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    Ponder this horrifying thought

    It is the year 2018 and soon to be 2019 and you have men taking the marriage plunge for third and fourth tries. I begin to wonder what is the appeal of marriage if after the first two tries resulted in failure?

    With a blue pill lens the man is blamed and lets assume that is true by applying blue pill logic. If a man is at fault for both marriages failing then he should not marry a third time since he is supposedly the common denominator of these failures right?

    And to take it further a man near retirement and is about to marry into a single mom with kids?

    WTF?

    I think the lesson to be had gentlemen is that the projection of living a life of "loneliness" is a female insecurity and not a male one. Logically once the step kids move away, taking all your money and not calling you ever again you are left with your "new wife" and she will isolate you.

    Being isolated under the heels of marriage while having less money and freedom is torture and will suck the life force out of any vibrant man on this green earth.

    I am eternally grateful for stumbling upon a stardusk and bar bar video on that fateful day as I was reeling from another flake standing me up from the "dating scene".

    Basically my life has been saved from life long servitude and I am truly a man that is free, wiser, and healthier than I was five years ago.

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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    Some people don't learn. When a man ties his self worth to a woman, marriage, or not being alone, the feeling of "I am not enough." is strong, and only grows over time. I am also grateful I found MGTOW before I managed to fuck up my freedom via marriage.

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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    I feel no less sorry for a man going into marriage for the 3rd or 4th time than I do for a woman going back to her violent thug a 3rd or 4th time. Both are Darwin candidates.
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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    They just don't know what else to do with their lives. And the first six months of being married is often pretty good.

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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    Quote Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid View Post
    I feel no less sorry for a man going into marriage for the 3rd or 4th time than I do for a woman going back to her violent thug a 3rd or 4th time. Both are Darwin candidates.
    Indeed. Let natural selection do its' thing.
    Such men tend to even be extremely hostile to any MGTOW influenced advice and they tend to be the first people who use shaming language on men who aren't willing to marry.

    Well, then break your back and work hard for the wimminz. They will reward you for it.

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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    These are the type of men who always believe they have found that mythical unicorn......



    even though the unicorn always turns into a donkey after the marriage contract is signed every time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EternalBachelor View Post
    These are the type of men who always believe they have found that mythical unicorn......even though the unicorn always turns into a donkey after the marriage contract is signed every time.
    Or she just stabs him with her horn.

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    It has been said time and time before....but misery loves company. Societal expectation - That is why the men want to marry again...and why other married men will shame them from their single 'hellhole'. Not a thought passes these guys by about their own self interest. The level of pain and stress most men endure before they allow themselves to even consider themselves as a priority is overwhelming.

    Until the point of self realisation is reached...these types of men are simple lost causes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Don Keyknob View Post
    It has been said time and time before....but misery loves company. Societal expectation - That is why the men want to marry again...and why other married men will shame them from their single 'hellhole'. Not a thought passes these guys by about their own self interest. The level of pain and stress most men endure before they allow themselves to even consider themselves as a priority is overwhelming.

    Until the point of self realisation is reached...these types of men are simple lost causes.
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    When a low 90% man thinks he is the man then its Huston we have a problem . I just dont understand where do they get the money to marry again ?

    Or they maybe marry homeless women ?
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    What is truly sad is when the guy knows HER ex-husbands and the destruction she wrought upon their lives He chooses to be a victim; I choose to withhold my sympathy.

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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    What about marrying for the first time? An animal in the wild, when it senses the possibility of danger, will look to the other animals in the herd to see what's happening to them. If the other animals just go back to what they were doing, then the animal who sensed danger will do the same. If one or more of the other animals gets chased down and killed for food, then the other animals will get the hell out of there and do their best to avoid identical situations in the future. It's called "staying alive and whole by learning from others' mistakes."

    My conclusion is that male humans have less common sense and less self-preservation smarts than the average prey animal with a two-ounce brain.

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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    What about marrying for the first time? An animal in the wild, when it senses the possibility of danger, will look to the other animals in the herd to see what's happening to them. If the other animals just go back to what they were doing, then the animal who sensed danger will do the same. If one or more of the other animals gets chased down and killed for food, then the other animals will get the hell out of there and do their best to avoid identical situations in the future. It's called "staying alive and whole by learning from others' mistakes."

    My conclusion is that male humans have less common sense and less self-preservation smarts than the average prey animal with a two-ounce brain.
    Average human thinks it is not going to happen to him

    And if something happens he will tell nobody and its like it didnt even happen . Once in drag you`re not a fag , twice its just because its nice , trice and then you`re a man again

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    Re: Ponder this horrifying thought

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    When a low 90% man thinks he is the man then its Huston we have a problem . I just dont understand where do they get the money to marry again ?

    Or they maybe marry homeless women ?
    These men that keep marrying borrow money from banks and end up in debt slavery to the bank and the wife runs up their credit cards making it hard to pay off debt. If when the divorce happens the man is on the hook for all that and plus some and the alimony kicks in. Failure to pay the alimony means you are thrown in jail where the interest on your debt for alimony and bank debt builds.

    In other words it is rigged to make men slaves and with no escape.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    These men that keep marrying borrow money from banks and end up in debt slavery to the bank and the wife runs up their credit cards making it hard to pay off debt. If when the divorce happens the man is on the hook for all that and plus some and the alimony kicks in. Failure to pay the alimony means you are thrown in jail where the interest on your debt for alimony and bank debt builds.

    In other words it is rigged to make men slaves and with no escape.
    You are just bitter because you havent met that special woman yet
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    You are just bitter because you havent met that special woman yet
    Shit, man, I almost spit a mouthful of coffee into my lap when I saw that! Hilarious. My old Auntie Velcro would've added, "And I have just the girl for you. Here's her number."

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    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    Shit, man, I almost spit a mouthful of coffee into my lap when I saw that! Hilarious. My old Auntie Velcro would've added, "And I have just the girl for you. Here's her number."
    Giving chicks` numbers to Azure is a waste of tissue they are written on because he never goes beyond texting profanities to them
    You cant keep a player down!
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    Quote Originally Posted by fog View Post
    Some people don't learn. When a man ties his self worth to a woman, marriage, or not being alone, the feeling of "I am not enough." is strong, and only grows over time. I am also grateful I found MGTOW before I managed to fuck up my freedom via marriage.
    LOL! At first I was all like "Why is Frog red??"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tangent View Post
    LOL! At first I was all like "Why is Frog red??"
    Bahahaha that crossed my mind for a moment too
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    gluttons for punishment???
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