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    At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    I live a pretty scheduled life.

    Mondays, I jam with a couple of guys and make music
    Every 2nd Tuesday I have Army Reserve stuff (recruiting)
    Wednesdays I have Army Reserves again (training)
    and Thursdays I DM a game called Pathfinder - it's similar to Dungeons&Dragons, pen and paper on the tabletop with dice n' stuff.

    So, the female, who I hadn't seen since last Friday (6 days ago - I had an Army Reserve ex on the weekend, and my weeknights are generally busy) told me earlier today she might drop by towards the end of the game.

    Unfortunately this Thursday evening, some of the guys bailed out and we didn't have enough people to play. So three of us dudes hit the pub instead. I texted the female (at 19:23 in the evening) and let her know I wasn't at home but that if she did drop by, she was welcome to join us at the pub.

    A bit later (19:37), I get a text that she's just parked her car at my place - about 200m away. I give her a call, invite her over, and she >TERSELY< declines. Doesn't say anything's wrong, just says she'll go home, it's too cold, she's in a dress, yadda yadda yadda.

    "That's cool, see ya on the weekend" I said.

    "Maybe..." she responds.

    Anyways, we finished our drinks shortly thereafter, and the guys and I walked back to my place. Since my evening opened up suddenly, I suggested "hey - let's do some music again!" and we get to reviewing old music projects we'd forgotten about (2 of the D&D guys are also in the jam band).

    Shortly afterwards, this shows up on FB.

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    What is this I don't even...?

    I assume she posted that for my benefit, but I'll be goddamned before I respond to that shit.

    Anyways, looks like my weekend is suddenly free.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Seriously - I discovered MGTOW only last month, and already my attitude is changing. This woman's shit isn't worth the trouble.

    Any advice for breaking up with a passive aggressive, guilt-monger?

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chairborne View Post
    Seriously - I discovered MGTOW only last month, and already my attitude is changing. This woman's shit isn't worth the trouble.

    Any advice for breaking up with a passive aggressive, guilt-monger?
    Take a shit in a cardboard box. Put a stamp on it. Mail it to her, with love from "Chairborne".

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Below is what I think.

    She was expecting you to kiss her ass and to try to convince her not to go home. She wanted validation, attention and ego strokes from you, she wanted you to confirm her attractiveness and desire for her company / her but instead all she got was a 'That's cool, see ya on the weekend'. She wanted a more blue pill response.
    It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by ubermensch View Post
    Take a shit in a cardboard box. Put a stamp on it. Mail it to her, with love from "Chairborne".
    I laughed out loud on that one! Good advice, but I'd rather get a few things back from her place first.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by mghow View Post
    She was expecting you to kiss her ass and to try to convince her not to go home. She wanted validation, attention and ego strokes from you, she wanted you to confirm her attractiveness and desire for her company / her but instead all she got was a 'That's cool, see ya on the weekend'. She wanted a more blue pill response.
    Yeah, that makes sense. How disappointing for her, what a shame.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    It may be off topic but what made you join the army if I may ask?
    I have talked to many friends here in croatia who are former soldiers who have served in the war here in former Yugoslavia inc general Ante Gotovina who was imprisoned for many years but finally found not guilty.
    Ante Gotovina is a local legend and friend of ours and we sometimes drink Jack Daniels together.
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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by livas View Post
    It may be off topic but what made you join the army if I may ask?
    I have talked to many friends here in croatia which are former soldiers who have served in the war here in former Yugoslavia inc general Ante Gotovina who was imprisoned for many years but finally found not guilty.
    Ante Gotovina is a local legend and friend of ours and we sometimes drink Jack Daniels together.
    Edited to remvoe personal information
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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chairborne View Post
    I did party in Zagreb when I was on leave though, fun town!
    Thats where I live! And it sure is fun!
    So you have had your own piece of action in your military career from a young age in Canada traveling around the world.
    Most of the people that I know have received pensions after the war and they are really young but one of my friends told me that as long as he could work with his two hands he wouldnt accept any pension (Hes 48 and suffering from ptsd and unfortunately a social case like many others here).

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    the only thing you should post to facebook (or wherever) is how much fun you're having. don't even mention her once.

    she will explode after one day.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by jso View Post
    the only thing you should post to facebook (or wherever) is how much fun you're having. don't even mention her once.

    she will explode after one day.
    Nice! I don't post anything often (about once every couple of weeks) so that would dig that much deeper!

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    This kind of behavior reminds me of a 14 or 15 year old girl. Get your stuff out of her apartment and be ready to bail on the next tantrum.

    You won't have long to wait.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    So predictable. She *wants* a response, especially a blue pill response that she can use for drama bait, and if none are forthcoming it'll blow her hamster. On the plus side, an air of disinterest gets women wet. No response is the best response to situations like these. She didn't want to hang out with you, you didn't press the issue, done and done. Anything afterward is entirely her problem and you should refrain from making it your problem too.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chairborne View Post
    I laughed out loud on that one! Good advice, but I'd rather get a few things back from her place first.
    Don't they teach in army not to leave your things around! That's my advice for MGTOW as well.

    But yeah. Women are unbelievable with their sudden drama, Actually that explains well where the illogical thinking of feminists is originated from. Women think that their emotions are always right. just like narcissists do.
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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by smallbitsoffire View Post
    Don't they teach in army not to leave your things around! That's my advice for MGTOW as well.
    ZING! Ya got me cornered there, SBoF!

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by Ithit View Post
    So predictable. She *wants* a response, especially a blue pill response that she can use for drama bait, and if none are forthcoming it'll blow her hamster. On the plus side, an air of disinterest gets women wet. No response is the best response to situations like these. She didn't want to hang out with you, you didn't press the issue, done and done. Anything afterward is entirely her problem and you should refrain from making it your problem too.

    Good advice. Normally I get multiple texts a day from her, little 'luv ya' type stuff. None today. Silent treatment is a real adult way of dealing with a problem I suppose.

    Guys, I'm gonna take the plunge - this relation is a hassle in my life & it ends this weekend, I just have to make the logistics work.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    you could also reply with "well no wonder you flaked on us last night" but that would be kinda like standing downwind of a nuclear fireball. it would be funny if you have nothing to lose (which is exactly why I would do it).

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Are you a good dog, Freckles?

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by Hook View Post
    Are you a good dog, Freckles?
    Lol - actually, Freckles is a pretty good dog. I prefer Freckles over the owner, to be honest.

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    Re: At least I had a good time this evening... And liberated my weekend at the same time!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chairborne View Post
    Lol - actually, Freckles is a pretty good dog. I prefer Freckles over the owner, to be honest.
    LOL I honestly thought she was supposed to be referring to you as Freckles!
    I'm soooooo glad I was wrong.


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