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    Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Just had this thought pop into my head. I think the penny might have finally dropped....

    If you were to have a relationship. You will know how you would like things to be.

    'Have you ever seen anyone else living like this'? Have you witnessed the kind off relationship take place you would like. Im racking my brain and I don't think I have?

    It might pop into my head having known someone from years back but for now its a no?

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Only in the movies. Maybe in romance novels, but I wouldn't know about those.
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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    I kinda see one just now.

    They have only been together just over a year. They are moved in, engaged and she's pregnant. Take away the engaged 'n' pregnant and they get on ok but its only been a year? Watch this space

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    The only relationship I envy is the one Jimi Hendrix had with his guitar.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    yes I have, multiple examples together for decades... but they are older, religious and rural. I don't fall into those demographics.
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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by Isaiah4:1 View Post
    The only relationship I envy is the one Jimi Hendrix had with his guitar.
    I sure as hell don't envy the guitar(s), though. My buddy has the neck of a guitar that Jimi smashed at the end of a show.
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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by BeijaFlor View Post
    I sure as hell don't envy the guitar(s), though. My buddy has the neck of a guitar that Jimi smashed at the end of a show.
    That's cool as shit....
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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by beijaflor View Post
    i sure as hell don't envy the guitar(s), though. My buddy has the neck of a guitar that jimi smashed at the end of a show.
    awesome!!!

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Yes, but only when the couple have been nerds. Not the cool modern-bandwagon 'nerd' but actual hardcore gaming/Marvel/Sci-Fi/Fantasy/wrestling nerds who are both pretty low SMV and don't know any better.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    No, not in my age group anyway. Being a slave ain't no fun!
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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by Doods-007 View Post
    Just had this thought pop into my head. I think the penny might have finally dropped....

    If you were to have a relationship. You will know how you would like things to be.

    'Have you ever seen anyone else living like this'? Have you witnessed the kind off relationship take place you would like. Im racking my brain and I don't think I have?

    It might pop into my head having known someone from years back but for now its a no?
    I have seen relationships that have lasted for a long time, but I wouldn't say that any of them were anything that I would want. In all of the long lasting relationship that I have seen, they appear to be sexless or very low sex and the wife tends to act irritable and bitchy much of the time.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    All you guys that have never seen a positive relationship, one you would want to be in, need to get out of the west. If you don't have a passport, get one now. If you don't know where to go, go anywhere outside the western world and if you don't like your choice choose again. It is possible, and there are positive relationships ot there. They are just not in the west. I fear that they will not be anywhere as feminism spreads its poison. Get out of here now while you can and while there is still normal human existance somewhere in the world. This will exist in pockets for the rest of my life because I am an old fart. For you younger guys get out there and find it before it disappears entirely.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    No. And that's the funny part - the cognitive dissonance we men subject ourselves to. We say women are bad with their fantasies of 'prince charming' and '(white) knight in shining armor' and 'happily ever after' but looking at the behavior of most women these days it's MEN who are the dreamers... thinking they can turn such self-centered, self-absorbed and materialistic creatures into good partners. Fact is, most women these days simply make sh1tty partners. All of the dating sites say the same thing. "I like travel and fine dining and movie and theatre and (a - z) weird indie rock band and my dog snuffles and..." and then she ends her monologue of "what I like" (read: what you will provide) with that tired old cliché:

    "I just want that special someone to share my life with."


    We're going to share HER life. While she stares at her smartphone and Facebooks every mundane detail of her existence while completely ignoring the person right in front of her. Notice that in this cliché we have two important clues about the systemic female narcissism "I just want" and "my life".

    First: "I just want" means only that. She just wants. That's what she is and does: she's one big WANT machine. Women these days continually want, want and want some more. They get something, and they want something else (usually bigger and better) 20 minutes later. They're like a toddler with a decreasing, rather than increasing, attention span. Have you ever supervised a developmentally delayed toddler? I have. It's emotionally exhausting. You need to be thinking up a new activity every 10 minutes else the child goes into an existential meltdown with absolutely zero ability to self soothe. I think today's "children" (everyone under 30 in my world) need constant stimulation with media and facebook and smartphones for this very reason - these are just fancy electronic soothers for people with inner children who were never properly nurtured in the first place. These are the children of 2nd wave feminists who left their husbands in droves when divorce became the sport du jour in the 80's and 90's.

    Second: "My life". You will become a part of her consciousness. You will not have, in her mind, a consciousness of your own. "How was your day?" is small talk. It's something she just says before she prattles of the list of things she wants to do and things she wants to buy. YOU will become an appendage of her life.

    I just wanted a woman with common goals and interests to build a relationship with based on mutual trust and understanding so we can carve a path forward on our future together enjoying the things we, as a family, like doing together. Read 100,000 profiles in my life. Never read such a thing. No such woman these days exists. All profiles read the same, so I stopped reading them a couple years ago. The man is just a puzzle piece to complete an already near-complete puzzle. There is no room for you and your puzzle pieces - just show up with a well-stuffed wallet and begin to subvert, serve and pay. Of course, after the honeymoon period, you will know how well you are doing - as soon as there are periods of deafening silence or a lack of intimacy, you know she's well on her way to unhaaaaapy. She does not realize that the material crap she chases, the wines she tastes, the fine meals she gobbles and even her 'relationship' cannot fill that inner void - that never ending existential angst. Have you ever heard a woman say "Let's just hang out. See what's on TV, or just sit on the patio and have a beer." They're constantly moving. Doing. Buying. Spending. Feeling. Its like that terrible movie "Speed" - her head will explode if she just sits down and sits WITH HERSELF and her own thoughts and feeling for ten whole f*cking minutes. It's exhausting and spiritually draining to be in proximity to hyperactive life-pigs like this.

    To me, a typical modern woman is of no use after the 4-6 month mark. Once she "has you" and the honeymoon sparks are over, she resents you - she resents being dependent on you for needing to "share her life" with you (you SHARING the bills with her). It's her life. Does she really want to share it with anybody? Does she really want to share ANYTHING with anybody?

    I think not.

    So when I listen to women these days talk, in terms of the things THEY WANT and how their PARTNER is performing in giving them a constant stream of "I am getting what I want" feelz I just want to barf and laugh at the same time, which is not a recommended practice due to a choking hazard.

    To me, a relationship with a modern woman is an effort in futility, trying to please what is really an exotic pet with a manic temperament - a living thing that can't sit down for ten seconds and do nothing. It goes (frantically) from social media to spending to doing to wine to cheese back to social media. The spending is steady. There is no introspection. There is no reflection. Spirituality is that half-hour yoga class where I am sure their little hamster wheel is going a mile a minute coming up with hundreds of more things to do and buy.

    Relationship satisfaction is a function of how quickly her partner can respond to her constant need for stimulation and distraction.

    It's like trying to have a peaceful home with a chicken - on crack.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikediver View Post
    All you guys that have never seen a positive relationship, one you would want to be in, need to get out of the west. If you don't have a passport, get one now. If you don't know where to go, go anywhere outside the western world and if you don't like your choice choose again. It is possible, and there are positive relationships ot there. They are just not in the west. I fear that they will not be anywhere as feminism spreads its poison. Get out of here now while you can and while there is still normal human existance somewhere in the world. This will exist in pockets for the rest of my life because I am an old fart. For you younger guys get out there and find it before it disappears entirely.
    Not knowing what I know now.
    Every man is a utility to women.
    Being a tool is not positive to me.
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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by Isaiah4:1 View Post
    Not knowing what I know now.
    Every man is a utility to women.
    Being a tool is not positive to me.
    Being a considered as a tool or utility by women is a fact of life and always has been. You need to accept this and move on. the issue in a good relationship is not that the woman is using you, she always will be, but rather that you are getting what you want as well. In the west women look at relationships in this way:

    Good relationship = the woman get everything and gives nothing.
    Neutral relationship = woman gets everything and has to give something
    Bad relationship = woman doesn't get everything

    Notice they don't give a fig about what the man gets or needs. The other thing is that in the west any woman that doesn't get the good relationship (as defined above) resents the hell out of her "partner". This means a reciprocal relationship is not possible in the west.

    You are correct that everywhere the woman still wants what she wants. The difference outside the west is she has no problem giving you what you want while she gets what she wants. She defines a good relationship as one where you both are getting what you want. This makes a world of difference.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    "Being a considered as a tool or utility by women is a fact of life and always has been. You need to accept this and move on. the issue in a good relationship is not that the woman is using you, she always will be, but rather that you are getting what you want as well."

    Woman: "Here is my reasonable 30 page list of needs and wants."
    Man: "Cool, can I do a list of what I want?"
    Woman: "No silly, you're getting ME!!"

    Barf.

    MGTOW.

    Done.
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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    My uncle and aunt have a relationship that I aspire to. They have been married for probably close to 40 years and have 4 children.

    They are both EXTREMELY strong personalities. Both very bossy and direct. He is an alpha male and basically the patriarch of his clan, and she is the matriarch. She is very bossy, and sometimes nags him a little, but she respects it when he says no and puts his foot down.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    "Being a considered as a tool or utility by women is a fact of life and always has been. You need to accept this and move on. the issue in a good relationship is not that the woman is using you, she always will be, but rather that you are getting what you want as well."

    Woman: "Here is my reasonable 30 page list of needs and wants."
    Man: "Cool, can I do a list of what I want?"
    Woman: "No silly, you're getting ME!!"

    Barf.

    MGTOW.

    Done.
    Yes, I agree. So, I have to be a utility just to get positive female attention? Sorry, but that sounds like a bad deal. I'd rather go my own way. A male friend provides everything I could possibly want, except for sex. But I don't place much value on sex.

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by FapMaster View Post
    Only in the movies. Maybe in romance novels, but I wouldn't know about those.
    Agree with FapMaster. Only in the movies.

    “You complete me.”

    I was a clueless blue pill male when I first heard Tom Cruise utter that line. I thought it was romantic and profound.

    Now that I’ve swallowed the red pill I think that is perhaps the single stupidest thing any man could ever say to a woman, with the possible exception of “I do.”

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    Re: Relationships? You ever see one you would like?

    Quote Originally Posted by Inspector Callahan View Post
    Agree with FapMaster. Only in the movies.

    “You complete me.”

    I was a clueless blue pill male when I first heard Tom Cruise utter that line. I thought it was romantic and profound.

    Now that I’ve swallowed the red pill I think that is perhaps the single stupidest thing any man could ever say to a woman, with the possible exception of “I do.”
    I agree that by far the dumbest thing a man can say is "I do." I should know too, as I have said it 4 times. Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa. Forgive me father for I have sinned.


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