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    loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    I found this elsewhere> Someone with a Reddit account bring this guy here

    https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/bgs1kz/dont_get_married_and_have_kids_if_you_no_deep/


    I am 48 years old and miserable with life. I live the stereotypical suburban life. I work a crappy corporate job. My formerly attractive, loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother.


    Seventeen years ago I freaked out that all my friends were gone and married. I freaked out that I was going to grow old alone. That I would be lonely. I thought what kind of 40 year old prefers to be a bachelor and spend his time fishing and building trucks? My girl wants to get married and have kids. Let's do it, that's what you're supposed to do, right? I knew deep down it was wrong.


    Anyways here I am. Tomorrow I will wake up after sleeping just a few hours. I will make myself breakfast. I'll probably get a stomach ache since my son leaves the fridge open so often, our food is usually rancid. I'll take shit at work. I'll come home. My daughter and wife will yell at me. I'll go to bed. I'll do it all again.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Reminds me of this old gem:


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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by Tangent View Post
    I found this elsewhere> Someone with a Reddit account bring this guy here

    https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/bgs1kz/dont_get_married_and_have_kids_if_you_no_deep/


    I am 48 years old and miserable with life. I live the stereotypical suburban life. I work a crappy corporate job. My formerly attractive, loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother.


    Seventeen years ago I freaked out that all my friends were gone and married. I freaked out that I was going to grow old alone. That I would be lonely. I thought what kind of 40 year old prefers to be a bachelor and spend his time fishing and building trucks? My girl wants to get married and have kids. Let's do it, that's what you're supposed to do, right? I knew deep down it was wrong.


    Anyways here I am. Tomorrow I will wake up after sleeping just a few hours. I will make myself breakfast. I'll probably get a stomach ache since my son leaves the fridge open so often, our food is usually rancid. I'll take shit at work. I'll come home. My daughter and wife will yell at me. I'll go to bed. I'll do it all again.
    This is so sad. Many of the people I see around me are living this life as did many of us for a while.

    We get so oppressed by the things society demands of us that we fail to pay attention to our own needs and wants.

    The white knighter in this one is strong - be the provider & protector - but he is beginning his journey towards the light.

    I wish him luck in his journey, he'll need it.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Seventeen years ago I freaked out that all my friends were gone and married. I freaked out that I was going to grow old alone. That I would be lonely. I thought what kind of 40 year old prefers to be a bachelor and spend his time fishing and building trucks? My girl wants to get married and have kids. Let's do it, that's what you're supposed to do, right? I knew deep down it was wrong.
    Yup - because fishing and building trucks is such a horrible thing to do in your spare time!

    This is why men are fucked - because they never actually think for themselves.

    Women, meanwhile always do everything for themselves - even when they are in a group.
    In corporations - they work for themselves.
    In school - they study for their own achievement.
    In marriage - they get married only as far as it improves the quality of their life.

    Fuck me it sounds obvious but since men are so fucking brainwashed - it takes a long time to wake up!

    The icing on the cake is the verbal abuse he gets from his daughter and wife. Meanwhile chad is probably fucking both of them while he has to bend over for his boss at work.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Yup, poor guy is on the stringer.
    As soon as she says "I do", she don't
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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    "Fat and indifferent" sounds like your average American female. And most of them wear that "Whatever" expression on their faces. We've all seen it.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    "Fat and indifferent" sounds like your average American female. And most of them wear that "Whatever" expression on their faces. We've all seen it.
    Amazing! When you said-- that "Whatever" expression on their faces--- one face came to mind, lets just say her shadow represents a water buffalo!

    P.S.

    Now there's a few faces coming to mind, and their shadows represent and herd of water buffalo!
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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Amazing! When you said-- that "Whatever" expression on their faces--- one face came to mind, lets just say her shadow represents a water buffalo!

    P.S.

    Now there's a few faces coming to mind, and their shadows represent and herd of water buffalo!
    They do seem to have the "Bovine" mentality.

    Just a short note: My brother, a veterinarian, tells me the way you can tell women are 10% smarter than cattle, is when you play with their teats, they don't shit on the floor.

    For what it's worth.
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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    I know Jackoff already made this point in a different way, but the reddit testimony in .0 is just further evidence that one can not infer marriage-dissatisfaction rates from divorce rates alone. Many men stay in their marriages only because they view it as the marginally less-noxious option.

    So, I tell men who are about to get married and who believe, based on current stats, that they have a 50% chance of being happy, "No you don't. Not by a long shot."

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    one can not infer marriage-dissatisfaction rates from divorce rates alone.
    Divorce only counts marriage that has COMPLETELY failed.

    A old friend of mine found out his wife cheated on him and has since forgave her. I know full well he would have dumped her in an instant 10 years ago when he was unmarried, childless and living at home with his parents.

    Another old friend told me just last week that he is getting married next year, he has been living with this woman for over a decade and they have a child. I kept my mouth shut but what does he possibly gain from getting married to her now. It only serves to make any future break up many times worse.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by stanmsl View Post
    Divorce only counts marriage that has COMPLETELY failed.

    A old friend of mine found out his wife cheated on him and has since forgave her. I know full well he would have dumped her in an instant 10 years ago when he was unmarried, childless and living at home with his parents.

    Another old friend told me just last week that he is getting married next year, he has been living with this woman for over a decade and they have a child. I kept my mouth shut but what does he possibly gain from getting married to her now. It only serves to make any future break up many times worse.
    That poor fucking bastard. Could've tried and shown him how ugly marriage and divorce is, would've been a service to him, even if he waved it away. He'll learn. The hard way.
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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Seen it way to often. Almost the American calling card.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    It's so damn common it's kinda expected. Reminds me of the high school reunion I went to just a few months ago. Damn near all of the attractive teenage girls from the class of '04 looked unrecognizable today. They gained weight, had kids and life in general just beat them upside the head and they were only 33 years old, like DAMN! Only a few looked relatively attractive and one girl who wasn't conventionally attractive (I remember her having thick framed glasses and braces) she was the only one who was in impressive shape.

    I wish I could say she was a joy to talk to but I noticed off the bat that she had a serious ax to grind. A chip on her shoulder, possibly caused by years of strife during high school being the ugly duckling in a sea of ill mannered girls and makeup. She kept talking about establishing her business and her brand a lot and only came around the reunion just to flex and pop off on people. As shallow as she had become, she was entertaining to watch. She embarrassed damn near all of the alumni who were obviously past their prime, even made a couple of fat bitches go crazy as well.

    Fuck it, she wasn't so bad. I wouldn't marry her though, she'd definitely be the type of woman to put her job over being a proper wife but she was definitely more fun to hang out with than those sorry sacks that constantly pine back to the past while stuffing their face with footlong subs and pizza.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Yeah, never marry anyone is the Golden Rule, obviously, but to those who want to be stupid and marry anyway, never marry someone who was low-rank in school, because at that young age the constant barrage of being made fun of slowly works its way into the person's DNA, and can manifest itself in various evil ways once the person becomes an adult. ("Ax to grind" is the general idea.) Too much damn baggage, carried until death, and it's just a question of how successful the person is in hiding it. But it's always there, lurking just below the surface, like a trapdoor spider. Don't be the one she takes revenge on for shit other people did to her as a kid.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    You know the red pill community talks a lot about vetting women. Here is a real easy one that is often overlooked. Will she agree to never get married? Any truly honest woman would have to acknowledge the advantage that legal piece of paper gives her. If she really did care about you, she wouldn't demand any such thing from you.

    And just like that, no man would ever get married again.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    I wonder, do you get tax relief and other benefits when you marry your best (mgtow) buddy? Do a ceremony at city hall or something, go back home, laugh your ass off and make more money! They can't refuse "gay" marriage, right?!
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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by Resdayn View Post
    I wonder, do you get tax relief and other benefits when you marry your best (mgtow) buddy? Do a ceremony at city hall or something, go back home, laugh your ass off and make more money! They can't refuse "gay" marriage, right?!
    James Spader & William Shatner in the final episodes of Boston Legal did just this, although they were far from MGTOW. Great show exploring society with a huge dollop of humour.

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    I know Jackoff already made this point in a different way, but the reddit testimony in .0 is just further evidence that one can not infer marriage-dissatisfaction rates from divorce rates alone. Many men stay in their marriages only because they view it as the marginally less-noxious option.

    So, I tell men who are about to get married and who believe, based on current stats, that they have a 50% chance of being happy, "No you don't. Not by a long shot."
    Just by base numbers alone, you have a 50% chance of divorce which is not happy.

    If 50% of the remaining men who will not divorce are happily married, then you have a 25% chance.
    I think 5-10% of married men are happy, meaning you have about a 2.5-5% chance when you account for the possibility of divorce.

    That's like putting 9 bullets in a 10-bullet cylinder.
    May as well put 1 bullet into a 10-round magazine! (Shooters will get it).
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    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    Quote Originally Posted by Tangent View Post
    Reminds me of this old gem:

    I shit you not. I was thinking about this very song on the way to work this morning.
    I am almost 100% certain that I didn't see this post, or even this thread.

    What a coincidence.
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    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...

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    Re: loving wife became fat and indifferent when she became a mother. [reddit post]

    I've often thought about that. Truth is, I don't want to be legally bound to anybody. It might be a good solution for tax purposes, but that is where it ends.


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