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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    Yeah giving off the vibe that financially you are barely above water and that you spend your free time doing more work at home helps me avoid most of the scrutiny from coworkers and clients. It is a bit harder to avoid such scrutiny from family. But the best you can do is slowly distance yourself from toxic relationships and bonds that try to detract from your goals regarding financial independence and job preferences.
    I'm just curious Azure as to if you have some more tips on how to ghost in plain sight.
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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bonobo Protocol View Post
    I'm just curious Azure as to if you have some more tips on how to ghost in plain sight.
    There is an entire forum dedicated to ghosting ideas, concepts. In short, best way to ghost in sight is to be yourself and go on with your life doing what you want by reducing societal obligations.

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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bonobo Protocol View Post
    I'm just curious Azure as to if you have some more tips on how to ghost in plain sight.
    I'm no Azure, but since I've had decades of women underestimating me, I'll give it a shot.


    If you can wear what you want, work cloths are the best. Scruffy boots too, women are anal about shoes. They wont say much, but they hate it when you don't peacock out. Being quiet and soft spoken helps too. They'll write you off as weak rather you are or not. Pretending to be poor's not going to buy you much. Its a woman's job to sniff out dough, and often such info cant be hidden anyway. They'll know.


    But the hands down best woman repellent ever is to appear clueless. You want them to think your such a loser than no woman wants you. That'll have them running for the exit's like nothing you ever saw. Do it right and you'll look so bad they won't even wish their friends on you. There's no need to invent phony girlfriends or pretend to be gay. You want them to think you couldn't pull a one eyed grade school drop out. It's not as hard as it sounds. Because they are always going to think you'd rather have a one eyed grade school drop out than no one. No woman want's a guy who cant or won't scrape the bottom of the barrel. Well some might, but they are no doubt desperate themselves. Don't bother lying or making up stories. Just play dumb and let e'm think what they want. That's how you really fool people.
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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    There is an entire forum dedicated to ghosting ideas, concepts. In short, best way to ghost in sight is to be yourself and go on with your life doing what you want by reducing societal obligations.
    Appreciate the feedback. I'll browse the forums.
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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    Thank you for the advice frog. I was toying with the idea of inventing a phony girlfriend but I feel like the maintaining of the lie would take it's toll so ultimately, I rejected that notion.

    I am normally a pretty soft-spoken person also so I guess that works in my favor. I am finding myself more and more restless as far as speaking my mind. With all the political bullshit that seems to be so prevalent, it's hard to keep quiet at times. That is why I like this forum because it gives me a place to vent. There is no where else I can talk about this kind of stuff.
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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    When I'm out on the road and blow by some junker going 50, it's not a victory, only another car. Most women though, aren't as picky as to what counts as a win. Looks like a lot measure success by how many boyfriends they can steal. If it was no contest, well so what? A wins a win. Maybe someone can explain the attraction women have for stealing each other's men. It seems to be a sport.

    That's why real or fake girlfriends are a bad idea most of the time. Women might be willing to go slumming if it means they can steal you from someone. My biggest problems as a blue pill chump was I didn't have a big mouth, and didn't want to pump and dump women on a regular basis. I don't know why they think stealing you from some loser is so much fun, but they do. So much so that when you don't have another women to ruin their life too, it lowers your value. It's true your going to rate out low anyway, but why sweeten the pot by letting them think their "stealing" you?
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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

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    Maybe someone can explain the attraction women have for stealing each other's men. It seems to be a sport.
    I think it has to do with the fact the women see a man with another woman and think that there is something about that man that's desirable. If the woman the guy is with is attractive, then it's reaffirmation in her assumption. It's almost like the kid who see's another kid with a toy and instantly wants the toy solely because the other kid has it.
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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    My path has always been unconventional. From a young age I was into history and loved reading books on the subject and other non fiction books while my classmates were reading Winnie the Pooh etc. I never really fitted in and nor did I care. I was anti social and socially awkward. My mother would stress about that a lot and so I was sent to kindergarten to try and get me "out of my shell". It didn't work, the more she pushed me to become more social the more entrenched I became in wanting to be alone.

    At work I tend to see the big picture and other managers etc are more interested in the little corner. That is fine, I then laugh when it all goes belly up because you can manage that little corner all you like and you can think you are some sort of God but in the end what you do here will effect something over there which in turn will come back to you in ways you never thought of. Except, I did think of them.

    I could go on but yeah, I have never been conventional nor do I want to be.

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    Re: Is "Your Path" Unconventional?

    To be blunt ghosting is unconventional if you think of it as a man letting go the chains that binds him to societal obligations. Why take work home with you unless you love your work? Why do favors for a friend or family member that does not reciprocate? Why attend an event that offers nothing for you? Why go to an after work function sponsored by your employer which cause work place conflict?

    There is a lot of social networking opportunities left and right but the downsides? The chains of obligation come with such networking activities.

    I personally have very little interest in all that but I also realize that with social media is far more easier to create a social network and bypass these chains of obligations all at the same. So why even go through the motions of such events? Probably societal inertia as it is a tradition but it means nothing in attending these social functions. Social functions aren't going to change your CV/resume outcome if a computer scans it as you apply for a job. All that matters is if you received a recommendation from MR X , etc. according to a computer bot.


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