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    Will Your Sexual Past Impact Your Marital Future? (Cock Carousel Riders Alert!)

    " . . . Recently, the Institute of Family Studies (an organization with a mission “to strengthen marriage and family life”) explored a really interesting question on its blog: “Does Sexual History Affect Marital Happiness?” The short answer is, well, a little.
    For this study, Nicholas Wolfinger, a professor of family and consumer studies at the University of Utah, looked at almost 30 years of data of participants in the General Social Survey (a study of American society by the University of Chicago). Overall, 64 percent of respondents said they had “very happy” marriages.


    In 2016, Wolfinger published similar findings using a different set of data regarding the link between premarital sex and marital stability. He found that while women who’d hooked up with 10 or more people before marriage were among the ones most likely to divorce, he also discovered women with three to nine partners were less likely to split up than women with only two partners.
    “Overall, American women are far more likely to have had multiple premarital sex partners in recent years,” Wolfinger explained in a statement at the time. “As premarital sex became more acceptable, it’s reasonable to anticipate that its negative effects on marital stability waned. In general, Americans became more accepting of nonmarital sex. Certainly fewer men entered marriage with the expectation of a virgin bride. All of the fanfare associated with hooking up is evidence that some young people have become comfortable with the idea of sex outside of serious relationships.”
    https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/sexu...230000884.html

    Commenters: "Considering 50% of marriages end in divorce you might as well cut their % of happily married people in half, as they weren't interviewing divorced people. You pretty much got a 50% chance of divorce and a 50% of having a happy marriage if you don't divorce...in other words, awful odds. Factor in having a wife that has been around the block or that already has a divorce under their belt and already awful odds manage to become even worse."

    "You can't believe what people say though.
    Men multiply the real number times 3.
    Women divide it by 3.

    "If two third of American couples are happy in their marriages. Please someone tell me why on average seventy five percent of divorces are initiated by women?"

    "2/3 are happy in their marriage, but half of marriages end in divorce. The math doesn't add up. Maybe one spouse is happy, but the other is not?"

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    Uhhhh, where's the data on the % of "happy" men who learn how many men his "soulmate" has been with. I'm guessing the number is pretty low."

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    Cherry pick much? The number of divorces went up in conjunction with the number of partners over five for women. It's only when you blend men and women the numbers flatten out. Women who have more than 5 partners are at 3X the risk of divorcing and 4X when they've had 10 or more. Don't try to make a Ho a Housewife."

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    A man inserted an ad in the classifieds: “Wife wanted.” The next day he received hundreds of letters. They all said the same thing: “You can have mine.”






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    Re: Will Your Sexual Past Impact Your Marital Future? (Cock Carousel Riders Alert!)

    "If two third of American couples are happy in their marriages. Please someone tell me why on average seventy five percent of divorces are initiated by women?"
    Because women have nothing to lose in divorce and everything to gain. If by quitting your job you got a payout from your boss that would last you at least 10 years, wouldn't you quit?

    I read a few years back that if a woman has more than I think it was 3 sex partners than her ability to form bonds decreases. The more partners she has the more that ability decreases. Most men will want to leave the room the second the orgasm subsides, I know I have felt rather alone after sex at times. That has to leave a mark when all these men are just using as a sex toy, whatever ego gratifying kick they are getting out of it in the short term, the long term effect remains.

    They also start seeing sex as nothing special which it really isn't but at the same time that feeling of just being used again. Our physiology and minds are different. There is a big difference between being inside someone and having someone inside you. That has to mess with them especially when the numbers start mounting.

    Oh well, that is what they wanted. Viva la Liberta.
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    Re: Will Your Sexual Past Impact Your Marital Future? (Cock Carousel Riders Alert!)

    Quote Originally Posted by CPRA View Post
    He found that while women who’d hooked up with 10 or more people before marriage were among the ones most likely to divorce
    An earlier article from 2014:

    Women who don't sleep around before their wedding have happier marriages - but men can play the field without worry, study finds

    It gives me the idea that women who have multiple partners before marriage are, intentionally or not, turning into shoppers such that they still wonder after marriage if they are done shopping.
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    Re: Will Your Sexual Past Impact Your Marital Future? (Cock Carousel Riders Alert!)

    A study I read a few years back said that 70% of MARRIED Women admitted to having had an affair on their partner (Husband). Those numbers are WAY up from even 20 years ago ... which "I" attribute mostly to Women being more honest about their answers vs any real change in the behavior of Women.

    While virtually all younger to middle age Women get hit upon regularly, yes even the married ones, it can be rationally assumed that those who are average to better looking get hit upon both more often and also by higher level men, thus those average to better looking Married Women have More Frequent AND Higher Quality options to STRAY.

    As a result the percentages of those Women who have cheated on their partner (Husband) would tend to go up the better looking they are, until they reach the level of looks where they have managed to snag the very good looking, very successful Man, after which an "affair" could result in a clear downgrade in the type of Man they could mate with so they actually stray less. Based on the reported numbers, plus the more easily available options that good looking Women have, one could rationally expect the rate at which Better Looking Women have had a sex partner other than their Husband, is closer to 90%+ than 70%, except for those actually married to a top dog guy,


    In other words if you are just an "average" Joe, or even a "somewhat above average" Joe, and marry a good looking Woman you didn't "win" the marriage prize ... CONGRATULATIONS!! You won the "She will sleep around on you with 90%-95% odds" prize!!

    Women subconsciously are ALWAYS looking for Better Genes to mate with. It is built into the subconscious part of the 200,000 year old cave Women brain. They can't help themselves. It is part of being a Woman and creating the next generation with the best genes possible.

    It is this dynamic why virtually every major religion in the world puts fences around Female Behavior. It is this dynamic why for many religions and societies family/clan/tribe linage is ONLY valid via the Matriarchial History (for most people the Jewish Religion comes to mind when they think about this dynamic - there you are "Jewish" ONLY if it comes via your Matriarcial Linage)


    Let's see:

    a) Marriage rates are down by 30-40% to begin with

    b) Of those who Marry STILL 50% will get Divorced

    c) 70% of all Divorces are filed by Women

    d) Of those who do not get Divorced 70% of the Wives will have an outside partner, 90%+- if she is better looking

    after divorce

    e) If you do get Divorced the Male will STILL pay massive amounts for child support, possibly for kids that are not his

    f) If you do get Divorced there are very good odds that you as a Male will also pay some sort of Alimony, even if it was the Female who was sleeping around - the better looking the greater the odds the Female was sleeping around

    g) If you do get Divorced and were trying to live a "traditional" marriage, where the Wife does not work outside the home, well the Male WILL pay Alimony, and in the US at least it WILL generally be of an $$ amount that will keep the Wife and kids in the lifestyle they were living before 1 household became 2 households ... ie the Male's standard of living will go through the floor while the Wife's remains near it's old level.


    If Marriage is such a good deal ... why are Males in the leading economy countries abandoning it?

    umm ... let me think about that one for awhile ...


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    Re: Will Your Sexual Past Impact Your Marital Future? (Cock Carousel Riders Alert!)

    When many women have a partner count that exceeds 20+ by the age of 24 how do you expect less experienced men to deal with women like that to build a family or LTR? That is asking a man to restrain a woman that has been a loose cannon since a teenager but .gov allows this to happen as well as society. No accountabliity and if a man tries to hold these women accountable you are throw in jail as a result.

    Not worth the effort, time or resources.

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    Re: Will Your Sexual Past Impact Your Marital Future? (Cock Carousel Riders Alert!)

    I think the true divorce rate is closer to 90%. There's all kinds of things that don't add up with that 50% number. When I was growing up (in the mid to late 20th century) the number was said to be...you guessed it...50%. Are researchers trying to tell me that in 50 years the number has neither gone up or down? Yeah, right. Your sexual past (and hers) have no bearing on whether you'll get divorced or not. It's the past that occurred in the legislatures that made divorce a lucrative option for her and her attorney that will determine how long she stays.
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    Re: Will Your Sexual Past Impact Your Marital Future? (Cock Carousel Riders Alert!)

    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    I think the true divorce rate is closer to 90%. There's all kinds of things that don't add up with that 50% number. When I was growing up (in the mid to late 20th century) the number was said to be...you guessed it...50%. Are researchers trying to tell me that in 50 years the number has neither gone up or down? Yeah, right. Your sexual past (and hers) have no bearing on whether you'll get divorced or not. It's the past that occurred in the legislatures that made divorce a lucrative option for her and her attorney that will determine how long she stays.
    In Russia the average is 82% but you have to keep in mind that most people there have no means to live separately .

    But in the regions of Russia where people from wealthier cities or countries come for work the divorce rate is over 100% .


    The problem with divorce rates is that the statistics are counted for the same year 100 marriages and 82 divorces for the same year .

    While in reality in the span of 10 years the divorce rate of couples married the same year would be 98.5% ... because there already would be no old people taken into account . That lived happily ever after . And the baby has to grow a little bit until the husband is not necessary anymore .

    So the actual divorce rate is 100% ... as it should be by human / mammal nature .

    ( they say wolves form couples for life but wolves live for 5 years at best on average... )
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