fucking random losers with stds every week , created an enviroment where the woman would actually LOVE their man. This was evident because they took the time to write in their diaries about them and write about their feelings. Also the good times where women actually needed courtship and evaluated the men pursuing her to choose the best , and not to fuck random left and right without knowing anything about them.

    What do you think about that?

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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    Extolling the virtues of women is a waste of time here. I for one know better.
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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    You appear to be making the TradCon arguement, ie. if society was moral, all men could happily remain on the gyno plantation. This is not a MRA or a TradCon advocacy site. You do not seem to grasp what MGTOW means.

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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    Virgins CAN pair bond. Good luck finding one. That's the trick (if you choose that route / way)
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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    I had an almost relationship of few months with a virgin teenage girl when I was young, her bonding ability were outstanding she even cried when we were to split.

    I didnt find anything remotely close to that in all the ONS and fvck buddies I had, that part of their emotional profile was completely shut off.

    I often ask myself what it would have been if that relationship lasted, cant really tell if it would have been something close to past times or by time and outside pressure she would have turn rotten as the others.

    I believe the factors involved in bonding are family backround, c0ck count, environment/social circle.

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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    AWALT. Virgins do bond stronger than sluts but like everything with women, it's temporary and fickle. Tradcon society is done, you're not living alone in the woods with your eight kids anymore. She'll be bored, surrounded by attractive men and slutty friends. I know several of these virgin brides who either can't keep their hands off me or went to study abroad aka "find themselves" just like every other hoe. If you do think it's worth it, good luck finding one.
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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    Being a "virgin" is a temporary situation and no solution to anything.

    The concept of a relationship with a virgin being better for a longer-term is contradictory. A big part of said relationship is physical, thus she will stop being a virgin at some point. From that point is she less fit for long-term relationship?

    Or maybe what we are talking is: if a woman woman that only "knows" one man that will improve the quality of their relationship?

    I would agree partially with this, because there is no term of comparison. But that works for men also. A man that "knows" only one woman will have no term of comparison also. Thus they will judge their relationship with a positive prejudice.

    But then, human beings are never happy. This arrangement in a promiscuous society is doomed to fail, as both parties will start wondering what they are missing out.

    Let us be clear about one thing: virtue by ignorance is no virtue. Wisdom without experience is not wisdom.

    And finally, the Red Pill is not exclusively about how bad the relationship deal is today. It is an understanding about how bad relationships ALWAYS WERE FOR MEN.

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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    These are the only bonds a man can trust:

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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    I see nothing specifically wrong with what #1 is saying. Here's the issue, though: That was then, and this is now. So, those are interesting observations, and perhaps useful for academic discussion whilst sitting in armchairs and holding cigars and brandy snifters, but beyond that, I don't think they're all that relevant to today. That's because the tender, heartfelt good-night kiss after a first date from fifty years ago has de-evolved into heartless, mechanical, and well-lubricated sex that no one's an amateur at any more because everyone's been doing it since they were thirteen. The Germans have the perfect expression for the situation: Das ist jetzt nur der Gang der Welt. English: That's just the way it is now. Except the translation loses a lot of the sense of resignation and hopelessness in the German expression.

    tldr: The past has taken a powder, and she ain't comin' back.

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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    Watch young females interact with their peers and with authority figures, especially male ones... you'll see that a female knows she has something valuable that men want long before her hymen is broken.

    By the time females reach Junior High School, many are already master manipulators, drama generators and shit disturbers. I am seeing this in the daughter of a friend of mine. Her ugly is coming out more and more every single day. Poor thing, she was such a nice person as a child. But, now she has those FEELZ chemicals coursing through her veins and she has become incorrigible. What she says to her parents is heart breaking. Some of the things she says and does is clear-cut emotional blackmail and extortion. "Well, I WOULD be a model child, IF you did THIS and THIS and THAT..." lol. Yes, as if her obedience is now somehow negotiable. But, she knows she is making life living hell for her parents, and when behavior is rewarded or just validated, it becomes seriously ingrained.

    I've said it before that I think Estrogen is the single most powerful and most dangerous mind altering drug on the face on the planet.

    It's the main reason why women are so generally illogical, irrational, and emotionally volatile.
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    Re: Virgins can pair bond?

    Virgins can pair bond......with a high status male. Sluts (and by slut we are referring to women who have sex before or outside of a marriage) can not pair bond with anybody, barring few exceptions. Just because you get a virgin does not mean she will be able to pair bond with you. Just because you are high status doesn't mean she will pair bond with you. Both of these and many other factors have to come together in order for this to happen. Does it happen? Yes, I have seen women who have pair bonded and have been destroyed when there husband either left them or died. But we must remember, the odds of such a pairing are slim to say the least. Even if you are a high status male. Even if she is a virgin. You need a perfect storm to make it happen and these relationships are quite frail and require a lot of work by both parties. Modern culture and media make these relationships even harder to come by and to maintain. At the end of the day, the juice will not be worth the squeeze. It does not serve us to ask if these things are possible because even if they are, the odds of you finding the right one is too low, the odds of you getting the wrong one is too high and both these woman will be priced out of the market.


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