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    It should be a very strong message when you put your wedding portrait next to the waste management bins! It probably happens after a bad divorce.


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    All that money down the drain. What a waste. But other than that, it warms my black heart.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    We look at this and giggle cuz we know the truth. And, some guys even after being through the wringer and doing this still donít see it. Iím no exception for sure. But, there comes a time when a man has to distance himself and try to figure shit out. At least try to have a good think.

    We all know that some just need a little point in the right direction but, it only makes a difference when they are still freshly wounded, cuz they will just pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and consider any of the powerful epiphanies as some mental fluke when they are really just the begining of the rabbit hole.

    My own father is going through this for the third time, and heís pissed off at her and himself but he would be hard pressed to listen to his fuck up son about red pill truth. And, if by some miracle I can point him in the right direction and he accepts it, Iím afraid the redpill rage will get him. I want him to wake up not flip out because heís going to discover how much of a fool he was and how much of his life has passed believing the blue pill...

    I look at these pics and giggle still, but only because theres a chance that the man will come out on top and see reality for what it is. Chances are though, that he will get caught up in filling the void and relapsing, just as I did even with all of the truth in my face everytime I log on here.

    This world sickens me sometimes, most of the time really. Knowing the truth is empowering yet it shows you how even something as being kind to the wrong person can ruin the rest of your life, in doing so, it makes you more nuerotic and can affect your inner core, no matter how solid or fragile you are, it does.

    Most of us are victims of circumstance and canít exactly take a few years off to reprogram ourselfves. Hell, Iím willing to bet most men are enslaved to their jobs, homes, debt, or family obligation. And, most men are then a slave to the status quo, the life script, not by choice but by nessesity.

    We have to act a certain way around certain people for employment and just to keep the law away...

    I dont know. The red pill is just as bitter and jagged as it is enlightening and juicy....I just look at these pics and think, if this was my father, how can I go a out helping him to see it without insulting him, or feeding him nuggets without him getting too bitter?

    Sometimes I just canít stand this world. Rant over...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Malinois View Post
    We look at this and giggle cuz we know the truth. And, some guys even after being through the wringer and doing this still don’t see it. I’m no exception for sure. But, there comes a time when a man has to distance himself and try to figure shit out. At least try to have a good think.

    We all know that some just need a little point in the right direction but, it only makes a difference when they are still freshly wounded, cuz they will just pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and consider any of the powerful epiphanies as some mental fluke when they are really just the begining of the rabbit hole.

    My own father is going through this for the third time, and he’s pissed off at her and himself but he would be hard pressed to listen to his fuck up son about red pill truth. And, if by some miracle I can point him in the right direction and he accepts it, I’m afraid the redpill rage will get him. I want him to wake up not flip out because he’s going to discover how much of a fool he was and how much of his life has passed believing the blue pill...

    I look at these pics and giggle still, but only because theres a chance that the man will come out on top and see reality for what it is. Chances are though, that he will get caught up in filling the void and relapsing, just as I did even with all of the truth in my face everytime I log on here.

    This world sickens me sometimes, most of the time really. Knowing the truth is empowering yet it shows you how even something as being kind to the wrong person can ruin the rest of your life, in doing so, it makes you more nuerotic and can affect your inner core, no matter how solid or fragile you are, it does.

    Most of us are victims of circumstance and can’t exactly take a few years off to reprogram ourselfves. Hell, I’m willing to bet most men are enslaved to their jobs, homes, debt, or family obligation. And, most men are then a slave to the status quo, the life script, not by choice but by nessesity.

    We have to act a certain way around certain people for employment and just to keep the law away...

    I dont know. The red pill is just as bitter and jagged as it is enlightening and juicy....I just look at these pics and think, if this was my father, how can I go a out helping him to see it without insulting him, or feeding him nuggets without him getting too bitter?

    Sometimes I just can’t stand this world. Rant over...
    Very well spotted . Like with every knowledge its takes years for it to sink in and become a wisdom .

    That is why theory is always , always completely different from what happens in real life . Every education is completely different from what you do at work .

    Its like with addiction . It takes about 2 months for simple alcohol to leave your system . After 2 weeks in rehab your brain is still drunk as fuck and you cant think straight . Even though you are completely sober .

    But who in the hell has months off . You go back to your life and cant cope with it and go back to the old shit .

    So for harder synthetic stuff it takes close to a year to leave your system .

    Same with social programming . It takes years to leave your system if at all .
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    Who in their right mind would marry a strong independent empowered modern women in the first place? It makes no sense! Live free and let free! We have our empowerment endowed by god, they have their empowerment endowed by government, don't mix the the two and that's exactly what marriage does!

    Give them nothing, keep it all to yourself, we'll see who's empowered and who's impoverished!

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    Put another way, having the knowledge and accepting the knowledge are two totally different things.

    The Red Pill easily maps out how women act and respond; especially in modern society. They have always been this way (idealization/manipulation ---> devaluation ---> discard/monkey branch), but contemporary society actively rewards them. Understanding it, and accepting it, are to totally different things. This is wisdom.

    I've been Red Pill now for 5 years; it was a very painful process after the ex wife monkey branched. I now understand women; I can plot out the course of the relationship to a tea. It's very simple programming. I've had FWB/gf since; (ranging from 10-15 years younger in their early 20s).

    Yet, I'm guilty of not fully accepting the knowledge as demonstrated by catching a minor case of the feels. Nothing terminal (marriage, cohabitation, procreation), but I recognize this. Some men are oblivious to it and will put themselves through the divorce mill multiple times.
    -Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EyesWideOpen_ View Post
    Put another way, having the knowledge and accepting the knowledge are two totally different things.

    The Red Pill easily maps out how women act and respond; especially in modern society. They have always been this way (idealization/manipulation ---> devaluation ---> discard/monkey branch), but contemporary society actively rewards them. Understanding it, and accepting it, are to totally different things. This is wisdom.

    I've been Red Pill now for 5 years; it was a very painful process after the ex wife monkey branched. I now understand women; I can plot out the course of the relationship to a tea. It's very simple programming. I've had FWB/gf since; (ranging from 10-15 years younger in their early 20s).

    Yet, I'm guilty of not fully accepting the knowledge as demonstrated by catching a minor case of the feels. Nothing terminal (marriage, cohabitation, procreation), but I recognize this. Some men are oblivious to it and will put themselves through the divorce mill multiple times.
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    It reminds me of a story I saw once on HBO called "The Brownstone". Anyone ever see it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Malinois View Post
    We look at this and giggle cuz we know the truth. And, some guys even after being through the wringer and doing this still don’t see it. I’m no exception for sure. But, there comes a time when a man has to distance himself and try to figure shit out. At least try to have a good think.

    This world sickens me sometimes, most of the time really. Knowing the truth is empowering yet it shows you how even something as being kind to the wrong person can ruin the rest of your life, in doing so, it makes you more nuerotic and can affect your inner core, no matter how solid or fragile you are, it does.

    Most of us are victims of circumstance and can’t exactly take a few years off to reprogram ourselfves. Hell, I’m willing to bet most men are enslaved to their jobs, homes, debt, or family obligation. And, most men are then a slave to the status quo, the life script, not by choice but by nessesity.

    We have to act a certain way around certain people for employment and just to keep the law away...

    I dont know. The red pill is just as bitter and jagged as it is enlightening and juicy....I just look at these pics and think, if this was my father, how can I go a out helping him to see it without insulting him, or feeding him nuggets without him getting too bitter?

    Sometimes I just can’t stand this world. Rant over...
    Really good rant. You said things in this that I couldn't put to words. I edited some things out just for brevity sake.

    Mal, I'm no exception either. I had to learn the hard way, twice, & not rehashing or crying about it, it was damn painful. I had to go thru that pain. No kidding, when i was a boy, then about 15-16 years old, then 21-22, then 24, I swore I'd never marry. This was based on a rude and incomplete knowledge of girls/women at the time. Yes I'm gonna say woulda, coulda, shoulda. I don't mind being wrong. I was SOOOOOO wrong NOT TO TRUST my first, not quite mature instincts. Young men reading this, listen & learn. Then live these words you read by all of the contributors here. My apologies for going all Dad on you, & at the same time, I won't apologize if it saves only 1 of you guys from going thru this pain.

    I'm not proud of this fact, but throughout my life, I've had some dealings for about 9 years with some very unsavory individuals. From 19 yrs old to about 28 yrs old, I existed frenetically. It wasn't good. Why tell you this? Because those associates, (not really friends at all), had more of some sort of street or moral 'code' than 2 wives I married, and a few girlfriends I had before getting married. No lie.

    The street contacts that I knew conducted themselves in a way that I still can't put into words. I knew what they expected, they knew what my reputation was. It worked. Out of all the unsavory dealings I had with those associates, I never had 1 problem at all. Now i know full well this is rare, and I probably was fortunate as well. But i knew the code, & I followed it. Nothing written, nothing spoken.

    I stood with family & friends twice, & a code, or agreement, was verbally agreed to OUT LOUD by both myself and my wife, each time. It's called a wedding ceremony. I was served with an ice-cold dish during, & at the end of each marriage. That's on me. I have no one to blame.

    Point is, common street persons that I didn't know very well, didn't engage in the deceit that women do in a relationship.
    It never ceases to amaze me.

    As far as your Dad goes, you'll know when the time comes up, take the opportunity, & spoon feed him small amounts of this knowledge to him a bit at a time. Hell, if you told me about this way to live & facts about the way things are set up AGAINST men 12 or 15 years ago, I may well have laughed. Look at me now. I'm not just listening, I'm preaching, albeit to the choir.

    As you were. (always wanted to say that)
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteelEye View Post
    Really good rant. You said things in this that I couldn't put to words. I edited some things out just for brevity sake.

    Mal, I'm no exception either. I had to learn the hard way, twice, & not rehashing or crying about it, it was damn painful. I had to go thru that pain. No kidding, when i was a boy, then about 15-16 years old, then 21-22, then 24, I swore I'd never marry. This was based on a rude and incomplete knowledge of girls/women at the time. Yes I'm gonna say woulda, coulda, shoulda. I don't mind being wrong. I was SOOOOOO wrong NOT TO TRUST my first, not quite mature instincts. Young men reading this, listen & learn. Then live these words you read by all of the contributors here. My apologies for going all Dad on you, & at the same time, I won't apologize if it saves only 1 of you guys from going thru this pain.

    I'm not proud of this fact, but throughout my life, I've had some dealings for about 9 years with some very unsavory individuals. From 19 yrs old to about 28 yrs old, I existed frenetically. It wasn't good. Why tell you this? Because those associates, (not really friends at all), had more of some sort of street or moral 'code' than 2 wives I married, and a few girlfriends I had before getting married. No lie.

    The street contacts that I knew conducted themselves in a way that I still can't put into words. I knew what they expected, they knew what my reputation was. It worked. Out of all the unsavory dealings I had with those associates, I never had 1 problem at all. Now i know full well this is rare, and I probably was fortunate as well. But i knew the code, & I followed it. Nothing written, nothing spoken.

    I stood with family & friends twice, & a code, or agreement, was verbally agreed to OUT LOUD by both myself and my wife, each time. It's called a wedding ceremony. I was served with an ice-cold dish during, & at the end of each marriage. That's on me. I have no one to blame.

    Point is, common street persons that I didn't know very well, didn't engage in the deceit that women do in a relationship.
    It never ceases to amaze me.

    As far as your Dad goes, you'll know when the time comes up, take the opportunity, & spoon feed him small amounts of this knowledge to him a bit at a time. Hell, if you told me about this way to live & facts about the way things are set up AGAINST men 12 or 15 years ago, I may well have laughed. Look at me now. I'm not just listening, I'm preaching, albeit to the choir.

    As you were. (always wanted to say that)
    This is truth .

    Your wife or gf is never even a contact with you , not an associate by far . She doesnt do hustle with you , she does hustle out of you . Thats is the only difference .

    The other difference that any associate betraying you would spot his reputation even among other junkies . Even if its just a tiny bit - you cant go back on it ever .

    A woman will be cheered on and praised among other women and among many , many men . It even pays off to her to do it as many times as possible .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    This is truth .

    Your wife or gf is never even a contact with you , not an associate by far . She doesnt do hustle with you , she does hustle out of you . Thats is the only difference .

    The other difference that any associate betraying you would spot his reputation even among other junkies . Even if its just a tiny bit - you cant go back on it ever .

    A woman will be cheered on and praised among other women and among many , many men . It even pays off to her to do it as many times as possible .
    You got that right, she will be praised by other women, and phony praise by the men that now have a chance to bang her on the rebound

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteelEye View Post

    Point is, common street persons that I didn't know very well, didn't engage in the deceit that women do in a relationship.
    It never ceases to amaze me.

    As far as your Dad goes, you'll know when the time comes up, take the opportunity, & spoon feed him small amounts of this knowledge to him a bit at a time. Hell, if you told me about this way to live & facts about the way things are set up AGAINST men 12 or 15 years ago, I may well have laughed. Look at me now. I'm not just listening, I'm preaching, albeit to the choir.

    As you were. (always wanted to say that)
    Truth. I just spent a week in detox for alcoholism, and at times I was a little scared because I was seemingly the ONLY PERSON in the building who hadn't been in and out of jail or prison multiple times. And I was thankful for the chance to meet these folks, cause everyone of us was in the exact same place, cleaning ourselves out. I even told one of my roomies that, the last night before I had to leave. That I was glad to be around them because they were teaching me about the life I could have chosen. I was half scared to say it, cause I didn't want to sound like I was looking down on them. He said he was glad to have me around, because it showed him that it was possible to live without thugging.

    Those were some really cool folks, cause most of them didn't give a fuck about anything except getting clean. I'm gonna make a bigger post later, cause it was a co-ed facility; as there was some STAGGERING drama the night before I left, and hypergamy was at the very core of it. Glad to be back...
    And it's nothing but wide open prairie...

    There's something very fun about MGTOW. In an odd sense, like charting a new territory of the mind, or rediscovering a long lost civilization. Occult knowledge, secret societies, cannibal natives (THOTS), it's all very exciting... lololol.

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    Best of luck with your detox, I hope you can address the underlying cause for your alcoholism. Isn't alcoholism while a very real and dangerous addiction, in some ways just a symptom of an underlying problem that needs to be addressed?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigSiameseCat View Post
    Best of luck with your detox, I hope you can address the underlying cause for your alcoholism. Isn't alcoholism while a very real and dangerous addiction, in some ways just a symptom of an underlying problem that needs to be addressed?
    Absolutely. Whether it's food, sex, porn addiction, alcohol, scripts, H, C, power, anger, etc, there is an underlying problem with issues needing to be addressed. It can be done. Once an individual starts, he doesn't have to look at recovery in terms of years. Just starting is the key. The rest will take care of itself. Who of us , really, isn't in some sort of recovery? We're imperfect. Sure, everyone isn't an addict, and we all have a personality flaw or trait that we'd like to improve, or discard. it's called enlightenment. It's not a condemnation on anyone. That's part of the reason a forum exists. To share and bounce things off of someone else. All of us don't have the answers. But when I read a post, & following comments, NOW we're COOKIN'.......with the gas on. A light goes on in my head. OK, ok, the mostly empty cave that's on top of my shoulders. I'm hearing echoes........hello......hellohellohello

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    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    Truth. I just spent a week in detox for alcoholism, and at times I was a little scared because I was seemingly the ONLY PERSON in the building who hadn't been in and out of jail or prison multiple times. And I was thankful for the chance to meet these folks, cause everyone of us was in the exact same place, cleaning ourselves out. I even told one of my roomies that, the last night before I had to leave. That I was glad to be around them because they were teaching me about the life I could have chosen. I was half scared to say it, cause I didn't want to sound like I was looking down on them. He said he was glad to have me around, because it showed him that it was possible to live without thugging.

    Those were some really cool folks, cause most of them didn't give a fuck about anything except getting clean. I'm gonna make a bigger post later, cause it was a co-ed facility; as there was some STAGGERING drama the night before I left, and hypergamy was at the very core of it. Glad to be back...
    And you wonder why you never meet such people in your regular life ... the rehab people are out of this world .

    Being around people that spent half their life in prison and hearing their stories you realize that you are a diva when you thought that you are the real deal .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    It reminds me of a story I saw once on HBO called "The Brownstone". Anyone ever see it?

    Can you give us a short version of that story?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by 2Naive4MyOwnGood View Post
    Can you give us a short version of that story?!
    You better tell us why you have chosen this silly bird as your avatar lol its hilarious lol and im only guessing cause i think i remember it from my childhood book , is it puffin ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    you realize that you are a diva when you thought that you are the real deal .
    For real, man. You realize just how damn much you have to be thankful for. It's really cool...
    And it's nothing but wide open prairie...

    There's something very fun about MGTOW. In an odd sense, like charting a new territory of the mind, or rediscovering a long lost civilization. Occult knowledge, secret societies, cannibal natives (THOTS), it's all very exciting... lololol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigSiameseCat View Post
    Best of luck with your detox, I hope you can address the underlying cause for your alcoholism. Isn't alcoholism while a very real and dangerous addiction, in some ways just a symptom of an underlying problem that needs to be addressed?
    Truth.. Steeleye pretty much nailed it.
    And it's nothing but wide open prairie...

    There's something very fun about MGTOW. In an odd sense, like charting a new territory of the mind, or rediscovering a long lost civilization. Occult knowledge, secret societies, cannibal natives (THOTS), it's all very exciting... lololol.

    Abandon the Abandoners. Go Your Own Way, on a molecular scale. <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin View Post
    For real, man. You realize just how damn much you have to be thankful for. It's really cool...
    LOL i remember i was furious when my mom forget to bring me my vitamins and amino acids to rehab lol i was fucking pissed ...and one dude in my room was homeless , from another city , didnt have shoes , no phone , it was in the middle of winter and tomorrow morning was his last day staying . Cops brought him in barefooted .

    My brain just couldnt process his situation . Like what do you mean you have nowhere to go ? ...

    Its very , very easy to have nowhere to go .
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