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    Stop doing it to yourself !

    If you still hate your life a little bit . Start living . Stop shivering in the sight of people and feel normally indifferent .

    Never let even one thought to enter your mind about people at work . Dont give the luxury to be above you even to your immediate "boss" . Talk normally , dont thin your voice , take your time before answering questions . Dont try to think your answers in advance . You are not a prostitute avoiding uncomfortable questions .

    Stop putting other people above you .

    No amount of whining on the forum will do any good if you wont challenge yourself to just stop putting other people above you in situations .

    Stop perpetuating the inner beta in you .

    Give them nothing .

    You only live once !
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    Talk normally , don't thin your voice , take your time before answering questions . Dont try to think your answers in advance . You are not a prostitute avoiding uncomfortable questions .

    Stop putting other people above you .
    My life experience had me veer off course for about a decade in my adolescence/youth. I experimented with all things wrong and illegal, fancying myself some type of outlaw or criminal. In truth, I was just being an irresponsible asshole.

    Post turning my life around and flying straight, certain aspects of my criminal past still come up. Number one is the way that I am totally unafraid to speak plainly and honestly with reporting managers at work (after playing cat and mouse with real law enforcement, workplace authority figures cannot scare you). This has had an amazing effect on my career trajectory.

    It is so extremely unusual to encounter someone in the workplace that is unafraid to be themselves and does not hold back truth even if it steps on feelings, this is an awesome way to set yourself apart from the herd of sheep dreaming of a promotion.

    In the end, all large corporations are paying their leadership teams to show their balls. Make decisions with confidence. Speak with authority and honesty. To own the area of responsibility. When you see cowards afraid to discipline, move, act, or think without permission, they are not leaders. If they are in a leadership role, the company made a mistake selecting them and they are not serving the company well with their cowardice.

    If it floats, flies or fucks, it's better to rent

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    A 36 year old single mother brought in a prescription for an antibiotic earlier this morning at work, probably around 1-2 am. She looked nice compared to most women I see her age, but not attractive. She looked 5-10 years older than she was. I had to ask for "insurance" information (I knew simply from looking at her that she was on welfare) and of course she handed me a Medicaid card. Listed on her card were two dependents, both with the same last name as her. She cranked the first one out before she was 20. Two kids, no husband, and no ring on her finger or any sign of a man in her life.

    After I finished getting her prescription ready, we were at the checkout. Her copay was $2.00. TWO FUCKING DOLLARS. She starts digging around in her purse, her wallet. She has some change, but it's still not enough. She didn't have it. How sad is that? This 36 year old single mother of two has less than two dollars to her name. What a loser. And you might think she's an exception, but you'd be wrong. You'd be amazed how often I see single mothers like this who have literally NOTHING.

    I'm 32. I worked really fucking hard, and followed my dream in life...and I got it. I have a really tough, stressful job I have to go to, unlike her. A lot of snowflakes aren't cut out for it. I personally love it. I'm good at it. I do it my way. You'll never meet a pharmacist like me, I guarantee it. But it's in me. I was BORN for this.

    When I come home from a hard day at work, sometimes I drink some nice beer, or have a steak. I have a nice big house, with lots of comforts. A big screen TV in my living room and bed room. No screaming children. On my weeks off, I enjoy my hobbies. I won't get into them too much...I don't want to give away too many personal details, you never know who could be reading. But I will say this. I LOVE them. There are things I do for hours on end, that I just LOVE. I do still date, I do get laid, but compared to the things I really love, girls are just a TINY little part of it. I care less and less every day.

    Anything I want, I can have. I've been in my profession less than 3 years, and by the time I'm her age, I will not only be debt free with no kids, I will have a six figure net worth. I see women like her every night, and I do mean every night. Every single one of them reminds me of why I am doing what I do. Every single mother I see, every young married couple, every old married couple, every young slut, every bitter old woman, every grinning single old man...they are all telling me something. They are telling me that I'm right, and to continue my path.

    I'm here to tell you, the path I am on, you are all on too. We can all go as far as we want, and there is nothing holding us back or stopping us. I know it's hard. Especially for some of you younger guys. You can't possibly know what you will have in the future. You see these women, and even though you KNOW they are broken, you can't help but want them. Just know that later on, in your thirties, you'll be the one in my position. They will be the ones standing there counting change trying to come up with two dollars.

    You have your whole life ahead, and it is just beginning, while theirs is ending much sooner than they think. Once you've seen hundreds of them, and you've seen how utterly devastated they are, you realize they never had anything. YOU are the one who holds real value. Don't ever sell yourself short. Don't sacrifice what you have, and what you could someday have, for someone who isn't worth two fucking dollars. You may feel like you have nothing now, but just wait. Because it just keeps getting better. Every. Single. Day.

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    So you wanna tell me you chose to have two dollars instead of having kids ?
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    Being a rebel don't pay very good.

    In the workforce, sometimes I won, sometimes I lost. You got to play the long game and if that means eating dirt now and then, well you do what you have to do.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    I agree.

    Another thing to keep in mind in your mindset in daily life: be outcome-independent. You can't control how other people act, if they're having a good day, or whatever. Some interactions go well, some don't. Focus on the positive and keep it moving. You're you- they're them. You have things to do, and goals to reach. Be positive, assert yourself, and others at worst are water off a duck's back.

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    Being a rebel don't pay very good.

    In the workforce, sometimes I won, sometimes I lost. You got to play the long game and if that means eating dirt now and then, well you do what you have to do.
    That is the point not to be a rebel just to be normal . You thin your voice and then complain that nobody treats you as a human being.

    To be normal - not overly polite , not obnoxious ...

    It takes balls to take responsibility on how you feel and view yourself .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    Quote Originally Posted by jagrmeister View Post
    I agree.

    Another thing to keep in mind in your mindset in daily life: be outcome-independent. You can't control how other people act, if they're having a good day, or whatever. Some interactions go well, some don't. Focus on the positive and keep it moving. You're you- they're them. You have things to do, and goals to reach. Be positive, assert yourself, and others at worst are water off a duck's back.
    Yes . You are the only one that allows others to get under your skin . You cant control being punched in the face but you can control someone stressing you without doing so .

    But its not easy . Its easier to just have a drink after days work thus perpetuating the inner weakness . Which very quickly turns into outer weakness for all to see .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    I was very bad about people-pleasing when I was younger, but I was raised to behave in that fashion, so I gotta give myself a break due to having faulty intel. It led to a career flying a desk for the state, getting taken advantage of on a daily basis, and pretty much flat misery.

    1.5 years working the nightshift at a hotel fixed that. Once you develop the "fuck you, get out before I call the cops" mentality necessary to work 3rd-shift at a low end hotel; it does wonders for your self-esteem. Eventually you can guarantee respect just by your tone of voice. Lol, the other day I was at a doctor's office, and in a bad mood, and I think I actually scared the doctor with a glance... Humans are amusing animals, at the end of the day.
    And it's nothing but wide open prairie...

    There's something very brave about MGTOW. In an odd sense, like charting a new territory of the mind, or rediscovering a long lost civilization. Occult knowledge, secret societies, cannibal natives (THOTS), it's all very exciting... lololol

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    This thread brings Styx to mind:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AtzIWPeun7c

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    So you wanna tell me you chose to have two dollars instead of having kids ?
    Hahaha believe me Alik...it's A LOT MORE than two dollars! ;P

    If these chicks could see my investment portfolio and bank accounts, they'd need even more antidepressants. Especially when they realize I literally won't even LOOK at them.
    Last edited by Xanthine; April 9, 2019 at 6:31 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    I was very bad about people-pleasing when I was younger, but I was raised to behave in that fashion, so I gotta give myself a break due to having faulty intel. It led to a career flying a desk for the state, getting taken advantage of on a daily basis, and pretty much flat misery.

    1.5 years working the nightshift at a hotel fixed that. Once you develop the "fuck you, get out before I call the cops" mentality necessary to work 3rd-shift at a low end hotel; it does wonders for your self-esteem. Eventually you can guarantee respect just by your tone of voice. Lol, the other day I was at a doctor's office, and in a bad mood, and I think I actually scared the doctor with a glance... Humans are amusing animals, at the end of the day.
    Man I can SO relate to this post. I work 3rd-shift at a low end pharmacy. I'm usually in there by myself. I have criminals, drug addicts, and welfare parasites coming in and out of my store all throughout the night.

    People sometimes complain that the staff here aren't friendly, but they have no idea what we're up against every day. I am ready for a fight every second of the night, because I have to be. Before they even open their mouth, I am ready to shut them down literally within a microsecond of any rude or belligerent behavior.

    All it takes is one LOOK, and I can stop most of them dead in their tracks. It carries in the tone of my voice, the way I move, everything. I command respect, because the second anyone steps out of line, I'm ready to unload ten different kinds of Hell on them, and they can sense that before they even try.

    So much of communication is subtle, non-verbal, and backed by your intent. If you can learn how to handle yourself in unpleasant situations and get good at it, it instills a lot of confidence, because you can handle anything life throws at you. It also helps you develop that "don't give a fuck" mentality. There's something to be said for that...because you really can't learn it any other way.

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    It is just crazy how people do not appreciate their life and go about it down on themselves because they didnt make it big . Trying to keep up with all the Johnses . Do not enjoy a minute of their life .

    Want things that they are not cut to have and it would be totally against nature if they had them .

    Like what would an average Joe even do with a 10+ girl, your own business or with a corporate career . Like a lottery winner .

    Your internal organs would fail before anything .

    People that were bred and nurtured for that can barely handle it . So a Joe that was nurtured to be nice to everyone has zero chances .

    Be nice to yourself at least and dont race to the bottom with all the rest of the rats .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    One of the hardest things to remember can be to take care of ourselves. Take yourself out for an ice cream!
    "Don't follow in my footsteps. I stepped in something."

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    She may have only 2 dollars in that purse, but there was more in the other one being held by her bf.
    It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    Dont let the constant inner worry eat you non stop . There is nothing else to life than just living .

    And the biggest achievement there is is feeling good without an apparent reason .

    The reason is you !
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    A big part of getting that DGAF attitude at work is having enough money that you can walk away and not have to worry about finances for a while. I loved handing in my resignation a day after a former boss got smart with me.

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    When you show that you don't need the job as much as the workplace needs you, you are showing independence of the blue pill plantation in an indirect manner. Blue pillers don't have the option to simply walk away from jobs that have become unpleasant and many managers take full advantage of this. I have done this several times, each time the new employer laughed at the antics of the old employer and was quick to offer me a position. (Make sure you have a few years of work experience before you try this, though.)

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    Be nice to yourself at least and dont race to the bottom with all the rest of the rats .
    Yea, but the real question is why do men suffer and toil and realise this 'truth' at the age where it is usually too late?

    Women run off to the hospital over the smallest pain; while men still toil at work even after the doctor has told them to stop drinking, smoking and over - working.

    It comes from the notion that men are 'doing' beings, whereas women are 'being' beings.

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    Re: Stop doing it to yourself !

    Quote Originally Posted by Opaque View Post
    Yea, but the real question is why do men suffer and toil and realise this 'truth' at the age where it is usually too late?

    Women run off to the hospital over the smallest pain; while men still toil at work even after the doctor has told them to stop drinking, smoking and over - working.

    It comes from the notion that men are 'doing' beings, whereas women are 'being' beings.
    LOL because thats the only thing they have to offer (to women) .

    Because stopping drinking would make them take responsibility of their own emotions , would mean that they have to say no to the authority and they cant do that because they are weaklings of their own making .

    They are males . You are born male but you can only become a man through bumps and bruises .

    It takes balls .

    That much we know that 95% of males only sniff women by bribing them with money / provider role .

    Its of course the fairest trade because otherwise you would have to fight . But it leads to overpopulation and overpopulation leads to everything else that is wrong .

    70 applicants to one job and you need nothing else to make them all slaves .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !


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