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    Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    From the Blue Pill Hive Mind that is Reddit comes a motherlode of red flags:

    https://www.reddit.com/r/fatFIRE/com...ing_a_divorce/



    Bit of background 27, married, 1 child single income earner. NW around 200k (401k, Roth IRA, Crypto, Vanguards, Investment house and personal residence) 100% in my name, no joint account as my wife is a SAHM and made & spent her whole salary before we had kids (10k/year)

    having her go to work part time get some piece of mind, out of the house more, talking with other adults. A large issue we have is by becoming a SAHM she lost her freedom (not that I'm taking anything away but the feeling of being free) even though it was her dream to stay at home.

    her whole life and dating she wanted to be SAHM... now that she has that she feels "trapped" she doesn't realize if she was single she would be "trapped" by working for a paycheck

    If it wasn’t earned before your marriage, it’s not “your” money. It’s both of yours’. If it was earned before marriage, it’s still considered yours for a period of time depending on your state.


    When you separate, you will need to start locating statements for your accounts as of the date of marriage, to demonstrate what is separate property and what is community property.


    Do not try and hide your assets. This is not only massively unethical, but also incredibly illegal and will be patently obvious when your wife’s lawyer requests account statements. There is no better way to turn a judge against you than to pull an idiotic stunt like this, and they will be more than eager to give your wife the lion’s share of any hidden assets as a penalty.


    Her exact words were "I don't like dealing with money so you do it all. One of the reasons I married you was because I know you're good with money" Also she never wanted to be a career women.

    I just feel ETHICALLY since early retirement was MY goal and 100% contributed to by me that I should be entitled to the lions share of it.


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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    I hope he enjoys Ramen noodles.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Being a sole breadwinner is outrageous. It's the pathway to maximize her payout, and maximize your chances of living in your car, if you're that lucky.

    The TradCon idea that it's a GOOD idea to be a male sole breadwinner is insane.

    Bear in mind, if you divorce your supposed equal and she reduces or eliminates employment, the recalculation happens immediately.
    If YOU reduce or eliminate your income, even due to severe injury, you're expected to pay based on what you were making when the divorce happened.
    Also, if she re-partners, her child-support contribution is based only on her income, but if YOU re-partner your new HOUSEHOLD income counts.

    Tell me feminists didn't have anything to do with this anti-male one-sided dumpster fire!
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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    I just can't feel bad for these armies of blue pill simps anymore. We live in an information society, there is no excuse for being ignorant. Sorry not sorry for your completely preventable loss, dipshit.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    I vaguely remember threads elsewhere from 15+ years ago about men who knew the end was near trying to keep their assets.

    One guy's plan was to take out a home equity loan that he could get for 125% of his homes value, then bail to Old Mexico with it all. The wife would think she gets the house free and clear since he abandoned her, until she gets the bill from the bank.

    We liked this plan because of his irreverence for the courts at all. Some guys try to keep what is theirs through the family court process, which is futile. It's a better gamble to be a white collar criminal.

    That's when the book "How to be Invisible" and others came out, which should be on your reading list.

    Seems like either he or one of his friends caught his 14 year old daughter sneaking out her bedroom window in the middle of the night one Summer to hook up with an older boy, so he cashed in her college fund and bought a boat with it.

    Back in the early 2000's, that was outrageous to all us blue pillers.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by I'm Gone View Post
    I just can't feel bad for these armies of blue pill simps anymore. We live in an information society, there is no excuse for being ignorant. Sorry not sorry for your completely preventable loss, dipshit.
    This goes double for the "MGTOW are bitter losers who just didn't CHOOSE WELL" idiots.

    So, when their marriage goes down the shitter and it's their turn for the meat grinder...

    "DIDN'T CHOOSE WELL EITHER, DIDJA PAL?"
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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Shit like this is the reason I am thankful every single day that I am MGTOW. I am seeing my stock in life rising higher and higher. I make more money for working a single day now than I used to make on an entire paycheck in my early 20's. I spend next to nothing, because I am an unmarried man with very simple needs, and I don't have to support any women or children. By the time I'm in my 40's I'll be able to retire, or I can continue working part time if I want to keep making money, and still enjoy a very low-stress lifestyle.

    At the same time, I see the women I went to school with who never gave me the time of day, and now they are all poor, fat, ugly, used up, and completely destroyed. I could have married one of them, and they'd probably already have divorced me and taken my children away, if I was unfortunate enough to have any with them. They could have had all of this for themselves, everything I worked for. But now, I'll be keeping it all for myself. They can enjoy their lifetime of loneliness and poverty without me.

    Feels pretty damned good. GYOW gentleman.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by Xanthine View Post
    Shit like this is the reason I am thankful every single day that I am MGTOW. I am seeing my stock in life rising higher and higher. I make more money for working a single day now than I used to make on an entire paycheck in my early 20's. I spend next to nothing, because I am an unmarried man with very simple needs, and I don't have to support any women or children. By the time I'm in my 40's I'll be able to retire, or I can continue working part time if I want to keep making money, and still enjoy a very low-stress lifestyle.

    At the same time, I see the women I went to school with who never gave me the time of day, and now they are all poor, fat, ugly, used up, and completely destroyed. I could have married one of them, and they'd probably already have divorced me and taken my children away, if I was unfortunate enough to have any with them. They could have had all of this for themselves, everything I worked for. But now, I'll be keeping it all for myself. They can enjoy their lifetime of loneliness and poverty without me.

    Feels pretty damned good. GYOW gentleman.
    Even if she was with you , your children ... You would feel like shit .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by Xanthine View Post
    Shit like this is the reason I am thankful every single day that I am MGTOW. I am seeing my stock in life rising higher and higher. I make more money for working a single day now than I used to make on an entire paycheck in my early 20's. I spend next to nothing, because I am an unmarried man with very simple needs, and I don't have to support any women or children. By the time I'm in my 40's I'll be able to retire, or I can continue working part time if I want to keep making money, and still enjoy a very low-stress lifestyle.

    At the same time, I see the women I went to school with who never gave me the time of day, and now they are all poor, fat, ugly, used up, and completely destroyed. I could have married one of them, and they'd probably already have divorced me and taken my children away, if I was unfortunate enough to have any with them. They could have had all of this for themselves, everything I worked for. But now, I'll be keeping it all for myself. They can enjoy their lifetime of loneliness and poverty without me.

    Feels pretty damned good. GYOW gentleman.
    Yeah, I'm amazed at how women burn through money. And most of it is fleeting bullshit that results in you having nothing to show for it.
    I guess when their need for feelz is being satiated, the fact the wallets are open and money is burning it's irrelevant.

    It's like watching women order food when a man is paying. Oh, never mind buying a bottle of wine, I'm going to drink 5 glasses at $11/glass so I don't look like an alcoholic buying a $25 bottle of wine.
    Then, the next day at work, she's arguing with some cashier because she won't take her expired coupon for a tuna-fish sandwich. lol.
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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Blowing money on fleeting highs is a national sport for the blue pill society at large. Constantly eating out, concerts, cinema, a new car every three years, and above all, traveling. They're complaining about money being short while shoveling it into the dumpster fire that is their life. You know what's better than getting sunburned in some third world shithole twice a year? Having money.
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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    Yeah, I'm amazed at how women burn through money. And most of it is fleeting bullshit that results in you having nothing to show for it.
    I guess when their need for feelz is being satiated, the fact the wallets are open and money is burning it's irrelevant.

    It's like watching women order food when a man is paying. Oh, never mind buying a bottle of wine, I'm going to drink 5 glasses at $11/glass so I don't look like an alcoholic buying a $25 bottle of wine.
    Then, the next day at work, she's arguing with some cashier because she won't take her expired coupon for a tuna-fish sandwich. lol.
    Their capacity for blowing through cash seems to defy the laws of physics; they are literally a financial black hole. Even if they don't have the money, even if they don't have a man financing their lifestyle, they STILL blow tons of cash on frivolous shit and have nothing to show for it years or even months later. But when they DO have a man paying for them, it's like their compulsive spending goes into overdrive.

    It's no wonder MGTOW have so much more money than their married counterparts. It's not that we are making more money, it's just that they have women spending their money faster than they can make it. I can't imagine what it must be like living that way, how frustrating it must be working overtime only to see your life's work funding such...absurdity.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by I'm Gone View Post
    Blowing money on fleeting highs is a national sport for the blue pill society at large. Constantly eating out, concerts, cinema, a new car every three years, and above all, traveling. They're complaining about money being short while shoveling it into the dumpster fire that is their life. You know what's better than getting sunburned in some third world shithole twice a year? Having money.
    It's rather amazing watching the mental gymnastics performed by blue pillers to justify their repeated purchases of new, expensive vehicles that they don't need. I like the description of "shoveling money into the dumpster fire that is their life" I adding that one to my mental collection.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Excellent comments above, regarding money. One thing I find fascinating is the Blue Pill (and Trad Con) statement:

    "Married men earn more money."

    Sure they do. If sex isn't being doled out like dog treats for good behavior, they have a divorce gun aimed at their head. What she wants, she gets. And what she wants is more CASH to burn through.
    Constantly trying to get promoted, to work 10+ hours more per week to make 10K more per year which will get absorbed into her spending habits like spit in a bucket.

    Married men earn more money because they're shackled to spendy monsters who MAKE them earn more money.

    MGTOW prove how little it takes to live.
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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    Excellent comments above, regarding money. One thing I find fascinating is the Blue Pill (and Trad Con) statement:

    "Married men earn more money."

    Sure they do. If sex isn't being doled out like dog treats for good behavior, they have a divorce gun aimed at their head. What she wants, she gets. And what she wants is more CASH to burn through.
    Constantly trying to get promoted, to work 10+ hours more per week to make 10K more per year which will get absorbed into her spending habits like spit in a bucket.

    Married men earn more money because they're shackled to spendy monsters who MAKE them earn more money.

    MGTOW prove how little it takes to live.
    Here's a revolutionary concept that will surprise absolutely no one here, yet somehow it is constantly overlooked by blue pillers. Ready for it? Here goes:

    WOMEN MARRY MEN WHO EARN MORE MONEY.

    Shocking fact, I know. But the real reason why married men tend to earn more money is because women preferentially marry those men. Men who don't make a lot of money (ie fast food workers, janitors, etc) don't tend to get married because women don't want to marry those guys. That's all that statistic proves.

    So it's not that getting married somehow causes your career to go into overdrive and you start earning big bucks like they want you to believe. It's that earning big bucks is a lot more likely to attract gold diggers who want to marry you for your resources. I can earn the same amount of money regardless of whether I am married or not, the fact that I am unmarried has absolutely no bearing on my income, it merely means I get to keep some of it.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by Xanthine View Post
    Their capacity for blowing through cash seems to defy the laws of physics; they are literally a financial black hole. Even if they don't have the money, even if they don't have a man financing their lifestyle, they STILL blow tons of cash on frivolous shit and have nothing to show for it years or even months later. But when they DO have a man paying for them, it's like their compulsive spending goes into overdrive.

    It's no wonder MGTOW have so much more money than their married counterparts. It's not that we are making more money, it's just that they have women spending their money faster than they can make it. I can't imagine what it must be like living that way, how frustrating it must be working overtime only to see your life's work funding such...absurdity.
    That is some MGTOW for you when you realize how little you actually need .

    You need . Not you need to show to others that you have .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    That is why my long term plan is to Barista FIRE. Barista FIRE is the concept of building enough passive income and no debt to the point where you can basically work part time at a crappy retail job where you can walk away at any time.

    It also is the #1 repellant of women in their mid 20s and older as they are looking to settle down for beta bux. Working retail as a man makes you invisible which is great if you want to ghost.

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    A large issue we have is by becoming a SAHM she lost her freedom
    Christ. No-one is freer than a SAHM who has a husband to pay the bills. No-one.

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    Re: Protecting Assets during a Divorce [Reddit]

    Quote Originally Posted by Xanthine View Post
    Here's a revolutionary concept that will surprise absolutely no one here, yet somehow it is constantly overlooked by blue pillers. Ready for it? Here goes:

    WOMEN MARRY MEN WHO EARN MORE MONEY.

    Shocking fact, I know. But the real reason why married men tend to earn more money is because women preferentially marry those men. Men who don't make a lot of money (ie fast food workers, janitors, etc) don't tend to get married because women don't want to marry those guys. That's all that statistic proves.

    So it's not that getting married somehow causes your career to go into overdrive and you start earning big bucks like they want you to believe. It's that earning big bucks is a lot more likely to attract gold diggers who want to marry you for your resources. I can earn the same amount of money regardless of whether I am married or not, the fact that I am unmarried has absolutely no bearing on my income, it merely means I get to keep some of it.
    BWAHAHAHAHA! I LOVE IT!

    So, married men don't earn more because they're married, married men earn more because women marry men who earn more, thus proving hypergamy is a thing.

    Wow, that's just far too simple!

    Here is how I am invisible to women:

    1) I pay my child support and spousal support on time, every time and make this known.
    2) I have two kids who live with me 50% of the time and I make it known my time, energy and money go into them first.

    You would think all the single mommies out there would TOTALLY GET my situation. Well, they do. They're in it.
    But they also know they get welfare, and spousal support and child support and I DO NOT.

    So I am of no use to them. And this makes my MGTOW journey SO INCREDIBLY EASY.
    I have no genetic alpha fux to offer, and I and willing to provide zero beta bux.

    I was once told, as a MGTOW, I have nothing to offer a woman.
    My response was "You need to understand the difference between having nothing to offer and offering nothing."

    Men: If you become aware that you're only a Beta Bux man, decide ahead of time if you want to be an ATM for a woman until a Chad comes along.
    If this is the case, it might be better to get a vasectomy and hire professionals or just pump-and-dump.

    If you still feel bad about "using women" knowing in advance how they intended to use YOU, then you're a better man than I...
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    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
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