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    So I try to help a buddy out...

    I started talking online to my buddy's girlfriend since a few weeks. Some serious conversations, some playful banter, etc. She loves him to death but I know my buddy can be a little too "reserved" and uptight.

    So I help him out, I got her talking about sexual fantasies, stuff she cannot get him to talk about no matter how hard she tries. Turns out one of her fantasies is getting nailed in a church confession booth. Some more playful banter and getting her turned on...

    I send my buddy a message "Tell your girl you want to go to church". "Why do I have to? Blablabla" "Stop asking questions, just do it"

    So this is what he did instead of asking if she wants to go to church and her horny ass dragging him into a confession booth: He started berating her about how she needs to talk to him and not his friends and now they are having a big fight.

    :Banghead: I should have fucked her myself...

    I don't know what I should learn from this. Either it's "don't pass up an easy catch" or "Mind your own business"...
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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    "If you choose to meddle in other people's business, do it anonymously."
    or perhaps
    "Some people can't be helped."

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    With enough experience you will learn when to help a man and when to step back and watch the dumpster fire from a distance. If you ask me what I think based on what you have provided thus far...enjoy the putrid flames for what they are.

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    If you were talking to my girlfriend about her sexual fantasies I would not consider that 'helping me out'. No, not one fucking bit.
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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    I am with Hoser on this one. You can talk to your friend about your perspectives on his relationship, but there are boundaries man, and if it were me, you certainly would have overstepped them.
    I mean you may have just messed up the relationship of your friend, and you have only done so because you thought he was too reserved. You may have fucked up the friendship between you and your friend as well.. Way to go.

    There is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with flirting with girls, but I don´t flirt with girlfriends of friends I actually care about. To be frank, I care about long term friends way more than some temporary pussy, but your view may be different.

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Blue pill me: "If you were talking to my girlfriend about her sexual fantasies I would not consider that 'helping me out'."

    Red pill me: "She's not YOUR GIRL...its just YOUR TURN."

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    To "help" my buddy (out) I would never interfere with their sexual business in the first place. Who am I to discuss sexual fantasies with his girlfriend?! Her male 'girlfriend'? Unbelievable.

    Perhaps she says that she loves him to death. But her shown loyality to him is kind of irritating. Even though if she really loves him I would dump her due to her 'intelligence'. There is an analogously quote to this kind of girlfriend :

    "I'd rather have an intelligent enemy than an unintelligent (girl-)friend."

    Unbelievable...

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Sorry... I can be blunt at times... But here is what comes to mind.

    "I started talking online to my buddy's girlfriend since a few weeks. Some serious conversations, some playful banter, etc. She loves him to death but I know my buddy can be a little too "reserved" and uptight."

    If you didn't want to fuck her, I mean, if she was 600+ pounds with bedsores and smelled like a mishap at a fish market, would there still have been playful banter?

    Always know where YOU are coming from, what YOU are thinking and what is motivating YOU in these situations.

    Just saying. Not from a "mean as fuck" perspective. Moreso from a "beender dundat" kind of perspective.

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Never rub another mans rhubarb.

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Have you heard the saying "sticking your nose where it doesn't belong"? Because that's exactly what you were doing.
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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    I concur with the others as well.

    You either stay out of it, genuinely help, or you wait your 'turn".

    Pussy can easily destroy friendships and most often pussy comes and goes.

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    It's how powerful the primal urge for gash is. You have a friend you have no betrayed or misled for 20 years a hot piece of snatch walks in the room and the mind starts getting fuzzy and working over time. We men don't have hamsters, but as Pink Floyd put it - a Momentary Lapse of Reason.

    If the dick is hard, question your judgement I guess.
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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    If you didn't want to fuck her, I mean, if she was 600+ pounds with bedsores and smelled like a mishap at a fish market, would there still have been playful banter?
    Very fair call. AKA: "Would you give a foot massage to a guy?"


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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Well we have been laughing our asses off about this. I guess the friendship is still good. And he got the message that his girl wants a little bit more from him. So I guess it worked, just not in the way I expected. :P

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    VTOLfreak:

    To thyself be true.
    Everyone else can go fuck themselves.

    Just want you to be happy bro. As in "sleep well at night" happy.

    Whatever you chose, and which paths you choose, that's for you to decide.

    That's the fucking beauty of MGTOW.

    We define our own paths, and our own truths.
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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Quote Originally Posted by VTOLfreak View Post
    Well we have been laughing our asses off about this. I guess the friendship is still good. And he got the message that his girl wants a little bit more from him. So I guess it worked, just not in the way I expected. :P
    I guess you know your friend most and what you can get away with, apart from the friendship, lets just say he took your advice, a church is a strange place to take a girl she would have twigged that you had been talking, and fantasies are just that and not always played out, I just don't think she would have started humping in a church myself.

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    Re: So I try to help a buddy out...

    Quote Originally Posted by VTOLfreak View Post
    Well we have been laughing our asses off about this. I guess the friendship is still good. And he got the message that his girl wants a little bit more from him. So I guess it worked, just not in the way I expected. :P
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