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    Re: More tales from the trenches, life as an AWM (Awaked While Married)

    I do see your point about it not refocusing on the kids. I myself am a thorn in my ex wife's side and I had a divorce decree written so I would be. I ensure that she can still be pissy with me but keep the children out of it. I can't stop what happens behind close doors but I can make sure that I communicate with my kids constantly. This ensures they see their dad and don't just remember me constantly getting nagged and yelled at.
    My situation was different then yours mine would nag and yell no matter what. I did stop caring and she just kept right along. Kids do see the the arguments, mine unfortunately where trained to run to their room as soon as she started. Then as soon as she passed out or stormed off to our room guess who would pop back out.
    That is no environment for them to live in. Let her send five paragraph essays bitching about one thing or another. I will chuckle and carry on with what I'm doing.
    I remarried her for the benefit of the children. It was one of the more stupid things I did. Thankfully I was able to maneuver correctly and put them in a more stable position then they where the last time I divorced. Divorce sucks, but in the end you will be glad you did it. I recommend watching Terrence Pop's Pre-divorce mentality prior to commencing action. It really was a life saver. Note she will guilt trip only because she wished she thought of it, or got beaten to the punch.

    On a funny note. I was red pilled during this last one and I remember one bad night she started insulting and kids where asleep. I got pissed and yelled "You know what you are good for? You are just a pair of tits!" Her hot headed self never deflated so fast. She still grumbles that she isn't a pair of tits. I smile every time.

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    Re: More tales from the trenches, life as an AWM (Awaked While Married)

    Quote Originally Posted by zasta View Post
    I do see your point about it not refocusing on the kids. I myself am a thorn in my ex wife's side and I had a divorce decree written so I would be. I ensure that she can still be pissy with me but keep the children out of it. I can't stop what happens behind close doors but I can make sure that I communicate with my kids constantly. This ensures they see their dad and don't just remember me constantly getting nagged and yelled at.
    My situation was different then yours mine would nag and yell no matter what. I did stop caring and she just kept right along. Kids do see the the arguments, mine unfortunately where trained to run to their room as soon as she started. Then as soon as she passed out or stormed off to our room guess who would pop back out.
    That is no environment for them to live in. Let her send five paragraph essays bitching about one thing or another. I will chuckle and carry on with what I'm doing.
    I remarried her for the benefit of the children. It was one of the more stupid things I did. Thankfully I was able to maneuver correctly and put them in a more stable position then they where the last time I divorced. Divorce sucks, but in the end you will be glad you did it. I recommend watching Terrence Pop's Pre-divorce mentality prior to commencing action. It really was a life saver. Note she will guilt trip only because she wished she thought of it, or got beaten to the punch.

    On a funny note. I was red pilled during this last one and I remember one bad night she started insulting and kids where asleep. I got pissed and yelled "You know what you are good for? You are just a pair of tits!" Her hot headed self never deflated so fast. She still grumbles that she isn't a pair of tits. I smile every time.
    Hah! That reminds me of a line I once read on tumblr: "women are just three holes, two tits, and one purpose: making men cum"

    I chuckle every time I think about that one.
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    Re: More tales from the trenches, life as an AWM (Awaked While Married)

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    Yeah, so, to the young guys, do what you want and never mind what people say. And above all, don't get caught in the rat race of competing with everyone else to have the shiniest, newest, hippest of everything. That's just a symptom of insecurity. You get one chance at life. This is not a dress rehearsal. You've got to get it right the first time.
    Seconded. There are no do overs. Do not waste finite time on anything that harms you.
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